CHOOSE TO LOVE! LOVE WINS!

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January 27, 2026

LOVE WINS ! GOD is LOVE

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LOVE WINS when we are BEING GOD’S LOVE !

• I am being LOVE & KIND in the patient waiting. Love is patient and kind.

•THIS HERE!!

I am being LOVE when NOT responding to someone’s invitation to enter into any negative conversation they are trying to invite me into. I.e…wanting me to agree with their unloving judgments, talk bad about “the victim of their judgments” or share something I don’t like about them or what bothers me about them. No thank you! That’s not love ! I don’t want any part of enabling your unloving judgments of others or any part of your behind their back negative talking. Some people have a really big ongoing problem with this and it keeps them in the cycle of hurting others & losing good relationships in their life. You just don’t win if you keep choosing to be unloving.

•Love speaks life! Love speaks a better word or no word at all if it isn’t loving.

•Love would rather be lovingly patient in the silence than to speak anything that would hurt another soul.

•Love celebrates, meditates, spends it’s thoughts in the love zone thinking things that are true, of good report, pure things, praiseworthy, virtuous things / thoughts about others, including self. Phillipians 4:8

•Love thoughts, love words spoken in other’s Love languages is the way to PEACE !!

•I love to be love! I do not ever want to say or do anything to anyone that would cause them one moment of hurt or pain. I stay in the love zone with my thoughts and will not speak one thing unless it rides on the waves of love as it comes from my heart to my mouth. If I choose not to say anything when someone says something hurtful to me and just smile…it is because of love. Sometimes it is necessary to allow a safe, love space to be created to disallow unloving words from someone. It is love to give them time for their unloving fuse to extinguish & be snuffed out so as not to enable them to use that close space to hurt you. Love is patience in the waiting as time & a safe, loving space between both hearts is needed until trust is rebuilt.

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Quoting Doug Weiss to the one who has been unloving to you…

“It only takes one act of betrayal, one lie, or one relapse for you to lose trust with someone.

Rebuilding trust is possible.

You must honor, be respectful and be patient of the time it takes to earn back the trust you broke.”

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Love always keeps the welcome mat out & the door open for anyone with a proven loving, respectful, honoring & safe track record. Love also always keeps the welcome mat out & a Love key ready to open the door to anyone who comes back to the home of your heart committed to not repeating hurtful words to your heart that cracked, injured and/or broke your relationship!

Love values & honors others the way God values & honors us. If we are more committed to sticking by/to the unloving words initially spoken that hurt someone in a relationship which created the division then what hope is there for restoration until speaking Love becomes our first & only choice? If we don’t hv something loving, healing, honoring or respectful to say – why say it at all? How could we possibly expect someone to feel or stay close to us if we choose & keep choosing to hurt others by voicing to them the abundance of unloving stuff going on in our hearts towards them? I just can’t do that !

Once you realize & experience what Love really sounds like – speaking in Loving respectful, honoring & healing tones that unite, build up, encourage, inspire, heal, help & bind together – your heart knows the difference between what is born in love & what isn’t born out of love.

Love really draws hearts closer & closer together! It’s pretty simple when you boil it down. Love feels & sounds like love! Therefore, I choose love & to speak in love. I also choose to be loved, honored, valued, respected & treated ( as Jesus sees, speaks to & treats me ) when spoken to ! The message just gets completely lost and never heard when others choose to speak in anger, hurt, bitterness, resentment, jealousy or just being plain ugly because of their own unresolved wounds / hurts/ issues. I can still love them always but from a distance until they decide not to use their wounds or unhealed hurts against me or others – in spoken word, action or deed.

Love wins ! I can’t emphasize it it enough. You will be surrounded by lots of rewarding, healthy, safe & loving relationships when you CHOOSE to be love as best as you know how ! When it’s hard and we all know there are those moments – ask God for help to stay in the Love zone with Him as you interact with others. If they continue to choose to be unloving – God – Love Himself – is with you in the waiting season ! Stay there with Love ! You won’t regret it – ever ! I choose LOVE !!

If others remember me as LOVE when I am with Jesus someday ~ and that’s all they remember ~ Love mission accomplished!!!

Heart2Heart in His Love,

Momo

KINGDOM OF LOVE