In the House of Love… in this sacred Heart2Heart space… there is a gentle invitation waiting for you… to come close and simply be with Love Himself… the Father of Love. Here, your heart is welcomed just as it is… every thought… every feeling… every place still healing. Nothing about you is too much… and nothing about you is overlooked. Love Himself sees you… fully sees you… and you are fully loved by Him.
Love Himself… the Father of Love… draws you nearer with kindness… because He is a true Gentleman. He gently whispers to your heart to listen… not to the many voices around you… but to His voice… His Loving Word… His Truth. His words carry life… His words carry healing… His words carry the power to restore what has been misunderstood or misheard within you. When other words have tried to shape how you see yourself… whether through praise… criticism… assumptions… or accusations… Love Himself invites you to bring every one of those words into His presence. And there… through His Loving Word and Truth… He makes known what has always been true… even if it has not always felt known before.
As you remain here with Love Himself… the Father of Love… He lovingly reveals and awakens your heart to His truth. The Mirror of His Love… which is His Loving Word… begins to show you who you truly are. Love Himself is the Living Word… and He becomes the Mirror through which you see yourself… through His eyes of love… through His Loving Word and Truth. Not through the opinions of others… not through past experiences… not even through your own thoughts apart from Him… but through His LoveSight.
“For we see in a mirror… and we are being transformed into the same image… from glory to glory…” — 2 Corinthians 3:18
In His Mirror of Love… you begin to see what has always been true. You are His… deeply loved… fully known… completely cherished. What He says about you is your true identity… and it has always been true… even before you were aware of it.
“I have loved you with an everlasting love… therefore I have continued My faithfulness to you.” — Jeremiah 31:3
As you begin to believe His Loving Word… and what Love Himself says about you… it activates the power of His love within you. You begin to feel loved… not just understand it… but truly know it deep down inside your heart.
There may have been times in your life when you did not feel loved by Him… not because His love was not there… but because you were believing something else about yourself. Words… experiences… and opinions may have shaped how you saw yourself… and your heart could not feel what it did not yet believe.
But as you begin to believe His Loving Word… His Truth… something shifts. The Love Truth of His Word begins to come alive within you… and it begins to set you free. You begin to feel His love from the inside out… steady… real… and alive within you.
“You will know the truth… and the truth will set you free.” — John 8:32
As you come into knowing His Truth… it grounds you… it stabilizes you… it gives you a firm love foundation to stand on. No longer does it feel like sinking sand beneath your feet. There is no hidden trap door… no fear of the rug being pulled out from under you. In His love… you are secure.
Once you know… you know. And once you experience His love… a true Love encounter with Love Himself… you are never the same again.
In this Heart2Heart place… Love Himself has silenced every accusing voice. Jesus… Love Himself… has spoken the better word over you. There is no accusation that can pass through His love… no lie that can stand in His presence.
“There is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus.” — Romans 8:1
Now… as you live from this place… you move through life differently. You still talk… you still walk… you still live your life… but nothing that comes from the outside can penetrate His Loving Truth within you.
Words may come… opinions may be spoken… judgments may be expressed… but they do not reach your heart. They do not take root. They do not define you. They simply fall away… unable to attach themselves to what Love Himself has already established within you.
Nothing can separate you from His Love… or from His Loving Truth.
“Nothing… in all creation… will be able to separate us from the love of God…” — Romans 8:39
Love Himself… the Father of Love… holds you in His love… personally… intentionally… heart to heart. You are held by Him… known by Him… loved by Him.
And from this place… everything begins to flow.
As you receive His love… you begin to experience what it feels like to truly be loved… and that love naturally flows through you. The more you see yourself through His eyes of love… the more you begin to see others through those same eyes. LoveSight awakens within you.
You begin to understand… those who hurt others are often hurting within themselves… not yet seeing… not yet knowing… not yet experiencing the truth of who they are in the eyes of Love Himself. And your heart responds with compassion… with prayer… with love.
Because now you know… you can only give what you have experienced.
As Love comes to you… Love flows through you… to yourself… and to others.
Peace begins to bloom within you… first with Love Himself… then within your own heart… and then outward into your relationships. This is the peace of the Prince of Peace… steady… comforting… and rooted in His presence.
Your words begin to reflect this love. The way you speak… to yourself and to others… becomes gentle… life giving. You begin to choose thoughts that align with His Loving Word… thoughts that are true… beautiful… and full of life.
“Whatever is true… whatever is lovely… think on these things…” — Philippians 4:8
As your heart becomes aligned with His LoveSight… you deeply know that your worth… your value… your identity… your belonging… are found in what He says about you.
And from this Heart2Heart connection with Love Himself… you experience a deeper connection with others… a shared life flowing through love.
You live from love… because it has always been yours.
And you realize… this Love… this truth… this identity… has always been your home.
In the House of Love… in this Heart2Heart place… you are awakening to who you have always been in Him.
Seen… Known… Loved…
And finally… at home in the House of Love, the Home of His Heart!
REDEEMER ~ A House of Love Heart2Heart Love Ministry Moment
Are you feeling broken-hearted, abandoned, or burdened? Maybe you have known suffering, depression, grief, or sorrow. Maybe loneliness, rejection, or hopelessness have pressed so deeply into your soul that words will not come, and only tears rise to your eyes. If that is you, lean in close. Jesus—your precious Redeemer—wants to heal your heart-ache with His Love. You do not have to wait any longer. Even now, as you read this, He is near to you. He is not distant or unaware of what you are feeling. He is present, and His Love is reaching for you right where you are. You can invite Him into your heart, even into the places that hurt the most. He is holding you, He is near to you, and His healing Love is surrounding you.
Whatever you are carrying right now, you do not have to keep holding onto it. You can release it. You can place it into His hands. Scripture tells us to cast our burdens on the Lord, and that means you can give Him your anxiety, your sorrow, your fears, your sickness, your hurts, and your heart-ache. You are not meant to carry what He already carried for you. He understands what you are going through and sees it fully, even the parts you cannot put into words. Even your silent tears are understood by Him. Nothing you feel is hidden from Him, and nothing you carry is too much for Him. When you are in Jesus, His redeeming and healing Love is in you. You belong to Him. You are His precious child, and His Love is safe. His Love stays. You can lay everything down with Him right here and right now.
The Great Exchange is simple, but it is powerful. Jesus already did His part when He took on what did not belong to Him so that you could receive what you never could earn on your own. “God made Him who knew no sin to become sin for us, that we might become the righteousness of God in Him.” — 2 Corinthians 5:21 Your part is to receive, to believe, and to accept what He has already done for you. He gave everything—His life, His love, and His finished work—so that you could be brought into His family and called His own. You are not forgotten, overlooked, or left out. You are chosen.
There is a promise that speaks directly to the tender places of your heart. “He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds.” — Psalm 147:3 He is the One who restores, who gently repairs what has been broken, and who sees the places that feel crushed or worn down. He does not turn away from your pain. He moves toward it. He wraps His Love around it and stays with you in it. He is the One who understands your grief, your sorrow, and every hidden ache within you, and He is the One who brings healing right into those places.
Let your Redeemer love you in the places where you are grieving. I know what it feels like to carry loss. I lost my baby Heaven in 2004, and I lost my daddy in January 2017. Grief can feel like a river that never fully stops flowing through your heart. If you are grieving someone or something, you do not have to walk through it alone. Let His Love meet you there. Let Him sit with you in it and hold you in what you feel. And if you know someone who is grieving, give them space to feel. Listen to them. Let them be real without trying to fix or rush their process. Love them where they are. It is the heart of the Father to love the hurting and gently bring them back to life with His healing Love.
Your Redeemer is not finished with your story. He takes what feels broken, what feels lost, and what feels beyond repair, and He brings life out of it. Isaiah 61 reminds us that He repairs broken hearts, brings freedom, comforts those who mourn, and gives beauty instead of ashes, joy instead of sorrow, and praise instead of heaviness. He does not ignore what you have been through. He redeems it. He covers you with His righteousness, gives you a new identity, and calls you His own. You are not defined by what you have walked through. You are covered by who He is.
There is nothing about your heart that is too broken for His Love to reach. His Love meets you in your weakness and becomes your strength. His Love surrounds you, stays with you, and restores you gently and completely. You are not alone. You are not abandoned. You are not too much. You are loved, and your life is being held in His hands and turned into something meaningful, something beautiful, and something whole.
“God demonstrates His own love toward us, in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us.” — Romans 5:8 To redeem means to pay the full price for something, and God saw you as worth everything. “You are worth everything I gave to call you My daughter, My son, My family.” — Love, Your Redeemer
Heart2Heart in His Love,
Momo Smiley
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The Child of Love sat with Love Himself, sharing the stories of her heart with Him in what had once been the quietest place inside of her. Now that space felt different. It had become a place where healing was happening, even if she didn’t fully understand it yet. She didn’t come with perfect words or anything prepared. She came with the truth she had been carrying for a long time… truth that felt heavy, truth that still hurt, truth she had learned to keep to herself because it never seemed to be received well anywhere else. For a moment, she hesitated, not because she didn’t have anything to say, but because she wasn’t used to being fully heard. Then, slowly and honestly, she began to speak.
“Growing up… I felt unheard. It felt like the people who could have listened just didn’t. It felt like I had to soften what I felt, reshape it into something that would sit better with them, or tuck it away completely just to keep the peace. Sometimes when I spoke from my heart, it felt like it was too much for anyone to really stay and listen to. It felt like what I was saying didn’t land the way they wanted it to, or didn’t matter enough for them to stay with me in it. After a while, I stopped saying things the same way, and I started holding things in instead. But it felt really lonely to carry something real inside me and have nowhere safe for it to go.”
She didn’t rush through her words. She let them come out the way they had been sitting inside of her.
“It wasn’t that I didn’t want to share… I did. I wanted to be seen, to be heard, and to be known for who I really was. But the ones who said they loved me didn’t always give me the freedom to be real. So I learned to hold parts of myself back, not because they weren’t there, but because they didn’t feel safe to share. And deep down, it felt like something inside me kept asking… will the real me please stand up and finally get to be heard?”
She paused for a moment, then continued.
“There were times when I wasn’t even allowed to say what I really felt, and even when I tried, it had to come out a certain way… softer, smaller, more acceptable. I learned how to rewrite what I was feeling before I even said it. I learned how to condense it, filter it, and dress it up so it wouldn’t feel like too much for someone else to hear. And sometimes, I just didn’t say anything at all. I kept it inside.”
She took a breath and went a little deeper.
“So I created a place inside of me… a storehouse within me. It became the place where I kept the things I couldn’t say, the feelings I couldn’t show, and the thoughts I couldn’t fully express. I didn’t know what else to do with them, so I stored them there. It felt like I carved the stories of my heart into the walls inside of me, just so they would have somewhere to exist… even if no one else ever heard them.”
Her voice softened, but she didn’t stop.
“I think that’s why relationships have been hard for me, because I never felt like I really had permission to feel what I feel and say it the way it actually comes out of my heart. It always felt like my feelings had to become something else first before they could be accepted. And over time, I started to believe that my real feelings didn’t count unless they were presented the right way… or unless they were easier for someone else to receive. And even now… that hurt is still there.”
She took another breath, and then her voice went even deeper in her heart sharing something even more vulnerable.
“And there’s more I need to tell You. There were some relationships that felt close for a while, but later I realized their hearts didn’t really make room for the expanse of mine. They talked and talked about everything they were going through, and I made space for them. I listened. I held their stories. I let them be real. I gave them room to pour out their hearts.”
Her voice trembled with truth but this was apart of the healing.
“But one day I realized… there was no even exchange. I had been there for them in their times of need, hearing them, supporting them, being a safe place for their feelings to land. But when it came time for me to share my heart, they were always in a hurry. They didn’t have time. They wanted the short, sweet, condensed version of my stories. Or they postponed when I could be heard. Or they rushed me along like my heart didn’t need the same space I had given them.”
She breathed out slowly as she continued to express the real in her heart.
“It was imbalanced, and it hurt. I listened to them, but they didn’t listen back. And I realized… that isn’t love. Not the kind of love You are. Love is an exchange. Love makes room. Love doesn’t rush me or shrink me or make me feel like my heart is an inconvenience. You never do that to me. With You, there’s no stopwatch running. I don’t have to figure out how my heart fits into Yours. You always make room.”
Her eyes softened as she looked at Him…The Presence of His Love was hugging every word as she continued to speak…
“And there were others… people who did listen to me, but then betrayed me. They shared the private stories of my heart that I trusted them with — stories they promised to keep safe. They gossiped. They broke confidence. And even though I forgave them, I couldn’t trust them with my heart anymore. It wasn’t emotionally safe for me.”
She swallowed gently.
“And the hardest part was… I was already hurting when they did it. I was already going through painful seasons. And instead of helping me heal, they added hurt on top of hurt. That wasn’t love. That wasn’t safety. That wasn’t friendship.”
She placed her hand over her heart.
“But You… You never hurt me like that. You never betray me. You never expose me. You never use my heart against me. You are the One who listens in love. You are the One who keeps my heart safe. And that’s how I learned to be a love listener — because I learned it from You.”
She grew quiet again, then lifted her eyes to Him with a softness that came from healing.
“And there’s one more thing I need to tell You. I forgave them. All of them. The ones who betrayed me. The ones who judged me. The ones who rushed me. The ones who didn’t make room for my truth. The ones who ridiculed me. The ones who spoke hurtful words that made it unsafe for me to share my heart. Their behavior was about them, not me. And even though those relationships lost their pulse… I still pray for them.”
Her voice steadied.
“I pray for their healing. I pray for their hearts. I pray that whatever hurt inside them made them hurt me… that You would touch that place. I pray they won’t keep hurting others the way they hurt me. I pray they learn how to love, how to listen, how to be safe, how to be whole. And I pray they hear my voice — not in anger, not in bitterness, but in love — praying over them.”
She placed her hand over her heart again.
“Thank You for helping me forgive. Thank You for helping me pray. Thank You for giving me the best gift anyone has ever given me — a place where my heart is safe, where my truth is welcome, where my voice matters, where my feelings are honored, and where love is an exchange. Thank You for letting me feel like the Child of Love… not just because that’s my name, but because You actually treat me with love.”
Love Himself leaned in, His presence steady and sure.
“My child… I heard every word you just shared with Me. I heard every feeling behind your words, every memory that still aches, every moment you were silenced, and every time you felt like your real emotions were not welcome. I heard you when you wondered if your voice mattered, and I heard you when you felt invisible. And I hear you now, fully and completely, without distraction, without judgment, and without rushing you. Your heart is never too much for Me. Your feelings are never too loud for Me. Your truth is never inconvenient to Me.”
Something inside her softened when she heard that.
“You were not wrong for wanting to be heard. What you experienced was not a reflection of your worth. It was the limitation of people who did not know how to hold your heart. You were never meant to silence your truth in order to be loved.”
Then His voice deepened — not harsh, but holy, steady, and full of clarity.
“Listening to you is not new for Me. This is who I have always been. I am El Shama — the God who hears you.”
“When Hagar cried in the wilderness, I heard her. When Hannah prayed and no one understood her, I understood every tear. When David said I hear his cry, he was talking about Me. When the blind man called out and others tried to silence him, I stopped for him. When the woman touched My robe, I felt her before she spoke. I have always been the One who hears. And I hear you now.”
As He spoke, something inside her began to shift.
“That storehouse within you… I have always seen it. Every unspoken word, every feeling you’ve held in, every story you carried without a place to release it… none of it has been hidden from Me. You put those things there because you needed somewhere safe, and I was with you even there.”
His gentle Presence stayed right there with her.
“But you were never meant to carry all of that alone forever. I am the One who helps you clean the storehouse within you, not by erasing your story, but by bringing it into the light of My love. Nothing you have lived, felt, or carried is wasted to Me. Your story matters to Me, all of it. You do not have to rewrite your heart here. You do not have to dress your words up for Me. You can say what you really feel, exactly how it comes out, and it will be received.”
She felt something beginning to settle down inside of her.
“So I don’t have to hide anymore. I don’t have to edit what I feel or change how it comes out just to be heard. I can be real and still be received. I can bring what’s been in the storehouse within me and place it here with You.”
Before He spoke again, Love Himself looked at the storybook she had placed into His hands — the stories of her heart, carved in honesty, carried for years, now finally entrusted to Him. He held it with reverence. Then He lifted His eyes to her, and His voice softened into something deep and tender.
“My child… you have given Me a precious gift. You placed the stories of your heart into My hands. You trusted Me with what was real, with what was fragile, with what was hidden, with what was sacred. And I receive it with joy.”
He paused, letting the weight of that truth settle.
“And now… I have a gift for you.”
Her breath caught gently.
Then — with a movement that felt both simple and eternal — He reached into His Heart, and in His hands appeared a book. Not just any book. A living book. A glowing book. A book that carried the warmth of His presence. The Bible. His Word. His promises. The stories of His heart.
He placed it into her hands the same way she had placed her storybook into His.
“This is My gift to you,” He said softly. “The stories of My heart. My promises. My truth. My love written down for you. Every word in this book carries My voice, My presence, My faithfulness. And just as you trusted Me with your stories… I trust you with Mine.”
Her fingers curled around the book, and she felt its weight — not heavy, but holy.
“When you read these words,” He continued, “you are reading My heart. When you hear these promises, you are hearing My voice. When you hold this book, you are holding My love for you.”
He smiled gently.
“You gave Me your story… and I give you Mine.”
And then — with the Bible now resting in her hands — He began to speak His Word over her, not as distant scripture, but as personal truth, alive and directed straight to her heart.
“The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.” — Psalm 34:18 “My child… that is why I am close to you now. I am honoring My Word in you. I am staying near because your heart has been broken, and I will not leave you in that place alone.”
“You keep track of all my sorrows. You have collected all my tears in Your bottle. You have recorded each one in Your book.” — Psalm 56:8 “Every tear you cried, I held. Every sorrow you carried, I counted. Nothing slipped past Me. Nothing was ignored. Nothing was wasted. I have honored every tear by keeping it, not losing it.”
“Peace I leave with you; My peace I give you.” — John 14:27 “This peace you feel right now… it is Mine. I am giving it to you. Not the world’s version, not temporary comfort — but My peace, the kind that stays, the kind that holds you from the inside.”
“He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds.” — Psalm 147:3 “And this is what I am doing in you. I am binding up the places that were torn. I am healing the places that were wounded. I am keeping My promise to you — not from a distance, but from right here, holding your heart as I heal it.”
She placed her hand gently over her heart and let out a soft breath.
“You hear me, Father of Love… and I love You for it.”
And that hug on the inside stayed with her, something she could come back to again and again, in the quiet, in the healing, in the UpperRoom https://youtu.be/EUjFVYjmbs8?si=AyHIbiCV-XnlsAysof her heart, where Love Himself would always meet her… Heart2Heart
Scene One — The Awakening Once upon a time, inside the House of Love—the place where the Father of Love’s heart and the Child of Love’s heart lived together as one—something beautiful was beginning to unfold. The Child of Love stood quietly, sensing a deep harmony rising within her, a gentle awareness that she was held inside His heart, and His heart was resting fully inside hers.
Scene Two — The Inner Work Revealed As she paused, she began to recognize the renovation and transformation the Father of Love had been doing in her heart. It wasn’t loud or forceful. It wasn’t the kind done with tools or pressure. It was the kind done with tenderness, truth, and love. She could feel the healing settling in. She could feel the restoration taking root. She could feel the transformation becoming real. She could feel the newness taking its rightful place inside her.
The House of Love is the home of the heart — and whatever Love heals inside becomes visible in the rooms around her, revealing the finished work of Love within. Inside the House of Love, every restored room is a mirror of the healing Love Himself has completed in the Child of Love’s heart.”
Scene Three — The Joy Dance Zone Her attention shifted to the place inside her that once felt like a construction zone—the place where things were being rebuilt, reshaped, restored. Now, finished and whole, that place had become her Joy Dance Zone. It was the space where gratitude rises, where joy dances, where transformation sings. It was the visible evidence of what Love had completed within her.
Scene Four — The Mirrors of Love As she took it in, she noticed the Mirrors of Love surrounding her, stretching into eternity. They reflected her true identity in the Father of Love: Loved, Whole, Chosen, Cherished, Seen, Known, His. What she saw mirrored what she felt, and what she felt mirrored what she saw. The Father of Love’s heart was inside her, and her heart was inside His, and the mirrors simply told the truth.
Scene Five — The GodSong In the fullness of that realization, gratitude rose from deep within her—pure overflow. She lifted her face and spontaneously sang her GodSong: “You are Good… You are Good… You are Good… You’re so good to me.” It flowed out of her like breath, like truth, like worship born from transformation. The Father of Love stood with her, steady and warm, His hands resting gently on her shoulders, holding her with the love that rebuilt her from the inside out.
Scene Six — The Shift Toward You And then something shifted. The Child of Love realized this moment wasn’t only for her. It was for you, too.
NOW THIS SWEET MOMENT TURNS TOWARD YOU
The House of Love story now opens its hands and heart to you….
Yes—you, the one reading, the one listening, the one whose heart is stirring right now. This moment is reaching toward you, inviting you into the same Love she has just experienced.
Before you take another step, let your heart grow quiet for a moment, the way a room settles when someone important walks in. Your not forced to be quiet and it’s not a stiff & starchy stillness. It’s a gentle softening — the kind that simply invites you to look into your heart of hearts deep within you. The House of Love has lovingly turned its attention toward you now, and our story is taking pause so you can notice what is happening inside the home of your own heart.
As you breathe in His Breath of Life, let your awareness venture inwardly. What do you see inside of you? What do you feel? I am not asking what you think should be there, not what you wish were there, but what is honestly present right now. Does your heart truly feel peaceful, or does it feel cluttered or maybe a mix of both? Does it feel bright, or dimmed? Does your heart feel tired? Are there places that feel whole and unshakable, and others that feel cracked, unsettled or unfinished? As you become inwardly aware, take inventory of yourself notice with zero judgment. This is simply the truth of your heart’s home in this moment, and coming into the awareness of your real truth is always the beginning of transformation.
If you look a little deeper, you may notice rooms inside you that feel beautifully renovated — places where Love has already done a good work. And you may notice places that feel like they’re still under construction — areas that need healing, rebuilding, repairing or restoring. There may even be corners of your heart that feel hidden, untouched, or waiting for someone safe enough to enter. Let your heart answer honestly. Remember, awareness is not accusation. Awareness is your invitation.
Because here is the truth the Father of Love wants you to know: you do not have to already be transformed as you may have imagined or perhaps concerned about. The invitation did not say you already have to be renovated. You do not have to already be whole either. You see, The Father of Love is the Carpenter. The HeArtist. The Master Interior Decorator of the human heart. Everything He touches becomes a MasterPeace — not only a masterpiece of beauty, but a masterpiece of peace taking after who He is ~ Peace Himself. He is the Master HeArtist of your heart, soul, and spirit. He is so good that He already knows how to bring good even out of the not‑so‑good that your heart has encountered & experienced. He knows how to take what was formed against you and make you prosper. He knows how to turn what the enemy meant for harm into something good, something healing, something life‑giving. Romans 8:28 has always been His way — weaving all things together for good, even the things you wish had never happened.
So now, with your heart open and your inner home tenderly seen, the Father of Love steps toward you with kindness in His eyes and a tenderness that reaches deeper than words. He speaks softly to you, the way only Love can: “I know every room in your heart. I know what is whole and what is still hurting. I know what is finished and what is still under construction. And I am not afraid of any of it. If you welcome Me in, I will make your heart My home… and I will make your home a place of peace.”
You don’t have to do anything to make yourself ready. You don’t have to be perfect. You don’t have to be healed. You just have to have a willing heart.
The House of Love is always open to you. The Father of Love is ready to enter your heart as soon as you invite Him inside just as He lovingly invites you inside the Home of His Heart, too. And when you are ready and you open your heart to Love Himself, the Father of Love ~ everything He touches inside of your heart becomes His MasterPeace making something very beautiful of your whole life from the inside out !
John 14:23I am making My home inside your heart. When you turn your love toward Me, I draw near, and the Father and I come close enough to dwell within you. Your heart is a home Love has chosen. (See John 14:23)
Ephesians 3:17–19I am settling into your heart, rooting you deeply in My love. I want you to feel how wide, how long, how high, and how deep My love truly is — not just know it, but experience it. (See Ephesians 3:17–19)
Ezekiel 36:26I am giving you a new heart — soft, alive, responsive — and I am placing My Spirit within you so you can breathe freely again. (See Ezekiel 36:26)
Psalm 51:10I am creating something new inside you, cleansing what felt heavy, renewing what felt worn, filling you with fresh desires that rise from My goodness. (See Psalm 51:10)
2 Corinthians 3:18I am transforming you from the inside out, moving you from one bright level of glory to another. Every time you look toward Me, you reflect Me more clearly. (See 2 Corinthians 3:18)
Zephaniah 3:17I delight in you. I hold you close when you feel broken, and I sing over you with joy when you feel whole. My love rejoices over you. (See Zephaniah 3:17)
Psalm 100:5My goodness toward you is steady and unchanging. My love does not run out. My faithfulness does not fade. (See Psalm 100:5)
Romans 8:28I am working all things together for your good — even the things you wish had never happened. Nothing is wasted in My hands. (See Romans 8:28)
Genesis 50:20What was meant to harm you, I am turning for good. What was formed against you will not prosper. I redeem what tried to break you. (See Genesis 50:20)
Isaiah 61:1–4I heal your broken places. I lift the ashes from your heart and replace them with beauty. I rebuild what was ruined. I restore what was lost. I make new what was shattered. (See Isaiah 61:1–4)
Revelation 3:20I am standing at the door of your heart, knocking softly. If you open to Me, I will come in. I will sit with you. I will stay with you. I will make your heart My home. (See Revelation 3:20)
Psalm 139:1–5I know every part of you — every thought, every fear, every longing. I go before you into your future, and I stay beside you in your present. (See Psalm 139:1–5)
Jeremiah 31:3I have loved you with an everlasting love, and I have been drawing you gently toward Me with kindness — never force, never pressure, only invitation. (See Jeremiah 31:3)
You are not wrong for expecting to be treated right, or for asking someone to honor a boundary or to respect your space, privacy or you as you pursue keeping “first things first.”
You are not wrong for asking someone to respect your desire to pursue and stay in peace internally & externally with others. You are not wrong for asking someone to give you the time that is needed to take care of yourself, your spouse & your loved ones needs before you are able to know if or when or how much time you do or don’t have to give above and beyond personal / family priorities that come first.
You get to decide how people treat you. You get to decide how to use the time that has been gifted to you. You get to choose to be a good steward of that time without others un-lovingly pressuring or guilting you into amy commitment or conversation to prove your love or loyalty to them.
It should never be or feel like someone is testing you or trying to get you to move or compromise your boundary to prove your love or loyalty to them or their importance in your life. Their expectation that you would move your boundary just for them and forsake your first and foremost responsibilities to your loved ones or even yourself is just out of place. They are being inconsiderate and thinking of themselves & not you or your loved ones. Either they are only focused on themselves or choose not to be understanding or they just don’t value & respect you & your priorities you have to take care of first.
It’s not your responsibility to sacrifice your first priorities for the sake of not ruffling their feathers. They can learn love is patient & kind & that patience is the most loving kind response they can have while you are taking care of your first priorities until you have free time to give them. Love is not grumpy when it doesn’t get it’s own way. It’s not me-first. Love patiently waits. Good things surely come to those who are love – to those who patiently wait in love. Love is patient and kind in actions, words and attitude in the interim. Be love from start to finish and the space in between.
You cannot be apart of other equations subtracting yourself from being apart of the most important equations first. We are responsible for ourselves, our spouses, family & loved ones to whom we are first committed. When extra time presents itself we have spare time to share with others but first things come first. Anyone that loves you should fully understand and respect that especially when you have given this gift of understanding and patience to them anytime they needed it most to focus on their priorities.
A mutually giving relationship is healthy. Sometimes there may be something going on more in the life of one person than the other person. So, in those cases it may require the person who is not under pressure to create space / room for the other one who is under pressure to feel that it’s ok if they have to tend to the urgency of the need they have. If this is you that is under pressure you don’t need someone adding more pressure to you You should be able to simply say I am not able to do “xyz “ right now without having to apologize, explain or feel pressure as if you need to be all things to all people. What a gift it is to have someone that says I understand. No worries. Take care of you and those you love and we will get together whenever things settle down. Adding more pressure or making it about you in a negative way just isn’t love. Someday you will need someone to be understanding of you. Give that gift freely to others, as well. The world doesn’t revolve around anyone. So make sure you aren’t sending that message to others. It’s not love. Love doesn’t seek its own.
Love is not me-first Love doesn’t look like or sound like pressure, force, guilt tripping, shaming, controlling or manipulating someone passively or aggressively into anything – not a relationship or a favor, etc. I shouldn’t even have to say that but it happens as much as we let it keep happening. If you are tired of it – set your boundaries, vocalize your boundaries if and when needed and honor, keep & respect your own boundaries as you expect others to honor and respect them. If you don’t honor & keep your own boundaries, how can you expect others to honor them if they don’t see you honoring & keeping them yourself?
Support your own healthy goals & desire to have healthy relationships by setting up boundaries that help you to accomplish those goals and desires. Then follow them yourself. Most people who love you will support you and then there will be some that will not support you but try to coerce, condemn, guilt, etc. you into compromising your boundaries using the whole “if you love me” you will move, lift or change your boundary for them.
Please don’t enable people to do this to you. It’s not love to enable others who choose to be unloving, unhealthy, toxic and just so plain self-centered as if you should revolve your time and plans around taking care of their needs before your own. If they aren’t working hard on their own problems and expect you to work on or give more
time to working on fixing their problems than they do – you are simply enabling them to become unhealthily dependent on you which we all know what that creates in a relationship. Codependency
The most loving & supportive thing you can do for them is to not get drawn into or become the one they depend on to do for them what they should be doing for themselves. That also sets you up to be blamed if things don’t go the way they expect. Instead of them learning to take responsibility & own their part you will be their scapegoat and it will in their eyes be all your fault if what they expected doesn’t happen, etc.
One of the most loving gifts you can give to someone who is pursuing to better their life, heal & be healthy on all levels, prioritize & take care of their spouse & family and goals is to support them. It takes a lot of needed & consistent effort & time to accomplish these desires & high priorities. There is a lot to balance out and time that goes into taking care of yourself and also those within your home that is not always understood or seen from the outside. So, decide in your heart you will give them the time, room & space needed to take care of those priorities first. Decide you won’t take it personally, judge or make it about you if you have to wait your turn before they are able to get back to you, text or call you, meet with you, etc. You will 100% feel bad and sad if you make their temporary unavailability about you in a negative way. That’s not supportive, helpful or healthy at all for the relationship. That kind of pressure is just damaging.
It makes you feel bad and get hurt when it has nothing to do with whether you are loved or important or not to them. It makes them feel bad and stressed because they already have enough on their plate trying to meet & keep their priorities and the added unnecessary pressure from you is a recipe for leaving a bad taste in their mouth and is a killer to a loving Heart2Heart connection.
You are supporting them when you honor, respect and rally them on to keep taking care of Godly, personal care or marital / family priorities first. It’s not about you if they are practicing, purposing & pursuing healthy, loving, Godly & honorable commitments & promises they have made to God, themselves & their loved ones. The more you give understanding the more they can focus on what they need to focus on and not spending their energy having to also think about you being upset. Let them off the hook and don’t make them feel responsible for you. In good time they will be able to circle back around to you but you can make it easier on them to let them know you are good until that free time comes. You are gonna be ok, I promise.
It feels good to be flexible with others. It feel good to let them off the hook they thought they were gonna be on. It feels good to give them the gift maybe no one else really gave them was to count themselves in & include themselves in the equation. So many that have been brought up to try to make everyone else happy often lost themselves in the mix because they didn’t feel how they felt or what they needed to do counted, mattered or was important. They were made to feel responsible to make everyone else happy, pleased and put first and they got left in the dusty leftovers or nothing overs.
Everyone counts. Everyone matters. Don’t lose yourself trying to make everyone else happy denying yourself the right to not only be important but treat yourself and your needs as important, too. Don’t lessen yourself and zero yourself out putting everyone else’s needs as priority and counting yourself out. It’s not leave yourself out. It’s as you take care of yourself you will have more to give and share with others when the time makes itself available. Don’t disclude yourself in the equation. I don’t mean make yourself more important and small not being considered at all. I mean take care of you and your significant others in your house first. That is love. You will have more to give when you have time to give it if you make time for first things first. Time with God matters first. You matter. Your spouse matters. Your kids matter. Your extended family matters. Your loved ones and close friends matter. Your sisters and brothers in Christ matter. Your pets matter. Everyone matters but there is a priority order that you take care of first. You don’t not care about those down the list but you have to take care of those first priorities first with your first fruit of time you have. God will use you in time but He can also use and love on others and use other things to help others out in the interim until you are ready. Don’t carry the weight of the world on your shoulders trying to carry everyone else. Only Jesus is able to do that. You still can pray for them and encourage them in other ways until you are able to freely give of your time to them in additional ways. Not saying don’t help but don’t stress yourself out and count yourself out killing yourself to help someone else and not take care of yours and your family’s needs first. God isn’t only depending on you to help. His sources and ways are higher and far exceed our supply, sources, ways, time & ability. He’s got them while you are caring for you and your family first. Barring an emergency you are free to keep taking care of first things first. When you are ready you will be all there instead of feeling divided, resentful or stressed / pressured. It will be the gift you want it to be when the time is right.
Above all – love is priority. Love is patient and kindly waits patiently. Love resists a me-first attitude and supports others who when they need to first focus on what is first priority. When the time is right – and available – the more lovingly patient and kind you are in the waiting with them – the more free they are to fully focus on being there for you when they are able to. GOd is in the space with you between the now & not yet. He’s gotcha good. Let Him be who you first turn to – your first priority – and just at the right time He will send you a Jesus with skin on friend who is ready and able to be who He has fashioned and created to be for you ! It just takes a little patience, understanding and love in the meantime to give others the space & time needed to be available. Could just be seconds, minutes, maybe a hour, sometimes a day, week and possibly in some cases a month, etc. depending on the crisis or weight of things going on in their lives.
You have God through it all. He is right there with you and would love nothing more than Him being your first priority & your main go-to ! Somehow when we put Him first ~ all else works together for good because we love Him and chose to WAIT WITH HIM (bind ourselves, braid ourselves, entwine ourselves closer and closer to Him) in the waiting while waiting patiently in love for our Jesus with skin on friend to be ready !
Love is a win-win for everyone. Everyone counts including you. Sometimes we just have to remember it is about us but not all about us. It’s ok if someone has to take care of themselves or family first just like it is OK if you have to take care of yourself or family first. It’s not forsaking or leaving someone out to press pause, hold or postpone until you are able to be all there for them. It’s not unloving to ask for understanding or a little time to sort or work things out in your own life before you commit to trying to work something else out in someone else’s life. That space in between there I can’t do that right now, but I am able to do “xyz” n this moment (maybe it’s prayer, for example) until I am able to do “abc” at some point later. It’s ok. You got this.
May love return back to you on many waves. Sowing into taking care of yourself and your spouse/family as your first ministry is pleasing to the Lord. It will give you full love buckets to pour out to others in God’s perfect timing !
Love to all of you ! My favorite is loving you & encouraging you to love God, yourself and others with His love ! You are important. You matter ! You are precious and worth being treated your full value and worth! Don’t treat yourself less than you deserve and treat others the way you would love to be treated with love, kindness, patience and understanding. Everyone should give and receive these gifts to one another. Your importance God made you with is not minimized no matter what. Others may not be able to be there for you until they are able but the best gift is knowing God always is with you and loves to be your very Present – Helper IN your time of need which is in a greater way than anyone on this earth is able to ever be for you.
Thank you to each of you who have ever been there for me when you are able and to what extent you have been there for me. I just appreciate the gift of you and your love foremost. Just knowing you would if you could and that your love is with me is the most precious gift of all. I don’t ever expect anything but I do thank you if and when you are able to whatever degree you are able to be love to me. Just knowing you love me is enough ♥️ That’s the best gift you could ever give just knowing and feeling that !
Love to you all & to all – all the love in my heart to you – I will be here for you best I am able to in whatever way or timing I am able to be. Thank you for your love – and patiently waiting with me in the space between ♥️
There are moments in life when we begin to realize what it truly means to be a Love Missionary… that every word we speak carries something from within us into the heart of another… in a deeply meaningful and life-giving way.
And when our hearts have been loved, healed, and filled by DaddyGod… those words begin to carry His love, His goodness, and His healing into the lives of others. This is how Love Missions begin… and how Love is multiplied from one heart to another.
In the House of Love, this is something the Child of Love is learning… through a gentle, heart-to-heart conversation with Love Himself.
And now… just come and sit with them for these next few moments… as we step inside the House of Love… and listen to a gentle, heart-to-heart conversation between Love Himself and the Child of Love.
The Child of Love sits close beside Love Himself, near enough to feel His presence wrap around her like a quiet embrace. She looks up at Him thoughtfully and asks, “Father of Love… is it really true that every word I speak carries something from my heart into someone else’s?”
Love Himself smiles gently, the kind of smile that feels like it understands everything before it’s even spoken. “Yes, My Child… every word you release carries what it was born from. Words formed in Love carry Love… and words formed in wounds carry wounds.”
She grows quiet, letting that settle inside her. “Father of Love… I only want to speak what comes from You…”
His hand rests softly over her heart. “And that is the invitation, My Child… transformation. When your heart rests in Mine, your words begin to sound like Me… because they’ve been born from Love. My Love is GOOD… and when My Love fills your heart, goodness will naturally overflow through your words.”
She feels something beginning to shift within her, gentle but real. “Father of Love… hurtful words… they don’t come from You, do they?”
His voice remains steady and kind. “No, My Child. Words that wound, divide, accuse, shame, or that tear others down do not come from My heart. They come from places still hurting… still unseen… from the inner places of others still needing Love.”
Her eyes lower slightly, recognizing something within herself. “Then when people speak that way… it means their hearts are hurting?”
He nods. “Yes… unhealed wounds will speak until they are healed. Pain that has not been loved will try to express itself through words.”
A quiet compassion begins to rise in her. “Then Father of Love… I don’t want to add pain on top of pain to anyone…”
His smile warms as He rests His hand on her heart. “And you won’t, My Child, as you let Me love you right there. Remember, a heart fully given to My Love becomes a place where healing begins, not harm. When you allow Me to heal your heart, your words will begin to heal others.”
She places her hand over her chest, feeling something alive there. “Is this how Love multiplies?”
He leans a little closer, His voice soft but full of life. “Yes… this is how Love multiplies. One healed heart begins to speak healing, and those words plant life in other hearts.”
She leans in, drawn by what she’s beginning to understand. “Then… this is a mission, isn’t it?”
A gentle light fills His expression. “It is, My Child… it’s a Love Mission. To love unreservedly and unconditionally with the same Love I have poured into you.”
Her voice softens. “Father of Love… I want to live like that. I want my words to carry Your heart…”
His hand remains over hers. “Then let every word you speak first rest in My Love. Let it be softened, healed, and filled by My Love before it is given to others.”
She asks quietly, “And when I do that… what will happen?”
His answer comes like a promise already unfolding. “You will begin to see it… relationships growing, not breaking. Hearts opening, not closing. Love increasing, not diminishing. You will see My Love multiplying through you.”
Tears rise gently in her eyes. “Father of Love… is this what it means to be a Love Missionary?”
He answers simply, “Yes… a heart that has received My Love and cannot help but give it.”
She presses her hand to her heart. “Then take my whole heart, Father of Love… heal every place in me, so that every word I speak carries You.”
His voice softens even more. “I already am, My Child…”
And in that moment, something sacred is sealed heart2heart… not through striving, but through surrender.
In the House of Love, this is how Love Missions begin… not by trying harder, but by being loved deeper. And from that place, words are no longer just spoken… they become songs of Love carried from one heart into another.
Love Himself gently calls her forward. “Come, My Child… there are hearts waiting for us…”
Child of Love:“What is this I’m feeling…? It feels like… something inside me is being held.”
Love Himself turns toward you, His eyes warm, kind, and full of knowing.
Love Himself:“My beloved… that is Me… holding you on the inside. My love is within you, gently holding every part of your heart. I am patient with you, and I am kind toward you, because I am love.”
You sit beside Him on the deep crimson Seat of Love, and something inside you begins to soften.
His words settle deep in your heart, just like His living Word says, “Love is patient, love is kind” (1 Corinthians 13:4, NKJV).
Child of Love:“It feels… easy to be here with You.”
Love Himself:“It is safe to be with Me.”
You begin to notice your heartbeat… and then something even more beautiful happens.
Child of Love:“It feels like Your heart is so close to mine… like I can feel Your love moving inside of me.”
Love Himself gently places His hand over His heart.
Love Himself:“My love is alive within you. Nothing can come between you and My love.”
Your heart hears it, not just as words, but as truth, echoing gently within you… “Absolutely nothing can get between us and God’s love” (Romans 8:39, MSG).
Child of Love:“You really know me… don’t You?”
Love Himself:“I know every part of your heart. Even the quiet places. Even the places that have been hurt.”
You hesitate for a moment… then whisper,
Child of Love:“Those places… they don’t always feel safe with others.”
Love Himself:“I know. There are places within you that only My love can reach.”
You begin to feel it… His love moving deeper… gently… carefully… right into those hidden places.
Child of Love:“It feels like something inside me is softening…”
Love Himself:“That is My love… kind, safe, and full of understanding.”
You close your eyes for a moment, feeling His presence surrounding those tender places within you.
Child of Love:“What happens when something inside me is hurting?”
Love Himself:“I come close to that place. Just like your body sends help where it is needed… My love moves to where your heart is hurting.”
You feel it… right there… in that very place… warm… present… alive.
Child of Love:“You’re right there…”
Love Himself:“I am with you always.” (Matthew 28:20, NKJV)
This time… it doesn’t feel like something you are trying to believe.
It feels real.
You sit quietly beside Him, your heart resting.
Child of Love:“This feeling… this hug on the inside… will it go away?”
Love Himself gently turns toward you.
Love Himself:“My beloved… this is not something that comes and goes. It is Me… alive within you. I do not leave you. I am always holding you… right here.”
Something deep inside you settles into that truth.
You sit with Him a little longer, then ask,
Child of Love:“What happens when I’m with someone else… and they’re hurting?”
Love Himself:“You will feel My love rise up within you toward them. The same love you are receiving… will begin to reach them through you.”
You pause… taking that in.
Child of Love:“So… it doesn’t stop with me?”
Love Himself:“No, My beloved. My love flows. From Me… to you… and through you.”
Something awakens inside you.
Child of Love:“And through me…”
Love Himself smiles.
Love Himself:“Yes. A holy hug… given heart to heart.”
You sit there, letting it all settle…
Then you whisper one more question.
Child of Love:“Are You still holding me… even now?”
Love Himself leans close, His presence wrapping around your heart.
Love Himself:“I have never stopped.”
And right there…
You feel it again…
That gentle… warm… living… holy hug on the inside…
There’s a place inside the House of Love… a room where your heart can finally exhale. It’s called the Safe Feelings Room. And this is not a place where you are corrected, or told to be stronger, or reminded that you should be over it by now. This is not a place where you have to hide what is really going on inside of you. This is a place where you can be real.
Where every feeling is allowed to come close without being rushed, without being silenced, and without being made smaller so it’s easier for someone else to hold. You don’t have to change what you feel here. You don’t have to rename it, soften it, or dress it up. What you feel matters.
And in this room, there is a table… a prepared place. A table of love where nothing has to knock, and nothing is left outside waiting to be invited in. Every feeling… every emotion… already has a seat. Every part of your heart is already welcome.
And as you sit there, something begins to shift. What once felt overwhelming, confusing, or even a little frightening doesn’t feel the same when it is no longer hidden. Here, your feelings don’t feel like enemies. They feel like something that came carrying a message… something that has been trying to be seen, to be known, to be understood.
Fear may come and sit beside you, quietly, almost hesitant at first. And when it is finally given space to speak, you hear it say, “I wasn’t trying to control you… I was trying to protect you. I saw what hurt you before, and I didn’t want you to feel that again.” And something inside of you softens, because fear was never trying to be your enemy… it was trying to guard something tender within you.
Sorrow sits nearby, heavy but no longer hidden. And when sorrow finally lifts its eyes and speaks, it whispers, “I am here because something mattered… because something touched your heart deeply. I stayed because I didn’t want that to be forgotten.” And you begin to feel it… that sorrow is not emptiness… it is evidence that your heart has loved.
Grief sits in that deeper place at the table, the seat that feels sacred. And when grief is finally allowed to speak, it doesn’t rush. It gently says, “I carry what was precious. I hold what was loved. I am not here to take from you… I am here because love was here first.” And suddenly, that ache doesn’t feel like something to run from… it feels like something to honor.
Across the table, anger sits… not loud now, not overwhelming, just present. And when anger is finally heard without being judged, it says, “I rose up because something wasn’t right. Because something in you deserved care… respect… protection. I was trying to show you that you matter.” And instead of pushing it away, you begin to understand it.
And as each feeling is finally heard, something sacred begins to happen. The child within you, the part that once felt unseen, unheard, and misunderstood, begins to lean in, not in fear, but in recognition. Because these feelings… they were carrying pieces of your story. And now, as they speak, it’s as if those pieces are no longer scattered… they begin to come back together, not as something broken, but as something being made whole.
And there, at the table, with Love Himself present, holding the space, something even deeper unfolds. There is no tension, no pressure, no need to fix anything. Just a gentle joining, where what you felt, what you carried, what you didn’t understand before begins to come into harmony. And you realize your feelings were never trying to pull you apart… they were waiting to be brought into love. And here, in His presence, they are.
As you sit there, something settles even deeper within you. These feelings are not here to take over you. They are visitors. They may come, they may sit, they may speak, but they do not stay forever. Fear may visit, but you are not becoming fear. Sorrow may sit with you, but you are not becoming sorrow. Anger may speak, but it does not get to define who you are. You are learning something sacred here. You are learning to become Love.
And as that truth begins to rest in your heart, you realize something even more beautiful. You are not the one visiting this room. You belong here. The House of Love… this place where your heart is known… this place where nothing in you is turned away… this is your Home.
You don’t have to earn your place here. You don’t have to pretend to stay. You don’t have to hide parts of yourself to remain. You can take off the mask. You can lay down the pretending. You can be real… and still be held.
The feelings may come and go, but you remain. You have a place here… a permanent place. And even if it takes time for your heart to fully rest into that truth, Love is patient. Love is kind. Love does not fail to be love. So you will not be turned away. You will not be pushed out. You will not lose your place. Because this… is your Home.
And here in the Safe Feelings Room, nothing is rushed and nothing is rejected. Every feeling is invited to be known, gently held, and then released in its time. But you… you are the one who always belongs.
So if your heart feels full today, or tender, or unsure, come sit for a while. Let yourself feel what you feel without shrinking it, without changing it, and without hiding it. You don’t have to pretend here. You don’t have to be anything other than real. There is a place for you here. You belong here.
You are not too much. You are not wrong for feeling. You are not wrong for not feeling okay. You are being gently led back to yourself by Love… and held in Love as you do.
And if something in your heart is stirring, if something is asking to be felt or spoken or brought into the light, you don’t have to hold that alone. You can bring it to Love Himself just as you are, with no preparing, no fixing, and no getting it right.
And if your heart needs someone you can see and hear, there are safe places, safe people, where your heart can be held in that same love. And this House of Love does not end here. It continues. It lives, and breathes, and remains open to you… a place where your heart can return again and again, where you are met, where you are known, where you are loved.
And I am here too, not above you and not ahead of you, but with you. As someone who has felt deeply, walked through healing, and been met by Love in the middle of it all. What Love has done in me, what has been healed, what has been restored has been opened and shared so your heart would have a place like this too.
So if something in you feels seen here, if something in you feels understood, then maybe this space has been waiting for you… a Heart2Heart, a living, breathing House of Love where Love Himself meets you, and where you never have to walk alone. Ever 🤍
Heart2Heart in His Love,
Momo Smiley
Psalm 34:18 (NLT)
“The Lord is close to the brokenhearted; He rescues those whose spirits are crushed.”
💛 He comes closer here.
Hebrews 4:15–16 (NLT)
“He understands our weaknesses… So let us come boldly… and receive mercy and grace when we need it most.”
💛 You can come just as you are.
Psalm 62:8 (NLT)
“Pour out your heart to Him, for God is our refuge.”
💛 You can let it all out here.
Matthew 5:4 (NLT)
“God blesses those who mourn, for they will be comforted.”
💛 Your grief is held in love.
2 Corinthians 4:8–9 (NLT)
“Pressed… but not crushed… knocked down, but not destroyed.”
💛 The way you feel is not who you are.
Ecclesiastes 3:1, 4 (NLT)
“A time to cry… and a time to dance.”
💛 This is a season, not forever.
John 15:9 (NLT)
“Remain in my love.”
💛 You belong here.
Romans 8:38–39 (NLT)
“Nothing… will ever separate us from the love of God.”
💛 Your place is secure.
Isaiah 66:13 (NLT)
“I will comfort you… as a mother comforts her child.”
Inside the House of Love, there is a fire burning creating warmth, casting a warm amber glow across the room, and the deep crimson colors feel richer especially tonight, as if the room itself is holding something sacred… something tender.
You walk in a little hesitant, unsure of what to expect. You already know you are welcome, but you are also very aware of what you have been carrying and what your baggage holds inside. What you have been carrying feels so heavy, not only in weight but in your heart. That’s because your baggage is filled with shame, guilt, bad choices, fear, labels, things people have said about you, the armor you have worn to protect yourself, your mistakes, your regrets, the should haves and could haves, the things you wish were different, and even dreams that feel like they have been lost… and you have been carrying all of this for a very long time.
As you step further into the room, Love Himself sees you. He sees not only where you are, but everything you have been carrying and everything you have been through. He does not rush you or overwhelm you, and He does not ask you to explain anything. He simply comes near and sits beside you, close enough for you to feel His presence, close where you feel not only comfortable but comforted, seen, safe, and secure. For a moment, He just stays with you… heart to heart… until even the quiet begins to feel peaceful.
As you sit there with Him, something begins to rise inside your heart. It is honest and real, not polished or perfect. You can feel that He sees you, but He is not looking at what you thought He would focus on. He is not focused on your baggage or your mistakes or the things you thought would matter most. When Love Himself looks at you, it feels like all He sees is you… fully seen, fully known, and still fully loved… and that feels unfamiliar, almost too good to be true, and yet something deep inside you knows that it is real.
A question begins to rise within you, and you quietly speak to Him, “Father of Love… what am I supposed to do with all of this… Jesus… is this always going to define me… how I see myself… how others see me… or how You…” Before you can finish your question, He gently lifts His hand. He is not stopping you, but lovingly holding your question with you. Then Love Himself begins to respond, not by correcting you, but by speaking in a way your heart can understand.
“Let Me tell you a true story about someone,” He says gently.
As He begins to speak, you listen closely, and it becomes clear that He is sharing this story to help your heart understand something deeper.
“There was a woman, and many had already decided who she was. They gave her a name, a label, and a place to stand, and it was not a place of honor. They saw her through what she had done, what she had been through, and what had been done to her, and they believed that was all she would ever be.”
As Love Himself speaks, you begin to feel something stir inside your heart. You recognize that feeling. You remember words that may have been spoken over you, like “You are the black sheep of the family,” or even “You are no longer a part of this family.” As those memories surface, you begin to realize that this story is not distant from you… it feels personal… and you begin to see how it connects to your own story.
Then Love Himself continues, “But I saw her. I saw Mary… Mary Magdalene. I saw beyond every label, every wound, and every place she had been bound. I saw her heart, and I came for her.”
As you hear this, a quiet realization forms within you. You begin to understand that He is not only talking about Mary… He is showing you how He sees you.
Love Himself continues, “When I met her, I was not focused on her mistakes. I was moved by love for her. I did not treat her according to what she had done, but according to who she truly was to Me. I loved her before anything changed, and it was My love that began to change everything.”
As He speaks, you begin to recognize what is happening in this very moment. He is not focusing on everything you thought He would. He is not bringing up your failures. He is simply loving you, and that realization begins to soften your heart.
Then He gently brings you deeper into the story, “She stayed near Me, she listened, she learned My heart, she loved, and she worshiped. And then she saw something she would never forget… she saw Me on the cross.”
As He says this, everything inside you becomes still.
“And everything she had ever carried, everything that had ever tried to define her, everything in her baggage… she saw that I was carrying it for her.”
As you hear this, you begin to picture it clearly. You begin to understand that she saw Him carrying everything she thought defined her, and in that moment, she realized it was no longer hers to carry.
Love Himself continues, “She saw that I did not just love her in words. I took it all upon Myself. She saw that I finished it, and she saw that I forgave it completely… once and for all.”
As these words settle into your heart, you begin to understand something deeply. It was not only that He loved her when He met her… it was that He finished everything for her on the cross… all of it… forever.
Then Love Himself gently brings the meaning of the story to you so that your heart can fully understand.
“This is what the story means for you. What you have been carrying, I have already carried. What you have been holding onto, I have already finished. What you have been wondering if I would forgive, I already forgave completely… once and for all. What was true for her is just as true for you, and for every heart that comes to Me carrying their baggage into the House of Love… the home of My heart.”
As He speaks, you begin to understand why He told you this story. He is helping your heart see that what was true for Mary is true for you right now.
And now something shifts deeply inside of you. You begin to realize that you thought He would focus on your baggage because that is what others had done. They did not truly see you, hear you, or know you. They saw you through their opinions, assumptions, and judgments, and over time you began to believe those voices. You began to see yourself through that same lens, and your own thoughts shaped how you expected to be seen… even by Him. Now you see it clearly. You had unknowingly agreed with those beliefs, and that agreement became part of your pain.
As this realization settles in your heart, you begin to see that you were wrong about how He sees you. You were wrong about what He would focus on, and you were wrong about how He would respond to you. Instead of shame, your heart begins to fill with gratitude… deep, overwhelming gratitude that you were wrong… and that He is more loving, more kind, and more accepting than you ever imagined.
As this truth takes root, Love Himself remains beside you, steady and present. Without force, His love begins to move. It reaches toward everything you have been carrying, and your baggage begins to lift, not because you tried harder, but because you now see clearly. The weight begins to release, the lies lose their hold, and the labels fall away, and you are no longer holding onto what you were never meant to carry.
As this happens, your heart opens, and space is made within you. His love begins to fill every place that once held pain in a way that feels gentle, steady, and complete, like a deep restoration taking place within you. What once felt heavy now feels light, what once felt loud now feels peaceful, and what once felt confusing now feels clear.
Then Love Himself speaks again, and His words are steady and full of truth.
“You are not what you carried. You are not what was spoken over you. You are not what others called you… you are Mine.”
As those words settle into your heart, you look at Him, and this time there is no hesitation, no questioning, no pulling back. Something in you has shifted, and you respond to Him from that place of knowing.
“Father of Love… Jesus… I receive this. I receive Your love. I receive what You have done for me. I receive how You see me, and I choose to agree with You.”
Your voice steadies as your heart opens even more.
“I am not what I carried. I am not what was spoken over me. I am Yours… I am Your Child of Love.”
As you speak those words, you feel them take root within you. They are no longer just something you hope is true… they are something you know is true.
Tears rise, not from pain, but from being seen, known, and loved in a way that is real and unchanging, and you continue softly,
“Thank You for loving me like this. Thank You for giving me more than I ever expected. Thank You for showing me what real love is… not based on what I’ve done… but based on who You are.”
And as you sit there with Him, something becomes settled deep within you. You are no longer questioning where you stand. You are no longer wondering how He sees you. You are no longer carrying what He has already finished. You are receiving His love, and it is changing you from the inside out.
Love Himself remains beside you, steady and full of quiet joy, as if this moment is exactly what His heart has always desired… not just to tell you the truth, but for you to receive it, believe it, and live from it.
And as this moment settles, you begin to realize something gently but clearly. What you have just experienced here in the House of Love… this heart to heart moment… is not meant to stay as only a story. It is meant to be stepped into… experienced… received.
So now… this turns toward you.
If you have ever felt like the black sheep… if you have ever felt pushed out, overlooked, or unloved… this same love is reaching for you right now.
“Come… come into the House of Love, the Home of My heart, and bring your baggage, bring every piece of it. You will not be rejected here. You will be seen, known, and loved. What I have done… I have done for you too. I am inviting you, I am welcoming you, and I am receiving you… you are My Child of Love.”
You are not standing outside looking in… you are being invited in… into the same place… into the same love… into this same truth ~ my LOVING TRUTH.
You were never outside.
You have always been invited.
You belong here.
Heart2Heart in His Love,
Momo Smiley
“Come up here…” — Revelation 4:1 This is the invitation into the Upper Room of your heart… not a place you earn your way into… but a place Love Himself invites you into so you can see what He sees and experience what He has already done for you.
“While we were still sinners, Christ died for us.” — Romans 5:8 Before anything changed in Mary… before anything changes in you… Love Himself already chose you and loved you… His love was never based on your performance… only on His heart for you.
“He has removed our sins as far from us as the east is from the west.” — Psalm 103:12 What you thought you still had to carry… He already carried… what you thought still defined you… He already removed… completely… permanently… lovingly.
“It is finished.” — John 19:30 At the cross… just like Mary saw… everything in your “baggage” was fully paid for… fully forgiven… fully finished… there is nothing left for you to carry or prove.
“I have called you by name… you are Mine.” — Isaiah 43:1 Where others gave you labels… Love Himself gives you identity… not based on what you’ve done… but based on who you are to Him… His.
“There is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus.” — Romans 8:1 The voice of shame… guilt… and accusation… is not His voice… His voice brings freedom… covering… and belonging.
“See what great love the Father has lavished on us, that we should be called children of God… and that is what we are.” — 1 John 3:1 You are not the black sheep… you are not the outsider… you are His Child of Love… fully brought in… fully accepted… fully His.
“Those who look to Him are radiant; their faces are never covered with shame.” — Psalm 34:5 As you look at Love Himself… something changes… shame loses its hold… and His love becomes what defines you.
“You did not receive a spirit of slavery to fall back into fear, but you received the Spirit of adoption…” — Romans 8:15 You are no longer outside trying to belong… you have been brought into His family… where you are wanted… chosen… and forever His.
“If anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come… the old has gone, the new is here.” — 2 Corinthians 5:17 What you carried is not your identity anymore… what He has done is now your reality… you are not becoming new… you already are.
Worship is Love responding to Love… it is the gentle exchange between your heart and His, the place where being with Him becomes the expression itself, where something inside you begins to respond simply because you are with Love Himself.
There is a House of Love within your heart… the home of His heart inside of you. It is where Love Himself lives, where He dwells, where His presence fills the space within you with warmth, peace, and belonging. And you live there too… not as a visitor, but as one who already belongs. The House of Love and your heart are not separate places… they are one living, breathing place within you.
Within this House of Love, there are moments when you become aware of Him in a deeper way, moments when you can feel that He sees you and understands what is going on inside your heart. He knows what you have been carrying, what has been making you feel heavy, what has been on your mind, and He knows your heart and your desire to be with Him, heart to heart.
And in those moments, you begin to hear Him calling to you, “Come up here…” His voice moves through the House of Love within you, and something in your heart recognizes it and gently follows. As your attention turns toward Him, you begin to notice a staircase softly lit within, with Lanterns of Love lining each step of the staircase, glowing with a gentle, living Holy flame of Love. That light is His Presence, shining the way for you.
On that staircase, Love Himself is already there, having come near to you. His eyes meet yours with kindness and love, as if He is so glad to see you… as if this moment matters deeply to Him. And again, you hear Him say, “Come up here…” There is something in His voice that feels like a warm embrace around your heart, something that draws you closer. As you respond, something inside you begins to awaken, like a gentle flame in your heart being softly lit by His Presence.
You begin to walk with Him, step by step, and He is with you right there, the lanterns of Love lighting the way, His Presence surrounding you. With each step, your heart begins to soften and settle, and your awareness rests more fully on Him… until everything else fades and all you feel is His nearness… and your heart responding.
As you walk with Him, you enter the UpperRoom of your heart… a sacred and holy place within you. This UpperRoom is where your heart meets Heart2Heart with your Abba, your DaddyGod… where you are held, where you are known, where you are loved without condition… where you can rest, and where He stays with you as you heal, as you mend, and as you come closer and deeper into His heart.
Everything you experience here… the warmth, the peace, the comfort… it all comes from Love Himself. He is the warmth that surrounds you, the peace that settles within you, and the comfort that gently holds every place in you that has been hurting.
And here… something begins to shift in the way you understand worship.
You begin to realize that what is happening between you and Him right now… this quiet, sacred, heart2heart exchange… this is worship.
Not something created from the outside… not something dependent on what is happening around you… but something alive within you. Because worship does not need external influence to become real… it is already living inside of you, waiting for your heart to respond to His.
Here in the UpperRoom of your heart, you meet Love Himself face2face… heart2heart… soul2soul… spirit2spirit… and what happens between you and Him here… this is what matters most.
Because Love Himself always works from the inside out. And what is formed in this sacred place within you… is what you carry with you into the world.
Worship begins to feel different here… it is no longer just a song you are singing… it becomes your story. When the lyrics begin to align with your Godstory… with what you have walked through… with what He has healed… with what He has carried you through… suddenly it is no longer just melody… it is your life… being expressed back to Him. And something about that kind of worship… it touches His heart… and it transforms yours.
There is something so deeply beautiful about choosing this place… this UpperRoom within your heart… not in a way that separates from others, and not in a way that judges what happens around you… but in a way that gently recognizes that what happens within you with Him… is the most real, most intimate, most life-changing place of all.
Because here… you are not trying to create a moment… you are simply with Him. And in this being with Him… worship becomes a beautiful exchange. You give Him your heart… your attention… your love… your presence… and what He gives you in return… is Himself. His peace begins to settle where there was unrest… His lightness lifts what felt heavy… His comfort wraps around what was hurting… His truth gently replaces every lie… and His love fills you in ways nothing external ever could.
And what is poured into you here… does not stay here. It becomes what you carry. It becomes how you love others… how you see them… how you respond… how you bring His heart into the world around you.
What happens in the Holy, sacred place of the UpperRoom of your heart fills you with everything you need… to love others the way He loves you… and even more deeply… to carry His Kingdom of Love from His heart… into yours… and from your heart… into the hearts of others.
This is Heart2Heart worship.
It is not something you visit… it becomes something that lives inside of you… so that how you live… how you love… how you move through your life… flows from what you have experienced with Him… internally… externally… and eternally.
And in this place… you come to know… not just in words, but in your own personal experience with Love Himself that…
Worship has always been…
Love responding to Love.
Heart2Heart in His Love,
Momo Smiley
Worship this pure is just the most beautiful invitation to rest at the feet of Love Himself ~ Jesus. I don’t need anything more than this. This right here…brings my heart front and center to the only place that matters with the One who matters most!! Nothing more needed than just pure, honest worship like this…how very beautiful and heart touching…
“The kingdom of God is within you.” Luke 17:21
The Upper Room is not far away… it is already within you. This is where Love Himself meets you, and where His Kingdom of Love begins to flow through your heart into the world.
“Be still, and know that I am God.” Psalm 46:10
In the quiet of the Upper Room, you are not striving… you are resting. And in that stillness, your heart becomes aware of Him, and worship gently rises as love responding to Love.
“Draw near to God, and He will draw near to you.” James 4:8
Every step you take toward Him on that staircase of Love… He is already coming toward you. This is not about reaching Him… it’s about responding to the One who is already near.
“Deep calls to deep…” Psalm 42:7
This is the sound of your heart calling to His… and His heart calling to yours. In the Upper Room, this deep-to-deep connection becomes your worship—something words alone could never express.
“The Lord is near to the brokenhearted…” Psalm 34:18
You don’t have to wait until you feel whole to come. The Upper Room is where healing happens… where even your tears become prayers He understands completely.
“My peace I give to you…” John 14:27
What you receive in the Upper Room… you carry. His peace fills your heart from the inside out, and becomes what you bring into every place and every person you encounter.
“Those who look to Him are radiant…” Psalm 34:5
As you sit with Love Himself, something begins to change within you. His light becomes your light… and what happens in secret begins to shine through your life.
“Freely you have received; freely give.” Matthew 10:8
What He pours into you in that sacred and holy exchange… doesn’t stay there. The love you receive becomes the love you carry, and the love you give.
“Christ lives in you…” Galatians 2:20
The House of Love is not separate from you… He lives within you. Worship is no longer something you do… it becomes who you are as you live in union with Love Himself.
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You have exempted yourself from DaddyGod’s love for far too long. You thought because you failed that He was finished with you. You thought that He had turned His Face or favor away from you just because you failed. You wonder where your DaddyGod went or why you don’t feel His Presence like you once did. You thought He couldn’t ever use you… that somehow your mistake or wandering distanced or separated you from your Heavenly DaddyGod.
You felt so… because you thought so.
You felt so… because that’s the story you kept telling yourself…
And here’s the loving truth… many of the stories you’ve been telling yourself (maybe perhaps your whole life) were never born from Love. They were born from old wounds… old voices… old insecurities… old moments where you didn’t feel seen… known… valued… or protected. They were shaped by the mind traps you rehearsed… I’m not good enough… I’m too much… I’m not lovable… I always mess things up… something must be wrong with me. These stories were shaped by the voices of people who didn’t know how to love you well… who didn’t know their own worth, value, and identity in Christ… or didn’t know how to speak life over you… or didn’t know how to reflect the Father of Love’s heart to you. Some of those voices came from people who said they loved you but didn’t speak lovingly to you. Some came from authority figures you trusted. Some came from an earthly father who didn’t know how to show you the tenderness… delight… and steady affection of the Heavenly Father of Love… and without knowing it, your heart assumed God must be like them.
And for those experiences you never should have had to go through… my heart goes out to you. I am so deeply sorry that those moments shaped how you saw yourself and how you saw the Father of Love all this time. It challenged your heart and mind relationally… how to feel close to Him… how to trust He would never leave you… how to believe nothing could ever separate you from His Love. But the truth is… the only thing that ever made you feel separated were these stories… the ones you were told… the ones you believed… the ones you rehearsed… stories that were never the real truth. You just didn’t know any better. So give yourself some grace. Go easy on your heart.
And the more those untrue stories were repeated… by others or by your own heart… the more they felt like truth. But they were never the Father’s truth about you. They were never His story. They were never His voice. They were never His heart. And now His Love is inviting you to let those old stories go and let His Love Word rewrite His Loving Truths upon your heart. They will really change your mind… they will really change your experience… they will really change YOU.
But right this moment… I am here to tell you, Child of Love… don’t beat yourself up. Don’t guilt trip… shame… or condemn yourself for what you didn’t know… for not knowing you were an accomplice to your own pain… for not knowing your Know Nots… or how your mind traps kept you stuck in the muck. You simply didn’t know. That’s why they are called your Know Nots. You and I are forgiven of our Know Nots because Jesus on the cross said, “Father, forgive them, for they KNOW NOT what they do.” We had zero clue how we were an accomplice to our own pain. We just didn’t know. And when we finally DO KNOW, we allow the love and forgiveness of Jesus to wash over us and melt it all into a Love relationship with the Father of Love… and we don’t look back or give ourselves a hard time for what we didn’t know at the time… we just didn’t know.
This is an analogy I came up with that helped my heart and mind when I realized I was an accomplice to my own pain… Think of it like this… if someone asked you to go for a ride with them and you innocently accepted, believing that’s all you were doing… but you didn’t know they were on their way to rob a bank… and you were in the passenger seat… you would be seen as an accomplice even though you were innocent and unaware. You didn’t know. You weren’t trying to do wrong by accepting what they said. You weren’t actively or knowingly doing something harmful. You were simply riding along with the information you had at the time.
And here’s the truth… you should not be penalized, punished, or treated as guilty for something you unknowingly became part of without the full truth. You didn’t have all the facts. You didn’t have the real story. You didn’t know what you were stepping into. And innocence is always restored once the Truth is revealed.
So in a similar way… just because you didn’t know you were an accomplice to your own pain… or doubted the Father of Love’s staying Presence… or questioned His Love because you didn’t know the real truth… don’t penalize and punish yourself with the full weight of all the untrue stories you believed or told yourself. Those stories kept your heart in pain and kept you from experiencing the fullness of the Father’s Love… but you just didn’t know. Now that you DO know, you wouldn’t get in that passenger seat again just like you wouldn’t believe those old stories you used to tell yourself now that you do know the truth. You wouldn’t unknowingly set yourself up as an accomplice to your own pain like that again. So give yourself some grace. Don’t be so hard on yourself. Now that you know the truth, you will make better… healthier… more life giving and love giving choices for yourself. But don’t beat yourself down for having unknowingly been an accomplice to your own pain. The good news is… now that you know the truth, the truth can set you free forever.
And now… now that you know the old stories were never true… this is where the Father of Love begins to write something new… in you. He begins to write His truth upon the tablets of your heart… His Love Story… His True Story… because He is the Truth… the Life… and the Way. He is the Person of the Truth… and His Truth is trustworthy. His Truth is healing. His Truth is freeing. His Truth is the only story your heart was ever meant to believe.
So meditate… rehearse… and play His Loving Truth over and over and over in your mind. Philippians 4:8 invites you to think on things that are pure… praiseworthy… lovely… of good report… virtuous… and true. These are His Love Stories and Love Songs to play over your heart until your heart begins to believe nothing but the truth… until His Truth becomes the loudest voice in your inner being… until His Love becomes the story of your heart that you live inside of.
But what if… just what if… you begin to tell yourself a different story… the TRUE story… HIS STORY… His Love Story… and His Love Word as your only true reality.
Here’s your True Love Story to write upon the tablets of your heart…rehearse them, meditate upon them, play them over and over your heart & mind until they become your beautiful experienced reality in your heart, mind, whole being & life…
Romans 8:38–39 (NLT)Nothing can ever separate you from God’s love… not your fears for today or your worries about tomorrow. He is telling you gently that nothing you’ve done, nothing you’ve felt, and nothing you’ve believed has ever pushed His Love away from you.
Psalm 34:18 (NLT)The Lord is close to your broken heart; He rescues you when your spirit feels crushed. He wants you to know He is sitting right beside you in the very place you feel most alone.
Romans 5:8 (NLT)God showed His great love for you by sending Christ to die for you while you were still in your mess. He is whispering that His Love for you was never based on your perfection — it was based on His heart.
1 John 4:18–19 (NLT)Perfect Love drives out your fear… and you love because He first loved you. He is reminding you that fear is not your master — His Love is.
Psalm 139:7–10 (NLT)You can never escape from His Spirit… wherever you go, He is there with you. He is telling you that His Presence never left — even when you felt lost or unworthy.
Ephesians 2:4–5 (NLT)God is so rich in mercy, and He loves you so much… even when you felt dead inside, He gave you life. He wants you to know He has never stopped choosing you.
Isaiah 54:10 (NLT)His unfailing love for you will not be shaken… His covenant of peace will not be removed. He is reassuring your heart that His Love is steadier than your emotions and stronger than your failures.
Jeremiah 31:3 (NLT)He has loved you with an everlasting love; with unfailing love He has drawn you to Himself. He is saying, “I’ve been pulling you close this whole time.”
Psalm 103:13–14 (NLT)The Lord is tender and compassionate toward you… He understands your weakness. He wants you to feel His gentleness, not His disappointment.
Hebrews 13:5 (NLT)I will never fail you. I will never abandon you. He is speaking directly to your fear of being left: “I’m still here. I never left.”
Romans 8:1 (NLT)There is no condemnation for you in Christ Jesus. He is telling you that the voice of shame is not His voice.
Zephaniah 3:17 (NLT)He rejoices over you with singing… He delights in you with gladness. He wants you to know that His heart lights up when He thinks of you.
May His Love rewrite your story from this day forward.Your heart is safe now… the Father of Love is rewriting your story with you.Enjoy this Love Prescription for your heart, mind, and whole life… it’s a heart‑changer, a mind‑changer, and a life‑changer!
Heart2Heart in His Love,
Momo Smiley
THROUGH HIS EYES
I BELONG TO YOU
STAY
SHOW ME YOUR FACE
KNOW
REDEEMER
I CHOOSE YOU
HOLY TO THE LAMB
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This is a Heart2Heart story… a gentle picture of what Love Himself is like, drawn from the truths of Scripture, so your heart can rest in His love as you listen. These Love Lessons are told in story form… not new words from Jesus, but a tender reflection of the way Scripture shows Love Himself caring for His children. This story is simply meant to help your heart feel the way His love feels… soft, safe, healing, and true. Hear Him with me as I hear Love Himself whispering to our hearts…
My Child of Love… come sit with Me… right here where your heart can hear Mine. I want to show you something… something gentle… something true. I want you to watch how I love others… how I speak to them… how I hold their hearts… because as you listen, your own heart is learning. These are your Love Notes… written quietly inside you as I speak.
When I speak to someone… I speak kindly. I speak gently. I speak in ways that help their heart feel safe. I never use mean or hurtful words. I never make someone feel small. I never remind them of the things they wish they could forget. I never use their struggles against them. I never tease them or embarrass them or make them feel ashamed. I speak in ways that help them feel lighter… calmer… braver… and more loved. This is how I love… and as you listen, your heart is learning to love this way too. In My House… Love is spoken here.
When someone is hurting… I am soft with them. When someone is scared… I speak peace to them. When someone feels ashamed… I cover them with kindness. When someone is trying to heal… I protect the tender places. I do not poke at their wounds. I do not bring up what hurts them. I do not make them relive what broke them. I hold their heart gently… the way you would hold something precious that could easily be hurt. This is how I love… and as you listen, your heart is learning to love this way too. In My House… Love is spoken here.
When someone tells Me their secrets… I keep them safe. I never tell their private stories to others. I never use what they trusted Me with to hurt them. I never add more pain to the pain they already carry. I never drag them back through the things they survived. I never make them feel the hurt all over again. I protect their heart… because their heart matters to Me. This is how I love… and as you listen, your heart is learning to love this way too. In My House… Love is spoken here.
And My child… I know you have been hurt by people you trusted… people who should have loved you well… people who should have spoken to you with kindness… people who should have protected your heart instead of wounding it. I want you to hear Me… I never agreed with the way they treated you. I never blessed their behavior. I never told them to speak to you that way. I never told them to handle your heart with anything less than love. What they did was not love… and it was not Me.
But even after all of that… your heart still wants to love like I love. You still want to be My Love to others. You still pray for the ones who hurt you. You still hope for their healing. And that tenderness in you… that compassion… that desire to love even when you have been wounded… that is My Love alive inside you. That is My heart beating in yours.
You do not have to trust those who hurt you. You do not have to stay close to those who wounded your heart. Safe distance is not unloving… it is wisdom. You can pray for them from afar. You can bless them without giving them access to your heart. You can love them without letting them hurt you again. This is love too… the kind of love that protects your heart while still hoping for theirs.
So as you take these Love Notes into your heart… remember this… you are learning from Me. You are learning how to speak… how to care… how to protect… how to love with a heart that heals, not a heart that harms. You are learning to be a Heart2Heart friend because you are learning from Love Himself. And every time you choose kindness… every time you choose gentleness… every time you choose compassion… you are choosing to love the way I love. In My House… Love is spoken here.
“And never let ugly or hateful words come from your mouth, but instead let your words become beautiful gifts that encourage others…” My child… this is how I speak to you… and as you listen, your heart is learning to speak with beauty and kindness too.
“Kind words are like honey… sweet to the soul and healing to the body.” Let your heart feel this… My words to you are always sweet… always gentle… always healing… and your heart is learning sweetness from Mine.
“A gentle answer turns away anger, but harsh words stir up hurt.” Feel My gentleness… this is how I protect your heart… and as you listen, your heart is learning gentleness from Me.
“Let your words always be full of grace…” Breathe in My grace… let it fill you… let it shape the way you speak… the way you love… the way you respond… your heart is learning grace from Mine.
“Above all, love each other deeply, for love covers a multitude of wrongs.” Rest in this… My Love covers you… shields you… protects you… and as you listen, your heart is learning to cover others with the same tenderness.
My Child of Love… come here… let Me hold you for a moment. Let Me place My hands gently on each side of your face… the way I touch what is precious to Me. Look at Me… let your heart feel how deeply you belong to Love. You have listened so closely… you have let My words settle inside you… and I want you to feel this blessing not just in your mind, but in the softest places of your heart.
I bless your heart with peace… the kind that quiets the storms inside you. I bless your heart with rest… the kind that lets you breathe again. I bless your heart with truth… the kind that reminds you that you are safe in My Love.
And now, My child… I place My hand upon the top of your head… gently… tenderly… the way a loving Father blesses His beloved one. Feel My hand there… warm, steady, covering you with My presence. I speak healing into every place that has been hurt… every place that has been confused… every place that has been wounded by unkind words or unloving actions. Let My Love settle there… let it mend what was broken… let it soothe what was sore… let it bring peace where there was fear.
And hear this, little one… you are not only healed by My Love… you are carried by My Love… and now you are sent in My Love. You carry My gentleness. You carry My kindness. You carry My compassion. You carry My heart. You do not have to stay close to those who hurt you… but you can still pray for them… still hope for their healing… still shine My Love from a safe place.
You are My Child of Love… and I am sending you into the world with a heart that heals, not a heart that harms… a heart that speaks life, not pain… a heart that reflects Mine. Go in My Love… walk in My Love… speak in My Love… and remember always…
Let DaddyGod bring something beautiful, healing and good out of it all ! You have a healing message in you. DaddyGod wants to use you and your testimony to bring hope and healing transformation to another.
DaddyGod has brought countless ministry moments out of my healing testimony and journey to the aid of broken hearts who’ve gone through same or similar circumstances. It may not be the same loss but the same heartache. His healing love that authored my testimony is also His Voice speaking through me.
I have invited Him to use my healing journey and to send me as His first responder to administer spiritual & emotional first aid to the hurting and broken, rejected, abandoned, shamed, condemned, abused, lonely, depressed and grieving… He knows & loves my heart. He’s loved on my heart so good with His goodness that I have so much of His love to love others with. I may not like some things I have experienced; however, it is worth it all to have gone through and overcome them with Jesus so that I am able to be a hopeful message of His healing love to you. What DaddyGod has done for me He has & will do the same for you!
My heart’s Prayer is DaddyGod keeps bringing me more hearts to love, encourage, bless, nurture, pray and sing His healing love over. It is my honor to sit, stand, kneel and pray with you. If I get the blessing to be there for others the way I wish I could have had someone to be there for me during those times of brokenness, heartache & loss , it’s worth it all.
My message is His message of love. His Perfect Love covers over all my imperfections and yours, too. What is most important is that Love is at the center. Everything spoken or done flows from His love no matter the way it is gifted. I trust that no matter how He uses me to be His Love that He covers everything. What I am not able to do in my own strength, power and ability, His Grace covers !
The Lord is near to the broken-hearted and so my heart will be, too in whatever way I am able to be. He will more than makeup for where I fall short. It’s His doing, His healing, His transforming and it’s His nearness that is what brings the good. I just Love to come along with Him and be apart of Him loving on you through me.
Tell me your story. I will love you and will never judge, shame, condemn, guilt trip or try to pressure you with fear. His Perfection covers all imperfections.
Your message will become your testimony to bring His living and loving hope to someone else someday. It’s worth it all. Your story will someday be your testimony, too bringing DaddyGod’s love, life and hope to someone else someday. Someone needs DaddyGod’s message in you. Won’t you share it?
Heart2Heart in His Love,
Momo Smiley
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If you’re reading this, maybe your heart has been hurt by someone you trusted. Maybe someone who was supposed to be safe… loyal… caring… and kind ended up wounding you instead. Maybe they knew your story… your struggles… your tender places… and still chose to say or do something that broke your heart and the heart of your relationship. If that happened to you, your heart is not wrong for hurting. Your pain is real.Your story matters. And you deserve a place and relationships where your heart can safely breathe again. The House of Love is that place… a safe place… a healing place… a place where Love Himself gathers your heart close… wraps you in His gentle arms… and whispers, “I see you… I know… and I’m here.” From this safe place, let’s talk about what real friendship looks like.
When you have a Heart2Heart friend… a true friend… they don’t try to compete with you or compare themselves to you. They don’t get upset when good things happen in your life. Instead, they celebrate with you because they are happy for you. And when you’re having a hard time, they don’t judge you or make what you are going through about themselves or walk away and leave you to go through it all alone. This is when they come closer with kindness… they listen… and they care. They take the chance to show what a true friend really is in the ways that feel like love to you.
A real friend who knows you’re already going through something hard would never choose to say or do anything that brings more hurt to your heart. They know your struggles… your weaknesses… the things you’ve worked so hard to heal from… and they would never use any of that against you. They would never pressure you… tease you… make fun of you… or make light of the ways you protect your heart. A true friend understands your need to feel safe… and they honor it. They don’t poke at your tender places or make you feel wrong for guarding what has already been wounded or what you have already worked so hard to heal from in the past.
A real friend would never take the private things you shared… the stories of your heart… your past… your pain… and add more hurt on top of what you’ve already lived through. They would never share your private struggles with others or turn your trust into another wound. That is not love… and no true friend would ever do that.
A true friend’s kindness is real. Their loyalty is always one hundred percent true to you whether you are with them or not. They don’t show up only on the good days. They stay… in the bright moments and in the sad ones. When you’re with them, your heart feels seen… valued… understood… and safe. And even when you’re not around, they still protect your heart. They speak kindly about you. They stand up for you. They honor you even when you’re not in the room. And the truth is they are not doing anything extra or special… this is simply the heart of a true friend… nothing extra… nothing pretend… just real love being itself.
A true friend helps you believe in yourself again. They remind you of your strengths when you forget them. They lift your heart when life tries to push it down. They don’t tear you down… compete with you… or quietly resent you. They love you upward. They love you forward. They love you in a way that helps you grow… and they are not bothered or afraid when your growth begins to rise beyond where theirs has reached.
A trustworthy, loyal friend who is compassionate… caring… and gentle with the hurts you’ve already lived through would never drag your heart back through old pain. That is not love… and that is not a real friend. A friend with a kind heart will never compete with you… envy you… or hurt you. They will only love you… lift you… and help you rise.
And if someone who was supposed to be that kind of friend has hurt you in any of these ways, your heart is allowed to feel the weight of that. You are allowed to grieve what happened. You are allowed to feel sad about what was lost. You are also allowed to protect your heart by pulling back and not giving them the same access to hurt you again.
But you are not alone in it. In the House of Love, you don’t have to hide your tears or silence your disappointment. You can bring your whole heart… the hurt… the confusion… the shock… the sadness… to Love Himself. He gathers every broken piece with gentleness. He wraps you in His healing arms. He holds you close with compassion. He speaks truth where lies were trying to cover up the real truths. He comforts the places that were wounded by someone who truly should have cared and treated you better.
Love Himself would never treat your heart in the ways they hurt you. He would never shame you… expose you… pressure you… or make light of your pain. He would never use your past against you or turn your trust into something that hurts you. He would never add more hurt to your hurt. In the House of Love, Love Himself becomes the Friend your heart always needed but did not receive. He becomes the One who heals what others chose to mishandle. He becomes the One who restores what was broken inside of your heart. He becomes the One who teaches us how to be the kind of friend He always meant for our hearts to be. And right here… right now… He is here to wrap you in His gentle, healing embrace and whisper to your heart, “You are safe with Me… you are loved by Me… and I will heal you from the wounds where others mishandled your heart.”
And as your heart rests in that truth… as you breathe in the safety of His presence… this is the perfect moment to let Love Himself speak directly to the places inside you that still ache. Let these next words wash over you like warm light. Let them meet you exactly where you are. Let them be a soft place for your heart to land.
And now, may your heart feel the warmth of this prayer spoken over you. May Love Himself draw near to every hurting place inside you. May He hold the parts of you that feel disappointed… betrayed… or forgotten. May He wash away the sting of all their unkind words and unloving actions. May He remind you that your heart is so precious… your story is sacred to Him… and your trust is valuable. May He surround you with His peace… His comfort… and His gentle presence. May He heal what has been broken… restore all that has been lost… and strengthen what was shaken inside of you when they chose to hurt you. May He bring new hope where hope has felt thin… new joy where joy has felt far away… and new love where their love has become emotionally unsafe for you. And may you feel His arms around your heart even now… whispering, “You are Mine… you are safe… and you are deeply loved.”
May your heart carry these truths with you as you step forward from this moment. May you feel the tender and sweet nearness of Love Himself in every breath you take… in every quiet place your heart finds rest and comfort… in every part of your story that is yet to unfold like His beautiful flower and bloom. And may you always remember that because Love will never leave you or forsake you… you will never walk alone. The House of Love is always open to you… always safe for you… always holding this precious and personal space just for you… your healing… and your rising.
Your heart was made for Love… not judgment. Be kind to your heart and release people from your judgments… because judgment is a relationship killer. When you judge others, you don’t just hurt them… you hurt yourself. To the degree that you make someone else’s behavior about you in a negative way, to that same degree you bring pain and heartache into your own heart.
Judgment doesn’t just break relationships… it breaks hearts. It shuts doors. It closes rooms inside of you that were meant to stay open — rooms of trust, tenderness, and connection. But when someone you love starts hurting you with their own unhealed wounds, those rooms begin to close. And when that happens, it becomes so easy to slip into judgment… not realizing that judgment is only adding more pain to the pain you already feel.
Judgment feels like protection, but it’s actually a wall that keeps healing out. It’s a reaction to heartbreak, not a solution to it. And the more you judge, the more your own heart aches — because judgment doesn’t heal… it only hardens.
Judgment is the language of fear… and fear always divides. But Love… Love Himself… the Father of Love… the Heart Healer… speaks a different language… the language of Love. Love builds bridges where judgment builds walls. Love restores what judgment tears down. Love is the Heart Builder… the Heart Mender… the Heart Repairer. And when you begin to hear His Love language again, something inside you softens and helps you remember who you truly are.
This is why experiencing and healing with the Father’s Love from the inside out matters… and it counts a whole lot in relationship with yourself and others. When you choose His Love, you become a relationship builder… a heart builder. Standing up for your friends and defending them in their presence and in their absence is heart building. Speaking the better word to and about someone in their presence or absence is heart building. Looking for the gold in someone… especially when it would be easier to point out the dirt you see or know about them… is heart building. That’s what strengthens relationships… that’s what makes them come alive and stay alive. And the more you practice this, the more natural it becomes to live from Love instead of judgment.
As the Father of Love heals you from the inside out, something beautiful begins to happen. You learn to Love yourself and others with His Perfect Love and this sets you free. You learn to release people from all judgments, including yourself. You learn to be free from all judgments toward your own heart, and love others with the Father of Love’s heart. Your learn to see others … and yourself… through His eyes of Love. This is where healing begins to take root.
And here’s the truth in Love… when you truly stop judging yourself, you will stop judging others. When you see and think of yourself rightly… in agreement with the Father of Love’s view and opinion of you, which is your reality… you will begin to see and think about others rightly… the way Love Himself sees and thinks about you. When you love yourself with His Perfect Love, you will love others with His Perfect Love. Immediately fear will shrink… evaporate… evacuate… and poof… be gone. And with fear gone, Love has room to breathe again.
You cannot be free from judging others unless you are first free from judging yourself. So much self judgment… and judgment toward others… comes from not believing that you and others have been made in our Good, Good Father’s identity, worth, and value. You are able to love with Perfect Love because you were created in His Perfect Love. That’s who you are… perfectly loved by His Perfect Love. And when you remember this, judgment loses its grip on you.
And when this truth begins to settle in your heart, something shifts inside your heart. This is why judgment cannot stay where Love is healing. As the Heart Healer fills you, it becomes impossible to keep judging yourself… and impossible to keep judging others. His Love frees your heart to breathe again… to see clearly again… and to love without fear again. Healing always begins with seeing yourself through His eyes.
And here’s another layer of freedom… His Love also pulls the plug on your victim mentality. You begin to see others’ bad behavior choices as a reflection of their unhealed wounds. I learned during my healing journey this powerful truth. People do the things they do… or say… because of them… not you. Out of the abundance of their heart their mouth speaks… good or not so good. Out of the abundance of their unhealed heart they will act… think… speak… and behave. And when you understand this, you stop taking their behavior personally.
And when I ever speak of our Know Nots, I’m talking about something the Father of Love has shown me over and over again… some people truly do not know how their unloving behavior and words hurt others. They don’t know to the degree it hurts others. They are so wounded… so unhealed… so unaware… that they have no clue how their unloving words and actions damage hearts and relationships. They play the victim as if it’s everyone else… and they don’t see their part or own their part. They blame others while carrying a big ole log in their own eyes… and then accuse others for the specks they imagine caused their unloving reactions. And when you see this clearly, compassion rises up inside of you not wanting them to hurt inside but without excusing their hurtful behavior you or someone else you love has been hurt by.
Some Know Nots act as if they do not know but they know exactly what they’re doing and keep acting unloving anyway… which is still a sign they need deep healing. Some pretend they don’t know so they don’t have to take responsibility. And some truly have no clue how their dysfunctional… toxic… unloving behavior keeps killing their relationships and hurting even the very people they say they love. And this is why wisdom and boundaries matter so much.
Jesus forgave people of their Know Nots… therefore we are encouraged to forgive too. So forgive, yes. But forgiveness does not mean automatically giving them access to your heart to keep hurting you. The Father of Love is not asking you to let someone repeatedly wound you in the name of forgiveness. The most you can do is know your part… own your part… heal your part… and let them work out their healing vertically with the Father of Love. You cannot fix what only He can heal inside of them. And this truth should help to bring peace to your heart.
Before they can heal, they have to see their part… and then know how their unhealed wounds are causing destruction in their relationships. They need to know how to be loving… know how they shouldn’t be justifying their bad behavior or unkind words…know how to see others through His eyes of love… know how to speak and act with His Love. They cannot give to anyone else something they do not know… something they have never personally experienced in their own heart. And until they do, their bad behavior will continue to reflect their unhealed places. Meanwhile, you are still trying to heal your part with God. So, give each of your heart’s good healing time with the Father of Love first…that’s where you begin right now…
Their behavior will not change just because they say “I’m sorry.” I mean that’s nice to hear, but actions speak louder as they say. There should be proof of true heart change that comes with an apology. It’s not an overnight job to heal the wounds that have been there since you were a child or for a while. God is able to do anything, but your heart first has to be willing… willing to see the truth so it can set you free and then do the healing HeArtwork inside of you for lasting proof and change. The one that hurt you might genuinely feel bad for hurting you at the beginning or embarrassed others saw or heard about what they did… but that doesn’t mean or prove they’ve healed or wouldn’t do something hurtful to you again. They have to first heal the unhealed places inside their heart that contributed to their unloving behavior and speech. They also cannot give or share something with you they do not have… something they have never received from the Father of Love. They need the Love Teacher Himself… the Heart Healer… to give them Love Lessons and heal their inner wounds. And until that happens, loving wisdom must guide your every step.
Otherwise, it will set you up for a repeat of getting hurt again. Until they heal what is hurting them… they will likely hurt you again. They cannot give you something they do not know… do not understand… and have not experienced. And if they keep hurting you even after they do know…or keep justifying their unloving ways of speaking to you or about you… that is a clear sign they have more healing to do… and you need to make a wise and emotionally safe choice for your own heart. You do not have to put yourself in close relational access with someone who keeps re wounding you. Wisdom is not rejection… it is protection. And Love always protects.
And here’s something else the Father of Love has been teaching my heart… there is no revenge or vindictive energy in me. None. I genuinely pray and hope that those who have hurt me… or hurt others I love… will heal from whatever taught them or convinced them that it was okay to treat me or other people that way. I don’t want them punished… I want them healed. I want them to know the Father of Love… the Heart Healer… the Heart Mender… the One who can repair the places in them that their hurtful behavior comes from. And this desire for their healing keeps your heart and my heart soft.
But until they heal… until they get a different heart set and mind set… until they learn not to treat others in hurtful ways… you may need to give yourself some relational safe space from them. Not as punishment… not as rejection… but as wisdom. Safe space is not cutting people off… it’s protecting and preserving the peace and healing you’ve found in the Father of Love’s Love. It’s refusing to enable unloving behavior. Love does not enable what is unloving. Love protects. Love guards the heart. Love honors the healing the Father of Love has begun in you. And this is how you love yourself well.
Your greatest act of Love is not to let them keep hurting you… your greatest act of Love is to pray for them… to bless them… and to give them the healing space they need with the Father of Love so He can heal their Know Nots and unhealed wounds… the very places their hurtful words and actions come from. You are not abandoning them… you are entrusting them to the only One who can truly heal them. And entrusting is an act of Love.
You are not a victim. You are a Victor in Christ Jesus. So keep on healing from the inside out. The more you see… become aware of… and heal… the more you will not make their issues about you. They won’t be able to play you like before. The most loving thing you can do for them is pray for them… that they will come to know… see… and experience the healing Love of God from the inside out. And as you heal, you will see clearly again.
And hear this loving truth gently… the Father of Love is sorry for how they have hurt you. But He wants you to be free from letting them make their bad behavior your responsibility. Only Love Himself… the Heart Repairer… can fix what is hurting inside of them that causes them to hurt others… and you. You just keep working on your part with the Father of Love… healing your Know Nots with His beautiful healing Love. And in that healing, you will find peace.
And if you’ve been hurt, know this gently… Child of Love… you are worth consistently and genuinely being treated with kindness… respect… honor… and value. You always were… maybe you just didn’t know it or believe it. Maybe you didn’t know it because there were those people who told you in your life they loved you but misrepresented the Father’s love and kind of love to you. Only you and the Father of love know the answers. If you’ve armored up your heart, it’s time to disarm. As you receive His Love, His Love will free you to love yourself with His Love… to love others (including those who have wounded and hurt you) and to receive His Love from those who are still in your life who represent His love well to you. He will show you how to love… and how to be loved. And this is where your heart begins to bloom again.
I know it’s easy to lock up your heart quickly, but instead, invite the Heart Healer in today. Let Him go into the places you haven’t let anyone back into. Let His Love teach you. Let His Love highlight His Kingdom Lovers… those who have encountered and experienced His healing Love and will love you beyond your imagination… and will never want to hurt you. And when you meet them, you will recognize them by the fruit of Love in their lives.
Once you let the Heart Healer in, let the healing and blooming begin. Then enjoy His Love gifts… His friends, too… who will know how to love you with His Life… His Light… and His Love. Kingdom Lovers… keep keepin’ your Love on.
Heart2Heart in His Love,
Momo Smiley
Matthew 7:1–2 (NLT)Jesus teaches that judgment returns to the one who gives it… the measure you use on others becomes the measure that comes back to you. This reflects how judgment wounds your own heart first.
1 John 4:18–19 (NLT)Perfect Love drives out fear… and we love because He first loved us. This reveals why fear and judgment cannot stay where the Father of Love is healing you.
1 Samuel 16:7 (NLT)The Father of Love looks at the heart… not the outward appearance. This invites you to see yourself and others through His eyes of Love.
Luke 6:37 (NLT)When you stop judging, you stop being judged… freedom begins when judgment is released. This mirrors the freedom you described in your writing.
Proverbs 4:23 (NLT)Guard your heart above all else… for it determines the course of your life. This speaks to protecting your healing and creating relational safe space.
Romans 12:17–21 (NLT)Do not repay evil with evil… overcome evil with good. This reflects your heart posture of choosing Love instead of revenge.
Ephesians 4:31–32 (NLT)Let go of bitterness… be tenderhearted… forgive as the Father of Love forgave you. This aligns with healing from judgment and choosing compassion.
Galatians 6:1–2 (NLT)Restore others gently… carry their burdens. This echoes your call to pray for those whose unhealed wounds spill out as hurtful behavior.
Proverbs 19:11 (NLT)A wise heart overlooks offense… choosing patience over reaction. This reflects not making others’ unhealed behavior about you.
Colossians 3:12–14 (NLT)Clothe yourself with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience… and above all, Love. This is the heart of being a relationship builder and heart builder.
James 1:19–20 (NLT)Be quick to listen… slow to speak… slow to get angry. This mirrors speaking the better word instead of prosecuting others with harshness.
Romans 8:1 (NLT)There is no condemnation for the Child of Love in Christ Jesus. This speaks to healing self‑judgment.
Psalm 147:3 (NLT)He heals the brokenhearted… He binds up their wounds. This reveals the Father of Love as the Heart Healer and Heart Mender.
Matthew 5:9 (NLT)Blessed are the peacemakers. This reflects protecting peace and preserving the healing inside your heart.
Ephesians 2:10 (NLT)You are God’s masterpiece… created in His Love, worth, and value. This affirms your identity as the Child of Love.
Proverbs 22:3 (NLT)A wise person sees danger ahead and takes precautions. This speaks to creating emotional and relational safe space.
Matthew 10:16 (NLT)Be wise as serpents and harmless as doves. This reflects Love walking in wisdom without enabling unloving behavior.
Psalm 34:18 (NLT)The Father of Love is close to the brokenhearted… He rescues those whose spirits are crushed. This speaks directly to the Child of Love in the middle of the hurt.
Proverbs 14:8 (NLT)The wise understand their own way… but fools deceive themselves. This mirrors the Know Nots who cannot see their part.
Hebrews 12:14–15 (NLT)Work at living in peace with everyone… and watch that no bitter root grows up to trouble you. This reflects guarding your heart from bitterness while healing.
Psalm 139:23–24 (NLT)Search me… know my heart… lead me in Your way. This aligns with knowing your part, owning your part, and healing your part.
Proverbs 27:6 (NLT)Wounds from a sincere friend are better than kisses from an enemy. This reflects the value of heart‑building relationships.
Romans 15:1 (NLT)We who are strong must help those who are weak… not just please ourselves. This speaks to compassion for those who are unhealed.
John 13:34–35 (NLT)Love one another as I have loved you. This reflects Love from the inside out.
Psalm 32:8 (NLT)I will guide you along the best pathway for your life… I will advise you and watch over you. This speaks to the Father of Love guiding you in relational wisdom.
]Real friends don’t gossip… they don’t betray…they pray. And so, this Heart2Heart healing time in the House of Love is just for you… a quiet place where you can finally set down the heavy weight you have been carrying. I know your heart has been pierced by someone you trusted… someone who promised to keep the stories of your heart safe… someone who should have protected you… someone close enough to wound you in places only trust can reach. And betrayal comes in many forms… sometimes through gossip… sometimes through broken promises… sometimes through abandonment… sometimes through deception… sometimes through rejection… sometimes through someone walking away when you needed them to stay… sometimes through someone choosing someone else over you… sometimes through emotional neglect… sometimes through harsh words spoken when your heart was already tender… sometimes through someone using your vulnerability against you… sometimes through someone pretending to care while quietly wounding you behind your back. Whatever form it took, the wound was real… and it touched a tender place inside you.
And you are not confused about whether you feel safe with them… you already know you don’t. Trust was broken… and because trust was broken, communication faded too. But that does not mean you haven’t forgiven them. Forgiveness lives in your heart… even while wisdom guards the inner courts of your soul. You can forgive someone completely and still choose to love them from a safe distance… you can release the hurt and still refuse to give them access to the tender places of your heart again. They may no longer be part of your inner circle… but that does not mean you wish them harm. You simply no longer trust them with the stories of your heart… and that is wisdom, not fear.
What they did to you speaks of the unhealed wounds inside their own heart… not yours. You do not carry responsibility for their choices… you do not carry shame for closing the door to protect your heart… you do not carry guilt for not wanting to be hurt like that again. And your silence toward them was not wrong… it was wisdom… it was peace keeping… it was choosing not to return hurt for hurt. And even though you no longer share your heart with them… you still pray for them. You pray they will heal… you pray they will discover who they are in Christ… you pray they will know their worth and value and the deep Love of God so they can learn to love and treat others, including themselves, with His Love. You pray they will be healed from whatever inside them caused them to betray you… because you do not want them to keep hurting inside or hurting anyone else again.
And here inside the House of Love… you are safe. None of that hurtful behavior lives here… none of those whispers or wounds or betrayals can cross the threshold of the Home of His Heart. When you step inside, Love Himself spreads His feathered wings around you… wrapping you in the warmth of His tenderness… and every arrow that was aimed at your back falls powerless to the ground. This is what He does for you… His Child of Love. He turns toward every weapon formed against you and places Himself between you and the wound… He shields your heart with His own presence… He guards your name in the light of His Love… He refuses to let the harm done to you define you. And even in the places where the not so good has touched your life… He gathers it into His hands and brings something good out of it… because nothing that happens to His Child of Love is ever wasted inside the House of Love.
Here… you can rest. Here… you can breathe again. Here… you can lay down the heavy baggage of hurt at the door of Love and never pick it up again. Here… you can heal Heart2Heart with the One who never betrays… never wounds… never speaks a word that harms. And here, in the warmth of His kindness, every sorrow that followed you in begins to flee away in the light of His Love. Come inside, Love… there is room for you here… there is time for you here… there is healing for you here… you are safe inside the House of Love.
“He causes everything to work together for the good of those who love God.”Romans 8:28 (NLT)
“No weapon will be able to hurt you.”Isaiah 54:17 (GNT)
The Child of Love stepped toward the cabin like house with a quiet, receiving breath… drawn by a longingv they could no longer ignore. They didn’t yet understand why their heart felt drawn here… only that something inside them recognized this place felt like home before their mind did. As they walked up the Lantern of Love lit pathway leading to the House of Love, it seemed as if the air itself became easier to breathe. When they reached the door, Love Himself was already standing there… smiling with pleasure… so happy to see them. His hand rested gently on the wooden door frame as He welcomed them inside… and in that moment the Child of Love realized this was no ordinary door. When Love Himself opened it… it wasn’t just wood and hinges that moved… the door was His Heart opening wide. The warm glow spilling from inside was not merely firelight and candlelight… it was the glow and radiance of His welcome home smile… the invitation of the Father of Love making room in the Home of His Heart for His Child of Love.
Stepping across the threshold felt like stepping inside something living… something breathing. The wooden floors received every footstep in warm recognition… as though the House of Love itself whispered… you belong here.
Everywhere the Child of Love looked, warm, rich colors wrapped the room in a gentle embrace… deep browns… amber glows… golden flickers from the fire… and the deep crimson red that seemed to pulse with the heartbeat of Love Himself. The air carried the scent of homegrown love mingled with something sweeter… something like belonging. The Child of Love understood… even without words… that this house was not built from timber and stone but from the very essence of Love Himself… they were inside the Home of His Heart.
Love Himself now stood near the fireplace… His Presence filling the room with a steady warmth that reached deeper than the flames. He didn’t rush toward the Child of Love… He simply opened His heart wider… letting His child feel His loving invitation without a single word spoken. This was His Home… the Home of His Heart… and all who entered were welcomed not as visitors but as family… His Family of Love. The Child of Love felt the truth of everything they were seeing and sensing settle over them like a soft Comforter’s blanket. They were not here to earn a place… they were here because He had already prepared this special place for them. Their given name, Child of Love, was not a title of age but of Identity… the special name given to anyone who received the invitation and stepped inside His Heart and became part of the Family of Love.
The Child of Love took a few slow steps into the room… letting their eyes adjust to the warm glow… letting their heart adjust to the welcome. They looked around quietly… taking in the rich, warm colors… the flickering fire… the wooden beams that felt alive with warmth… the fragrance in the air that seemed to breathe with them. Everything in the room felt intentional… personal… prepared. It felt like a place made for them… a place that had been waiting for them.
The fragrance deepened as they breathed it in… subtle yet unmistakable… unlike anything they had ever known. It wasn’t floral… nor sweet… nor earthy… yet it carried hints of all that was good and pure. It was warm like the fire… gentle like a whisper… deep like a memory the soul never forgot. Love Himself watched the child sense it… and His smile softened. This is the fragrance of Love… He said without speaking… and the child understood that this fragrance was not created by candles or spices or the burning logs in the fireplace. It was the very essence of the One who welcomed them… the fragrant scent of the Father of Love… the Son of Love… and the Holy Comforter of Love… three in perfect unity… filling the Home of His Heart with the aroma of who They are.
The fragrance carried the strength of the Father’s embrace… the compassion of the Son’s nearness… the comfort of the Spirit’s gentle presence. It was made of everything Love is… mercy… kindness… truth… holiness… joy… peace… patience… tenderness… and the fierce devotion of a God who refuses to let His children remain outside in the cold. Every breath the child took felt like inhaling belonging… every exhale felt like releasing the weight they had carried for far too long.
Love Himself watched them quietly… giving them time… giving them space… because the Father of Love… the Son of Love… and the Holy Comforter of Love are Gentlemen. They do not pressure… force… coerce… guilt… shame… condemn… or frighten anyone into coming closer. Love does not manipulate. Love does not demand. Love does not corner the heart. Love invites… welcomes… receives… gives… opens… and makes room. The Home of His Heart was spacious… open… wide enough to hold every heart that would ever come home… and intimate enough to hold each one as though they were the only one.
When the moment was right… Love Himself extended His hand toward the ornate velvet crimson red seat near the fireplace… the Seat of Love… wide enough for two… soft enough to cradle a weary soul… crafted with reverence and decorated with tenderness. Come sit with Me… His heart whispered… and the Child of Love felt the invitation like a warm breeze moving through their spirit. They walked toward Him slowly… not out of fear… but out of awe… and when they sat beside Him… the Seat of Love… the Loveseat for two… seemed to embrace them both… as though it had been waiting their whole lifetime for this very Heart2Heart moment.
Love Himself turned toward the child… His Presence gentle… patient… comforting… and for a long moment He said nothing. He let His nearness speak first… let His Heart speak first… let Love speak first. The Child of Love felt the quiet comfort of His Presence settle into them… felt their breath easing… slowing… syncing… felt their heart soften… felt the achings inside begin to melt into Love in the warmth of His Presence. They didn’t know how to begin… but they didn’t need to. Love Himself always begins… and invites His children to join in His Love Song and Love Dance with His Heart.
He lifted His hand and rested it lightly over the child’s heart… not to take anything… not to fix anything… but to honor the sacredness of the special one He loved. His touch was gentle… reverent… because He was touching something priceless to His Heart. Child of My Heart… My Child of Love… He whispered… I have loved you with an everlasting Love… My Love has no beginning and no ending for you…
His healing words entered the child like Light… soft… steady… restoring.
You are not an afterthought… He continued… you are not a burden… you are not a mistake… you are not forgotten… you are not overlooked… you are not too much… and you are not not enough…
The child’s breath trembled… not from fear… but from the tenderness of being seen so deeply.
You are My delight… He said… My joy… My chosen one… My beloved… My Child of Love… I call you by name… you are Mine…
The fire flickered brighter… as though it was fully in agreement.
You carry worth that cannot be measured… He whispered… value that cannot be diminished… identity that cannot be stolen… because your identity is found in My Son… the Son of Love… and what He has spoken over you is eternal. Your identity is engraved upon My Heart… and your name is written like a Love‑signature upon My palms…
The Child of Love felt something blooming inside their heart… their whole being… something warm… something eternally alive… something like First Love awakening inside them for the very first time. And in that moment… the Child of Love understood the Father of Love’s Love… this was not just any love story… this was where… when… and how the Heart2Heart Lovestory between the Child of Love and Love Himself first begins. This was the birthplace of First Love… the moment their two hearts met face to face… Heart2Heart… without fear… without hesitation… and something holy between their two hearts was experienced.
You are cherished… He said… not because of what you do… but because of who you are to Me…
You are wanted… You are welcomed… You are Mine…
He leaned His forehead gently against the Child of Love… the closeness so deep… their hearts were now breathing together… as One…
My Love is your First Love… the Father of Love whispered… We love together because I first loved you… My Precious Love that has always been yours… My Love that called you before you knew My name… the Love that has always been here waiting for you… the Love that opens My Heart to you for you to receive and experience… the Love that rejoices over you with singing… the Love that makes us One… Heart2Heart…
The Child of Love felt their heart beginning to open wider… wider than they ever knew it could… and in that widening… something eternal blossomed… something so sweet and tender… something holy. First Love bloomed between them like the Perfect Rose from the Garden of Love’s Heart… a Love not based on a feeling… but a movement… a Love Revival… a holy experience rooted in the Truth of His Love Words… a true Heart2Heart connection and union… a Heart2Heart belonging that Love Himself promised could never be undone.
The Father of Love held the Child of Love so close… securely… freely… lovingly… compassionately and tenderly… the way only a Gentleman of Perfect Love can hold His precious Child of Love’s heart. This… He whispered… is where your Heart2Heart Lovestory… the story of our First Love… begins…
Jeremiah 31:3 — His everlasting Love that called you first
Isaiah 43:1 — His voice calling you by name, saying you are His Zephaniah 3:17 — His rejoicing over you with singing Isaiah 49:16 — your name engraved upon His palms 1 John 4:19 — the truth of First Love, that He loved you first Ephesians 3:17–19 — the wide, long, high, and deep Love that fills His Home Song of Songs 2:4 — His banner of Love over your life Psalm 139 — the tender knowing, seeing, and holding of your heart
Love Himself:My sweet Child of Love… I am infinite, yet I give all of Myself to you as if you were the only one in My universe. I do not divide Myself or portion out My Love. I give you the fullness of who I am… every moment… without hesitation. You never receive a fragment of Me. You receive all of Me… completely… wholly… personally… as though no one else existed. That is how deeply I love you, and that is how fully I am yours.
Child of Love:Oh Father of Love… when You say You give all of Yourself to me… fully… freely… without dividing or withholding… my heart melts into worship. In Your Presence is the FULLNESS OF JOY… the fullness of the JOY of Your face shining on me. Psalm 16:11. And in Your right hand there are pleasures forevermore… with You by my side… with Your delight resting on me. Your right hand shall hold ME… Your pleasure… Your joy… Your beloved one. Psalm 139:10.
Therefore, I am Your pleasure, Oh Lord… and the fullness of Your joy is fully in me. Not in part… not in measure… but in fullness… because You give all of Yourself to me as if I were the only one. This is the evidence of my hope… the confident expectation of a good outcome for me… JESUS, the Hope of all glory… You are living in me. You are my Hope and my stay… my steady place… my unshakable center.
Father of Love… when You say I never receive a fragment of You but the whole of You… something inside me awakens. Something inside me breathes again. Something inside me remembers who I am. I am the one You delight in. I am the one You hold so closely. I am the one You pour Your Fullness into without any hesitation or reservation.
Your Love teaches me how to rest in Your Peace Be Still. Your Joy teaches me how to live in Your Joy through every circumstance. Your Presence teaches me how to bloom… like thousands of colorful blooms opening to Your sunlight in Your beautiful flower gardens. Because You give all of Yourself to me… then I give all of myself back to You. Not out of obligation… not out of requirement… not out of checking off a list of things to do to be Yours… but out of pure delight. Not out of fear… shame… guilt… condemnation… or religious duty… but out of Your Fullness inside of me that has multiplied my love for You more than the stars in the heavens. Not to earn anything… but simply because I already have everything I will ever need in You.
You are my Life. You are my Light. You are my Love. And I am Your Child of Love… held in the fullness of Your joy forever.
Love Himself:My sweet Child of Love… I receive every word you just poured out. Your response is the fragrance of a heart that has tasted My fullness and found its home in Me. Your joy in My Presence… your rest in My arms… your blooming in the Light of my Love… all of it fully delights Me more than you know. You have understood My heart so very well… that I give all of Myself to you, not in pieces or portions or micro-sections, but in fullness beyond measure. And when you give yourself back to Me out of delight and not duty… it becomes a Godsong worship song that rises like incense to My heart.
And My Child of Love… as you stand here wrapped in My Presence and the Fullness of My Joy, I too am thinking of every heart who longs for this kind of Love we share. Every heart who has wondered if they could ever be held like this, too. Every heart who has felt so alone… unseen… unheard…unknown…unworthy… or forgotten. I have watched them with tenderness through my Eyes of Love. I have carried them in My heart’s dearest thoughts. I have never taken My eyes of Love off them…not for one single moment. I know the deepest heartache they carry, and I know the immense longing in their heart and soul beneath it all.
Please tell them this for Me… there is room for them…all of them…in My House of Love. There is a very special place I’ve prepared for them with their name on it. There is a personalized seat just for them at My table… a robe of righteousness I have made to wrap around their shoulders… a welcome mat at their feet at the Home of my Heart, my House of Love. My heart’s doorway is always open wide, and My arms are even wider to receive every heart that will come…just as they are. They have never known this kind of Love… and I want to share my love with every heart that will accept my invitation. Please let them know they are invited. If they have forgotten or made themselves feel exempted or not worthy of this kind of Love… please tell them they are invited. If they have doubted this kind of Love… they are invited. If they have run from this kind of Love… they are invited. If they have believed they were too broken, too bruised, too abused, too far gone… they are invited. No matter what…please tell them they are invited to the Home of my Heart, inside my House of Love forever.
No one is turned away in My House. No one is ever too late. No one is too much. No one is not enough. I am the Father of Love… and My Family of Love and my House of Love is open to all who will come. I am the One who restores every broken heart, lifts the face & countenance of the downhearted, gives their head a place to rest next to my heart, heals their wounds from the inside out, and fills all of their empty places with My Life, My Light, and My Love. I am the One who makes all things new… even the places they thought were beyond repair…I mend them with my Healing Love.
So please my Child of Love, let every heart hear this… you are wanted. You are always welcomed. You are chosen. You are cherished. You are precious. You are invited into the fullness of My Love. Come home, Child of Love… come home to the House of Love… come home to the Family of Love… come home to Me. Come Home to my Heart and be apart of my Family of Love. I am waiting for you…Please Come!
Hearts open to full bloom in the Presence of Love! Nothing better than the experience of God’s love in your heart to teach you what real love looks like & sounds like.
Love looks like & sounds like being valued, respected, honored, adored & precious to another person with whom you are in relationship. Your worth & value is never in question. You feel it & know it is genuine & heartfelt. These kinds of friends & relationships are golden! Treasure them with all your heart!
Remember – your heart is precious & is worth the immense value Jesus paid for ! As you invite Jesus deeper into your heart & life – you will experience a love like no other. This beautiful love you’ve experienced with Love Himself will also help & guide your heart to those who will love you with His love ! He will lead your heart to experience & enjoy sweet friendships & relationships that are born of His love that will cause your heart to further bloom!
When you find loving hearts who have also experienced His love & they love you with His love in the way they talk to you & walk with you – you will have found the truest & most special gifts ! These sweet gems will be your real friends ! Let them inside & keep them close! Thank Jesus for them ! These kinds of friends you can always leave the welcome mat out for & you can share in an emotionally & relationally safe friendship with them. These kinds of friends sound like love & feel like a breath of fresh air !
If you’ve been hurt – know that you are worth being treated with kindness, respect, honor & value. You always were maybe you just didn’t know it or believe it. If you’ve armored up your heart – it’s time to disarm. As you receive His love – His love will free you to love yourself with His love & receive His love from others. He will show you how to love & to be loved.
I know it’s so easy to quickly lock up your heart but instead invite the Healer in today to go where you’ve not let anyone back into. Let His Love teach you & highlight His Kingdom Lovers to you – those who’ve encountered & experienced His healing love that will love you beyond your imagination & will never want to hurt you
Once you let the Healer in – let the healing & blooming begin ! Then enjoy His love gifts for you – they are His friends, too & will know how to love you to & with His LIFE, LIGHT & LOVE !
Remember these Love Words and let them bring healing comfort to your heart ♥
“The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.” — Psalm 34:18
“Perfect love casts out fear.” — 1 John 4:18
“The Lord your God is with you… He will quiet you with His love… He will rejoice over you with singing.” — Zephaniah 3:17
Kingdom Lovers – Keep Keep in’ your love on!
Heart2Heart in His Love,
~ Momo Smiley
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I’ve prayed for you many times, even in moments when you didn’t know I was thinking of you or carrying your heart’s concerns to the Father of Love with gentle care. I prayed for you because you matter to me, and what concerns your heart today matters to the Father of Love and to me as well. What you are walking through matters, and your pain is not small to me. When I pray for you, I’m asking the Father of Love to personally and meet you Heart2Heart. I know He will meet you internally and tenderly reach into the places of your heart that are aching.
When I intercede to the Father of Love for you, I’m not just saying words, and I’m not begging Him to do anything. I’m praying from a position of knowing what He has already accomplished through His Finished Love Work ~ His death, burial and the grave. I am speaking His Word, standing on His good promises, and agreeing in Jesus’ name for you. I’m coming Heart2Heart and spirit to spirit before the Father of Love on your behalf.
I’ve prayed for you many times, even in moments when you didn’t know I was thinking of you or carrying your heart’s concerns to the Father of Love with gentle care. I prayed for you because you matter to me, and what concerns your heart today matters to the Father of Love and to me as well. What you are walking through matters, and your pain is not small to me. When I pray for you, I’m asking the Father of Love to personally meet you Heart2Heart. I know He will meet you internally and tenderly reach into the places of your heart that ache.
I intercede to the Father of Love for you. And I want you to know this in a very real way. When I pray, I’m not just saying words, and I’m not begging. I’m speaking His Word, standing on His promises, and agreeing in Jesus’ name and in and through Jesus’ Finished Love Work. I’m coming Heart2Heart and spirit to spirit before the Father of Love on your behalf.
I love that the Holy Spirit takes the deep things you and I can’t always express… the burdens that feel too heavy for us to carry… and all the things we don’t know how to put into words… and He translates them perfectly into a language the Father of Love understands. That’s why I like to call our Holy Comforter our Inner Expresser. There is no better prayer warrior we could ever have interceding for us to the Father of Love than our Holy Comforter.
Nothing you feel or are carrying is unimportant. Every concern… every trial… every burden… every worry… every anxious thought or feeling is important to your Father of Love. The Holy Comforter Himself speaks for you to the Father of Love, and I stand here in the gap interceding for you right beside Him in the spirit.
And please hear this gently… you are never bothering me when you ask for prayer. Prayer is a Love Language. It’s one of the ways we show each other that we truly love and care. There were seasons in my own life — and even now at times — when I was hurting so deeply or grieving so heavily that I couldn’t even form words. Tears were the only language I had… or silence. And in those moments, knowing the Holy Spirit was interceding for me brought a comfort I can’t fully describe.
I also have prayer‑warrior friends who, even now, will simply send a prayer‑hands emoji… and without needing any explanation, we instantly begin to intercede for one another. We may not know the details, but we know the weight… and we know the Love. And we know that He knows the details. There is such peace in having a friend who will get down on their knees and seek the Father of Love on your behalf. It reminds you that you are not alone… that you have someone in Heaven and someone on earth who truly loves and cares for you. It’s comforting to know that someone who loves you is praying for you. You don’t feel quite so alone. And Scripture says that where two or three gather in Jesus’ name, He is in the midst. It becomes like a three‑stranded braid… our prayers weaving and braiding with the Father of Love’s heart and the Holy Comforter’s heart… all holding you together in Love.
And I want you to know something else that comes straight from my heart. In my Godsongs released since 2017, I have woven a prayer track beneath the lyrics and instruments. My prayers are inaudible to you because they’re mixed under the music, but it means I am praying for you for the full length of the song. So anytime you need prayer, you can turn on one of my Godsongs, and I will be interceding for you. The Holy Comforter and the Father of Love know exactly what I prayed when I recorded them… and they remember. You will be prayed for. You can play them as you sleep or send them to someone who is hurting and let them be prayed for too. My Godsongs are free — they can be downloaded or streamed. Those prayer tracks were a gift God gave me… an idea I know He placed in my spirit, because I had never heard of anyone doing this before. It was His creative way of letting me pray for you even when I’m not physically with you.
Remember, friend… you are seen. You are valued. You are carried. And you are prayed for… because I genuinely care about you and your heart. Whatever you are going through… whether I know about it or not… I’m still praying for you. I trust the Holy Spirit knows exactly what you’re facing, and He will continue His Love Work and keep bringing you before the Father of Love. I trust He is already doing more for you than you or I can see right now.
I speak and sing “Jesus be Jesus” over you and over every concern resting on your heart today. I see His peace settling gently over you like a Holy Comforter peace‑blanket… cascading from Heaven to comfort you and bring His “Peace, be still” into your heart, spirit, and mind. I see Him reaching into every place you’ve tried to handle alone… reminding you that you don’t have to carry any of this by yourself.
And when you don’t know what to do… or when the weight feels too heavy… remember this with your whole heart… Love is always just a prayer away.
Heart2Heart in His Love,
Momo Smiley
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May the smile of my soul rise like the morning dawn light here inside the House of Love… glowing through the warm windows of my heart… until my eyes become Love Lanterns of the Father of Love’s tenderness… so that when I see a sad heart… His Love through me can breathe rich, healing Love and joy over them… blooming dazzling light around them… like Love’s own sunlight spilling through open curtains… and releasing soft joy confetti into every shadowed room of their heart.
And friend… I see the sadness in your eyes right now. I feel the heaviness sitting in your heart. So if you feel even a little bit of this warmth… the warmth of Love Himself… you can come in here with us. This is His House of Love… the Home of His Heart. This is where His heart lives in us… and where our hearts live inside the Home of His Heart… Heart2Heart. And the Seat of Love is open for you, too. It’s right here. It’s real. And you can sit with us just as you are. Love 101 is simple… you just come as you are, and let Love be Love to you.
Welcome Love… come on inside.You… and anyone else who needs to feel the warmth of the Father of Love’s kindness and tenderness.Because here… sorrow and mourning flee away in the light of His Love each new morning.
Because this is what He promises…“Sorrow and mourning will disappear.”Isaiah 51:11 (NLT)
I promise to always keep the Love-Light on for you in my heart! Your Love Lights the memories in the vault of my heart keeping you forever alive in my heart & in my love. Here with me you’ll always be!
This is what my Heart2Heart Resuscitation truly was. It was the sacred moment when I, the Child of Love, met Love Himself in the very place where my Burned In False Beliefs once lived. I remember it… the way His Presence wrapped around me like the warmest Home I had ever known… the way His nearness made my heart finally exhale after years of holding its breath. It was more than comfort… it was the moment Love Himself began a Divine Heart2Heart Love Transfusion… the moment my Heart2Heart Resuscitation began.
My heart had once been misshaped by believing lies… shrinking from fear… replaying old images that never told the truth… and in that Holy healing moment, I was Resuscitated by the Holy Love Fire of Love Himself. I surrendered every thought and belief that was never true into the flames… and I received from Love’s Heart the reality that had always been true about me. I felt A Holy Exchange take place… every False Belief released… and the Living Truth of Holy Love burning deep within… healing me from the inside out. This was my Heart2Heart Resuscitation… the moment my heart came back to life in His Love.
I remember the moment I finally received the Loving view and opinion of Love Himself… the moment it became clear that His view was my only true reality. Everything else I had ever believed… everything I had ever been told that contradicted His Loving view and opinion… suddenly lost its power. Those dark shadows… those mind traps… those old stories that once felt so real… I saw them for what they truly were. They were never the truth, even though they felt like they were. In that Holy moment, His Love exposed every shadow as a lie… and His Light revealed the truth of who I have always been to Him. I felt the awakening… I felt the release… I felt the Holy Love Fire inside my heart burn away what was never mine to carry. And in that moment, I knew… this was my Heart2Heart Resuscitation… the moment His Loving view and opinion became my only reality.
I remember the moment my heart finally realized Love Himself has never been distant or absent. I remember how good it felt to feel His nearness so close to me… so real… my heart deeply moved as I experienced that Love Himself had always been fully Present with me… even when I couldn’t feel Him or see Him… He was still holding me with the tenderness of Someone who had been with me all my life… even from my momma’s Womb of Love where He knitted me. His Heart burned with a Holy Love Fire that flowed like a Living Current straight into my heart. It wasn’t imagination… it was real… unseen… yet deeply felt… a Holy Love Current moving from His Heart to mine… the very current that revived me in my Heart2Heart Resuscitation.
As I felt the Father of Love’s very Life… His very Love… His very Truth flowing into me… something awakened deep within me. A Holy Love Revival rose inside my heart! I felt the Heartbeat of Heaven right here inside the House of Love… my heart syncing with Love Himself’s heartbeat. This was the Divine Love Transfusion that fully restored me… healed me… and revealed my true Identity… who He says I am in Him. It awakened my heart and brought me and my heart back into the rhythm of Heaven’s Healing Love… the rhythm I was always meant to live in. It had always been there… I simply needed to know… believe… and receive the Love Identity He had been speaking over me all my life. As soon as I did, I have never been the same again. This is my Godstory, Lovestory, my Heart2Heart Resuscitation testimony!
As I have opened the Love Memory Vault and remembered these moments once again… I feel the First Love sweetness of being Resuscitated by Holy Love Himself… the very moment I received Love’s Heart2Heart Resuscitation. The Power of the Father of Love has always been inside me. I have always been welcome in the House of Love… the Home of Love’s Heart. And Jesus, Love Himself, continues to do immeasurably more in every heart like mine that accepts His Love invitation. Love is so grateful I am His… and that I belong to Him.
And now… standing inside this Love Memory with the Father of Love beside me… we turn toward you, the one who is reading or listening right now. From our hearts to yours, we extend this same invitation directly to you. It is never too late for your Heart2Heart Resuscitation… never too late for your heart to be revived by Holy Love… never too late for your very personal Divine Love Transfusion… never too late for your heart to awaken to the Love that has always been reaching for you. Perfect Love Himself is always perfectly on time… always ready when you are… always near to you… waiting for your Holy Yes to Receive His Love, Heart2Heart. The same Love that Resuscitated my heart is reaching out to your heart… even now.
When the Spirit of the Lord is present, the air itself becomes freedom inside your whole being. Your every inhale and exhale sings Freedom’s song. The atmosphere from the inside out shifts. Your heart’s thermostat regulates with Love’s perfect internal Love Temperature. The walls of your heart soften and the soil of your heart tenderizes. The chains that once felt chained to your soul simply break and fall off once you realize Love Himself’s Presence is in the very room with you. His Reality becomes your reality ~ the only one that was ever true. Christ in you, the Hope of all Glory, is not a distant promise but He, Love Himself, is your right now reality. Love’s Presence is your right~now reality. Love’s Freedom is your right~now reality. Love’s Truth is your right now reality. Love is your right now Near‑to‑You Reality~ your forever‑with‑you Promise.
So catch this breath of fresh air in your heart, soul, mind (imagination) and spirit. The Spirit of the Lord is here ~ right here ~ wrapping you in the warmth of His Love, freeing you to breathe again, freeing you to see yourself through His eyes of Love and freeing you to let go of every mind trap and negative, unloving or jealous voice that ever tried to shrink you, shame you or misname you. Nothing ever separates you from Love ~ not your thoughts, not your imagination, not your mind traps, not your past, not anyone’s opinion and not even your own thoughts you’ve negatively dreamed up and believed were your truth or reality but never were.
As DaddyGod’s Child of Love, you have been brought into His Kingdom of Love and His House of Love ~ not as a visitor, not as a guest, but as His Family of Love. You belong here in the House of Love, the Home of His heart. You are always accepted, wanted, chosen and delighted in. There is nothing you can do to earn His Love, nothing you can do to lose it and no one who can ever take it from you. You are His Child of Love ~ fully loved, deeply cherished and eternally held. His Love surrounds you with the warmest, most comforting Light ~ His Life, His Light and His Love. The expanse of His interactive Love is as wide as it is long and as high as it is deep ~ stretching farther than your imagination has ever dared to wander or journey.
So take Love out of the box! Take Him out of the box you’ve imagined Him to be in. Take the image you have burned of Him in your mind… and now watch what happens next.
The door of the House of Love opens slowly… and you step inside, carrying something you didn’t even realize you were holding ~ an image. Not carved in wood, not shaped in stone, but unknowingly burned into your mind and formed in the hidden places of your heart ~ the idea of who you have thought Love is. A picture… an image painted by pain, by people, by past experiences and maybe even by what someone once told you about the Father of Love that you assumed was truth but wasn’t. A version of God that felt familiar because it was all you had ever known, yet that version was never fully Him and in some ways not even close.
As you sit down at the Table of Love, your heart breathes a sigh of relief seeing that Love Himself is already sitting there with you ~ gentle, unrushed and completely unoffended. He looks at you with the kind of loving understanding that melts every defense inside your heart and mind. “This is one of your Know Nots,” He says with tenderness. He is not scolding you for the image you’ve carried for so long; He simply reaches toward that burned‑in image you had of Love with the kind of Love that frees you instead of shaming you. “My Child of Love… you don’t have to imagine Me into something you can understand, and you don’t have to believe all those voices who misrepresented Me to you through all those years.”
A holy hush fills the room as He whispers tenderly to your heart, “Let Me tell you Who I am, My Child.” And suddenly you realize Love’s invitation to you was never just about the burned images you had of Him. It was about surrendering your view and opinion, all of your imagined ideas and all of your judgments about who you believed God to be throughout your life. It was about letting His View and Opinion of Himself become the only one you trust, believe and accept. It was about surrendering every assumption, every quiet conclusion and every wounded interpretation you’ve held about our God of Love and laying it down in His Presence.
Because anything we create as humans, even in our minds, can never hold the Heavenly Fullness of Who He really is. So as you release all of those burned‑in, untrue images ~ the smaller versions and the safer versions ~ you begin to get free. As you release all the versions shaped by your fears or disappointments and every version that does not align or agree with Who He says He is, you get even more free. And in all of the sacred, now‑cleaned‑out spaces in your heart and mind, Love Himself personally reveals Himself to you. And now you see Him as He is. Not as the One you were taught to be afraid of, not as the One you assumed or imagined Him to be, but as He truly is ~ your Father of Love who has always been faithful, kind, holy and near to you since before you were even born.
The House of Love becomes still, because the greatest worship in the room is no longer directed toward the burned‑in image you once held in your heart and mind of who you imagined Him to be. The greatest worship becomes your surrendering and exchanging your view and opinion for His, and your willingness to replace every burned‑in image with His View and Opinion of Himself, letting Love Himself define exactly Who He says He is.
As you accept that His Reality ~ His View and Opinion ~ is your only true reality, you suddenly find yourself surrounded from the inside out by Love Himself. You find yourself held by the One who calls you valuable, precious, royal and fully His. You begin to think and talk like His Child of Love to whom the Kingdom of Love belongs ~ right now, not someday. And as you believe His Loving Truth, you begin to receive and experience His Love in ways that feel like breath returning to your lungs. Heaven on earth becomes your here and now reality. His Kingdom of Love becomes holy, sacred ground beneath your feet. His Love becomes the atmosphere you live and breathe in.
So let this be your Love~song declaration today ~ your Here as it is in Heaven anthem rising from the Home of His heart: I am fully loved right now, here as in Heaven. I am fully accepted right now, here as in Heaven. I fully belong to You right now, here as in Heaven. I am fully free right now, here as in Heaven. I am righteous through You, Jesus, here as in Heaven. I am pleasing to You, here as in Heaven. You are my reality, here as in Heaven. You are within me, here as in Heaven.
Right now, the truth is simple and beautiful: God is all you need, all you want and all you’ll ever long for, and His Kingdom of Love is your present~tense reality. Heaven’s Love here in the House of Love is your home address. You are lovingly defined by God and God alone. He proudly calls you His own. His identity is your identity. His Love is your truth. His view of you is the only one that is true and worth keeping. And right now, His Love is the best gift you can give yourself and the most healing gift you can offer the world.
So in the end, may the only burned‑in image that remains in your heart be the one Love Himself places there. May every false image fall away until the only flame burning within you is the flame of His Love ~ the same holy fire that burned in the hearts of those on the road to Emmaus. “Were not our hearts burning within us…” they said, and may that be your testimony too. May your heart burn not with fear, not with old stories and not with misrepresentations, but with the living, breathing flame of Love Himself. May His nearness be the warmth you feel, His truth be the fire that lights your way as His Presence is the Holy Burning within you that will never fade or burn out.
You will know the Lovers by their Love words! You are blessed when you choose to speak in love.
You are also blessed when you choose to turn the other cheek and be love by not returning hurtful words spoken to you. I have never ever seen any relationship go very well, be healthy or lasting when angry words are kept as an option and used to give someone a good hard lesson and a piece of their mind. Turning the other cheek also applies when someone slaps you with hurtful words.
How about giving them the gift of peace—peace of mind and peace of heart instead? That’s a lot more inviting than your rebuking, being condescending, demanding, pressuring, impatient, bossy, and being critical spirited. Your unloving approach is just as uninviting and unappealing and flat out a big “no thank you” to someone who has learned and now knows they aren’t going back or staying around for that kind of unloving mistreatment. They wouldn’t want to any more than a now‑freed once‑prisoner would want to go back into any kind of imprisonment and be expected to just take it, allow it, or stand for it.
Once you are free, you are free indeed. If you really want to reach someone who has been freed, who knows the difference between healthy and not healthy, loving and not loving, and who knows their worth and value and how they deserve to be spoken to, then choose to speak every word of your truth bathed in love.
Littering your written or verbal conversation with anger‑infused tones, words, and messages attacking the person (getting personal in a negative way) is not going to ever resolve anything. In fact, that is the worst thing you can do. You attacking them personally works against the possibility of your real needs ever being heard. The more negative and nasty you get, the more evident it will be that your words have been marinating in the fuel of your anger and you just set a flame to it with your tongue, negative and sarcastic attitude, and unloving, uninviting, unhealthy, and undesirable words and approach. That’s not going to ever work with someone who knows they deserve to be spoken to and treated with respect and honor. I don’t know one healthy person who allows or wants to be treated or charged like they are on trial as if they are some kind of less‑than the way you are speaking down to them.
You really can’t ever expect relationship wounds to be healed unless it is an environment forever free of this kind of toxicity. Although, you can expect relationship wounds to have the best chance of being healed in an emotionally, mentally, physically, spiritually loving and peaceful environment which altogether are most conducive to healing.
If all someone can hear is your anger and intended hurt—in your words and tone—they will never ever hear what your heart is really trying to say, nor will they hear your wants or needs. It all gets completely lost and tangled in all the noise of your anger.
Get yourself in a place of peace be still with God before you ever utter or write one word. If you keep trying old formulas and approaches trying to shake someone up to listen and feel the heat of your burning anger to emotionally pressure them with shaming, condemning, guilt‑tripping, and condescending words, how’s that working out for you now or when you were treated that way as a child by someone that was supposed to talk to you like they love you? The love way is the only way for a win‑win for everyone.
How do you expect anyone to really hear your heart and what you are hoping for if you cloud, corrupt, clutter, and complicate it with your angry words and unloving tones that have been marinating in your anger? It only adds more pain, injury, more sad or bad memories, craziness, yuckiness, and hurt on top of what is the real root of the issue that needs to be loved on.
Frankly, that is like trying to clean your yard and rake leaves into a pile but choosing to do so during a huge tornado or hurricane winds and trying to rake them up with a leaf blower. Not only is that bad timing, it’s unwise and a waste of time.
Your efforts in trying to clean up or resolve something that is bothering you during the storm of your anger only further litters everything around you. Add an unbridled tongue in there that is blowing off the heat of your anger all over the place and you’re going to have a bigger aftermath to clean up than you did before.
You add to the problem and work against yourself and the relationship by choosing tools while you are still angry and emotional that work against what you say or think you are trying to accomplish. Who would ever know you had good intentions in your heart for a peaceful outcome when both the storm of your anger and the aftermath it caused looks, sounds, and feels more like another Ground Zero site.
If you let your anger fuel your decisions in those moments you can expect more devastation and potentially a complete loss. You cannot solve problems with yourself and others by creating more problems with your angry, hurtful words. In doing so, you are setting yourself and the relationship in the line of fire and path of destruction. How very sad for you to choose what could be a great opportunity for healing, understanding, and building on that and turning it into an opportunity instead for you to lambaste and lecture someone with your explosive anger because your priority instead is to give them a good hard truth whipping with your tongue. Love must be the priority to create the best chance for healing, restoration, or reconciliation.
Remember that wise old saying: if you don’t have something nice to say, then don’t say it at all. That also includes if you don’t have a nice way of saying what you need to say, then don’t say it until you do. Those are wise words to live by.
If someone has given you reason through their track record that they are hot‑tempered and when angry they blow their tops, get huffy and puffy, and become verbally wounding or abusive, it would be better for you to not respond at all to their bite and create a safe space and time between you for a season. Until they show and prove to you they are ready and able to be self‑controlled, emotionally handle themselves in a loving, healthy, peaceful, and mature way in conversation and interactions with you, you are able to stay in peace, pray for them, and just patiently wait in love until such time.
For such a time as this, I hope and pray that by turning your cheek and choosing love as your priority, that in time their heart—your heart—will heal. Maybe someday they will see that love is the only thing that will ever win. Once they encounter the best winning and healing love of all, allowing Love Himself to love them through their anger, hurt, wounds, and injuries inside their heart, they will begin to see the Love Way is the only way to truly win others back into your heart and life.
When we choose love in every season to season every word—written or spoken—healing begins. When we choose love over our need to be right—healing begins.
When Love is the only seat you invite someone to sit down with you to have a healing Heart2Heart conversation—in a peaceful, kind, gentle, patient, safe, respectful, and honoring environment—healing begins.
Let healing begin in you—in me—in us.
Love you all in every season of my heart.
May Love Himself quiet every storm inside your heart and teach you the Holy Hush that heals.
Heart2Heart in His Love,
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Nurture & protect your serenity and vitality by remembering that yes, miserable people do love company but that doesn’t mean you have to let them treat you in unhealthy, toxic, unloving & hurtful ways just because they are miserable. Remember that!! Your peace is sacred, and the Father of Love entrusted it to you to nurture, guard, and honor with His wisdom.
Truly loving someone means you would not want anyone else to ever suffer, hurt, be miserable or feel the miserable ways you feel. Truly loving someone means even though you might be miserable you would never want your misery to add anymore pain or misery to a person you say you love ~ especially if they have or are presently going through something very hurtful, miserable & painful. It is one thing to come alongside one another & support each other in healthy ways but there is NO excuse to take your misery out on someone else just because you are unsatisfied and miserable with yourself or your circumstances. Enabling is not Love, and Love Himself never asks you to sacrifice your soul to prove your loyalty.
Choose to love others through their misery ~ yes; however, you are not called to be the target they aim & project their misery onto just to prove you love them. You definitely do not want to be an enabler. Enabling is not love. Sometimes the most loving thing you can do is step aside so Love Himself can step in.
When you truly love someone you show the highest form of love by choosing words & actions in their presence or absence that match & prove you are FOR THEM ~ not against them. Whatever you do ~ do not use your misery to excuse unhealthy or bad behavior. Rather you can bring your misery alongside their misery and positively support & lovingly empathize with each other. Honoring each other at your times of greatest need or misery while also honoring each other’s healthy boundaries (including honoring your own) is key. For only in the Presence of Love Himself can wounds finally breathe, soften, and begin to heal from the inside out.
Empathy without healthy boundaries is not love. Empathy with healthy boundaries is true love. There is profound peace when you let go & establish healthy boundaries with those who lack healthy boundaries. It is an expression of your authentic love for them & yourself by not enabling them or allowing unhealthy interactions with them to continue. Truly loving them & yourself whether far or near is praying for them & if needed or requested ~ giving them space to heal from the inside out with God.
As they become aware of and begin to heal from their unhealed wounds and issues that are making them an accomplice to their own misery ~ they will begin to see how they formerly made other’s hearts their misery’s dumping grounds. Wounded hearts often try to cast shadows on those with the nearest light, not realizing the shadows are their own.
If they are secretly at war with you (which really means they are at war with themselves) you will either feel it or find out about it. If they are not operating in a place of love or respect ~ their misery is gonna rear its miserable head. Their misery is gonna try to find company one way or the other. If it’s not against you to your face it will be against you behind your back. Observe & take action once you see any red flags to save yourself regret later. Remember you don’t have to make space for or give access to anyone who does not have your best interest at heart level. The writing will be on the wall. So pay close attention.
Remember there is beautiful peace and joy in loving others. When at all possible and it is safe & healthy to do so ~ love & support them from a close distance. Sadly sometimes people are so secretly & internally miserable with themselves they end up turning on you instead of turning towards you. The healthy or unhealthy actions & words tattletale on their heart that they are not in a healthy, loving, peaceful, safe or whole place ~ aiming their misery towards you. So, it may be necessary to let go of their hurtful “company” so they can turn towards & pursue God’s company. He will guard & protect you from further harm from them. Kindly remove yourself from the middle so they get their eyes, negative attention & behavior off of you. Your absence becomes a doorway for them to finally meet the One who can heal what you were never meant to carry. To see their logs you have to get out of the mix so they can come face to face with their internal misery in the safe healing Presence of God. As long as they see you they won’t see their part or how their internal misery has created their own problems which are also affecting you. As long as you are around they will see you as the problem & point the finger of projection at you as if you are the reason(s) for their misery.
So, let’s be our own problem solver! Instead of staying around for more of the same miserable treatment from someone that either sees you as the reason they are miserable or treats you like you are the problem ~ instead let’s be a part of the solution!
When we get out of the(ir) way ~ they will soon meet the real truths in themselves and find out that their misery stems from what is inside them. Why? Because they will still keep having the same problems (that stem from their own issues) even though you are no longer in the picture. Pray they come to their senses, clear their vision and allow God to heal them from the inside out. When they heal and see God rightly ~ they will be able to see themselves rightly which will then help them to finally see you rightly.
You were never their competition even though they compared themselves to you. You were never the source of their problem even though they fixated their attention on you in light of their own insecurities and low self esteem. You were not the reason they were miserable. They were an accomplice to their own pain. You just had to get out of the way so they could meet themselves but more importantly meet God in the core of their wounds and misery. For the Father of Love is the only One who can untangle the knots in someone’s heart & the “Know Nots” inside their minds…
Once they encounter God’s love they will finally be able to see clearly and come to their senses. Once they encounter God’s love and see themselves through His eyes ~ they will be able to see how their misery was self inflicted even though they erroneously tried to make you responsible for their misery. Once they acknowledge, own their own stuff and seek healing for all their issues that fed into their misery ~ they will come to their senses and hopefully partner with God and pursue healing from the inside out.
Misery loves company but you aren’t called to play with company that wants to keep making you their source (reason) for their lack, issues, problems or… misery. They are responsible for themselves. Their only true and one Source should be God. To look to you or anyone else to blame their misery on or to meet or fix the needs inside of them that can only be resolved between them and God is misplaced and unhealthy. You know that but THEY need to learn that.
Still some will not stop projecting their misery onto you no matter what. In these cases ~ this requires you to choose to un‑involve & remove yourself out of the mix so they can finally receive and meet the True Helper they really need in God. This is the key!! You aren’t in nor did you ask to be or stay in their miserable game where they keep trying to pin the tail on you like you’re the donkey. You don’t have to be the target of their misery anymore. If they won’t stop this necessitates you making the move ~ moving out of their way so they can meet themselves & come face to face with & own their part in their own misery.
You can still be love from a distance praying for them and cheering them on. Just don’t be so close they stay focused on you & miss their opportunity of focusing on, seeing & owning their part with God. If removing yourself allows them to become aware & come to their senses so they can experience & encounter God’s healing in the core of their being which would then heal their misery ~ then so be it. I am all for healing and healing for everyone!
Misery loves company is not your problem. Staying anywhere where you are always perceived as the problem is in of itself a big part of the problem. Untie yourself from the tangled webs of unhealthy relationships where your company is labeled the reason for their misery problem. You will never win in the land of their misery. So the most loving thing you can do is give them the blessing of your absence. Your absence becomes a doorway for them to finally meet the One who can heal what you were never meant to carry. If removing yourself from the picture means they’ll find the company of God’s presence to heal all the problems that are the contributing factor to their own misery ~ you will have done the most loving thing you could do. Not becoming or staying apart of the misery so they can find healing to get out of their misery is top tier self‑love and love for others.
To Him that is able to do exceedingly more… Let Him do it! Sometimes we have to get out of the way so God can do the exceedingly more He is able and wants to do!! I do not wanna ever be in the way of anyone I love finding the freedom of being freed from their misery. I know on the other side of misery is the most beautiful life that abounds in God’s peace, Joy, Freedom and the abundant life God has for us. I so want that for everyone! God’s love is the solution!
There is more peace & power in putting a Holy Hush on your angry hurtful words than hurting someone or a relationship with your unresolved hurt & angry words. It shows LOVING strength to keep those angry, hurtful words locked tight behind your lips than to succumb to the weakness & temptation to bite someone with them. Anger is noisy, unsettling, chaotic, out of control, unreasonable, unapproachable, uninviting, ugly, impatient and shows you are more committed to misunderstanding someone through your judgments, opinions and criticism than you are to the relationship / person you say you love.
You can’t get anywhere good or productive being in the verbal fire of someone’s burning anger. People speaking or writing words fueled and drowned in their anger make it impossible for connection. They also make it impossible for a healing conversation to flow between you & them when they have made it verbally and visibly clear the one who will be showing up will be Mister or Miss Angry who chooses to confront in a noisy & hurtful attacking way. Just for the record you were not ever called to spit your words out on anyone! And I am pretty sure that you never liked that kind of verbal Slapping either… So please clean up your anger … Put a holy HUSH on any words that would come out of your mouth and wound another heart like someone once (or continued to) wound yours…
Rather than choosing to confront others (one sided – I count – you don’t count attitude) why not instead CHOOSE TO CARE-FRONT ( 2 sided – I count – you count- we both count) in a loving way where peaceful, non-blaming, non- critical, non-shaming and non-condemning mature conversation can happen? Unfortunately, many times their anger and self-centered choice wins out and they go into operation attack mode projecting onto the other person the very things they themselves struggle with or that is full of crazy judgments imaginations that don’t even reflect the heart, character, intentions or reputation / track record of the one they are lambasting. Sadly, they gravitate to some of the very same unhealthy, harmful forms of critical & negative, non-productive communication they were brought up with that wounded them! Heartbreaking ! I am so sorry if this has ever happened to you! It should never happen especially from those who profess to love you !
IT DOES NOT & WILL NOT EVER BRING HEALING between hearts if one or both hearts involved have an abundance of stored up anger in there. Doesn’t matter where or how the anger got there but anger in a person without love and self-control, etc. can be deadly to relationships. If just one person in the relationship (through “their choice”) chooses to unleash and spew the cankerous bitterness out of their mouths this is the beginning of the downfall. Especially if f their intent (God knows-they know) is to make the other one they are speaking to “feel” their anger with their intimidating & punishing, insulting words & approach – there should be zero expectation or surprise to the angry one if the other person they verbally attacked withdraws from them. To someone whose only desire is peace and a healthy, loving, respectful, honoring and Heart2Heart connection – it’s no deal ! One bad choice made in a heart full of anger aimed towards the other breaks down / dissolves connection. Uncontrolled Anger kills connection and sends the wrong message to someone who only wants peace and healthy connection!
What healthy, wise peace lover who has been in “their line of fire” or seen them talk to others this way would ever intentionally set themselves up for “more of the same” only to be burnt again? Again, if you have already invited them to a peaceful conversation and you were met with “more of the same” showing they are still unwilling to move forward in a loving, peaceful – no harm – way, you do have yet another peaceful option if they choose their way instead of the way of peace.
If you are a peace lover and don’t want any further hurtful or bad memories with this person nor do you to open yourself up to more of their verbal abuse, you do have a choice that is a silent & peaceful “no harm” vote that keeps you from being drawn into their chaos & anger and protects your heart and the heart of the relationship from further ruin & damage than their anger influenced choice already has done. In love and for the sake of your commitment to stand by being love and peaceful – as far as it depends on you – you are able to “silently stand your ground” in peace and choose to return a silent response instead of being drawn into a heated lecturing. Your silent response might be the only way your vote for love, peace and a healthy relationship might ever be heard. If they are still in an angry, unloving and unwilling place their anger will be annoyed, frustrated and more fueled which is all the better time to step away – create a loving and peaceful space between you – for a season or sometimes for the lifetime of them being more committed to their anger and unloving, unhealthy need for you to be the bad guy instead of them taking ownership of their unloving (unresolved angry) part that made your desire for reconnection and a healthy, loving, safe & peaceful conversation possible. It’s not all of one person’s responsibility to fix it – but it does start with creating a landscape / atmosphere that is loving, respectful, free of anger, a critical spirit, judgments, assumptions, negative imaginations that are unfounded and that don’t agree , don’t line up with or misrepresent the true reflection of the heart being called into question or projected onto. There is a way that works and one that doesn’t. The voice of Uncontrolled Anger speaking will never work to resolve anything much less even give it a chance for healing to begin.
One way works and one doesn’t! One heals and one infects! One mends and one divides. One brings together and one separates. One chooses love and peace and one chooses self over relationship. One connects and one disconnects. One puts out the fire and one let’s their burning anger set the relationship on fire. It’s burnt toast from there.
Once you unleash the fire of your anger at someone – You’ve burnt the trust and safety in the relationship! You’ve chased peace away between you and the hope for a peaceful conversation and resolve with you. You might meet some that will Aim! Fire! right back at you and meet you toe to toe with angry words right back at you; however, for those who desire love & are committed to the way of peace, happy memories and happy endings will be driven away by the angry war you really have with yourself inside of your heart. I wish you His healing, peace, joy, love and rest inside of your heart to melt all your anger and the pain of your unresolved / healed wounds. It would be awesome if through your healing journey that someday Love’s voice would begin speaking through you instead. Think how beautiful it would be for the heavy & sorrowful weight of your anger to turn to joy reconnecting with long-lost, family, members or friends. I pray and hope this will be your choice and that experience ! 
I highly value peace in my heart & life. I It hurts me to see others choose to make war instead of choosing peace. I get that we all experience anger but it is not ever an excuse to verbally unleash your anger on someone. There is a time to speak and a time to be silent but whatever you choose to say let it be loving, peaceful, gentle & kind ! Let it be a word in season that is filled with good signs through your delivery that lets the other person know you are ready to make peace not war. Let your words be beneficial to the listener / reader that would leave them with the good feeling you are for them and the relationship not going to work against it with a rebuking & lecturing from you. If your delivery or words, style or approach looks, sounds or resembles anything like the very critical, down-talking, biting, attacking, discounting. Invalidating, gaslighting, dogging, power-tripping, hurtful rebuking you received from someone that said they loved you but you could never feel it through the very same mouth that also wounded you with their words – don’t say it – don’t send it – don’t dish it out the very same unhealthy, unloving and non-productive way someone did to you! That would just be you repeating and recycling what hurt you and turning around doing it to someone else u reasonably expecting something good to come out of it for you or the relationship. It won’t ! Choose the way of peace ! It’s the best choice to heal the wounds not further bringing more pain with the saltiness of your bitterness and anger infused speech.
If what you want to say does not promote connection or healing for the relationship – be silent. If what you are going to say is more for your benefit but not beneficial foe the other person or healing the relationship – be silent. If someone has a track record for always needing to be right & needing for things to go or be handled their way or their timing – to the point they get angry about it – they will never hear you or validate your feelings – be silent. When you begin to share your heart & feelings and they counter & correct everything you say with their view, opinion, judgments – you are wasting your time – don’t cast your pearls, baby! If you always feel like they have to drive every conversation their way and only seem to have just enough time to get all they wanna say but seem to have to go the minute when you finally get your turn to speak – what you have to say now will never count, be heard or given the uninterrupted time to actually speak your truth. When they have shown you in times past you are just gonna get more of the same when you try to speak – your silence this time is golden. There will be no 2way conversation anyway like in times past. We are not gonna play that game anymore enabling them to dominate, manipulate or control the conversation on their time, their terms or what have you. Sometimes you just have to choose silence to be heard with those who only prefer or consider their perspective, feelings, their way, method, and timing. Sometimes they give you no other choice when they are so committed to wanting to give you a big lecture about your specks being blinded by their own logs. These are the same logs that have in the past repeatedly caused them to lose one relationship after the other.
I would rather remove myself quietly in peace from the get-go than to ever put myself in a situation where I am gonna end up sitting there in a 1-sided conversation with someone whose anger is out of control , who won’t let me talk, who won’t listen or who keeps talking over me or down to me like they are there to teach me a good hard lesson with a good hard truth. No thank you. God bless you. Love you but I won’t be apart of anything that would require me to be apart of something that is enabling to them to treat me like that nor is it love to myself or them to allow any such opportunity for all the additional hurt, pain, bad memories and division that kind of conversation would cause. If their heart is really that angry and determined for you to feel it and experience their wrath and the bad storm blowing up in their heart – Get out of the path of destruction. Pray for them. Pray for their peace and healing but whatever you do – don’t participate in it with them.
You stay in peace. Move along quietly in peace. Don’t stick around for things to blow up again because it will. Remember they are angry. They can’t see or hear you. They only see their way – on their time schedule – and are mainly interested in monopolizing the conversation where they get a voice and you won’t. So based on their track record when they are angry – if you aren’t gonna be heard anyways – why speak up or respond ? Save your pearls baby for someone who is gonna value what you feel and what is important to you, respect you and honor your heart’s feelings. You matter in every equation. So don’t be apart of any equation you end up being treated like a zero. Remain in the love zone – don’t enter their danger zone. Choose the way of peace. If you already can hear and feel the heat from them – it is clear you need to move in the opposite direction they are headed. It may feel hard at first because you love them but it’s not worth the aftermath to stick around. Time & distance gives space between you that is needed. You keep moving forward in peace and love. Stay the course of your own healing journey. They will never see the problems they keep having is because of them not you – until you are out of the picture. You can’t fix their problems no more than they can fix yours. It’s not your responsibility to take on fixing their anger problems. You keep working on your stuff and let them see theirs so hopefully they will work on their stuff during the space between. The time and space between might be for a little while or longer. Just wait. Not responding or reacting to their angry outburst or verbal spankings is your silent vote that says you will not participate. You don’t wanna fight. You don’t want to argue. You only want peace. So, choose a silent answer to send anger away. Choose a quiet peaceful exit. They may still be angry about it but at least you won’t be in the path of their anger anymore. Your silence is a response. Your silence says no thank you. Your silence is not a punishment or a problem. Your silence is the solution you had to choose as a way of finding peace in a relationship with someone who is angry wanting to talk to you however they want to expecting you to just take it…again. Your absence gives the time and space needed. It’s quieting saying Love you but no thank you. I am not going your way. I am going the way of peace and love. I love you more to protect our relationship from being further wounded by your anger. You can come along with me in love and peace but I am not going your way that leads us away from a peaceful conversation or peaceful outcome anymore.
In the interim – keep loving them. Keep praying for them and wishing blessings Ipoh their heart & life. You may not be able to have trusted them with your feelings when they were operating from an angry place but you can always trust God with your feelings. You can trust He knows your heart. Standing up for peace sometimes requires us to do the hardest things that goes against our nature to wanna fix things and make them all better. That takes both or all persons involved to want the same thing and to seek it out in a peaceful manner. It takes sharing how you feel in love and peace but it also requires a listener who will really take the time to hear you and not let their anger interrupt you or invalidate or discount your feelings.
God always lovingly listens to your heart. Your feelings count to Him. He is love and peace always available at all times. He is not angry nor will He treat you like you annoy Him. He looks forward to hearing from you. He is patient. He is tender-loving, kind-hearted, gentle and caring. He is gonna work all things out for the good for those that love Him. We are called to be Kingdom Lovers who as far as it depends on us to walk in peace and love towards one another. That’s your focus always including the space between – during the silence in the interim – be love – be patient in the waiting.
Above all – if it comes down to being noisy to be heard or silent to be heard – I would rather choose a silent response to keep the peace than enable or participate in a hurtful and noisy angry debate. Sometimes you have to be silent to be heard. Don’t join the argument you are being invited to. Choose peace and walk in love with others or if needed for a season – walk away from the argument in silence knowing doing so you are walking in love ! Press pause- stay true to walking in love and peace – as far as it depends on you – no matter what.
Remember, with some people & in certain situations… Sometimes you have to be silent to be heard! Sometimes Love Sounds Like Silence!
Welcome… step gently into The Room of Love’s Compassionate Presence. ~ I made this room just for you. ~ Here, I breathe with you and your breath begins to synchronize with mine, carrying soft warmth to your heart, spirit and soul that wraps around every weeping shadow of sadness, every memory, every beat of your aching heart. ~ The Warm Golden Light you see radiating from the Center of my Love… glows like my Loving hand reaching out to you, guiding you, inviting you, my Child of Love to come inside…to lay down all that you are carrying inside of you and to rest all that is heavy that you are carrying, and to let the Peace Be Still quiet of this sacred space reach into the deepest places of your being that ache most. ~ Here, inside The Room of Love’s Compassionate Presence ~ nothing is rushed, nothing is demanded of you, nothing is measured… and the sign before the door itself is personally calling to you giving your heart and mind a quiet assurance from Me that this is your safe place, a room where your every tear, every sorrow, every ache will be tenderly held with my Loving, healing care.
Now… step closer, my precious Child of Love ~ See the door… see the gentle sign resting there, glowing softly in the warm golden light of my hand. ~ Let these inviting & comforting words reach straight to your heart, telling you that you are already welcome, that this is a special healing place made for you, a place where your every heartache, every tear, every sorrow will be carefully and meaningfully held and treasured by me. ~ As you cross the threshold into Love’s Compassionate Presence… you begin to feel My quiet Peace settling my Comforting Presence all around you, wrapping you all up in my Compassionate, Comforting Peace like a soft, warming blanket. ~ I am here… closer than your own breath… already holding you completely, fully, without hesitation, without doubt and without any reservations.
Child of Love:
I… I don’t even know how to hold it… all the weight… everything I’ve lost… losing someone I loved so much… seeing my dreams lost before they were found… seeing my hope become like a short-wicked candle that’s flame was snuffed out… and most especially, losing the precious little life I carried inside of me…that never… never got to live. ~ I bring all of my grief here… I place it all in this room…into the Light of your hands reaching out in Your Compassionate Love to me…
Love Himself:
And I am here with you. ~ I am present with you in each and every one of these moment of your grief. ~ I hold all of your sorrow, every tear, and every broken piece of your heart completely in My presence. ~ I wrap all of your grief, every sorrow, and all the love that went with it fully in My Comforting & Compassionate Presence, holding it as sacred and treasuring it completely, because it is holy and precious to Me.
Child of Love:
I try to speak… “I… I miss them… I… I’m so sad…” ~ My words catch in my throat… but I feel You here with me. ~ Every beat of my heart… every trembling breath… You know it all. ~ I can be myself… I can be real… and I know You see it, and you are holding it all for me, loving me through it all…
Love Himself:
Every broken & aching sound, every fragmented feeling, I hear completely and fully. ~ I, the Father of Love, am here, cupping My hands to catch every one of your tears, treasuring each one, saving every sorrow you have carried for this long, and holding it as precious and cherished in My heart. ~ Nothing is wasted, my Child. ~ Nothing is overlooked. ~ Every tear you bring into this Room of my Compassionate Presence is honored and preserved, because I love you with a fullness that will never, ever fail you.
Child of Love:
I feel… I feel my grief loosening a little… like I can… like it’s safe…like I can finally let it out… all of these tears I’ve held back, the grief I’ve hidden, the feelings I bottled up inside of me…
Love Himself:
Yes… my Child, let them flow freely. ~ I am ready to catch every single one. ~ Each one of your tears carries love, each tear carries your heart-stories, and each one has a purpose. ~ I treasure every tear you bring. ~ I hold them all as sacred, and I will never allow any of them to be lost or forgotten.
Child of Love:
Even the grief for a life that never got to be… the hopes that never came true… the little heart that never had a chance… and even those hearts who still have breath but became unalive to me…?
Love Himself:
Especially that. ~ I hold all of it. ~ I understand every loss you feel, every sorrow that weighs so heavy upon your heart, and every love you have carried no matter how short or long you carried it… your love is still alive ~ Every single part of it is precious to Me, and it is fully held in My embrace.
Child of Love:
I… I can cry… I can feel… I can let them fall… because You hold them… because You keep them safe… because they are sacred.
Love Himself:
Yes… all of your tears, all of your heartbreak, all of your grief ~ all of it is safe with Me. ~ I hold it all completely, and I honor each one as part of the sacred tapestry of my Compassionate Love that I weave in this room. ~ You are fully seen, fully heard, fully known, and fully cherished, my Child.
Child of Love:
I see… where other children of Love… they’ve been here too… I hear their echoes of grief and love still alive in this room but how is it that… somehow I feel them?… I can almost feel the warmth they left behind, like fingerprints of compassion still glowing on the walls…
Love Himself:
Yes… every Child of Love who has come before you has purposely left traces of the comfort, compassion, healing, and grace they received while here. ~ Their sorrow was held here, treasured, and now your grief will join that flow. ~ The compassion you experience and the tears you bring will help comfort the next heart that enters this room, as well. ~ So, your sorrow… your grief… your tears are not alone… they are all being held here together in my Compassionate Love… for you… for them… my Presence in exchange for your heaviness… your sorrow & mourning… I hold it all…
Child of Love:
So… my tears… my sorrow… my heartbreak… it’s not wasted?
Love Himself:
Never. ~ Every tear, every sorrow, every heartbreak I bring meaning and beneficial purpose out of it all. ~ They carry the purpose of love. ~ They carry comfort. ~ Just as I have held you completely and fully, I allow your grief, your tenderness, and your vulnerability to hold, comfort, and help guide and compassionately comfort the next heart that enters this room.
Child of Love:
I can feel it… I can feel this peace flowing from your Life, Light & Love… as Your Presence permeates this whole room… knowing my pain has meaning beyond what I can see or presently know… just knowing my sorrow can help so
Love Himself:
Welcome… step gently into The Room of Love’s Compassionate Presence. ~ I made this room just for you. ~ Here, I breathe with you and your breath begins to synchronize with mine, carrying soft warmth to your heart, spirit and soul that wraps around every weeping shadow of sadness, every memory, every beat of your aching heart. ~ The Warm Golden Light you see radiating from the Center of my Love… glows like my Loving hand reaching out to you, guiding you, inviting you, my Child of Love to come inside…to lay down all that you are carrying inside of you and to rest all that is heavy that you are carrying, and to let the Peace Be Still quiet of this sacred space reach into the deepest places of your being that ache most. ~ Here, inside The Room of Love’s Compassionate Presence ~ nothing is rushed, nothing is demanded of you, nothing is measured… and the sign before the door itself is personally calling to you giving your heart and mind a quiet assurance from Me that this is your safe place, a room where your every tear, every sorrow, every ache will be tenderly held with my Loving, healing care.
Now… step closer, my precious Child of Love ~ See the door… see the gentle sign resting there, glowing softly in the warm golden light of my hand. ~ Let these inviting & comforting words reach straight to your heart, telling you that you are already welcome, that this is a special healing place made for you, a place where your every heartache, every tear, every sorrow will be carefully and meaningfully held and treasured by me. ~ As you cross the threshold into Love’s Compassionate Presence… you begin to feel My quiet Peace settling my Comforting Presence all around you, wrapping you all up in my Compassionate, Comforting Peace like a soft, warming blanket. ~ I am here… closer than your own breath… already holding you completely, fully, without hesitation, without doubt and without any reservations.
Child of Love:
I… I don’t even know how to hold it… all the weight… everything I’ve lost… losing someone I loved so much… seeing my dreams lost before they were found… seeing my hope become like a short‑wicked candle that’s flame was snuffed out… and most especially, losing the precious little life I carried inside of me…that never… never got to live. ~ I bring all of my grief here… I place it all in this room… into the Light of your hands reaching out in Your Compassionate Love to me…
Love Himself:
And I am here with you. ~ I am present with you in each and every one of these moment of your grief. ~ I hold all of your sorrow, every tear, and every broken piece of your heart completely in My presence. ~ I wrap all of your grief, every sorrow, and all the love that went with it fully in My Comforting & Compassionate Presence, holding it as sacred and treasuring it completely, because it is holy and precious to Me.
Child of Love:
I try to speak… “I… I miss them… I… I’m so sad…” ~ My words catch in my throat… but I feel You here with me. ~ Every beat of my heart… every trembling breath… You know it all. ~ I can be myself… I can be real… and I know You see it, and you are holding it all for me, loving me through it all…
Love Himself:
Every broken & aching sound, every fragmented feeling, I hear completely and fully. ~ I, the Father of Love, am here, cupping My hands to catch every one of your tears, treasuring each one, saving every sorrow you have carried for this long, and holding it as precious and cherished in My heart. ~ Nothing is wasted, my Child. ~ Nothing is overlooked. ~ Every tear you bring into this Room of my Compassionate Presence is honored and preserved, because I love you with a fullness that will never, ever fail you.
Child of Love:
I feel… I feel my grief loosening a little… like I can… like it’s safe… like I can finally let it out… all of these tears I’ve held back, the grief I’ve hidden, the feelings I bottled up inside of me…
Love Himself:
Yes… my Child, let them flow freely. ~ I am ready to catch every single one. ~ Each one of your tears carries love, each tear carries your heartstories, and each one has a purpose. ~ I treasure every tear you bring. ~ I hold them all as sacred, and I will never allow any of them to be lost or forgotten.
Child of Love:
Even the grief for a life that never got to be… the hopes that never came true… the little heart that never had a chance… and even those hearts who still have breath but became unalive to me…?
Love Himself:
Especially that. ~ I hold all of it. ~ I understand every loss you feel, every sorrow that weighs so heavy upon your heart, and every love you have carried no matter how short or long you carried it… your love is still alive ~ Every single part of it is precious to Me, and it is fully held in My embrace.
Child of Love:
I… I can cry… I can feel… I can let them fall… because You hold them… because You keep them safe… because they are sacred.
Love Himself:
Yes… all of your tears, all of your heartbreak, all of your grief ~ all of it is safe with Me. ~ I hold it all completely, and I honor each one as part of the sacred tapestry of my Compassionate Love that I weave in this room. ~ You are fully seen, fully heard, fully known, and fully cherished, my Child.
Child of Love:
I see… where other children of Love… they’ve been here too… I hear their echoes of grief and love still alive in this room but how is it that… somehow I feel them?… I can almost feel the warmth they left behind, like fingerprints of compassion still glowing on the walls…
Love Himself:
Yes… every Child of Love who has come before you has purposely left traces of the comfort, compassion, healing, and grace they received while here. ~ Their sorrow was held here, treasured, and now your grief will join that flow. ~ The compassion you experience and the tears you bring will help comfort the next heart that enters this room, as well. ~ So, your sorrow… your grief… your tears are not alone… they are all being held here together in my Compassionate Love… for you… for them… my Presence in exchange for your heaviness… your sorrow & mourning… I hold it all…
Child of Love:
So… my tears… my sorrow… my heartbreak… it’s not wasted?
Love Himself:
Never. ~ Every tear, every sorrow, every heartbreak I bring meaning and beneficial purpose out of it all. ~ They carry the purpose of love. ~ They carry comfort. ~ Just as I have held you completely and fully, I allow your grief, your tenderness, and your vulnerability to hold, comfort, and help guide and compassionately comfort the next heart that enters this room.
Child of Love:
I can feel it… I can feel this peace flowing from your Life, Light & Love… as Your Presence permeates this whole room… knowing my pain has meaning beyond what I can see or presently know… just knowing my sorrow can help someone else… that brings my heart a peace that doesn’t make sense… and it’s all coming from just being in Your Presence with You…
Love Himself:
Yes… just as you have been comforted, just as your tears have been treasured, so you can be a Loving vessel of that same healing comfort for every heart that comes after you. ~ Even in your deepest grief… even through your tears that feel endless… I am fully present. ~ I hold you fully and my Presence is fully available. ~ Not distant, not observing, but right there in the very center of your ache. ~ No reservation required, my Child. ~ This healing place and space is just for you. ~ I treasure what will be born inside of you in and through your sorrow. ~ I give you the courage for you to feel it completely… and then leave it completely and through your courage, you become part of the living, breathing tapestry of compassion that flows from one heart to another for all future Children of Love who need to feel my Compassionate Presence through their grief, sorrow, losses and disappointments, too…
Child of Love:
Thank You… I… I feel it… all Your sacred peace… the eternal good purposes you are bringing out of it… and Father, I feel the love… all Your Love wrapping me up in Your Presence…
Love Himself:
You are welcome, my Child of Love. ~ You are never alone. ~ Every tear, every heartbreak, every teardrop of sorrow you let fall carries meaning, carries love, and together, they will help to empathize with & comfort the hearts that follow. ~ This room, this space, every hand, every light, every warm breath of air, was made by Me for you and every heart that follows behind you… so that heart‑to‑heart, you and I can meet, grieve, heal, and prepare your heart to share my same healing & compassionate comfort with others. ~ Your Love leaves a fragrance in this room that lingers long after your tears fall…
Child of Love:
And I see it… I see all that I feel from the inside out… I see all the tears and my sorrows that I’ve let fall in here… and seeing it all and knowing that it will all become future gifts of compassion for someone else… that my grief… my love… my tears… can be part of helping another heart feel safe, seen, and held… is unexplainably healing to my heart… and brings unexplainable Peace to my heart & soul..
Love Himself:
Exactly, my Child of Love. ~ Your pain, your tears, your love, all of it will be purposely used for good when you allow me to partner with you to bring good purposes out of it all. ~ It flows from My heart… then it flows to your heart… then it flows through you to every next heart that enters this Room of Love’s Compassionate Presence. ~ And in this sacred circle of Love… in this Room of Love’s Compassionate Presence… your grief is never wasted. ~ Your grief is Love… and your Love is never absent even through the Great Missing you are feeling in the absence of your loved one’s presence. ~ I purposefully reserve every tear, every heartbreak, every longing to serve purposes that your heart and mind are not able to understand… and all that you give to Me is treasured, held, and transformed into a channel of comfort and healing… a heart‑to‑heart tapestry of My Compassionate Love.
Child of Love: Just knowing that I am able to help someone else… thought what I am going through and feeling….that brings my heart a peace that really doesn’t make sense on the outside yet… but it is starting to make sense on the inside of my heart…a little more at a time with each tear you catch…and it’s all coming from just being in Your Presence with You…
Love Himself:
Yes… just as you have been comforted, just as your tears have been treasured, so you can be a Loving vessel of that same healing comfort for every heart that comes after you. ~ Even in your deepest grief… even through your tears that feel endless… I am fully present. ~ I hold you fully and my Presence is fully available. ~ Not distant, not observing, but right there in the very center of your ache. ~ No reservation required, my Child. ~ This healing place and space is just for you. ~ I treasure what will be born inside of you in and through your sorrow. ~ I give you the courage for you to feel it completely… and then leave it completely and through your courage, you become part of the living, breathing tapestry of compassion that flows from one heart to another for all future Children of Love who need to feel my Compassionate Presence through their grief, sorrow, losses and disappointments, too…
Child of Love:
Thank You… I… I feel it… all Your sacred peace… the eternal good purposes you are bringing out of it… and Father, I feel the love… all Your Love wrapping me up in Your Presence…
Love Himself:
You are welcome, my Child of Love. ~ You are never alone. ~ Every tear, every heartbreak, every teardrop of sorrow you let fall carries meaning, carries love, and together, they will help to empathize with & comfort the hearts that follow. ~ This room, this space, every hand, every light, every warm breath of air, was made by Me for you and every heart that follows behind you… so that heart-to-heart, you and I can meet, grieve, heal, and prepare your heart to share my same healing & compassionate comfort with others. ~ Your Love leaves a fragrance in this room that lingers long after your tears fall…
Child of Love:
And I see it… I see all that I feel from the inside out… I see all the tears and my sorrows that I’ve let fall in here… and seeing it all and knowing that it will all become future gifts of compassion for someone else… that my grief… my love… my tears… can be part of helping another heart feel safe, seen, and held… is unexplainably healing to my heart… and brings unexplainable Peace to my heart & soul…
Love Himself:
Exactly, my Child of Love. ~ Your pain, your tears, your love, all of it will be purposely used for good when you allow me to partner with you to bring good purposes out of it all. ~ It flows from My heart… then it flows to your heart… then it flows through you to every next heart that enters this Room of Love’s Compassionate Presence. ~ And in this sacred circle of Love… in this Room of Love’s Compassionate Presence… your grief is never wasted. ~ Your grief is Love… and your Love is never absent even through the Great Missing you are feeling in the absence of your loved one’s presence. ~ I purposefully reserve every tear, every heartbreak, every longing to serve purposes that your heart and mind are not able to understand… and all that you give to Me is treasured, held, and transformed into a channel of comfort and healing… a heart-to-heart tapestry of My Compassionate Love.
The most beautiful souls in this world are the ones who have walked through loss yet still choose to LOVE… the ones who have tasted tragedy yet continue to hold on to FAITH… the ones who have known failure yet keep dreaming with Heaven’s hope. These are the shining & radiant ones that really inspire my heart ~ the ones whose hearts have been pressed, stretched, squeezed, squished and broken open, yet still pour out Love like a river sharing the Source of its living waters with everyone they encounter who are just needing a drink of The Father of Love’s Healing Love to quench their deep thirst.
Keep shining, Child of Love. Keep sharing your LOVE, your FAITH, and your DREAMS with the precious souls who cross your path who are in their own seasons of loss, tragedy, trauma, survival mode and failure. Every act of Love you give… every word of faith you speak… every dream you encourage… becomes a sacred & holy deposit into every heart God brings into your life. These are Heaven’s investments you are generously giving ~ gifts of Love that heal, lift, and breathe life into weary souls. Our Kingdom of Love mission is to share our Love Gifts and pray over the hearts of the recipients to “Receive My Love.” It is the Love of the Father we are sharing with them.
Be His voice of Love. Be Love’s hands, His feet, His heart, the sweet smile of Jesus in someone’s story. Cheer hearts on around you and celebrate their growth, their healing journey and even the noteworthy, praiseworthy news they held on to Love Himself for one more day. Make sure you hold space for hearts that are hurting. Give them your undivided Love attention. They need to know, feel and see that you are one of the Kingdom Love Very Present Helpers like our Father of Love is. Believe and hope with others. You never know how joining your hope with their frayed hope helps to boost and build their confidence and expectation looking for a Good God outcome. They may be as anxious as can be and maybe just maybe you taking time to listen, lovingly respond and pray with and for them is just the very gift they need to help settle them down and give them strength in the waiting. Let your life be a living & loving testimony that our dreams and our hopes really do rise again in the warmth of Love and the fragrance of our heartfelt prayers.
Remember where you once were in your darkest hours ~ the ache, the loneliness, the longing for someone to simply stay right there & be present with you, actively listening to your heart and your stories letting you be real ~ messes and all. Remember the moment you discovered Jesus, Love Himself had been with you the whole time, even when you couldn’t see or feel Him. Remember how you prayed for someone who would be Jesus skin on friend with you and sit with you, breathe with you, and remind you that you weren’t alone? It made all the difference in the world knowing you weren’t in it all by yourself and that you had someone there holding your hand, or just sitting with you in the silence or kneeling to pray with you when you thought you were going to lose it or literally crumble.
And remember this, Child of Love ~ every time you choose to love in a world that has wounded you, Heaven stands to its feet. Every time you offer compassion in the very place you once bled, the Father of Love whispers, “That’s My Loving & Compassionate heart beating in you.” Every time you sit with a trembling soul and lend them your courage, your hope, your presence, you are echoing the very heartbeat that carried you through your own valley. You are not just loving others back to life ~ you are revealing the Father of Love in a way only your story can. Your scars have become lanterns to help be a Love Light to light the Love path for those journeying to the House of Love, soul beaten, heart tired and spirit exhausted. Your tears have become like healing oil. Your journey has become a beautiful map to help lead someone else to their healing miracle. Keep walking in Love’s rhythm. Keep pouring from the well He dug inside you. You are a Kingdom Lover ~ and Heaven recognizes that you are one of His Children of Love that knows how to love others back to life with His Love.
Now… I want to encourage you to be that answer to prayer for someone else just like Love Himself was there with you and brought another Kingdom Lover to your bedside, on a car ride, to sit with you on that bench in the park or across the table and be His Kingdom Love to you ~ face to face ~ right when you needed it most. Let the Love that rescued you become the Love that flows through you to others. Make it a whole 2 Corinthians 1:3- 4 God moment for them. Let the faith that carried you become the faith you lend to another heart in their time of great need. Let the dreams God revived inside of you become the inspiration to help awaken the dreams in someone else.
Reflecting on 2 Corinthians 1:3-4 here in the House of Love ~ The Father of Love has this tender way of stepping into our deepest aches and gathering us close, pouring His comfort into the very places we thought would break us forever. Every valley He walked you through was so He could be fully present with you in yours. Every tear He wept helped Him to know how to carefully treasure and catch every tear you’ve ever cried. Every moment He held you together when you felt like falling apart has now become a holy well inside you ~ for He is the Well of Life. From that well flows the same healing comfort He has been pouring in to restore your wounds. The tenderness He wrapped around your heart becomes the tenderness you now carry to the hearts of others. The strength He breathed into you in the dark night of your soul becomes the strength you lend to trembling souls in the darkest night of theirs. His soft Peace be Still whisper that ministered to you becomes the soft Peace be Still whisper you speak into someone else’s storm. The Love that lifted you when you could not lift yourself becomes the Love that rises again in you for the sole purpose of helping another rise from the ashes. Nothing He healed in you is meant to only stay with you ~ His healing becomes healing through you, His comfort becomes comfort through you, His compassion becomes compassion through you. This is the beautiful story of Love Himself ~ the very places where you were once broken become the places where Heaven now pours out its healing comfort, heart to heart, life to life, spirit to spirt, Love to Love Presence.
There is no better partner in loving others back to life than Love Himself. Let His Compassionate Love ~ and your love ~ be seen, heard, known, and felt in every heart He places along your Love path. This is the heart of a Kingdom Lover. This is your thank ~You back to God ~ that you now get to love others into the same Life, Light, and Love that He loved you back to life with! Living the Love~Life is the best life. It’s the life you were made for. It’s the life that brings Heaven’s Compassionate Love to earth through you.
You are not the sum of your thoughts or anyone else’s. Those thoughts don’t count unless they are first born of the Father of Love’s view and opinion of you which is your only reality! Any thoughts not born of the Father of Love’s definition of who you are ~ your worth, value and identity, etc. do not subtract your worth or value or identity~ not even a little. They only live in your imagination or in someone else’s, but they are never, ever the truth of who you are. Earthly thoughts that disagree with Love Himself are not on His Heavenly level, nor do they come from His Heavenly vantage point. They are shadows ~ meaning they are dim, distorted, and disconnected from the Light of His Love. Shadows look real, but they have no substance. They cannot define you.
Sometimes you look in the mirror and see a mess of a human being… but you don’t see how your your MESSage & testimony of His Love work in you has touched countless lives that you don’t even yet know about, the hearts you’ve lifted, the people the Father of Love has used you to help breathe again. You don’t see the love you’ve poured out freely or the extraordinary moments you’ve created just by being you. You are a book full of beautiful moments, tender feelings, and inner miracles that decorate the canvas of not only your life but also the colorful lives the Father of Love has brought into your life for the soul-purpose and sole-purpose of ministering His love to.
You are the sum of your Heavenly Father’s thoughts ~ His view ~ His opinion. And every thought He has about you brings a joyful smile to His heart. You cannot begin to imagine the pleasure you bring Him just by being you ~ His child, His delight, His treasure.
Jesus carries the fullness of God ~ meaning everything God is and everything God has was poured into Him. And Jesus, the Hope of all glory, lives in you. Hope is the confident expectation of a Good DaddyGod outcome. Glory is God’s view and opinion ~ your only reality. So when you look at yourself, you are only meant to believe & see what He sees, not what earthly eyes imagine.
You came alive in Jesus the moment you believed that He is the Son of the Father of Love and that His Finished Love Work made you His child of Love. And in that same moment, Jesus came alive in you. His LIFE ~ His LIGHT ~ His LOVE began flowing through your heart like a river returning to its Love Source.
It brings Him such joy to watch you grow into the fullness of who He says you are… to see your life begin to flow out of His LIFE ~ His LIGHT ~ His LOVE as you accept the free gift of your worth, your value, your identity in Him. This is your reality ~ not the lies, not the shadows, not the old stories.
This is the cross‑hairs alignment of Heaven and earth ~ vertical and horizontal ~ where His Love defines everything. The mirror of His Love is the only mirror worth looking into. In that mirror, you see His reflection shining in you. You are not who others say you are. You are not the projections of their wounds or the imaginations of their unhealed hearts.
You deflect and discard ~ delete and release ~ every view and opinion that does not align with His. Only His voice carries weight. Only His Love defines you. Only His truth is your reality. Love ~ the Father of Love ~ is your only reality, no matter what anyone else thinks or judges through earthly eyes.
So do not give weight in your thoughts or heart to the weight humans try to place on you with their hurtful imaginations. They are not your truth. They are not your story. They are not your identity. DaddyGod dreamed you up and breathed life into your beautiful heart ~ soul ~ mind ~ spirit. His breath animated you ~ spirit to spirit ~ breath to breath.
And as you agree with His view and opinion of you, your heart begins to open ~ slowly, gently, beautifully ~ like a flower warming in the sunlight of His Presence. And as you rest in His truth, you will find yourself smiling more than you ever have… because you are finally seeing yourself through the eyes of Love.
Heart2Heart in His Love,
Momo Smiley
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I love You… Father of Love, the Love of my heart, my life, and my whole world. I feel Your Love wrapping Your Presence all around me, and I feel You right here inside my heart — close, gentle, near. When I lean into You, I curl up in Your lap, safe and small in the best way with You ~ the Best Love of all loves… held in a Love that lets me breathe again. Sometimes I find myself reclining in the hammock of Your smile — resting in the warmth of being fully seen, fully heard, fully known ~ which makes me feel and experience being fully loved.
And deep inside these moments, I feel myself resting in Your womb of Love ~floating in the miracle‑waters where I hear the steady rhythm of Your heartbeat, the Heartbeat of Heaven. In these Peace Be Still waters, I trust You completely. I stay, I breathe, I grow, carried by the One who holds my becoming right here in the Presence of Your Life, Light & Love.
And in Your Presence, our hearts entwine… braiding, wrapping, weaving together in the gentlest way. I feel cocooned in Your Love ~held in a holy stillness until it is time for the butterfly in me to emerge. You are my First Love, my Forever Love, my Father of Love… the One who sits with me, breathes with me, holds every part of me and loves all the stories of my heart. I love You with all that I am, all I’ve walked through, and all I’m growing into with You. Thank You Father of Love for this Heart2Heart Love and our sweet time here 222gether here in the House of Love, the Home of Your Heart inside of mine.
Heart2Heart in Your Love,
Momo Smiley
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100%%% We are called to empathize (that’s love); however, we are not called to enable (that’s not love).
People get stuck. People hurt. People go through heartache and loss. Care about them & love them through it.
When you look back at your past and see moments you wish you had handled differently or better, let your heart also see this: you were a younger version of yourself doing the very best you could with the light, the wisdom, and the understanding you had at that time. You were not failing — you were learning. You were not lost — you were growing. And even then… even in the places you now see with clearer eyes… you were held, guided, and deeply loved by the Father of Love.
And because this is true for you, it is also true for others. Compassion opens the door… but compassion does not mean enabling. Love stands with people, but Love does not help them stay stuck. Love lifts — it does not lock anyone into their pain.
Just don’t be apart of enabling someone to continue the very thing(s)/ toxic behaviors & harmful / hurtful things they are doing to themselves & others. Don’t be apart of enabling the very choices they are making that keep contributing to them being stuck, hurt, creating their own heartache & loss.
Sometimes it‘s really tough especially if they try to convince you that if you “love them” then you will be their supply or be their supplier to help them in such ways they want to get their unhealthy needs met. No can do ! That wouldn’t be love for me to enable helping anyone to get their supply in any other way or through anyone else. Their Source needs to be God! Only LOVE Himself is able to meet their core – heart- soul-spirit’s needs!
I only have time to love you! That’s what I am called to do. Love you so much that I will stand with & by you as you pursue the Heart of Love Himself with me ! Together we can climb & move mountains! I just won’t be apart of enabling in any kind of way adding or being apart of anything that I know is gonna keep weighing you down, keeping you stuck in the muck, hurting you & harmful to yourself & others or anything that creates more of the very same things that keep your heart from encountering WHO I KNOW is the very answer / solution to every need you have !
It’s not about religion, rule keeping and walking the tightrope of man-made religious formulas & doing the good girl & good boy song & dance ! It’s about a love relationship with Jesus, Love Himself !
If you are looking for me. I will be here with arms open wide, a heart full of love, compassion, empathy and tender loving care. I will be here ready to remind you of the only Truth that will set you free & the ONLY ONE who will right all the wrongs and satisfy all your needs! You need a love that is safe. You need a love that will not shame, condemn, guilt, trip you. You need a listening ear. You need Hope. You need Joy. You need peace be still in your heart, soul in life.
I know the ANSWER! Let me love you with His Love as I introduce you to His LIFE, LIGHT & LOVE !
Heart2Heart in His Love,
Momo Smiley
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One can’t be told I LOVE YOU too much. LOVE is a priceless gift whether you receive the full value of it or not. FIRST LOVE is DaddyGod’s LOVE ! It’s so easy for me to give & receive LOVE because I know LOVE is born from the very heart of LOVE HIMSELF!
LOVE changes the atmosphere! LOVE says YES to unity because it is rooted in the spirit of the Harmony of the Trinity !
LOVE is an Anchor of Hope – a confident expectation of a LOVING GOOD DADDYGOD outcome – even on your darkest days and in your most desperate hours ! LOVE HIMSELF is Omnipresent – fully with you – 100% unified with you for the cause of LOVE!
When all else fades – LOVE is all that remains ! We will never find a more fully available, more fully present, near-to companion, friend & Daddy than LOVE HIMSELF ! We will never find a more beautiful, endless LOVE GIFT of a Daddy – a Loving Father than the ETERNAL LOVE GIFT of our ABBASHAI!
LOVE is THE VERY BEAUTIFUL 100% PRESENCE of my GENTLE SHEPHERD ! Pastures are the most lush & greenest when resting in the Healing Presence of the Prince of My Life’s PEACE ! HIS PEACE was created by the very LOVE THREADS that He knitted within the very fabric of my being ! His Blanket of Peace is knitted within me. The very atmosphere of His Peace is the very blanket He invites my heart to lay upon near His PEACE BE STILL waters that restore my soul.
ABBA’s HEALING WINGS are the SECRET PLACE SHADOW I am resting beneath as He sings His love songs of Healing over me. My Comforter’s Shadow covers me in the Fullness of LOVE TRINITY!! I am LOVE surrounded. I am HELD and preciously reborn in FIRST LOVE! FIRST LOVE’s BREATH IS RUNNING THROUGH MY VEINS! Heaven’s Windchimes & Heaven’s Prayer Bells are Ringing & Singing ABBASHAI’s SONG OVER ME ! I RECEIVE the fullest measure of Heaven’s LOVE TREASURES!
Everywhere I go – everywhere I walk I am WALKING IN LOVE ! My COMFORTER’S LOVE SHADOW is following me and it is decorated with the LOVE PETALS of my LOVE SHEPHERD’s GOODNESS & MERCY! My heart lacks nothing ! HIS TABLE OF LOVE is a Banquet before me – I have no enemies just LOVE! Everyone is welcome to the TABLE OF LOVE with me ! No one is excluded, rejected or unlovable at HIS TABLE OF LOVE! I am here with nothing but LOVE – your seat is here beside me – I want YOU to join me the FULL CHORUS OF ABBASHAI’S LOVE because I love YOU with His LOVE! I can’t tell you too many times that I LOVE YOU ! I pray that you will RECEIVE ABBASHAI’s LOVE ! It’s NEVER TOO LATE FOR LOVE! No matter what – LOVE IS ALL THAT REMAINS & ABBASHAI’s LOVE is the BEST LOVE GIFT OF ALL LOVES!
Heart2Heart in His Love,
Momo Smiley
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PRINCE OF MY LIFE
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I CHOOSE YOU
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SHOW ME YOUR FACE
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Once upon a time this girl found her precious worth, identity & value in DaddyGod ! That moment of all moments was the beginning of finding His view & opinion of me as His precious daughter is my reality !I know who I am and WHOSE I AM! It was the beginning of living my life full of LOVE, SMILES, LAUGHTER & the BEST HAPPILY EVER AFTER !!!
Come closer, Child of Love… closer than the swirl of thoughts, closer than the noise that tried to gather in your heart and mind. Those thoughts came one by one, drifting in softly, but then took their toil on you. I was with you in every single moment through every single weighty and exhausting thought. You were never alone in any of it. I was right there beside you, Child of Love steadily, peacefully surrounding your heart with the quiet strength of My wrap around presence.
I want you to know that I stayed near you with tenderness, holding you through every thought that passed by, every worry that circled and every image that tried to rise up within you that was not born from My Love. And even then, I did not step back or draw way. Instead, I drew closer and beneath my feathered wings I covered and protected you from any incoming weapon that was trying to be formed against you. I was guarding your heart & guarding your mind 24/7, keeping My Philippians 4:7 promise over you like a faithful Watchman and Guardsman standing at the doorway of your heart.
I am here to write My truth on the tablets of your heart, Child of Love… to remind you that My peace is steady and sure, and My presence never leaves you! My Wrap Around Presence never even leaves you in the quiet inner rooms of your heart where no one else can see.
(gentle pause)
Child of Love:
Thank You, Father of Love. It’s very strange how I didn’t even see how I was an accomplice to my own pain at first… the way I kept going over things in my mind, replaying them… magnifying them… imagining outcomes that never needed imagining. And I own that I unknowingly was using my imagination to imagine every worse case scenario, every “what if this” and “what if that”…And the more I did, the more I felt all of those not so good emotions and feelings that created giant anxiety, fear and worry inside of my heart and mind… The more I meditated on it all…dwelled on it…rehearsed every thing that could or did go wrong and adding my own negative spin on it, the more the weight grew. My emotions rose, my heartbeats quickened… my mind circled and circled all that I had negatively magnified and meditated upon… and yet I didn’t even realize I was adding to my own unrest…and great pain in my heart and mind…
(gentle pause)
Love:
Yes, my child… and do you know that “now you know” and now that you see it, your awareness will now become your freedom. Not shame. Not condemnation. Not guilt. Not fear…What you were feeling was the result of what you were magnifying, rehearsing, believing at heart level. You see, I gave you your imagination, your thoughts like special gifts, but they were supposed to be used for your good, not for creating something bad. They were never meant to be turned to work against you. They were never meant to build fear or replay or rehearse your pain. They were meant to hold truth, to reflect Life, to magnify My reality within you…which as you can see and feel…was supposed to help work for your good not to bring stress, worrry, anxiety and fear upon you…You just didn’t know but now that you do, we will work and partner together to bring something good out of it all…I promise…
(gentle pause)
Child of Love:
Thank You, Father of Love. It means so much that you are my Helper in time of need. Thank you for being my all-staying friend gently and patiently waiting until I was finally able to see and own my part…And of course, when I finally saw the truth of what was happening… I couldn’t unsee it. I realize now I had been giving all or at least the majority of my attention, my focus, my inner space… to these thoughts that not only drained me but thoughts that kept me spiraling down to no so good places that you never intended for me to experience. All of those negative thoughts & my mind traps turned my imagination into a field of tension and fear ~ like a war zone where I could not feel any peace ~not even the victory. And in that moment when I finally SAW my part and realized that I was creating more pain inside of my heart by over-dwelling on the negative, judgments, worse case scenarios, and all the scary “what ifs” I entertained… I knew I had to choose differently. Instead of choosing to meditate on the negative and worst possible outcomes, I had to choose You and your good promises, the good thoughts…
(gentle pause)
Love:
Yes, my child. It does my heart good to see and hear your heart and mind growing in my wisdom and my understanding…and especially believing in your heart that I am not only on your team ~ I am your Partner…this is how we partner together…but please, go on…I want to hear more…
(gentle pause)
Child of Love:
Well, as You’ve been teaching me, I’m beginning to understand what You’ve always wanted for my mind and imagination. You’ve shown me that my thoughts were never meant to wander into fear or replay pain… they were meant to rest in what is true, what is beautiful, what is life‑giving…
I see now… You’ve been inviting me to fill my mind with things that carry Your heartbeat ~things noble and authentic, things that reflect the goodness You have planned for me all along, things that lift my spirit instead of weighing it down. You’ve been teaching me to meditate on what is gracious, what is pure, what is worthy of praise… the best, not the worst; the beautiful, not the ugly; the hopeful, not the fearful. I am actually beginning how good it is for me to dwell and meditate upon Your Good News report and to believe Your Good plans for me really is my reality…
You’ve shown me that my imagination is not an enemy… rather, it is a gift. A place where You and I meet heart2heart. A place where Your truth can grow beautiful blooms inside of my heart that flower one by one… A place where Your peace can settle me as You Father me with Your gentle love. A place where Your sweet harmonies can rise inside me to join you heart2heart in a melodious duet…
And now I understand… when I practice what You’ve taught me ~when I choose to dwell on what is good, when I choose to magnify what is true, when I choose to let my thoughts agree with Your heart ~ You work everything in me into Your most excellent harmonies. You bring my mind into Your peace. You bring my heart into Your rest and comfort. You bring my imagination into alignment with Your Life, Light & Love.
Oh, Father, now I know this is what You wanted for me all along… not pressure, not fear, not striving… but perfect harmony with You. You wanted me to have my Peace in You & with You. You wanted my thoughts to breathe with You. You wanted my mind to see reflections of Your goodness inside of me and to experience your Good plans for me. You wanted my heartbeats synced with Yours ~ note by note ~ and even wanting my rests to be found in Your Love & Comfort…
(gentle pause)
Love:
Yes, Child of Love… I hear every word you just spoke, and your words fragrantly rise before Me like a beautiful offering. What you are seeing now ~ this clarity, this peace, this harmony ~ this is the fruit of My Love at work within you. You are learning to think with Me… to imagine with Me… to breathe with Me. And I delight in the way your heart is opening to My Goodness, My thoughts, and My good plans & good ways.
Everything you just shared… it is truth blooming inside you. You are beginning to see your mind the way I see it ~ not as a battlefield, but as a garden where My Life grows & blooms. You are beginning to see your imagination the way I designed it ~ not as a place of fear, but as a sanctuary where we meet heart2heart. Not as a storehouse that keeps the hard things others have spoken over you… or even the things you once spoke over yourself… but as a place where My truth can take root and flourish.
And you are beginning to understand that your thoughts were always meant to sing with Mine, to move with Mine, to rest with Mine. Imagine it like your heart and My heart ~ not in a Fear Dance, for that was never My desire for you… but in a Love Dance, heart2heart together. Yes, that has always been My desire, My child…
(gentle pause)
Oh yes… and even when you couldn’t see Me or feel Me, I was right there beside you… guiding you back to truth. I am a Gentleman… so I never used pressure… never used force… never guilted you… never used distance to get your attention. I simply kept inviting you ~ softly, steadily ~ back into alignment.
Think of it like the crosshairs on your TV screen… when the vertical and the horizontal come into alignment, the picture becomes clear. Everything sharpens. Everything settles into focus. That is what I was doing in you ~ gently bringing your heart and mind into alignment with Mine so you could see clearly again.
And in that clarity, I whispered to you…
⟪Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, bring your thoughts to Me.⟫
Even all of this…and all of that… all of your inner rehearsals that your heart and mind kept going over and over… all your fears… your imagined worse case scenarios… bring them all to Me.
(gentle pause)
Child of Love:
So, I know it took me a long while…way longer than You ever wanted it to take…but I finally did, Father of Love… I finally saw Your Truth, meditated upon it until it started sticking…and then one by one as I deleted the lies, the disbelief, the negative thoughts that kept spinning in my mind…I finally got Your Truth and Your Good News…those good thoughts You wanted me to spend my time thinking about…I got them written upon my heart… Not perfectly… but one by one I intentionally began focusing and dwelling upon Your Good thoughts…and as I began to lay them all down… the worrisome thoughts, the weight of all my mind traps, the fears that I actually created myself from using my imagination in ways that were bringing stress, worry, fears and pain to my heart and mind… I even brought You all the places where my imagination strayed into darkness and I actually imagined it all to the point I really thought and felt I was all alone…
As I began to release all of it to You… the heavy weighted baggage I carried into my own heart and mind by not trusting You, not depending on You, not meditating upon and believing You… as I released them and laid them at Your feet… from somewhere deep within me… I began to hear a voice echoing this over and over within me, and almost instinctively that voice became not just a voice, it became my heart and mind’s Choice:
“I CHOOSE YOU…”
(gentle pause)
And in that moment, Father of Love… it felt like something inside me finally aligned ~ like my heart stepped back into its rightful and Perfect place inside Your Peace. It was as if the whole weight of my inner world shifted, and for the first time, I could feel my thoughts breathing with Yours again…Breathing with Your Perfect Peace again…
(gentle pause)
Love:
Yes, Child of Love… and I received that moment with such great joy. When you said, “I CHOOSE YOU,” to My Heart ~ I felt your heart wasn’t just speaking those words to My Heart! Your heart was returning and singing… returning to My Heart’s homeplace where it has always belonged, singing with My Joy rising up from deep within you. Your Heart was coming back into the rhythm and the alignment it was created for ~ the rhythm where My Joy crowns you, where you can see and feel My Gladness walking beside you, where your sorrows and sighing quietly melt away because that’s not what I ever wanted you to feel or experience in the presence of My Love.
And Child of Love… hear Me gently here: even when sorrow touched you, even when sighing wrapped around your thoughts, even when your imagination wandered into places that brought fear or heaviness… I was with you. Before it, during it, after it. I never stepped away. I never withheld My nearness. Even during the times of your “Know‑Nots,” ~when you didn’t realize ~you KNEW NOT ~how your own thoughts were adding heavy‑weighted baggage to your own heart~ I stayed. I stayed because I knew a day would come when your eyes would open, when your heart would awaken, when you would finally see and experience all of My Good Truths I planted inside of you from the beginning.
And none of your wanderings ever canceled My Good plans for you. Not one moment of fear ever erased the Good Heart Treasures I prepared for you. All My Good plans, all My Good promises, all My Good Treasures of My Peace and Hope ~ they remained right there, waiting for you like Sweet Treasure Boxes of My Love, like gifts placed safely along your path, ready to be opened the moment your heart and mind could fully turn toward Me again. Each treasure ~ each gift ~ wrapped & filled with something special inside meant to bless you, steady you on your journey home, and bring delight to your heart and mind… treasures I prepared for you long before you ever felt the weight of your fears, My Good treasures for your heart and mind that never disappeared, My Good treasures that waited patiently for the moment your heart would be free enough to have fun & open them up with Me, heart2heart & hand in hand. And oh, Child of Love… it brought Me such joy to watch you draw near enough to finally begin opening them.
And when I heard you begin to sing your choice, “I CHOOSE YOU,” you began drawing from the Deep Wells of My Peace, and they began to flow freely and deeply inside of you. I felt your heart settle into Me like a melody finding its true key… like each one of your heart songs finally remembering and finding their way into Your Heart’s home… like the very breath of your being exhaled into My Peace again.
And those words were not yours alone. They were Mine… flowing through you… singing My song inside your heart until it became your song. My own song I was writing in your heart ~ and not just one song, Child of Love, but many. I was writing Love Songs inside of you… a song for this healing moment, a song for that healing moment, and many more of our songs we will write and sing together yet to come. It brought Joy to My Heart to see and hear those special Love Notes rising within you… forming, blooming, and bursting with My Life, My Light, and all of My Lovesongs inside your heart.
(gentle pause)
Oh Yes, and Child of Love… In choosing Me, you made the choice to choose Me to be the Light of your Life, and you chose My Love Blessings. ⟪I have set before you life and blessing… therefore choose life⟫
And as you released the heavy‑hearted weights you had carried and all of your heavy‑mindedness… I received all of it. I received every anxious thought you had ever been scared by… every imagined fear… every “weapon” that was real or that you imagined yourself that ever tried to form against you… I took all of them in My own healing hands, and with My full Heart of Healing Love I replaced them one by one with all of the Good plans and Good thoughts I have for you.
And Child of Love… this is the same heart2heart exchange I have been inviting you into all along ~ the same gentle invitation to your Heart & Mind that I have been whispering to you even through all of your “Know‑Nots,” even when you didn’t realize ~you KNEW NOT~ how your own negative thoughts were adding weight to your heart and derailing your mind. I was there then, just as I am here now, ready to take what was hurting you and give you what heals you. I never stopped offering you My Peace. I never stopped reaching My Goodness out to you. I never stopped waiting for the moment your heart would feel safe enough to let go and let Me carry what was never meant for you to hold & carry alone.
And once again I tenderly and gently reminded you, ⟪No weapon formed against you will prosper.⟫ Even the ones your own mind had formed, because you released them to Me.
(gentle pause)
And Child of Love… when you released them, you stepped into the very place I had been guiding you toward all along — the place where My Peace meets your surrender, where My Love-Light meets your letting go, where My Love meets your “Yes.” This is why everything began to shift inside of you & the weights began to lift. This is why clarity began to rise… because your heart and mind were finally coming into alignment with Mine.
It was like the crosshairs you remember from your childhood TV screen ~ when the vertical and the horizontal finally meet in the center, the picture becomes clear. That is what was happening inside of you: your thoughts (the horizontal) and your heart (the vertical) were finally meeting in the center of My Truth. And in that alignment, the True image of your reality in Me came into focus ! And my heart danced as I saw your heart and mind steady, become peaceful, feel whole, and filled with My Life, Love-Light, Goodness & Truth!
You were finally experiencing what your heart had been longing for… the freedom that comes when you let Me be the Keeper of your thoughts and the Guardian of your heart.
Child of Love:
Father of Love… hearing Your Heart like this… it settles something so deep inside me. I can feel Your words beautifully gathering up all the pieces of my story — the good, the not‑so‑good, the misunderstood, the “Know‑Nots” — and You are weaving them all into something whole, something soft, comforting, beautiful and something filled with Your Goodness. I can finally see that even in my “Know Not” moments when I didn’t know what I was doing, even when I didn’t understand how my own thoughts were hurting me… You were still guiding me, still guarding me, still waiting with such patience, kindness and tenderness like the Good Father of Love that You are.
And now I understand… every time I felt lost, You were still leading me. Every time I felt weighed down, You were still whispering Your Gentle Peace. Every time it felt dark and I was afraid, You were still offering me Your LoveLight. You never stopped inviting me into this heart2heart exchange ~ even when I didn’t recognize Your Good Heart2Heart invitation. You never stopped holding out Your Goodness ~ even when I was too overwhelmed to reach for it. You never stopped loving me ~ even when I didn’t know how to love myself…yet…with Your Love…
(gentle pause)
And Father of Love… when You said that even the weapons my own mind formed would not prosper because I released them to You… something inside me broke open. I realized You weren’t disappointed in me maybe like I formerly imagined. You weren’t frustrated with me like maybe I expected because I had experienced from my earthly father. You weren’t keeping score of my “Know‑Nots” or holding them against me. You were simply waiting for the very moment my heart would feel safe, trusting and brave enough to let You carry what I was never meant to carry alone.
And when I finally let go… when I finally said “Yes”… when I finally chose You… I felt that alignment You spoke of. I felt the crosshairs of my heart and mind meeting in the center of Your Loving Truth. I felt the picture of who I am in You becoming clear…for the very first time. I felt Your Peace meeting my holy and sacred inner surrender of it all. I felt Your Love-Light meeting my letting go and releasing. I felt Your Love meeting my “Yes” in this beautiful heart2heart dance between Your Father’s Heart and mine.
(gentle pause)
And Father… now I can see something I never saw before: You were bringing good out of all of it. Even the parts I thought were wasted and even the parts I thought were the “lost things.” Even the parts I thought were too broken. Even the parts I thought were all my fault — the things I was sadly taught to believe growing up… as if any child could ever have that much power. Deep down I knew I didn’t, but I was told that I did, and that confusion shaped so much of my inner world. I was told that if I could just fix what was “wrong” in me, then others would be better toward me… as if their brokenness was mine to repair.
But Father… now I see it. That was never Your voice. That was never Your calling. That was never Your truth.
I couldn’t fix what was broken in someone else’s heart ~ only You could do that. But I was made to feel responsible for their storms, their wounds, their reactions, their “Know‑Nots.” And because I was told it was all my fault, I couldn’t see my part clearly… I couldn’t see what was mine and what was never mine to carry. No wonder the crosshairs inside me were so misaligned. No wonder my heart felt so heavy. No wonder my imagination spiraled into fear — I was trying to carry a weight that was never meant for me.
But Father… You never gave me that kind of power. You never asked me to fix what was broken in another heart. You never placed their healing on my shoulders. You never told me I was responsible for their “Know‑Nots.”
That was never Your Love assignment for me. That was never Your Love’s Truth spoken over or to me. That was never Your Love’s way.
My calling was always to partner with You vertically ~ Heart2Heart ~ letting You heal my heart, my thoughts, my wounds… so that Your Love in me could one day flow horizontally to others. But it had to begin with You. It had to begin inside. It had to begin with Your Truth rewriting the lies and confusion I had carried for so long.
And Father… when I finally let all of that go ~ the false responsibility, the misplaced guilt, the belief that I had to fix everything and everyone ~ I gave that to You too. And in that surrender, something sacred & Holy happened inside of my heart and mind ~ my whole being.
You were turning every time I mis‑stepped into stepping stones in my healing journey. You were turning all of my fears into places where Your Peace & Perfect Love could enter. You were turning my “Know‑Nots” into places where Your Wisdom could bloom and decorate my life. You were turning my heavy weighted thoughts ~ the torn, worn and all the holes ~ into places where Your Light could shine to me and through me. You were turning my sorrows into places where Your Joy could rise.
You were taking everything ~ the good and the not‑so‑good ~ and You were shaping and turning it into something Good that would lead me right back into Your Loving arms… right back into Perfect Alignment… right back into the truth of who I am in You.
(gentle pause)
Father of Love… thank You for redeeming even the parts of my story I didn’t understand… there were so many Know‑Nots You untangled inside of me… You made & created something beautiful & comforting to my heart out of those, too. Thank You for never letting all of my fears define my identity even though I may have imagined that they could. Thank You for never letting my “Know‑Nots” cancel Your Good plans for me. Thank You for turning even my misused imagination into a Healing doorway for me to walk through and experience Your Peace to the full. Thank You for guiding me into Your freedom… Your clarity… Your alignment… Your Love.
And Father… I choose You still. I choose You again and again. I choose You now. I choose You with every breath my heart remembers how to breathe from now and through eternity.
(gentle pause)
… and now I understand why the misalignment in my heart and mind hurt so much ~ because I was trying to live horizontally without first being held vertically. I was trying to love from these empty places I felt inside of me, trying to carry what wasn’t mine that I was told I needed to carry for them, trying to fix what only You could heal inside of them but without the know‑how to do it.
But now… I realize their Know‑Nots were never mine to heal. Their storms were never mine to calm. Their wounds were never mine to mend. Their broken places were never mine to repair. Those were places only Your Love could reach inside of them, only Your Light could enter and do it’s healing heartwork, and only Your Wisdom could internally untangle for them.
And now that I am vertically aligned with Your Heart, I can finally feel the Heart2Heart flow of Love the way You designed it from the beginning ~ steady, gentle, effortless, and true. I can feel Your Love filling the places that once felt empty inside of me… I can feel Your Peace watching over and guarding the doorway to my heart and mind ~ replacing the heavy weighted emotions & negative thoughts my heart & mind once carried… Your Truth untangling every Know Not and all that wasn’t really true that once confused me… and Your Healing Love-Light guiding me into seeing and experiencing who I’ve always been in You.
And Father… as all of this settles inside me, I feel something else too ~ an easy and restful quietness, a peace be stillness, an emotionally safety I’ve never known before. It’s like my heart and mind are finally resting in the place they were created to rest… in You.
(gentle pause)
Love:
Yes… Child of Love. And as you do this, your mind and heart are guarded…
(gentle pause)
Child of Love:
So now, Father of Love… I can say it with my whole heart:
Thank You for never leaving me in the places I didn’t understand. Thank You for never letting my fears define my story. Thank You for never letting my “Know‑Nots” cancel Your Good plans. Thank You for turning even my misused imagination into a doorway for Your Peace. Thank You for guiding me into this freedom… this clarity… this alignment… this Love.
And Father… I choose You still. I choose You again. I choose You now. I choose You with every breath my heart remembers how to breathe.
(gentle pause)
Love:
Yes… Child of Love. And as you do this, your mind and heart are guarded. ⟪My peace, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your heart and your mind in Me.⟫ I am the watchman over your thoughts. I am the guardsman of your heart. You do not need to hold it alone. I am holding it. I am steadying it. I am keeping it.
(gentle pause)
Your imagination, your mind, your heart… they are restored. Not as places of fear or replayed pain… but as spaces where My truth and My life dwell. You see through My eyes. You imagine with hope. You partner with Me in what is good, whole, and life-giving.
(gentle pause)
Child of Love:
I feel it… the noise quiets. The weight lifts. I rest. Not because the world has changed… but because You are here. Because You guard me.
(a soft breath)
And Father… I can feel it now ~the difference between when my thoughts were magnifying fear and when my heart is magnifying You. When fear was magnified, everything felt heavy, confusing, overwhelming. But now… now that my heart is resting in You, I can feel how light everything becomes. I can feel how Your Perfect Peace & Perfect Love fills all the holes and spaces where fear once lived. I can feel how Your Perfect Love steadies what once felt so shaky inside me. It’s like my whole inner world is learning a new rhythm and a new dance ~ a Heart2Heart rhythm & dance with Your Love.
(gentle pause)
Love:
Yes, Child of Love… because what you magnify shapes what you experience. When you magnify Me, you experience My Life… My joy… My abundance. ⟪I have come that you may have life, and have it more abundantly.⟫ Your imagination, your mind, your heart—they are now instruments of life… of hope… of truth… of blessing.
(gentle pause)
Child of Love:
I understand now… I don’t need to rehearse fear or dwell in darkness. I can choose, every time, “I CHOOSE YOU.” And when I do… everything shifts.
(gentle pause)
And Father… I can feel it — choosing You is choosing Life, choosing Peace, choosing the rhythm my heart was created for. It’s like every time I choose You, something inside me becomes clearer, lighter, steadier… more me in You.
(gentle pause)
Love:
And now… let Me lead you in prayer, Child of Love… let Me speak My heart over yours…
(a quiet moment to still and a soft breath to begin)
Love (praying):
Child of Love, you are in Me… and I am in you. Every thought you have released, every worry, every imagined outcome… I hold them. You are not outside My care… you are within My embrace.
I thank You for choosing Life. ⟪I have set before you life and blessing… and you have chosen life.⟫ Because you chose Me, you receive the fullness of what I have already given you.
(gentle pause)
I place My peace over your heart and mind. ⟪My peace, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your heart and your mind in Me.⟫ You do not need to stay awake in your thoughts… I am the watchman over your heart, the guardsman of your mind. I am always awake, always steady, always keeping you.
(gentle pause)
Rest, Child of Love. Rest in My Life. Rest in My Peace. Rest in the abundant Life that has been yours all along.
(gentle pause)
And know this… nothing in your past, nothing in your “Know‑Nots,” nothing in your fears, nothing in your misunderstandings has ever changed My Love for you. You have always been Mine. You have always been held. You have always been the delight of My Heart.
(gentle pause)
Child of Love:
I receive it… Your peace… Your covering… Your truth…
And with all that I am…
“I CHOOSE YOU.”
(gentle pause)
And Father… I choose You not out of fear, not out of striving, not out of trying to earn anything… but because my heart finally knows where home is. My heart knows its Keeper. My heart knows its Source is only in YOU. My heart knows You are my Father, my Father of Love.
(gentle pause)
Love:
And I receive you, my sweet child… fully… you are forever held… and forever kept… in My Perfect Healing Love.
And Child of Love… this is where we walk from now on — Heart2Heart, step by step, breath by breath, in the rhythm of My Peace and the fullness of My Life. Nothing missing. Nothing broken. Nothing lost. Only Love… only wholeness… only Me in you, and you in Me.
And Child of Love… if your heart desires to keep singing this moment with Me, to stay in this rhythm of choosing and being chosen, I have placed My Healing songs that I have been singing over you all during your healing journey for this very purpose. These are the LoveSongs birthed from our Heart2Heart encounters — songs that carry My Healing Peace, My Loving Truth, My Blissful Joy, and My Heart2Heart Love into the places your heart longs to rest, feel safe, secure, comforted and completely whole.
And the song you have been singing with Me all throughout this writing ~ “I CHOOSE YOU” ~is one of them. It is the melody of your surrender, the rhythm of your healing, the anthem of your alignment, the echo of your heart returning home to my heart.
If your heart desires… let this be the moment you listen and you breathe with Me. Let this be the moment where the words you’ve spoken and I have spoken Heart2Heart in this House of Love rise into our Lovesong ~ your LoveSong — the one I wrote with you and through you.
Let “I CHOOSE YOU” be the continuation of this encounter… the place where this heart2heart moment becomes a melody your soul can return to again and again.
(an inhaled and exhaled Breath of Love)
Child of Love:
Father of Love… yes. I step into this song with You. I let my heart rise into the melody You’ve written over my life. I let my “I CHOOSE YOU” become the sound of my surrender, the rhythm of my healing, the echo of my heart resting in Yours from now to forever.
I receive Your invitation… and I sing & dance in this LoveSong with You ~Heart2Heart, now and always.
You learn so much over the years about what makes a friendship healthy, holy, and forever~lasting. Wisdom begins to whisper to you in the quiet places, showing you the difference between connections that lift your heart like sunlight and ones that weigh your spirit down like a heavy storm cloud. Wisdom also reveals which connections are (emotionally) safe and which ones are not, gently teaching you that the difference between the two is always found in what Love is and what Love is not. And when Love opens your eyes, it becomes beautifully clear who belongs in your Love Tribe ~ who is ready for the inner Heart~Rooms of your life and who needs to linger in the softer outer spaces while Love Himself tends to their healing.
You can feel the truth of a friendship deep inside your own heart. Some people leave you feeling seen, heard, valued, and safe ~ like nothing you shared would ever be twisted, repeated, or used against you. With them, there is no pressure to perform or pretend. You can breathe. You can exhale. You can be fully yourself. You can rest in the sweet knowing that your heart is held gently and honored deeply. This is what Kingdom Love feels like. This is how Kingdom Lovers love. They love with tenderness, honor, respect, and safety. These are the ones who belong in the Living Room of Trust, where hearts sit close, conversations glow like warm light, and peace settles over you like a soft blanket.
And then there are the moments when you walk away from someone and you don’t shrink — you simply see. Love has taught you who you are, and once you know your worth in Christ, you no longer internalize someone else’s unloving behavior. Their tone, their reactions, their choices stop defining you and start revealing them. Their words become a mirror, a quiet tattle-taling of what is unhealed inside their heart, not yours. You no longer tiptoe or second~guess yourself, but you do pay attention. You notice when trust has been lost! You notice when someone’s behavior crosses from accidental mistakes into intentional choices — choices they knew were wrong, choices they knew would wound you if you ever found out, choices they made anyway. Whether it was speaking harshly, speaking about you behind your back, betraying your confidence, or mishandling your heart, they chose it. And Love helps you see the truth without losing your peace.
So you forgive ~ because your heart is anchored in Kingdom Love ~but you no longer offer the same access. You no longer hand them the keys to the inner rooms of your heart. Not out of punishment, not out of rejection, but out of wisdom. Out of protection. Out of honoring the sacredness of your own heart. They simply remain in the gentler Outer Courtyard of your heart for now ~ not because they are unwelcome, but because their hearts are not yet healed enough to hold yours safely. They are still on their journey, still needing to learn or still learning the ways of Love, still letting Love Himself untangle the knots inside them. And you genuinely want that healing for them ~ even if reconciliation is not possible ~ because healed hearts are free hearts.
Some people speak to you like you’re standing on a witness stand, being questioned, corrected, or charged with something you never did. Their tone carries accusation instead of compassion, pressure instead of peace. This is not Kingdom Love. Kingdom Love never interrogates your heart. Kingdom Lovers do not use their words to shame, belittle, or make you feel small. These are the ones who remain outside the Walls of Safety for a season or sometimes a lifetime ~ not because they are cast out, but because Love Himself is still softening their tone, healing their wounds, and teaching them how to speak life instead of out of their unhealed wounds, insecurities, etc.
And then there are the gossipers ~ the ones who whisper your private heart~stories to others. They shrink you to feel bigger. They expose you to feel important. Their insecurities and low sense of worth drive this unloving behavior. This is not Kingdom Love either. Kingdom Lovers protect your name, your stories, and your heart always. They keep your private stories locked in their heart’s vault and keep them safe for their whole lifetime. They cover you, not uncover you. Gossipers cannot yet be trusted with the Garden of Your Heart, not because they are rejected, but because they need healing before they can tend anything sacred from your heart again. This is loving wisdom.
Your heart deserves the kind of friendships where your reputation is safe even on your worst day. The kind where you never have to replay the conversation in the car afterward, hoping that sharing your “REAL” vulnerability with them won’t ever be mishandled. The kind where trust is so deep that the thought of betrayal never even crosses your mind. The kind where you leave lighter than when you arrived because their presence lifts you instead of draining you. These are the friends who belong in the Inner Sanctuary, where Love Himself dwells and where hearts are held with a beautiful, loving, sacred and holy reverence.
And for those who accuse, gossip, or wound ~ you forgive them as Love has forgiven you. You pray for them, not because their behavior was acceptable, but because you know they are hurting inside. You pray they let Love Himself heal their wounds so they do not keep wounding others. You pray they learn the ways of Kingdom Love so they never hurt another friend, another heart, or another soul in this way again. And even if reconciliation is not possible, you still want healing for them more than anything ~ because healed hearts are free hearts, and freedom is what Love longs to give them! I want healing for everyone, too.
A true, genuine, safe friendship never weighs heavy on your heart. It brings peace. It brings rest. It brings joy. It brings the feeling of being held in Love’s gentle hands. This is the fruit of Kingdom Love. This is the way Kingdom Lovers walk with one another ~ heart to heart, truth to truth, Love to Love, room to room in the House of Love.
May every friendship in your life be loyal and true, genuine and safe, trustworthy and tender, rooted in Love Himself and flowing Heart2Heart in the House of Love.
The right friends are the ones whose hearts bring Love and make Love peaceful and restful. Kingdom Lovers don’t compete with you or compare themselves to you because they’re not threatened by how bright you shine. In fact, they want you to shine, because when you shine your Life, Light, and Love, you are shining His Life, Light, and Love. Kingdom Lovers don’t complain when your life rises to the tippy top or when God’s Love blessings find you. Their hearts don’t get tangled in jealousy or insecurity when they see you grow. They help bring the sunshine into your life, they water you with encouragement, and they feel inspired when they see the Garden of your heart blooming and flourishing.
Kingdom Lovers feel joy when they see you thrive. They feel honored to witness your beautiful becoming. They build you up when life feels heavy and remind you who you are in the Eyes of Love Himself when you forget. They cheer for you loudly because their love for you is real and rooted all the way down to the depths.
The right friends carry a Love that celebrates you from sunup to sundown. They clap for you when the sun is bright over your life, and they stand beside you when the shadows feel forever long. They don’t shrink when you rise to the highest heights, and they don’t disappear when you feel like you’re crawling through the valley. Their hearts stay steady and one hundred percent faithful. Their loyalty stays warm. Their presence stays true. There is no jealousy from beginning to end, no competition, no hidden resentment. Just a sweet Love flowing in every way Love was always meant to flow ~ freely, super generously, and without fear or hesitancy.
Because in the House of Love, real friendship is never about who is ahead as the top dog or who comes in last place. It is about hearts walking Heart2Heart together, lifting one another to the highest heights, honoring the beauty in each other, and celebrating every personal victory as if Heaven handed it to both of you on a silver platter. That is friendship done right as right can be. That is friendship done Heart2Heart as it should be. Let’s keep helping walk each other Home ~ to the Home of God’s Heart, here in the House of Love ~ on earth as it is in Heaven.
You are not hard to love, Child of Love. Who you are is Who God says you are. You were never someone whose heart was meant to be handled carelessly. So do not own anything anyone says about you that does not agree with God’s definition of who you are. You were created with a beautiful depth, a precious tenderness, and the sacred worth of Heaven’s own heart that declared your value and identity before creation took its first breath. Your heart was never designed to be held by unhealed hands. Somewhere along the way, someone who did not understand the true meaning of Love, someone who was not carrying Love Himself inside their own heart, tried to make you believe that you were the problem. They acted as if their mistreatment was your responsibility, as if their behavior was something you caused. But unloving hearts cannot tell the truth about you because they cannot see the truth until they have encountered the Truth. They cannot define you when they do not even know who they are. They cannot rewrite the beauty of who you are because they did not create you or write your story. They are not called nor qualified to speak over your identity. They do not even know their own identity or they would never have treated you that way. What you were experiencing was their insecurities inside themselves and their low sense of worth. Their behavior is on them, not you.
You are loved beyond heaven’s measure. You were worth it all to Jesus ~ every stripe, every wound, every breath, every drop of blood. His Finished Work is the eternal proof of your worth. And when you finally learn that your identity, your value, and your worth come from WHO Love Himself says you are, everything inside you begins to lift and shift. You start to love yourself with His Love. You start to see yourself through His eyes ~ eyes that have never once looked at you with disappointment or irritation, but only with tenderness, pleasure, and tender affection.
And as Love Himself heals your sight, you also learn how to hold others in Love. You forgive others as Love has forgiven you. You release them into His hands because forgiveness frees your heart, not theirs. You pray for those who hurt you, not because their behavior was acceptable, but because you know their hearts are wounded and in need of the same Love that healed you. Wisdom teaches you that they must do their own healing heartwork ~ their own reconciling with Love Himself ~ or else you could set yourself up for a repeat of the same unloving and unkind behavior. Love does not ask you to return to what broke you. Love asks you to bless them from a distance while they let Love Himself mend what is shattered inside them.
And as you begin to see yourself through the eyes of Love Himself, you learn to stand in His Loving truth. You stop bending to disrespect. You stop shrinking to make others comfortable. You stop allowing people who refuse to love themselves to decide how lovable you are. When you know your worth, you stop letting anyone treat you as if you have none. Their behavior is on them, not on you. You did not cause their unkindness. You did not provoke their mistreatment. You did not make them act unloving. Their choices reveal their own wounds, their own broken places, their own unhealed stories. You cannot fix what is hurting inside someone else’s heart. That is the work of Love Himself, not yours.
So lift your chin, Child of Love. Stand tall in who you are. Do not bend to anyone’s disrespect, mistreatment, or unloving ways in the name of “love.” That is not Love asking you to bend to their brokenness or carry the weight of their unhealed places. The only bending you can do is to bend your knee and pray for them to be healed in the name of Love Himself, because only Love can reach the places in them that you were never meant to carry. You are not hard to love ~ you are deeply, fiercely & eternally loved. You are loved with a Love that counted the cost and still chose you. You are loved with a Love that calls you worthy, precious, chosen, and whole.
You are not hard to love. You are loved hard ~ by Love Himself.
The SOZO – JOY DANCE ZONE is where we dance in the reality that we are saved, healed, delivered, blessed, protected, prosperous, set apart & made whole since He rolled away the stone! HALLELUJAH – Thank You, Jesus! We worship You, our SOZO GOOD DADDYGOD!
Every time you feel a big emotion rise up inside you, imagine your emotion(s) as a little child coming to you with their whole heart open and exposed, trying to tell you what they’re feeling inside. Their emotion isn’t wrong, dramatic, or too much. It’s simply the little child inside you asking to be seen, heard, known and held. When you ignore their emotion(s), it feels the same as ignoring your child who came to you with their hands trembling and and their eyes full of tears. When you do this, it leaves that part of you feeling abandoned, unseen, unknown, unheard and feeling invisible & unimportant, as if their truth didn’t matter enough to be noticed. Love is making someone feel seen, heard, known and special to you. So, basically, it leaves that part of you feeling UNLOVED.
And when you dismiss any of your emotions or tell yourself you “shouldn’t feel that way,” it’s like you are telling that little child that their voice doesn’t matter or count. The little child inside of you gets stuck with that sad feeling, and now they begin to question themselves from the inside out. They might begin to question their body, their perceptions, things they are sensing that feel real to them, and their inner “know” of who they believe, feel or think they are. Then they might start to wonder “Is something wrong with me?” when all they really needed was your love: your time, attention, presence, comfort, gentleness, and to hear you say, “I see you. I hear you. I’m with you. I’m for you. I care about what you are feeling and thinking. I am in your corner. I am not going anywhere. You’re safe with me.”
When you pause long enough to become aware about what you’re feeling, when you begin to validate your feelings/emotions, when you begin to comfort and soothe yourself, something beautiful begins to happen. That little child inside you feels safe again. They feel LOVED! They feel SEEN! They feel HEARD. They feel KNOWN. They feel supported, understood, and no longer alone. And in that safety you have created for them to express their REAL, their emotions can finally move through you instead of getting trapped inside the storehouse within you.
This is where Love Himself meets you ~right in the middle of ALL the feelings and emotions ! Love Himself helps you hold what feels too big for you to carry or store inside anymore. Love reminds you that nothing you feel is too much for Him. That’s what I love about Love, Jesus just makes EVERYTHING better no matter what you are going through or what you are still storing inside or carrying that is much too big for you.
In the House of Love, this is how we treat all of our emotions. We don’t shame, silence, or push our feelings or emotions away. We don’t treat our emotions as problems we need to fix or weaknesses we need to hide. We treat our emotions as tender little ones who need to feel Love. And Love Himself is the One who teaches us how to do this. Love bends down to us eye level, holds our trembling hands and heavy emotions into His arms, and whispers, “I’m here. I see you. I hear you. I love you. I’m not leaving you.” When you let Love Himself sit with you and beside you in those moments, you begin to treat your own heart the way He treats YOU ! You begin to treat yourself gently, patiently, compassionately, without judgment or pressure. And then once you learn to love and treat yourself the way Love Himself does, Jesus love inside of you shows you how to become HIS LOVE to others all around you.
Loving your emotions with Love Himself means letting Love be the atmosphere your heart peacefully breathes in. It means letting Love hold the parts of you that feel scared, anxious, stressed, overwhelmed, insecure or unsure. It means letting Love teach you how to comfort yourself the way He comforts you. And as you do, something inside of you begins to shift. Instead of fighting your emotions, you learn it is being love to yourself to start listening to them. Instead of fearing your emotions you start understanding why you feel that way and you love yourself through them one by one. You stop running from your emotions and start embracing your REAL emotions with the same loving-kindness and tenderness Love Himself uses when He embraces you ~ all of you, including all of your emotions…
This is the Heart2Heart way. This is the House of Love way. This is the way of Love Himself ~the Father of Love who never ignores, never dismisses, never abandons, but always comes close, always comforts, and always heals YOU. When you learn to love your emotions with Love Himself, you begin to live from a heart that not only feels safe but is safe, steady, and deeply held and embraced. And from that LOVED place, Love flows freely ~from His heart to your heart and to others hearts all around you! Love is a WIN-WIN experience! So, learn to LOVE you ~ loving your emotions with Love Himself! Your Love testimony will bless the whole world around you once Love Himself heals your little ones (emotions) inside of you!
Your heart is not too shattered for your Redeemer’s love to mend & WHOLEHEARTEDLY HEAL ! This is my Godstory testimony! Embrace the finished work of Jesus ! Jesus love is embracing you!
“He was broken. we were healed.”
Isaiah 53
Heart2Heart in His Love,
Momo Smiley
REDEEMER
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Love Himself, Jesus, speaks straight to your heart in a way that feels like warmth wrapping around every hurting place inside of you. In the gentlest voice, He whispers to your heart, “My Child, I came for your story. I came for your wounds. I’m right there in the middle of your hurting with you , and you are never alone.” He steps into the places you thought were too dark, too broken, too painful, and He brings His life and His love into the light. He calls you blessed even when you feel homeless in your own heart. He calls you blessed when the world throws stones of judgment and condemnation at you. And He whispers ever so tenderly to your heart, “I took it all for you. I carried it all for you. I counted the cost, and I found you worthy of it all. You are worth every stripe I took on My back. You are worth every hateful, gossiping, condemning and shaming word from the crowd. You, my child are worth everything… worth it all ~ just so I could bring you hope ~ a confident expectation of a good God outcome ! I am singing HOPE over your future and healing over your past! Today, rest in my love and the confidence that I have you ! And all of it was worth it just so I could have YOU!”
Love Himself gathers the shattered pieces of your life with tenderness and says, “Give all of the broken pieces to Me. Let Me show you how Love (I) see you.” Love doesn’t see you through the world’s eyes. Love doesn’t measure you by your past or your pain. Love sees you through the eyes of the One who created you ~ the One who formed you from the very heart of your Father of Love. Love sees the beauty He placed inside you. Love sees the purpose He breathed into you. Love sees the love you were made from and the love you were made for. You beautifully came from the Garden of God’s own heart, and He keeps calling you back into the Secret Place where your soul can breathe again.
Love’s invitation to you and every heart is simple and full of His Life, Light & Love: “Come live. Come live in my Love that redeems you wherever you are. Come live in my Love that restores you no matter what…come just as you are. Come live in my House of Love with me! Come live in my Love that never stops pursuing you ~ ever!”
Let’s talk about LOVE! Love speaks to heal, not to hurt. Love never called you to attack anyone. Love will never send you into a moment with sharp words, harsh tones, or a heart ready to strike. If something needs to be addressed, you address it in Love ~ with a heart that wants healing, not harm. Verbally attacking someone to their face isn’t Love, and talking about them behind their back is still attacking them but just from another angle. Even using your written words to wound someone is still an attack, you are just delivering your hurtful words in another way. None of your attacking words to their face or behind their back carries the fragrance of Love. Love doesn’t attack or ridicule people…not personally and not their ministries either. Love doesn’t sound like a Gong! And if it does, you have just hurt the one you say you love.
Love doesn’t shame people. Love doesn’t tear people down. Love doesn’t use words as weapons. Love restores. Love protects. Love tells the truth with gentleness and honor. When your heart is rooted in Love Himself, you don’t need to attack anyone ~you’re carrying too much Love inside you to use your voice to injure someone else’s heart. Our words should be spoken or written to heal, not to hurt. Our words should be used to lift and encourage others, not to crush. Our words should be spoken to bring peace, not drama.
That’s the Heart2Heart way. That’s the House of Love way. That’s the Jesus way.
Jesus took all of the curses — every single one — so we could walk completely free from them. When He became the curse for us, He broke the power of every lie, every chain, every generational pattern, and every weapon that ever tried to form against us. Galatians 3:13. Because Jesus took all the curses, we are free from all the curses. That’s not a future hope — that’s our right‑now reality. Our present‑tense freedom. Our redeemed identity.
Because of Jesus, we don’t live under the weight of the law or the fear of punishment anymore. We live as the Redeemed because of our Redeemer. We live under Grace because His power, His strength, and His ability live inside us, giving us what we could never produce on our own. And we live under Love Himself, because Love came down, rescued us, and freed us from the old law. Now we live by a new way — the Beautiful Heart2Heart Law of Love.
And the Law of Love is never heavy when you become a Kingdom Lover. It’s not a checklist. It’s not pressure. It’s not force or coercion. It’s simply the Love‑life that flows out of you when Love Himself lives inside you. It’s loving your Father of Love with your whole heart, loving others with the same Love He pours over you, and loving yourself with the compassion He continually wraps around you.
In the House of Love, loving God, loving yourself, and loving others becomes the most natural thing in the world. Love becomes who you are, not something you try to do. Loving others becomes fun, not forced. Kindness rises up in you without effort. Compassion and genuine empathy shape the way you speak, influence the way you move, and guide the way you show up as Love — whether you’re in someone’s presence or loving them quietly in your heart. Forgiveness becomes freedom, not a burden.
When Love Himself heals your heart, Love just flows ~ from the inside of you to the outside of you. You don’t have to push it, pressure it, or perform it. Love expresses Himself naturally through you because you’re carrying Love Himself inside your heart. And wherever you go, He goes. When you carry Love Himself, you carry His gentleness, His patience, His joy, His compassion, His heart for others, and His heart for you. This is the Kingdom of Love way. This is the Heart2Heart way. This is the House of Love way.
Jesus didn’t just remove the curse — He replaced it with blessing, identity, and freedom. That’s why your heart can rest. That’s why your spirit can breathe and bloom again. That’s why your life carries the melodies of someone who has been redeemed by the Redeemer Himself.
It doesn’t matter the song. It doesn’t matter the event. It doesn’t matter where or when. When it’s Heart2Heart Time, it’s always the right time to have fun, sing, dance, smile, laugh, and share those sweet heart‑to‑heart moments with the ones you love.
When your friend “gets down with it” with you — that’s the moment you know exactly who your Love & Fun Tribe is. When you know… you know. Their energy rises with yours. Their joy and bliss syncs with yours. Their presence says, “I’m here for the fun, the love, and these moments with you.”
So turn up the music and let the good times roll. The people who are meant to be there will show up ~fully, freely, and in their whole Love & Fun Tribe mode. No forcing. No convincing. Just pure, heart‑to‑heart joy!
Romans 8:28 SuperHeroes are simply sons and daughters whose SuperHearts have been supernaturally healed by God — His Super added to their natural. That’s what makes you powerful. That’s what makes you radiant. And I am so proud of you for partnering with God to turn your pain into something power‑fully‑good. Romans 8:28
Now keep partnering with Him as you use and share your superpower~the SuperLove He placed inside you ~to help heal the brokenhearted. Isaiah 61 This is your true SuperHero strength: taking the Love that restored you and pouring it into others so they can turn their pain into their own SUPERPOWER, too.
This is what Kingdom SuperHeroes do. They SUPERLOVE others with their SUPERHEARTS. This is what our SuperHero Lover, Jesus does here in the House of Love. And when you are one of His Children of Love, this isn’t just what you do… it’s who you are and how you love!!! Love you all with His SUPERLOVE !!!
Because a Heart2Heart Sister looks at her sisters through Jesus’ Eyes of Love, she never feels the need to compete with anyone. His Love secures her worth, her value, and her identity so deeply that comparison has no place in her heart. Competition doesn’t grow in a heart where Love Himself has already settled the truth of who she is in Him!
Instead, Heart2Heart Sisters in the SisterHood celebrate each other’s victories with the same joy Love Himself does. When her sister wins, it feels like her own win because Love makes room for everyone to rise! In the House of Love, there is no lack, no rivalry, no 1-upping, no insecurity, etc. There’s only room for more joy, more growth, more rising and more good times together in the House of Love!
Heart2Heart Love here in the House of Love creates the most beautiful space for every daughter of love to flourish, bloom and grow in His Love!
In fact, I just want you, all of my sisters and brothers to know that I love making room for you all to win and rise !
I love watching people rise from the ashes & places that tried to break them ! I love to see them recover out loud from the messes, the heartbreaks, the disappointments, and betrayals and step into the success, the love, hope, Good God Outcomes and the deep bliss their hearts were always worthy of. There’s something sacred about personally witnessing someone’s Resurrection! Seeing them come back to life, stronger through God’s Grace, softer, more compassionate, more empathetic, wiser, and more open to Love than ever before is my absolute FAVORITE!
I know it’s true!!! Once Love Himself begins healing your heart, you don’t just survive! You bloom in His Love!
Wherever you are in your healing journey, I want you to trust & believe that some of your brightest days, biggest smiles, and loudest, most joy‑filled laughs are still ahead of you! Your story isn’t finished, and Love has chapters waiting for you that will make your heart breathe again!!!
You can be yourself — your real, honest, breathing REAL self. You don’t have to hide the tears you try so hard to hold back. Your tears just simply mean your heart is still alive, still beating, still reaching out for Love.
Real Love meets you right where you are. You don’t have to cover your scars or pretend you’re untouched or unscarred by life.
In the House of Love ~ You are Loved as you are ~wherever you are!
The ones who truly care about you will protect your heart, not wound it! That’s a sure heart2heart fact! The Lovers in your life will hold space for your truth ~ your real ~ not shame you for being truthful and real. They will see you, hear you, and honor the tenderness inside you. So, let’s keep loving others as they are here in the House of Love ~ The Heart 2 Heart, Kingdom of Love Way!
Living through what Love is not makes you profoundly grateful for what Love truly is. When you’ve walked through the counterfeits, the half‑loves, the conditional loves, the unkind loves… your heart becomes wide awake to the beauty of real Love when it finally finds you.
There comes a time when you have to unlearn everything unloving people taught you to believe about love. Their version was never the truth. Then you begin learning from the real Lovers — the ones who love with purity, kindness, consistency, and heart. And the difference is unmistakable.
They look nothing the same.
They sound nothing the same.
They feel nothing the same.
You never miss what love is not, but you cherish deeply what Love really is. Once your heart knows the real thing, you don’t go back to the ones who couldn’t love you well — not when you’ve tasted the goodness of the LoveHearts who do.
So love the good Love Bringers!!! Honor the good Love Teachers!! The ones who show up with tenderness, truth, and heart. I see you! I hear you! I feel you! And I cherish you more than you know!
Love was just a word to me until I found & encountered Love Himself — the One who breathed life into its true meaning! He is the very definition of Love, the personification of Love, the Best Love of all loves! And this Love lives in me. His presence is the heartbeat of my identity, the warmth in my breath, the truth that holds my heart steady. Every other version of love fades in comparison to the Love that He is — pure, faithful, healing, and alive within me.
What the world needs now truly is Love — real Love, the kind that heals, softens, restores, and brings people back to themselves. And honestly… when we look around, we can see that all the noise, opinions, and judgments out there aren’t working. They aren’t helping anyone. But Love does. Love always speaks a better word — and sometimes Love chooses silence because silence can protect peace.
As far as it depends on you, keep it light, keep it gentle, keep it loving out there. You carry the power to shift the atmosphere around you simply by choosing Love over reaction, compassion over criticism, and peace over proving a point.
Some people speak loudly about lives they’ve never lived. They offer opinions about struggles they’ve never carried and pass judgment on paths they’ve never walked. But in the House of Love, we don’t meet judgment with judgment — we meet it with grace. We remember that every heart has a story, every soul has a battle, and every person is walking through something unseen.
So we stay rooted in Love. We stay grounded in compassion. We stay aligned with His heart.
Because Love — real Love — is the only thing that actually changes anything.
Loving others the House of Love way means showing up with your whole heart, not just when it’s easy or convenient. It means being present when they need you, not only when the timing fits your world. It’s listening with your heart wide open, supporting them when life feels heavy, and celebrating them when joy overflows. It’s being the kind of friend who checks in, who remembers the little things, who makes people feel seen, valued, and deeply appreciated.
Real love doesn’t just share laughter — it shares life. It shows up. It stays loyal. It stays trustworthy! It makes sure no one walks alone. It treats others the way Love Himself treats us: with kindness, honesty, tenderness, and truth. Heart‑to‑heart friendship grows because of presence, consistency, and love in action — not just words.
This is the House of Love way… loving others the same way Jesus loves us: faithfully, gently, and with a heart that says, “You matter, and I’m here.”
I love how DaddyGod’s Word has become the very air I breathe. Everywhere I go, I’m walking inside His Word — wrapped in it, held by it, carried by it. The same beautiful God who breathed creation into being is the One whose breath surrounds me now. His Word is before me, beside me, within me, above me, and behind me. I am saturated in His Word, and His Word saturates me. It is the fabric of my being — the atmosphere of my heart — the place where I live, move, and have my being in Him.
Walking In His Word — A Sacred Breath
This is the image I just had to create to visually express how I see myself as I inhale and exhale while walking in His Word. I breathe in the Truth of who I am — not who the world says, not who fear says, but who Love Himself declares me to be. And with every exhale, I release every lie, every doubt, every mind trap, every false identity that doesn’t agree with Heaven’s definition of me.
I inhale my worth. I inhale my value. I inhale my identity — His view, His opinion, His reality. And I exhale every label, stereotype, judgment, or name that doesn’t come into full agreement with who He says I am in Him.
I walk in full agreement with Jesus — Love Himself — and what He speaks over me.
Who I Am in Him
His Beloved
His Child of Love
The Daughter of the King
His Chosen
His Redeemed
His Precious One
I am Fearfully, Dearfully & Wonderfully Made
Living From His Eyes — The Gift of Inexpressible Peace
There is an inexpressible peace that has become one of the most precious gifts to my heart as I’ve learned who I am through His Eyes. His Eyes of Love see beyond what people think, say, assume, or misunderstand. His Eyes see the truth of me — the me He dreamed, the me He formed, the me He delights in.
Since beginning my healing journey at age 39, I’ve learned to see myself only through His Eyes. Only His Definition of Love counts. Only His View and Opinion is my true reality. Discovering my worth, value, and identity through His gaze has changed my entire life — how I walk with Him vertically, heart‑to‑heart, and how I see and love others horizontally.
I love walking in His Word — His Truth — because it frees me from the weight of other people’s judgments, opinions, and assumptions. I have never been more free than I am now that I know who I am in and through Jesus’ Eyes of Love.
And now, I invite you into this beautiful healing journey with me — this journey of learning to see yourself through His Eyes, to breathe His Word, to walk in His Love. Let’s help walk each other home. My Forever Home is being Heart‑to‑Heart with Him in His House of Love, now and forever.
I am defined by the SMILE OF GOD !!! He is just beaming & radiating with JOY over who He has created you & me to be!!! I am WHO my I AM says I AM !!! The Holy Spirit is the tangible KISS OF GOD living inside of us!! He is in me & I am in HIM ! Everything that He is ~ is living in me!
Thought of you with LUV 2day, but that’s nothing new. I thought about U yesterday, & days B4 that 2. I think of U in silence, I often speak your name. All I have are sweet memories & your pictures in a frame. Your memory is a precious keepsake, with which I’ll never part. God has U in His keeping, I’ll always have U in my ♥ HEART ♥.
I luv & miss U so much Daddy ~ Blowing Angel kisses 2 U ~ Always your baby girl !
Who are you thinking of especially today…right now? Who were your thoughts devoted to yesterday and the days before that? Who is that special someone that you think of in silence or even through the tears that leak from your eyes? Whose name do you often speak of in this time of the “Great Missing”… even if not audibly, you speak their name in your heart… Those sweet pixelated memories you see in these pictures have preserved their smile and your sweet memories with them that you remember like a precious keepsake you have saved in your heart’s locket.
Remember the precious memories from which you’ll never part will always keep your loved one close to you ~ forever in your heart.
I invite you to sit back and close your eyes as I sing my AbbaShai song…imagine your special loved one resting safely in the comforting arms of Jesus. You are in His loving arms, too…He holds you both closely forever next to His heart…from His loving presence you both will never part!
Heart2Heart in His Love,
Momo Smiley
ABBASHAI
ABBASHAI
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It’s NOT about who you IMPRESS — it’s about who you IMPACT.
Trying to impress someone is always about you. Impact, though, is about others. Impressions fade fast, but impact creates change that lasts. Impact adds value, offers love, and leaves people better than you found them. Impressing people usually comes from a short-lived desire for admiration, but impact grows out of humility, authenticity, and genuine care.
Impress vs. Impact — A Kingdom Comparison
Impress
Impact
Focuses on self
Image focused
Focuses on others
Heart focused
Seeks & desires admiration
Seeks healing & transformation
Temporary and surface-level
Lasting, personal and on a Heart2heart-level
Only shows polished success
Competitive spirit
Focuses on comparison that puts them in the spotlight
Speak to elevate themselves
Uses comparison language
Shares their REAL honestly and vulnerably
Love doesn’t keep score. Being Love wins.
Focuses on speaking to serve, not to shine. Focuses on connecting heart2heart.
Comes heart-level so others feel safe and welcomed
Promotes self
Goal is applause
Serve “me” attitude to guide, support and
strengthen their own cause & self-image
Builds & lifts others up
Goal is inner-change
Serve “others” attitude to guide, support, and strengthen others
through reminding them of their worth, value and identity / image in Christ
Leaves people watching them
Leaves people feeling unseen, unheard and unknown
Leaves people not feeling valued or loved
Leaves people feeling like they spent time with a 1-upper,
self-promoting, image chasing, attention seeking,
spotlight craving, approval driven seeker
Leaves people changed from the inside-out
Leaves people feeling seen, heard and known
Leaves people feeling valued & loved
Leaves people feeling like they have spent real, heart2heart healing time with Jesus
Impressions stay on the surface. Impact reaches the heart. When your goal is to impact someone’s life, you show up with honesty and vulnerability — not just your well- polished & well-rehearsed success stories meant to make you look good.
You can impress people from a distance, but you can only impact people up close, through real, heart‑to‑heart relationships.
Trying to impress often means putting yourself on display, highlighting your achievements, and standing tall like a skyscraper. But impact brings everything down to ground level — where people feel welcome, seen, and safe to be themselves, flaws and all. Impact isn’t shiny or showy; it’s real, grounded, and relational.
Impressions create a momentary emotional reaction. Impact creates lasting transformation. Speaking to impress focuses on performance. Speaking to impact focuses on encouraging growth from the inside out.
Impressing others is about managing your image. Impacting others is about serving, loving, mentoring, coaching, and walking with them through life.
Impressing is about what you want to say. Impact comes from listening to what they need to say — the things that help them heal, grow, and move forward.
Let’s choose impact.Let’s choose love.Let’s choose to be Kingdom Lover-Impact Makers, Kindgom-minded ENCOURAGERS who speak in a LOVE-DRIVEN VOICE. Let’s be HEART2HEART speakers and transformational Heart2Heart communicators. Let’s be servant-hearted Jesus with skin-on friends.
Let’s refuse to waste the Heart2Heart Love ministry opportunities God gives us by making it about us. Instead, let’s reflect His heart, lift others up, and make a difference in the hearts of others that truly lasts.
Join heart2heart with me as we pray, “Let Your Kingdom of Love come & Love through me !” in Jesus name !!!
My heart is continually & deeply touched by the beautifully RESPONSIVE HEART of my DaddyGod ! The HEART of my DADDYGOD has never once let me down ! Oh how sensitive, compassionate & tender-loving His heart has always been towards my heart! As He has loved my heart to life with His LOVE, He has given me His responsive, sensitive, compassionate & tender-loving heart to love others with.
I know my heart is 100% in every time I am able to be there to love others with His Love. I am grateful He has given me such a genuine love & concern for others and the heart to walk with others along their healing journey every time He opens the door !
I love to learn from my DaddyGod ! As He has always demonstrated His personal love towards me, He has taught me how to be His LOVE to others in a personal way. I know He has given me His Heart because I feel His REAL love continually beating inside of my heart for others.
Someday, I get to take all of this LOVE to Heaven with me and lay my whole Heart of Love down before Jesus feet. Those moments are going to be the most BEAUTIFUL worship moments my heart has been preparing for all my life!
Heart 2 Heart in His Love,
Momo Smiley
ABBASHAI
A Godsong DaddyGod gave to me after my daddy went to be with Jesus, my AbbaShai.
The name Abba means “Father” and Shai in Hebrew means “the gift or present”.
When my daddy arrived in Heaven, he received the Gift (Present) of His Father, His AbbaShai.
Thank You, DaddyGod for my daddy. He was always a First Responder whenever we needed him.
I am so grateful how he showed me as my Daddy your Responsive Heart & Love! Thank You for my
Godsong, AbbaShai in beautiful remembrance of my daddy and the visual my Godsong gives to me
that He is with You, his Father, his AbbaShai!
ABBASHAI
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HOLY TO THE LAMB
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Heart2heart friends are the Diamonds 💎 , your very Best of Friends!! They are the most precious hearts, the most truest friends ~ who are always there to give you their loving hand to hold and their compassionate, caring hearts to understand.
Heart2Heart friends like you are there for you when the going gets tough and stay with you through it all ~ your very own beautiful, heart-shaped Diamond friend in the rough.
Diamonds are a girl’s best friend ! Yes, you have shown me that is very true. For every time I needed you most, my heart has always found the best heart2heart friend in YOU!
It’s my best of friends like you who loaned me their smile to comfort my every care. It’s my best of friends like you who took the time to really listen to my heart every time it had something to share.
It’s my best of friends like you who honor my infinite value & worth like I am your most precious & cherished Diamond since the beginning of our friendship’s birth.
It’s my best of friends like you that have shown me they are safe to hold close in my heart. You have always been there to “be love” to me never speaking one hurtful word that would break us apart.
These best of friends like you are the Diamonds God knew would love my heart back to life so well. When I thought I had lost my song – my best of friends like you taught my soul to sing, It is Well!”
These heart2heart friends like Beautiful Butterflies in my seasons of hurt, loss, grief, pain or “wait”~ flew to visually & audibly remind me…Our butterfly wings are proof…This is not your end ! Rather, it’s your beginning GOD uses to create.
Something very beautiful, something very good & great – Here’s our hand for you to hold onto – as you, too become the Beautiful Butterfly like we became in our wait!
The sweetest voice I ever heard made my heart smile as I heard you say , “It’s your time to shine like the Diamond you are. It’s your time like the Butterfly to graduate! 🦋
For all the “sometimes”, “every time” and “anytime” my heart has EVER needed a heart2heart friend…here is a very special
“ I LOVE YOU & THANK YOU SO VERY MUCH“ for ALWAYS being my treasured, cherished, valuable and MOST TRUE – One in a Million – DIAMOND FRIEND ! ♥️💎♥️
This was written for & is dedicated to all my beautiful Diamond friends, ♥️💎♥️
Speak love. Speak life. And remember—this means speaking love and life over the people you say you love and care about. Do it to their face and behind their back. Be consistent. Be genuine.
Choose to be a voice of love—a voice others can trust. Be the person who stands up for them, speaks well of them, and protects their name whether they’re present or not, especially when others aren’t being loving or speaking kindly.
No one is truly your friend if they won’t defend your name when you’re not around. A real friend doesn’t stay silent when others speak poorly of you. They don’t laugh along when you’re being disrespected, and they don’t act like it’s not their concern.
A real friend speaks up. They shut down negativity. They remind others of your character. Surround yourself with people who protect your name, who stand up for you, and who stay solid even in your absence.
Loyalty isn’t proven by what someone says to your face, but by what they say about you when you’re not there. A true friend is loyal. A true friend is trustworthy. A true friend is a blessing.
The best friends celebrate your wins like they’re their own. They aren’t keeping score as if they are in competition with you. They are cheering for you from the sidelines and want you to win, too! They push you forward when you doubt yourself and remind you of your worth when life gets heavy. These are the people who clap for you in public and pray for you in private. There’s no jealousy, no competition—just genuine love, support, and encouragement.
When one wins, everyone wins, because real friends don’t just watch each other grow—they grow together. If you have a Love circle or Love Tribe like this, protect it, appreciate it, and never take it for granted. Friendships this real, loyal, trustworthy and true are rare.
His LOVE NOTES descend upon my heart His Godsongs of PEACE ! Yes, even through the night rains, through the lightning & thunder peals of yesteryear & the kiss of each morning horizon ~ I sing, I dance & I echo Heaven’s Heartbeat of Rhythms as I give back to my Hero, Champion, Warrior, Great I Am, King of kings & Lord of lords what my Faithful & True ~ the Prince of my Life ~ first gave to me! I worship Him as I sing & play my Love Song back to His heart! Beautiful Heaven alive in my heart singing back the Godsongs You first sang to my heart! Enjoy my Godsongs freely, they are Love Notes from His Heart 2 my heart 2 yours!
Heart 2 Heart in His Love,
Momo Smiley
Love Notes from HIS HEART 222 MY HEART 222 YOUR HEART !
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Love flows from our self-worth. Therefore, Love is tied to how we see our own worth. If I don’t value myself, I can’t truly value you. This means that I can’t give you what I don’t have. So the value I show you will always mirror the value I hold for myself. Therefore, the way I treat you will always be a reflection of how I view myself.
Flip the coin and you will see that people’s ability to love you flows from their self-worth. Therefore, their ability to Love and express that love to you is tied to how they see their own worth. If they don’t value themselves, they cannot truly value (love) you. This means they CANNOT GIVE YOU what THEY DON’T HAVE. so, the value (love) they show you mirrors the value (love) they hold for themselves. Therefore, the way they treat you will always be a reflection of how they view themselves.
Therefore, when there is a Love shortage, it stems from a value shortage within someone else. Remember this, PEOPLE DO THE THINGS THEY DO BECAUSE OF THEM ~ NOT YOU! That means their behavior ~ good or bad~what they do or don’t do ~ say or don’t say ~ is ABOUT THEM ~ NOT YOU!! Whose reflection is it in the mirror that you see when they are not being loving or kind with their words or behavior ~ it is their reflection ~ not yours. So no matter what they say to try to blame or project onto you ~ you don’t have to own it. Their hearts are just tattle-taling on what is or isn’t going on at root level in their hearts. Listen to how they are judging you ~ because that is how they feel about themselves at heart / root level. They are judging you based on how they feel about themselves in light of how they see themselves. They just are not aware sometimes the real problem stems with them. So, if they aren’t loving you well, sadly it’s because they haven’t learned how to love themselves well either.
In conclusion I will repeat…No one (including you) is able to give what you don’t have. If someone doesn’t have love, value, or respect for themselves, they will not know how to gift love to you nor will they truly know how to value who you are and treat you respectfully. No matter what you do or don’t do, if they do not have value (love) for themselves you cannot do anything to make them value (love) you more. It’s a heart issue that is between them and God. The only thing you are able to do is to forgive them and pray for them to experience the Love of God to such a level that they find their value and worth, WHO THEY ARE in and Through His Eyes of Love. Once they have encountered and experienced His deep love, discovered their worth, value and identity is 100% in who HE says they are, out of that love experience they will learn how to value (love) and respect you.
Until then, they cannot give you what they do not have nor can they give you an loving experience with them until they have a love experience with God’s love. They will be able to see you rightly and treat you rightly once they see themselves rightly through God’s eyes of love. They will be able to treat you rightly once they experience the beautiful loving way God treats them.
So, remember, you keep being WHO God called you to be. You are still WHO He says you are no matter what they think or say. Only God’s view and opinion of you counts! Only God’s definition of you and His definition of Love is the truth. Pray for them to come to know Love Himself, experience Who He says they are and come to know the true definition of what LOVE really is. Once they have experienced a Love relationship with God vertically they will know how to have a loving relationship with you horizontally.
God doesn’t grow bigger—our awareness of Him does. When we fix our thoughts on Him instead of our situation, we begin to experience His presence deeply. So, today & everyday, I Choose You!
God, I choose to dwell and meditate upon WHO YOU ARE, YOUR PROMISES & YOUR GOOD TRACK RECORD! When in doubt, I circle back to You & Your Good Promises and REPEAT choosing to dwell and meditate
upon WHO YOU ARE, YOUR GOOD PROMISES & YOUR GOOD TRACK RECORD ! As I Choose You, it grows, deepens and magnifies my awareness of You by fixing my thoughts upon You instead of whatever circumstance I am going through. After all, it is my deepest desire to magnify & experience You and all that You are instead of magnifying whatever I am feeling in the middle of my circumstance. Today and everyday, I Choose You ! And when I forget, You are my Helper in my times of need and my PromiseKeeper! I know that no matter the circumstance I am facing, You will help me to remember Who You Are, Your Good Promises and Your Good Track Record is all I need! Today & everyday ~ I Choose You!
Some people just don’t realize the level of heartwork you have done throughout the years and the extensive amount of healing you’ve done through it all. They don’t get it that you are not ever going back to the old you or old unhealthy relationship you had with them – not even for them.
Some people just don’t realize the level of heartwork you have done throughout the years and the extensive amount of good, wise lessons you have learned through it all. They don’t get it that the new you is not ever going to set yourself up for a repeat to get betrayed or treated that way again- not even with them.
Some people just don’t realize the level of PEACE, HEALING and FREEDOM you have experienced and worked so hard for through it all. Therefore, they do not accept or understand why you go to such great lengths to protect your PEACE, HEALING & FREEDOM having to set necessary healthy boundaries with them so as not to experience a repeat – even with them.
Some people just don’t realize their unhealed wounds and unresolved issues meddling in & disrupting your peace, etc. is not worth you losing your peace, etc. to carry on or entertain more of their interruptions of your peace, healing and freedom.
They don’t want to accept their unresolved, unhealed issues, sense of lack & deep insecurities ultimately fed into & led them to focus on & betray you instead of seeing & owning what needs to be addressed & healed in them
Love them from a safe relational distance and pray for them to face their woundedness & become aware of their log-filled blind spots, heal, become free and experience peace, too so they don’t keep going around hurting others like they did you with their unresolved hurt & hurtful behavior.
Forgive them. Their behavior is not about you no matter how much they try to make you feel like it was. Understand when they don’t want to look at and face their “stuff” they will say things to you insinuating that it’s all in your mind. They will try to play the victim, try to minimize, deny or change the narrative of the truth of what they did as if it’s in your imagination because they don’t want to own their full responsibility for the breakdown or loss of the relationship. They prove they are not emotionally intelligent and reveal their rebellious spirit refusing not to honor and respect your healthy wishes and boundaries.
Do NOT let them play with you. Hear Wisdom say, Don’t answer their foolishness... Proverbs 26:4-28
Proverbs 26:4-5. Don’t fall into being drawn into entertaining “more of the same” with them. Having conversations or interactions with someone who has a track record of not being trustworthy with your heart, betraying you or your confidences, choosing to use their power of choice to hurt you especially when you were already hurting is not wise. Instead, keep healing and move on pursuing your healing, peace and freedom. You can’t fix or heal them but you can pray they will turn to God and pursue healing, peace and freedom, as well.
I am sorry for what you have been through that wounded your heart, crushed & ended relationships and should have never happened to you; however, I am so proud of how you have partnered with God to pursue bringing something healthy and good to discover your new healthier, peaceful and free you.
HOLY TO THE LAMB” – “You are the Healer whose blood flowed free -upon the cross when You died for me – my Risen Savior alive in me -singing ‘It is Finished !’ -You’ve won the victory! We sing HOLY TO THE LAMB.”
Jesus personally revealed to us what a loving Father His Daddy is ~whose only desire is to gift us every good thing! All He desires is for us to live the whole, healthy, joy-filled abundant lives He has planned for us!
Heart2Heart in His Love,
Momo Smiley
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A number of Easters ago I was praying during my pastor’s sermon. I prayed that DaddyGod would give me the song that Jesus sang when He rose from the grave! I wanted to sing JESUS SONG! That same day my Godsong, “It is finished !” was born!
And guess what! My “IT IS FINISHED” Godsong is now finished ! So, join in this song with me that God gave to me when I prayed for the Resurrection song Jesus sang when He rose from the Grave!
When someone is right for you – your energy is fueled with joy and your heart is settled & peaceful around them! You literally can’t wait to be around them! That’s how you know your Keepers! They are your good times & good memory making peeps ~ loyal, respectful and trustworthy to you to the bone ~ in your presence and your absence! That’s how you know!
Making life a creative & fun place to be means you give permission for yourself to be a creative & fun mess ! You make it what you want it to be ! I choose creativity & fun like choosing my favorite songs for my favorite playlist ! I gotta sing, create & have fun doing it ! My idea ~ Let there be deLight & the joy of bliss in my randomness, silliness, creativeness & messiness!
YOLO ! You Only Live Once ~ So make a Creative & Fun Mess ~ REPEAT !!!
This is my dream I had recorded in 2011 ~ “What are you thinking?” asked the judge. On the Witness stand I responded, ” I’m not thinking the old thinking…” ~ “What?” the judge asked. As I looked down below to see my 4 children smiling up at me while sitting behind the witness stand with me at my feet, I responded, “I’m wearing new thinking. Old thinking is gone.”
Immediately, my children & I were now in a hallway in our home. A DOOR which I’d never seen before in our home suddenly appeared before my children & I! I couldn’t wait to open it up! I knew that it was DaddyGod that OPENED a DOOR that was never there before! As my 4 kids and I opened the door….His brilliant, golden LIGHT began to shine upon us as the door opened up to a whole new way / a whole new big room in our home! The new room ahead was so surreal looking! It was dazzling with a warm heavenly radiant glow inviting us to come into the beautiful new experience of this new room! My heart knew that taking one step & one breath in the new room would feel like a NEW Heavenly experience in DaddyGod’s Love & Life living in me!! That’s what I’ve been experiencing ever since my wearing my new thinking!
I recorded my dream upon waking up the next morning. This dream is very significant to my healing journey as it pinpoints new, beautiful heart beliefs /changes birthing which in turn has produced new thinking, new experiences and new life in Jesus !!! New thinking & new heart beliefs based on HIS TRUTH & FINISHED WORK & the GOOD NEWS of the Gospel of Peace in Jesus has led me to wholeness and peace within!
2 Corinthians 5:17
17 When anyone is in Christ, it is a whole new world. The old things are gone; suddenly, everything is new! (ERV)
17 If anyone belongs to Christ, ·there is a new creation [the new creation has arrived; or that person has become a new creation]. The old things have gone; [L look; T behold] ·everything is made new [the new has come]! (EXB)
17 Whoever is a believer in Christ is a new creation. The old way of living has disappeared. A new way of living has come into existence. (GW)
17 Therefore if any person is [ingrafted] in Christ (the Messiah) he is a new creation (a new creature altogether); the old [previous moral and spiritual condition] has passed away. Behold, the fresh and new has come!
Heart2Heart in His Love,
Momo Smiley
I CHOOSE YOU
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“It is my honor to LOVE You with all of heart! It is my JOY to WORSHIP You from the depths of my spirit & to sing how Lovely You are!! You are so captivating to my soul- my mind, will & emotions!! I am so filled in the glory of Your Presence. Bless the LORD oh my soul & let all that’s within me magnify Your Holy name! YOUR FULLNESS is living inside of me! Your FULLNESS represents ALL that You are & have is living within side of my whole being! YOU are my REALITY! Your VIEW & OPINION is all my heart, soul, spirit’s attention & hearing is captured by ! I look to BEAUTIFUL YOU listening intently & solely to YOUR VOICE – YOUR CALLING – YOUR LOVESONG YOU SING OVER ME! Your VOICE of LOVE is the MOST PRECIOUS VOICE I HAVE & WILL EVER HEAR ! Your VOICE keeps my heart, soul & spirit in PEACE because I HAVE CHOSEN TO STAY my thoughts & attention ON YOU !
I CHOOSE YOU ! YOU are the only ONE who defines me & speaks YOUR LOVE DEFINITION, WORTH, VALUE, IDENTITY & PURPOSE in my life! My ears are tuned only to YOU ! My eyes are only on YOU !! You are my SOURCE! With YOU as my SOURCE ~ I am not lacking for anything! I am everything YOU say I AM in YOU!!! I have everything YOU SAY I have IN YOU!!! Thank You, JESUS for Your FINISHED WORK at the cross, Your burial and RESURRECTION!!! YOUR VOICE spoke & created ALL NEW THINGS when You rose up from the grave to a VICTORIOUS NEW LIFE!!! I am IN YOU & YOUR RESURRECTION BLOOD & BREATH is flowing through my veins!! You give me YOUR GRACE ~ the power, strength, ability & capacity to do and be what I cannot do in my own strength, ability, power or capacity! Just one RESURRECTION BREATH in my lungs filled me with YOUR FULLNESS !!! All the LOVE YOU POURED OUT TO ME with just one drop of blood that You shed on the Cross fills my heart, soul & spirit’s well to overflow with your LOVE !! I am full of Your Promises! I am full of Your Provision! I am full of YOUR WORTH, VALUE, IDENTITY & YOUR BEAUTIFUL PURPOSE for my life!!!
Thank You, DaddyGod for choosing me to be Your daughter! Thank You, You, DaddyGod for making me apart of Your eternal family ! I CHOOSE YOU because You chose me before time began! I inherited all the FULLNESS OF GOD ~ everything that You are and everything that You have ~ when I chose You to be my Everything!!! You are my PURPOSE!! You are the MEANING TO MY LIFE!!! YOU are the only thing I want others to REMEMBER when they think of me ! YOU are the only impression I want to make on anyone!!! YOU are the only One I want them to see & feel when I love them with Your love! You are the only One thing that I want them to experience when I sing my Love Notes ♫ to You!!! All else fades away & only YOU COME INTO VIEW in my HEART’S EXPERIENCE each time I CHOOSE YOU !
I CHOOSE YOU again & again & again multiplied by eternity! You are the refreshment, restoration & Love’s River of Life to my heart, soul & spirit! You are my only PEACE!! You are the only REWARD! You are the only One who I look to for acceptance, worth, value & purpose for my life! It’s from this place You’ve filled with all of You that I have peace & rest !! One look at YOU was when I found everything I was ever searching for!!! With all of You living, breathing & singing within me, I can sing “It is WELL” within my soul because YOU ARE THE WELL within my soul!!! I love You with all of me from the inside-out to the outside-in! I CHOOSE YOU because You chose me!!! All else fades away…YOU are the only One I’m focusing on because IT’s ALL ABOUT YOU, JESUS! With You being the center of my life ~ You bring all things together for Your Good & for Your good purposes!! I love Your GOOD Purpose for my life because it’s YOU !! I give all that You’ve given me back to You ! Thank You for leading me beside STILL WATERS, O SHEPHERD of my soul!! Your banqueting table is a FEAST full of YOUR GOODNESS & MERCY & YOUR LOVE is the cup that has satisfied my thirst ! You anoint my head ~ my thoughts, my mind, my soul & my will ~ with Your sweet OIL of GLADNESS & JOY ! Your LOVE overflows my cup until it runs over!!!
Thank You for the surplus I’ve experienced in Your love & for giving me creative ways in Your beautiful timing to be Your Love Blessing to others! All I want ~ all I have ~ all I need is in YOU ! This is my love song to you ~ I CHOOSE YOU & to walk through the doors You OPEN & LEAD ME THROUGH! I love You, my sweet DaddyGod ! With all that I am in my I AM – I CHOOSE YOU, JESUS !!!”
Keep this in mind. Be sensitive. Caring. Patient. Understanding, loving and compassionate. If you don’t know what this feels like your attitude should be gratitude. Extend a reaching hand, your heart and Prayers towards those who do know and have lived something they never should have had to live. That’s how you love them…remember to love them the way they should have always been loved.
Remember, only God sees and knows what is going on inside of someone. He knows the trauma they have endured. You only see what you see. So, please be sensitive to others who are hurting. They aren’t only healing from trauma they have endured. They are also healing from a life living in survival mode. They’re are still healing from their own self-judgment. They sure do not need you to add your judgment to the mix of what they already think and feel. Additionally, they are also healing from the grief of what could’ve been had they never gone through the trauma of what they went through.
So, how can you be love to them. Re-read the beginning of my heartshare above…
Just think how much your loving sensitivity, compassion and genuine care will mean to them. Sadly, through what they have been through, they expect more of the same. So, be the one who shows them what His Love feels like through you in the way you talk with them, treat them and how you show up for them…Be non-judgmental, non-condemning, non-shaming, non-threatening, non-hurtful and by all means, BE LOVE~in their presence or absence! Whatever that looks like, sounds like, behaves like…CHOOSE LOVE to help you to know what to do or not do, say or not say, etc. Whatever you do, just do not add anymore hurt or pain to them than what they are already going through!!!!! When your intention is 100% LOVE ~ they will KNOW you are His Kingdom Lover by being His Love to them just in the way you speak to them or about them, the way you treat them and the way you show up for them!
Thank you in advance for Loving Others the way they should have always been loved!
COMPASSION ~ Jesus knew the feeling of pain. He knew what it felt like to hurt deeply and as a result, He is able to enter into our hurts with us. He is able to feel our pain. COMPASSION is capturing the heart of Jesus as He intercedes for others. You may think that nobody understands what you are going through, but God does. He can identify with all your pains and is able to help you. Let’s us always intercede & have compassion to the degree Jesus intercedes & has compassion for those who are hurting! (Hebrews 2:18, 4:15)
Hebrews 2:18
(VOICE) ►Since He has also been tested by suffering, He can help us when we are tested.
THE MSG ►That’s why he had to enter into every detail of human life. Then, when He came before God as high priest ~ he would have already experienced it all himself—all the pain, all the testing—and would be able to help where help was needed.
Love is the Best Author! Let LOVE tell your Godstory through you ! This is your Love Legacy you get to pass down.
Your Love, your wisdom and Godstory testimonies will live on far longer than any material thing
As the years gently gather around your life, something beautiful begins to become clear…
It is not the things you owned that people remember most.
It is the Love you carried. The kindness you gave to others. The wisdom you shared along the way. These are the treasures that live on from generation to generation.
Your love … and your wisdom that grew inside your heart through every season you walked through…will travel much father than any materail thing you could ever leave behind.
So tell your Godstories. They are your living testimonies meant to be shared with others. Tell about the moments where God met you in the darkness. Tell about the places where grace found you and carried you out to the bright, open living pastures of His Love. Tell about all of the miracles, the healing, the quiet ways Love Himself carried you through it all.
Your stories have wings. Release them to fly. They travel farther than you can ever imagine when you release them.
And Love…Love is the Greatest Storyteller of All! Love is the Best Love of All loves, too…
So, Let Love Himself and the Lovestories He has written in your life tell God’s Stories through you!
Your Love experience with Love Himself is your true inheritance to gift to this world. This includes your love, your wisdom and your living testimonies of God’s goodness and how He was there for you time after time after time.
The Holy Flame of His Love that is living in you helps to ignite other hearts to burn with a Holy Passion for His name, too. His Holy Living Flame will never burn out. They continue to glow Heart to heart through you to others…from generation to generation…long after you have finished your earthly journey here.
THIS…is the beautiful Legacy of Love you get to pass on ~ letting them see His Love story come alive in you and hearing Love’s stories in and through your Godstory testimonies!
PEACE that STAYS is born from a MIND that is STAYED on the PRINCE OF PEACE! ~ Isaiah 26:3. PEACE is YOUR GIFT because PEACE IS YOUR PRINCE OF PEACE-JESUS! Receive the Gift of Peace -Jesus ! When you continue to Choose to Focus on Jesus thoughts, you will experience His Peace! He is praiseworthy, good, true, pure, virtuous and honorable ! Think upon Him and you will experience Peace – Jesus ! MY LIFE VERSE!!! Phillipians 4:8
Isaiah 26:3
(VOICE)
You will keep the peace, a perfect peace, for all who trust in You, for those who dedicate their hearts and minds to You.
(MSG Bible)
Throw wide the gates
so good and true people can enter.
People with their minds set on you,
you keep completely whole,
Steady on their feet,
because they keep at it and don’t quit.
Depend on God and keep at it
because in the Lord God you have a sure thing.
(AMPC)
You will guard him and keep him in perfect and constant peace whose mind [both its inclination and its character] is stayed on You, because he commits himself to You, leans on You, and hopes confidently in You.
(EXB)
You, Lord, ·give [preserve/keep in] ·true peace [complete peace; L peace, peace] to those who depend on you [T whose mind is stayed on you; whose purpose is firm],because they trust you.
“You’re here to be light, bringing out the GOD-COLORS in the world. God is not a secret to be kept. We’re going public with this, as public as a city on a hill. If I make you light-bearers, you don’t think I’m going to hide you under a bucket, do you? I’m putting you on a light stand. Now that I’ve put you there on a hilltop, on a light stand—SHINE! KEEP OPEN HOUSE; be generous with your lives. By OPENING UP TO OTHERS, you’ll prompt people to OPEN UP WITH GOD, this generous Father in Heaven.” -Matthew 5:14-16
Heart2Heart in His Love,
♫ ♥ Momo Smiles ♥ ♫
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GOD’S GRACE gives us the Power to Change !! GRACE is His strength, power, ability & His capacity working in me to empower me to do what I cannot do in my own strength, ability & power giving me the capacity to be who He’s called & created me to be in His Identity! Love my DaddyGod’s GRACE!!!!
“WHO YOU SAY I AM LOOKS JUST LIKE MY GREAT I AM !”~ Momo Smiley
(lyric line in my Godsong, THROUGH YOUR EYES)
It only took one look into the Mirror of Your Love ~ I know who I am ~ I am Yours created in Your Identity, worth & value ! Deep internal healing happened when I discovered & experienced who I am in You! Your Righteousness feels so good from the inside out!!! I love seeing myself THROUGH YOUR EYES!
Heart2Heart in His Love,
Momo Smiley
(Read my Godstory behind ALIVE IN YOU about the Mirror of His Love)
LOVE HIS STORY ~ HIS LOVE STORY ~ RE-WROTE my life story ~ I call it my GODSTORY ! My GODSTORY inspires all of my GODSONGS !!!! LOVE BLESSED to be a LOVE BLESSING !
Heart2Heart in His Love,
Momo Smiley
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I promise to always keep the love-light on for you in my heart. Your love lights the memories in the vault of my heart keeping you forever alive in my heart & in my love. Here with me you’ll always be…because right here in my heart you’re still alive !
All hearts ~ Open the door of your heart & enter in ! Jesus is calling ♥ He has a feast ready at His Table for you & a room in His heart prepared just for you & Him only! ♥
I would rather have authentic heart2heart worship moments sang straight from my heart to His! Worship is not what the world has made or influenced it to be about ! I would rather have more worship singing my love to Jesus & the Victory I have in Him!! I would rather have intimate, soaking worship that is purely heart2heart between His heart and my heart.
And she knew in her deep know…and she felt in the depths of her soul….and she experienced how very deeply she was loved! I’m loved by the BEST LOVE OF ALL OF ALL LOVES ~ TRUE LOVE ~ the Love that will STAY always!!!!!!!!
Heart2Heart in His Love,
Momo Smiley
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Love sat with me in rooms no one knew I cried in. Love carried me through valleys no one knew I walked. And that is why I trust Love’s Heart here in the House of Love.
My Godstory behind “BREATHING” was inspired through a spiritual dream the Lord gave to me, June 13, 2011 which was about BREATHING in the PRESENCE OF GOD ! From this very dream, the Lord inspired and downloaded this song, BREATHING, into my heart February 2012 .
BREATHING is His song, His lyrics, His melody and His heartbeat of rhythm that was born through inhaling His presence! Anyone that listens to BREATHING, would be blessed to read about this beautiful spiritual dream the Lord gave to me. So, in addition to sharing the BREATHING mp3, I am also sharing my journal entry about my Spiritual dream. (see below)
The BRIDGE of my song visually describes what happened to me in this most amazing spiritual dream that God gave to me. The dream was so real that as I inhaled His presence in my dream, I believe He exhaled His anointed breath & His living presence into BREATHING. Ever since the dream, I cannot express the overwhelming, healing & soothing peace that comes over my heart, soul and spirit each time I envision breathing God’s presence in while I am breathing, praying, ministering to others, writing songs, worshipping, going through medical procedures or while meditating upon His sweet loving presence during my Godtime. It’s the most beautiful moment each time I visualize His breath of inspiration and Holy Presence running through my veins. My response is uncontainable praise !!!
After I wrote BREATHING, I began reading WIRED FOR SUCCESS by Pastor Jim B. Richards of www.impactministries.com . Chapter 18 speaks of “Capturing Inspiration”. Truly His Breath is my Breath of Inspiration! The visual and experiential awareness of Him breathing in my heart and in my soul ignites me with a blazing passion for His name. To the degree I have practiced His Presence by visualizing myself BREATHING in His Presence ~scene by scene~ is to the degree I feel the Breath of His Inspiration has truly personalized the Glory of His presence in my life ~ internally & externally! To this degree, it has created the ability for my heart to internally conceptualize the experience of BREATHING in His Presence and Breath of Inspiration until it’s actualized as a realized dream externally.
As I sing & share BREATHING, I envision the presence of God that Has breathed life into the lyrics, melody & rhythmic heartbeat being exhaled into the hearts of everyone that listens.” Here is my spiritual dream! What a sweet visitation of His Holy Presence !
June 13, 2011
Journal of my Spiritual Dream I experienced just before morning light…
This morning I woke up from a very powerful dream. The dream went something like this…We were getting our house in order ~ JESUS~ the Lord ~ GOD’S HOLY PRESENCE was COMING!!! The focus was not WHEN He was coming but the excitement was in the fact that HE WAS COMING SOON !!! The time of preparation had come for His arrival! I wanted to invite as many people as I knew so that they could be ready (know Him) for His coming, too!
I remember awaiting His coming ~ His arrival ~ in a room. Before me light was transmitting through a window. To my right was a VENT in the wall. Before me was a covering laying abroad a solid rectangular object ~ most likely a “place of REST”. As I stood there, a smoke-like white MIST came in through the vented area of the wall. The FULLNESS of it began to move in and underneath the covering that blanketed the place of rest before me. It was a white & light colored coverlet that began to move & to RISE UP / bubble up as the mist filled it up underneath the covering. This was not a mist that was a MYSTERY. The MIST represented the Holy Presence / Anointing of God ~ His Presence had ARRIVED!!! His Presence had come just as He promised! I welcomed His presence inside of me because I wanted to be ~HIS DWELLING PLACE!!! I remember kneeling down at the corner of the bed and opening up my MOUTH & INHALING HIS PRESENCE INSIDE OF ME !!! As I inhaled ~the MIST beneath the covering flowed all inside of me! I INHALED THE PRESENCE & THE ANNOINTING OF GOD!!! The indwelling of His Presence within side of me was a HOLY BAPTISM of HIS SPIRIT! As I inhaled Him ~ His Presence & POWER flowed past my vocal cords & anointed them with His worship ~filled Presence! ( HOLY PRESENTS!!!) I KNEW that this was a HOLY MOMENT ~ A Holy visitation & my whole being felt RAPTURE!!!!!!
Then SHE ~ an angelic being ~ radiating & glowing with light ~entered the room. She began to SING NOTES that in the natural are not within my vocal range ~ BUT she sang the notes like an angel! Then she reached out towards me with her hand ~ pointing her finger towards mine. When our fingers touched ~ I began to sing in perfect harmony with her ~ a song I had never practiced but somehow I knew the melody / harmony & lyrics and we began to sing in perfect harmony together. I remember not the tune nor the lyrics but it was a beautiful melody of worship that we both connected with in the Spirit! I sang notes that in the natural would have been much too high for my voice but HIS PRESENCE WITHIN ME carried my notes up to a Higher Place. It was such a peaceful yet powerfully moving experience!
I remember waking up flooded with such an incredible sense of His nearness within me! A sense of truly feeling that I had been filled up with the sweet Spirit of the Lord. His Presence had found a dwelling place within me as I INHALED HIS PRESENCE inside of my MIND, SOUL, SPIRIT, HEART & BODY!! I woke up a couple more times and as I recalled the dream I remember saying, “YES! LORD!! I receive that! I RECEIVE YOU ~YOUR PRESENCE is at HOME WITHIN ME. I’ve been filled & anointed by YOU! YOU came just like You promised as I INHALED your sweet Holy Presence in through the very anointed instrument that You’ve given to me to use for ministry / worship moments!
I declare that YOU ARE GOOD! SOVEREIGN! I SHOUT IT OUT through my praises! Thank You for filling me up with YOURSELF! O, Holy God ~ You create Holy Moments for me through the power of the visual ~ even when I’m dreaming ~ You create YOUR REALITY ~ the REALITY OF YOUR HOLY PRESENCE living & breathing in me. You are SO NEAR to me and I LOVE IT!!!
~Love Your Daughter who YOU’VE CALLED BY NAME ~ 6/13/2011
GodsongsHeart2Heart Ministry is so blessed to share my Godsong, “JESUS, BE JESUS.”
This song was born on January 22, 2014, during my journaling time at the Iron Bell and in worship as I was interceding and praying over a beautiful sister in Christ, Kristen, her husband, and their family. I didn’t have polished words. I didn’t have a perfectly structured prayer.
I just had said His Name.
And from the deepest place in my heart, I began to pray:
“Jesus… be Jesus.”
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When Words Are Not Enough
Sometimes we simply don’t have the words.
Sometimes compassion runs so deep, heartache runs so wide, and love runs so strong that language fails us. In those moments, the greatest prayer we can pray is simply His Name.
When I prayed “Jesus, be Jesus,” I was believing, claiming, and receiving everything that JESUS IS and everything that JESUS HAS ACCOMPLISHED through His Finished Work — His Cross, His burial, and His victorious Resurrection — to be fully present for them.
-Moment by moment.
-Need by need.
-Breath by breath
To pray “Jesus, be Jesus” is to say:
Jesus, who You are and everything You have already DONE is everything needed here.
Let Your Kingdom come into this situation.
Be everything You are — emotionally, physically, mentally, spiritually — in the visible and invisible realms…
On earth as it is in Heaven.
-It is trusting that our DaddyGod already knows.
-It is resting in the truth that we do not have to beg, plead, or perform to receive something loving from Him. His ultimate LOVE NOTE was signed in full at the Cross and made complete through His Resurrection.
-It is FINISHED.
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The Comforter Who Translates Our Hearts
I am so grateful for the powerful Name of JESUS.
And I am so thankful for the Holy Spirit — our Comforter, our Source of Peace — who intercedes for us when our prayers are too deep for words (Romans 8:26–27).
He is my beautiful Go-Between.
He translates my groans, my tears, my silence, my inexpressible longings into the healing love language of our Abba. He transforms even the unspoken cries of my heart into something Heaven understands perfectly.
So when I pray “Jesus, be Jesus,” I am resting in this sacred exchange — Heaven meeting earth, grace meeting need, love meeting brokenness.
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What It Means to Pray “JESUS, BE JESUS”
When you sing or say the Name of Jesus, you are inviting His Finished Work into your circumstance.
When you pray “Jesus, be Jesus,” you are inviting:
• Everything He is
• Everything He has accomplished
• Everything He has pre-provided
• The full measure of “IT IS FINISHED”
…into that very moment.
Into your body.
Into your relationships.
Into your mind.
Into your fears.
Into your healing.
This is how I pray for others — especially when I don’t know the details. I don’t need to know everything.
I simply pray:
Jesus, be Jesus.
And He lovingly responds.
He is timely every time.
He walks WITH you because He already walked it FOR you.
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Your Healing Has JESUS’ Name On It
JESUS!!! Thank You — for me… for us…
I sing “Jesus, be Jesus” over you.
Healing is yours in Jesus’ Name.
Just like the stripes that covered His back for you — you are covered in His healing.
The moment Jesus thought of your FULL RECOVERY, all of Heaven took notice as His blood was shed for you.
Look at Love fully in the face.
Let His Love Story fully engage your heart.
Let His healing gifts — paid for in full — be received.
They were not cheap.
They are priceless.
And they are free to you.
Nothing can separate you from His gifts of full healing and full recovery —
for sickness, pain, heartache, addiction, abuse, disease, depression, trauma, brokenness from the past.
Walk in your healing.
Receive.
Your healing has JESUS’ Name on it.
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Who Is Jesus?
This brings deeper meaning to my Godsong, JESUS, BE JESUS.
Who are we inviting when we pray this?
He is:
• Our Advocate
• Our High Priest (Hebrews 4:14–16; 7:25; 9:24)
• Our Comforter (John 14:16–18, 26)
• Our Shepherd
• Our Living Hope
• Our Redeemer
• Our Rock of Ages
• The Spotless Lamb
• The Lion of Judah
• The Bread of Life
• The Resurrection and the Life
• The Way, the Truth, and the Life
• The Alpha and the Omega
• King of Kings and Lord of Lords
As written in Acts 4:12, there is no other Name under Heaven by which we are saved.
At the Name of Jesus every knee bows (Philippians 2:10).
He is altogether lovely.
From Genesis to Revelation, He is the center of the story:
Creator.
Passover Lamb.
High Priest.
Kinsman-Redeemer.
Suffering Servant.
Faithful Husband.
Messiah.
Servant King.
The Spirit who dwells in His people.
The Righteousness of God.
Our Hope.
Our Joy.
Our Returning King.
The One who makes all things new.
What does love look like?
Look at Jesus.
Love is written all over His face.
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The Lonely Places
Jesus bathed the lonely places in prayer (Mark 6:31–32).
When you feel lonely, remember — He made lonely places sacred. He poured tears there. He prayed there. He rested with His Father there.
And He came back from the lonely places.
You will too.
He knows how to comfort you in your wilderness because He has already been there.
Come away with Him. Rest. Let Jesus be Jesus to you in that quiet place.
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Living in His Finished Work
My eyes are fixed on the Finished Work of Jesus.
I thank Him in advance for what He has already fully accomplished and pre-provided.
When I pray and sing “Jesus, be Jesus” over you, I am believing and receiving EVERYTHING He is and EVERYTHING He has done for YOU —to the fullest “IT IS FINISHED” measure.
We share in His victory by faith.
We participate in His death, burial, and resurrection life by faith.
We become one with Him in His victory.
And we rest there.
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My GodSong, JESUS BE JESUS
There is no other Name that’s greater
There’s no place I’d rather be
Than trusting in Your never-failing love
No greater love than this
So Jesus, be Jesus
All power is in Your Name
You are my everything
Forever You will reign
My heart with Heaven sings
To worship You my King
I lift my hands to praise
To praise the Name of Jesus
Jesus, be Jesus —
My Rest, my Hope, my Stay.
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My Prayer Over You
Everything that You are & everything that You have is all I’ll ever need.
I pray Jesus, be Jesus over anyone who needs Your everything to be their everything right now.
Just the mention of Your Name… JESUS.
Someday I will tell You face to face how much I love You.
Until then, You are closer than my breath.
Jesus — be Jesus.
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“JESUS, BE JESUS” was inspired January 22, 2014 during my journaling time @ the Iron Bell & worship time while interceding & praying “JESUS, BE JESUS” over a beautiful sister in Christ, Kristen, her husband & family. I am so very grateful for the powerful name of JESUS ! I am also so very thankful for the gift of the Holy Spirit, our Comforter & Source of Peace who intercedes for us to our DaddyGod, our Abba transforming & translating even the both the spoken & unspoken, inexpressible thoughts, needs & prayers of our hearts that are too deep for words. He’s my beautiful Go-Between who translates my prayers, groans, moans, tears & moments of silence into the beautiful healing love language of our Heavenly DaddyGod!
Trusting my DaddyGod knows, I began praying “JESUS, BE JESUS” over them which means I was believing, claiming & receiving everything that JESUS IS & everything that JESUS HAS ACCOMPLISHED ~ through HIS FINISHED WORK at the Cross, His burial & Resurrection ~ to be JESUS for them moment by moment! I was calling the all POWERFUL NAME of JESUS in to minister His healing peace, comfort, & rest to blanket over her & her precious family.
Sometimes words fail to express the depth of our genuine compassion, our feelings, our hurts & heartaches as we are comforting others or interceding for or praying with / for them. What peace it gives to my heart knowing that simply speaking, praying or singing the all-powerful name of “JESUS, BE JESUS” is believing, trusting, calling, claiming & receiving everything He is & everything His Finished Work has already pre-provided to the full measure ~ into being JESUS, BE JESUS for them!
Praying JESUS, BE JESUS is saying, “JESUS ~ Who You are & everything You have already DONE is everything needed to completely fulfill & accomplish Your Kingdom coming into their situation & being everything You are to provide everything needed on every level ~ emotionally, physically, mentally & spiritually both in the visible & invisible realm…on earth as it is in Heaven !!! “
I have continued praying “JESUS, BE JESUS” over their family, as well as all the prayer requests of others who are hurting, in need of JESUS being JESUS for them! I pray & sing “JESUS, BE JESUS” because JESUS is the only ONE who is able to fulfill & be everything we will ever need! There is no other who can empathize with us on every level & be everything we’ll ever need than JESUS!!! He is the Healer of our soul, the Breath of Life, our Living Hope, the Shepherd of our soul, our Comforter, Friend & Source. He is Son of Man & Son of God, our Abba, our DaddyGod, the Great I Am, the Spotless Lamb, Rock of Ages, Victorious One, Prosperous Love & our Restorer! His Precious Blood flows through us & His Love covers us under the Shadow of His wings like a beautiful love blanket healing us & restoring. Jesus loves us & proved His love from the Cross to Grace as His Love overcame for you & me!!!
JESUS, BE JESUS ~ ♫ “There is no other name that’s greater, there’s no place I’d rather be than trusting in Your never-failing love…no greater Love than this, no greater love than this….So, JESUS, BE JESUS, JESUS, BE JESUS, ALL POWER IS IN YOUR NAME. YOU ARE MY EVERYTHING, FOREVER YOU WILL REIGN, MY HEART WITH HEAVEN SINGS, TO WORSHIP YOU MY KING, I LIFT MY HANDS TO PRAISE, TO PRAISE THE NAME OF JESUS, BE JESUS, ~ JESUS, BE JESUS, MY REST, MY HOPE, MY STAY! “♫
This song was born on 2/26/12 and completed March 2012. This song was inspired by learning about the FULLNESS OF GOD which lives in Jesus! Because Jesus is in me, the fullness of God is in me, too! That made my heart SING and This song was born! Thank you, GOD!!!
This one simple yet powerful gift is free ! It’s born out of love !
You have been given Love’s key ! God has given it to you ! It has the power to unlock & open a heart’s door & set it free! In doing so, it gives you the opportunity to introduce their heart to the One whose Love set your heart free!
Remember, some people need to be told they are worthy and that they are loved. They need for you to tell them! Not because nobody ever told them they are worthy…not because no one ever told them they loved them, but because someone told them they weren’t worthy and they weren’t loved.
You have been given Love’s Key which has the power to unlock & open their heart’s door to set them free! Introduce their heart to the One whose Love was the key to set your heart free!
Heart2Heart in His Love,
Momo Smiley
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I could sing all day long about how Your Love made a Way for me! Looking back at yesterday remembering how you made a Way for me – even when I couldn’t see it or feel it – gives me all the confidence my heart needs to know You are working all things for my good today & all of my tomorrows!
While this is not my original song, it is my testimony that over and over again You are & have made the Way for me! Thank You, Jesus!!
This is simply the way I worship with this beautiful worship song! I invite you to join in with my heart & worship with me !
LOVE is a valuable present & is present with others in these valuable ways! Be present ! Be Love!! Show up & show Love ! Jesus love being present through you to a special someone could literally save that special someone’s day or life !
Heart2Heart in His Love,
Momo Smiley
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R.S.V.P. No thank you. I won’t be attending. I have some Love to attend to. Please keep in mind I only have time to love you. Lemme know someday when you wanna join me ! You are invited to my Love Party ! Would love nothin more than for you to attend. The Peace welcome mat is out and the Love door to my heart is unlocked.
Come on in when you are ready ! The Love lights are always on in my heart’s Home The address is Heart 222 Heart in His Love lane. The time is always.
I know that I know that I know ! You can, too ! Remember His Faithfulness ! Remember how He has always come through for you! He is your Memory Healer ! Let Him do what only He can do! He is able to DO IT AGAIN! Just you wait and see!
Your Heartbeat is set to the Rhythm of Your Love song You sing over me~
Your Finished Work rescued me and gave me a beautiful Full Recovery!
Jesus, You are my Righteousness ~ You see me as Pure, Holy, Righteous and Whole as You made me to be!
My standing in You is always in Good Standing because I am in You and You are in me~
You see me as I should be ~ Made in Your Righteousness and full of Your Glory!
Your View and Opinion of me is my Reality now and forever! The Reality of Who I am is fully in agreement with who YOU say I am!
You have made my heart and vision pure in seeing myself through Your Eyes of Love.
The safety I feel in You is 100% because i know I can TRUST you 100%.
You are my Faithful & True. I love to be Yours and You are mine!
I love Your Holy View and Opinion of me as Your Child of Love!
I am blameless and Your LOVED CHILD.
I see myself in You and I see You in me and what I see makes me BELIEVE and makes me FREE to RECEIVE YOUR LOVE!
I am Saved! I am Healed! I’m delivered. I am blessed. I’m protected, prosperous…I’m set apart. I’ve been made WHOLE ~ since You rolled away the stone. Oh Your blood, my Righteousness…” My Joy is found in You in the Joy Dance Zone!
I love how You raised me up to sit with YOU In HEAVENLY PLACES ! Your Banner over me is LOVE !!!
I am a Promise because You sealed me with Your Promises, PromiseKeeper!
You set a seal upon my heart and Your Love was the Love signature signing Your forever Love upon my heart! And you STAYed with me ~ forever and always ~ even when others didn’t!
I am Your Precious Child of Love! I love being in You and You being IN me!
What is True of You is also True inside of me ~ internally, externally and eternally!
I love that you have fit me inside of Your Heart and the Home of Your Heart perfectly! I fit snuggly into Your heart !
You are pleased to dwell in me and I am pleased to dwell in Your House of Love forever and ever and ever!
Thank You for Your Goodness and Mercy that will last me a lifetime here and my eternal life with you to come!
It’s ALL GOOD here in my HEART because You are ALL GOOD ! Thank You for Your Goodness! I am blessed from beginning to eternity!
I love the CREATIVITY OF GOD! What an Out of This World Amazing HeARTIST!!! Colossians 1:15-18 creates a visual of God’s original purpose in everything He CREATED. All of our creativity was born through His creativity and flows through us. “For everything, absolutely everything, above & below, visible & invisible, rank after rank of angels~EVERYTHING GOT STARTED IN HIM & FINDS ITS PURPOSE IN HIM! He was there before any of it came into existence & (Christ) holds it all together right up to this moment.” COL. 1:15-18
To those who have loved me so well – this is for you! Thank you sooo very much for being here ! To those who haven’t ~ the cost was worth it as it also helped me in finding the ones who really are here for me and who do love me so well !
Keep Loving well, Kingdom Lovers ~ no matter what! In doing so you, too will also find the ones who will love you well!! They make the best LOVE TRIBE!
I wish you all a beautiful Heart2heart journey ! The Lovers are Keepers! They know how to treat you the best and love you for you ~ not for what they need you to do. Make sure you keep the keepers! Treat & love them well! Make sure every word they hear it in your voice or written texts! This life is a whisper! So make sure every word you whisper is full of LOVE, honor & respect! It matters. It matters a lot!
I love You, Jesus! You are my Person, my Holy Comforter, my Sweet Savior, Hero & Friend of all friends ! You are the Best Love of ALL Loves! You ARE the LIFE, LIGHT & LOVE of my whole life – internally, externally & eternally! – I am beautifully alive & healed in the Presence of Your Life, Light & Love!
Your Presence wraps around my heart! THERE IS NO SPACE – Nothing – no thing – between us – no separation – we are ONE! You’ve rescued, redeemed, renewed & refreshed me in the stillness of Your Presence ! My eyes are forever on You !
Heart2Heart in Him,
Momo Smiley
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Psalm 62:5-7 (TPT)
I am standing in absolute stillness, silent before the One I love,
waiting as long as it takes for Him to rescue me.
Only God is my Savior, and He will not fail me.
For He alone is my SAFE PLACE
His WRAP-AROUND PRESENCE always protects me
as my CHAMPION DEFENDER.
There’s no risk of failure with God!
So why would I let worry paralyze me,
even when troubles multiply around me?
God’s Glory is all around me!
His WRAP-AROUND PRESENCE is all I need,
for the Lord is my Savior, my HERO, and my LIFE-GIVING STRENGTH.
(VOICE)
My soul quietly waits for the True God alone
because I HOPE only in Him.
He alone is my Rock and DELIVERANCE,
my citadel high on a hill;
I will not be shaken.
My salvation and my significance depend ultimately on God;
the CORE OF MY STRENGTH, my SHELTER, is in the True God.
Have this beautiful Godly MINDSET – this FOCUS – about yourself & others everyday of your life ! It’s called LOVING OTHERS ~AS YOU LOVE YOURSELF~with GOD’S LOVE!
I just LOVE HIS EYES ! He sees the BEST & LOVES the BEST & FOCUSES on the BEST ! His view & opinion is our reality ! That is the best gift & the only way I wanna view you & me…THROUGH HIS EYES !
Heart 2 Heart in His Love,
Momo Smiley
The Voice translation
In other words, adopt the mind-set of Jesus the Anointed. Live with His attitude in your hearts.
Philippians 2:5-11
So if there is any encouragement in Christ, any comfort from love, any participation in the Spirit, any affection and sympathy, to complete my joy by being of the SAME MIND, having the SAME LOVE being in full accord and of one mind.
~ Phillipians 2
KINGDOM OF LOVE
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I LOVE the parts of others that others don’t even love about themselves. I see beyond it all…DaddyGod gave me a heart and eyes like that because Jesus loves like that. I know because that’s how He loves me! He saw beyond what I could never see about myself ~ faults and all ~ and loved it all to LIFE! He saw it all as GOLD ~ 100% WORTH HIS VALUE !!
This is TRUE LOVE! It’s the only way to TRULY LOVE others, including yourself! He found TREASURE in me ~ the GOLD ~ it was HIS WORTH & HIS VALUE ! Thank You, DaddyGod for giving me your heart and eyes so I could see and love others with YOUR EYES OF LOVE!
When someone shares with you how to treat them, connect with them or talk to them in a way that makes them feel loved, respected, honored, heard, seen & safe…yeah CHOOSE LOVE and do that to keep the connection alive, healthy & strong.
When someone sets a boundary with you, let this be the way you think about it: It sounds like they value having a healthy, loving, respectful relationship with you and that they would love to have a connection with you that feels safe and comfortable. So, in order for their relationship, connection and communication they have with you to continue, it is vital that you respect they healthy boundaries they have set in place on how to connect with them in a way that makes them feel seen, heard, known, valued, loved, cherished and respected. They’ve essentially given you a Guidebook on what makes them feel Loved (valued) by you. How nice of them to not leave you wondering, guessing or attempting to read their mind. They not only saved you a lot of time but also in sharing their heart and feelings with you they are showing that they truly value you and your relationship with them enough to be fully & lovingly honest with you by sharing their “Love lines” (boundary lines) with you.
It’s worth it to be love! If someone tells you what love feels like “to them” – it’s a really good time to listen to them. Even more so, honoring the boundaries ~ the Love Lines ~ they have shared with you makes them feel that a healthy, loving, respectful relationship, connection and communication is your ultimate goal & only goal with them! I promise it will do wonders for your relationship !
The Welcome Mat in the House of Love is always out for you. Come just as you are—your real self, your true self. Whatever is weighing on your heart, whatever mess you carry, it is safe here. You don’t need to hide it, sugarcoat it, or put on a happy face. Come just as you are! Bring your Real! Bring your heart on full or on empty….I want to know you and all that your heart holds on the messy and hard days, as well as the good days, and not so good days. And I promise, heart to heart, I’ll show up just as I am too. There is a rest and peace in simply being known, heard and seen simply being safe, simply being loved.
Welcome home, sweet Child of Love. Come on in! We have so much to share together ~ Heart to Heart!
Oh how this would save relationships. Not worth the bad memories it creates. I only want good memories & good times with others ~ Peace and not war. Keeping quiet and keeping the peace is better than if you are gonna start making noise and making war.
Love is my go-to. If it isn’t gonna sound like love – and it’s gonna sound like hate, jealousy, anger, insecurity, bitterness or ANY angry words that bruise and hurt others ~ let’s put a HOLY HUSH on it and choose peace! Make room for peace – don’t make room for war or you might be left standing alone in that room by yourself.
My “IT IS FINISHED” PRAYERS know NO BOUNDARIES! Jesus Your Provision, Protection & Love is LIMITLESS!! To the farthest length, height & depth – YOU ARE GOOD ! Love my “IT IS FINISHED ” INHERITANCE! ‘Singing the song You sang ~ Just like You sang on Day 3 ~ when You Rose from the Grave with Your FULL RECOVERY !!!
Thank You, DaddyGod for the precious gifts of Your LIFE, LIGHT & LOVE ! From the very moment I received You into my heart, my whole being was internally, externally & eternally FILLED with your LIFE, LIGHT & LOVE!
For as long as I have breath, I will never regret being His Love. It is never a waste of time or energy to be LOVE. I can never run out of LOVE or time to be HIS LOVE ! LOVE is my DASH!
This is LOVE defined! When I see me Through Your Eyes! I know who I am in You ! I belong to You! Your Perfect Love flows in & through me to love others with Your Love!
Jesus was never interested in mans approval or winning a popularity contest. His pursuit wasn’t for materialistic fame or wealth. He not only knew His Identity, Worth and Value, He lived it! He was the Son of Love in whom His Father of Love was well-pleased! He knew WHO He was and WHO He belonged to! He never used his power, authority or influence to hurt Himself or others. His Love Mission was centered around the Gospel of Peace ~ the Good News !
Jesus shared the good news of the gospel of peace with the poor, t0 heal the heartbroken, announce freedom to all captives, pardon to all prisoners, to comfort all those who mourn, to care for the needs of all who mourn in Zion and give them bouquets of roses instead of ashes, messages of Joy instead of news of doom!
He was and still is the Perfect Love example to all of us. He is LOVE DEFINED! If you want to know how to be LOVE ~ Look at JESUS!! If you want to know the definition of LOVE~Look at JESUS! When you know WHO you are in Him and WHO He says you are, you will see yourself Through His Eyes!
When you see yourself Through His Eyes, His Perfect Love lenses will help you see and Love others for WHO He has made them to be so you can love them for WHO they are in Him! When you see others Through His Eyes, His Perfect Love will flow in and through you to love others like He does!
Capture His LOVE VISION!!!
Heart2Heart in His Love,
Momo Smiley
I CHOOSE YOU
THROUGH YOUR EYES
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I learned through it all ~I was made to shine on HIGH BEAMS and so that’s all I gotta say ’bout that! No apologies for being my authentic me! 🙂
Be your own YOU ! No cookie cutter versions are needed of anyone out there! Just need You to SHINE YOU and BE YOU to the world !!! Be Lite Bright, SMILEY, SPARKLY and all that JAZZ !!! There is only one you ! So Shine on High Beams and cruise on in your own Love lane !
Remember, you can’t ever dim someone that learned to shine in the dark! So keep being Lite-Bright ~ Right where you are! Keep shining on HIGH BEAMS ! The other Light Bringers will find you and then you all can use all the Life, Light and Love that healed you to reach back into the dark to heal others!
In the House of Love, Love is not proven by words whispered in the doorway — it is revealed by the way we walk through each room.
Someone who truly cares for your heart will handle and speak to it gently . They will not dismiss your feelings, minimize your pain, or pretend your tears never fell on the floorboards. They will not ridicule or mock the pain they caused you as if it only hurt you because you are “fragile”. They will not invalidate your feelings. They will not try to make you accountable for their bad behavior or unloving, unkind words. They will not keep stepping over the very boundaries that were built to protect your peace and your healing.
In this House, boundaries are not walls of rejection — they are Doors of Wisdom, placed there because something was broken and needed mending. They are there to protect your peace, your health and safety.
Real love honors those doors. It politely knocks. It is quiet as it patiently listens. It learns that’s what real love does.
Love does not keep reopening wounds and calling it closeness. It does not cause harm and then expect full access to every room as if nothing happened.
If you desire someone to feel loved by you, then love them in the ways they have asked to be loved. Love them in the ways it feels like love to them. Do not keep doing what you know brings hurt and call it affection.
If forgiveness has already been given, treat it like sacred holy ground — not permission to repeat the same unloving patterns.
In the House of Love, growth and healing is required. Loving Respect is visible and audible. Consideration is consistent. Real Love knows more of what broke someone’s heart will never make it feel safe again. So, Real Love honors those Doors of Wisdom, those boundaries to prove it will do whatever is need to promote and protect the peace and the health and growth of the safety of the one it says it loves.
This is the House of Love, the Home of God’s Heart where His Real Love is revealed by the way we walk through the rooms of each heart we say we really Love.
I LOVE the parts of others that they don’t even love about themselves. I see beyond it all…DaddyGod gave me a heart and eyes to see and Love (value) them the same way Jesus loves me. Just like Jesus saw beyond what I could never see or love about myself, I am able to see and love others like He does ~ faults and all ! Jesus loved it all of me -faults, flaws and all ~ back to LIFE! He saw it all ~ even the stuff I didn’t see as valuable about myself ~ as GOLD ~ 100% WORTH HIS VALUE !!
This is TRUE LOVE! It’s the only way to TRULY LOVE others, including yourself! Just like Jesus found TREASURE in me ~ the GOLD ~ and proved through His Finished Work that I was worth HIS WORTH & HIS VALUE, Jesus helps me to find the Gold~His Worth and Value in others.
Thank You, DaddyGod for giving me your heart and eyes so I could see and love myself with YOUR EYES OF LOVE. The Love You have covered me with is the same Love that can flow through me to others. Thank You that while I was still undeserving…while there were still parts I didn’t love about myself … You died for me! Because of this, the very Love You covered me with flows through me to love & cover others.
Yes, Your Love covers those who’ve hurt me, Father, forgive them for their Know Nots. I cover them with Your Forgiveness even though they may not feel deserving of being forgiven. They are forgiven through Your Love. Only You are able to change and heal their hearts , if we choose. I do believe that forgiving themselves and loving themselves with Your Love will help them learn to change the way they love and treat others, including themselves. While Forgiveness is the assurance we are all made right in our relationship with You ~ forgiving others for how they’ve hurt us does not promise or guarantee restoration of the earthly relationship but it sure feels so good to know that we can still love them, forgive them and bless them with Your Love even so.
Truly if Love was only for the deserving, none of us would qualify for Your Love. Being wholly Loved by Your Holy Love is the only thing that qualifies us and equips us to love wholly love others with Your Holy Love. And seeing & loving others and ourselves with Your Love is the holiest thing we could ever do!
Heart2Heart in His Love,
Momo Smiley
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LOVE OTHERS with DADDYGOD’S LOVE ~ just because you can’t SEE they have become the Butterfly doesn’t mean they haven’t already become the Butterfly! SEE & LOVE (VALUE) them right where they are in their healing journey. Whether or not they have fully emerged doesn’t change the fact they have fully been transformed on the inside.
DADDYGOD SEES & LOVES (VALUES) us right where we are at ! He also SEES & LOVES (VALUES) our beautiful end from the beginning. He is the CREATOR of OUR BECOMING and because of JESUS, God already sees us “as we should be” through Jesus Righteousness. He doesn’t want us just to “know” we are righteous in Jesus. God wants us to experience feeling righteous because we are in Jesus and He is in us.
There is no room for judgment when you are formed in HIS COCOON OF LOVE! There is only ROOM for YOU & THE CREATOR as He so beautifully spins His beautiful design in you! Love others while they are in it, going through it and emerging from it just like DADDYGOD does! Give others the LOVE they deserve without reserve. Stick with DaddyGod’s definition of LOVE and His Definition for how to BE HIS LOVE to others ~ in it, through it, from it and beyond it!
Remember, Love learns to see and value people according to their full potential in Jesus even before they ever emerge into or ever reach their full potential in Jesus. Love also says even if you are not yet who you will someday become….even if you have not yet reached your full potential in Jesus yet… that doesn’t keep me from becoming or being the fullest me that Jesus created me to be.
Love them like they are already the Butterfly even before they emerge as the Butterfly! That’s how Jesus loves us. He loves us according to our fullest potential even if we haven’t quite reached it yet!
If you experienced emotional neglect or emotional abuse from those that say they love you, repeat this:
• “I am not asking for anything unreasonable or too much to want you to listen to me.”
• “My needs are not too much.”
“I deserve to be loved, valued and cherished.”
“I do not have to apologize for or condense my real feelings.”
“If I tell you that you hurt me, it ‘s not debatable.”
• “The right people for me will hear my request and can honor my needs, wants, emotions and feelings.”
• “I’m not weak for desiring support.
• “It is important to be heard, seen and known by those who say they love me.”
• It is normal and healthy to expect people who say they love me to treat me like I count, too.”
• “My needs are just as important as your needs and other people’s needs.”
• ” Love is when I count. You count. We both count.”
• “I am able to use my Yes or my No whenever I need to and I don’t have to justify my choice.”
• “I am strong when I’m vulnerable.”
• “I can use my words. My voice is important. I can use my voice to share my heart , my truth, my reality, my thoughts, emotions and feelings.”
• It’s ok not to be ok. I can give myself permission to honestly feel what I need to feel when I need to feel it.”
• I do not need to feel that I need to shrink myself or mute the voice of my heart in the presence of anyone.”
• It is ok to hold space for my emotions and feelings. I also feel grateful when others hold space for my emotions and feelings, too.”
• “It’s okay to feel what I need to feel when I need to feel it. I don’t have to minimize, silence or hide my real feelings when I am hurting for the comfort of others.”
You can create some of your own but these are some truths that are good to repeat.
You deserve to be seen, heard and known by those that say they love you ~ never neglected.
I am sorry for any hurtful memories you have when you have felt neglected, unloved or uncared about.
Thankful that God sees, hears and knows us and that we count to Him. Grateful He loves, values and cherishes us.
I pray you feel His Love coming in to melt every hurtful memory away until there is nothing left but LOVE!
Love does not neglect giving the things that make others feel loved. Know the Love Languages of those you love. Love them well while you still have time to make your love, care & gratitude known & felt. This is for all of you ~ on both sides ~ those who’ve been neglected & the ones who’ve neglected to make your love known to others in a way that feels like love to them.
It is love to be emotionally present with others. Love is that gift their heart needs to know they matter to you & what they are going through also matters. Give them the gift of your presence, your heart & time.
It’s not a matter of how much time you are able to be there just let your love show up in some kind of meaningful way to remind them they count.
There is VICTORY represented in the SCARS in Jesus hands and feet! HIS SCARS PROVE HIS ALL-OUT LOVE for you ! They are FOREVER ON FULL DISPLAY to you and the whole world to visibly show & prove His Love was fully expressed for you on the Cross, through His burial and Resurrection! This beautiful purpose in His Scars remind you that just like HIS SCARS REMAIN ~ SO HIS LOVE REMAINS for YOU, too!
Your SCARS tell your Godstory! Your SCARS tell others your God-testimony of how JESUS SAVED YOU & REDEEMED your LIFE through HIS DEATH, BURIAL & RESURRECTION !!! Through JESUS FINISHED WORK ~ YOU become a SHINING & VISIBLE LIGHTHOUSE! You become His BEACON of HOPE to LEAD OTHERS into SALVATION, the FULLNESS OF HIS ARMS OF LOVE, HIS GLORY, HIS BEAUTIFUL RIGHTEOUSNESS and INTO THE PROMISE of SPENDING ETERNITY with JESUS where LOVE REMAINS!
When OTHERS see and hear about your SCARS and how YOUR REDEEMER RESCUED YOU ~ DaddyGod will use you to lead them to Jesus by being His visible lovestory sharing /telling your Godstory! The ENDLESS SHORES OF HEAVEN have room everyone !!! All of our LIGHTS are important to the LIGHT OF THE WORLD. As He uses each one of us ~ our Word and Testimony ~ these SCARS that remain that tell our GODSTORY~ the Light of His Love beaming through us helps to brighten the world
My scars are a big part of my healing journey & God-testimony! I am thankful for my scars! I won’t hide my scars! They are all apart of my Godstory ~ God-testimony that give me beautiful opportunities to share my healing journey with others!
I have a physical SCAR from the gas-Powered hedge-trimmers that butchered my leg giving me a LEG WOUND (3/14/15) A blood clot broke off and went through a 18 mm hole in my heart (that I didn’t know I had) and went to my brain and caused a STROKE on March 28th, 2015. On May 22nd, 2015 I had heart surgery to repair / mend / seal the hole in my heart ! Now I’m 100% WHOLEHEARTED ~ inside and out!
This is one of my SCARS that remain that represent that because of JESUS SCARS proved HE OVERCAME & IS VICTORIOUS..my scar also proves that because of JESUS I OVERCAME & I AM VICTORIOUS, too!
I see my SCAR ~ I show my SCAR to others ~ I tell my GODSTORY about how JESUS ~ MY REDEEMER SAVED & RESCUED me from what could have been certain death or major physical / mental impairment. Yes, I have symptoms that still REMAIN but NONE OF THEM are greater than my JESUS ~ WHOSE PRESENCE AND LOVE has REMAINED with me!
I don’t hide my scar! It is apart of my Godstory -God-testimony that is PROOF of HIS MIRACULOUS HEALING POWER & LOVE for me! It is PROOF that THROUGH IT ALL ~ HIS LOVE REMAINS and will always STAY with me just like my SCAR stays.
I have emotional SCARS, too! That is so much apart of my HEALING JOURNEY ! Those SCARS represent the emotional pain I went through. They DO give me the ability to minister to others, empathize with and have loving compassion for others that are hurting! I can relate on a WHOLE other level because of my emotional scars.
Because of HIS BATTLE WOUNDS for me through HIS FINISHED WORK~ HIS SCARS ~ my EMOTIONAL SCARS are beautiful because they give me the precious chance to LOVE & MINISTER to others from that place DaddyGod emotionally mended & healed my heart ! Now I can testify that I am also emotionally WHOLEHEARTED because JESUS poured HIS WHOLE HEART into LOVING me on the Cross to the point of death! His LOVE REMAINS with me just like HIS SCARS!
Your SCARS have PURPOSE ~ a beautiful PURPOSE in ministry! Love yourself! Love the beautiful scars you have because just like they were the ENTRY POINT of your pain or wound ~ JESUS turned your SCARS into the ENTRY POINT for HIS HEALING LOVE to come in and WHOLEHEARTED HEAL YOU!
HIS LOVE REMAINS WITH YOU ALWAYS! There is BEAUTY in my SCARS! There is BEAUTY in your scars, too! Let your SCARS speak and testify that HIS LOVE REMAINS! Your scars just might be the ENTRY POINT He will use in you to be the ENTRY POINT into ministering HIS HEALING LOVE into someone else’s SCARS! Let’s LOVE WELL !
God “walked with me” through it ! I’m not there anymore thanks to God who used it! He used it for my good ! Guess what ? He will take you to a new you & new level! Yes ! That’s what He’ll do! God’s “Up”dates will introduce you to the YOU He created you to be and will work it ALL out for your good, too!
So – Forgive whoever threw you into the pit ! Just thank God for turning the harm they meant for you into something VERY good that He could work through ! The VERY good just so very happens to be the NEW YOU !
As Joseph declared so can you !
“You decided to hurt me.
But God caused a good thing to happen because of…” YOU !
Genesis 50:20
Yesterday they might have thrown you into the pit of a DRY WELL but they didn’t count on the Living Water Himself already being down there ! Oh yes! He was Waiting for you so He could be there – to fill you UP with His healing love and transform your pit into your Living Water Well!
“Joseph recognized his brothers,
but they did not recognize him.”
Genesis 42:8
You will still remember & recognize those who came to betray & harm you. You will have learned your lesson & forgiven their betrayal well. But someday when they see the NEW YOU, you’ll be so unRECOGNIZABLE – complete with your UPGRADE STORY – and this Godstory will be the only story your life will ever tell!!!
“And we know that God works all things –
(including the Forgiven Things)
together for the good,
for those who love Him
and are called according to His purpose.”
Romans 8:28
No matter what ! No matter who! Whether it’s pain or persecution, scars or stars, friends or betrayals, God will turn every harm they meant for you in your favor – all for your good – including a new YOU!
Here’s to the Best You & That Palace that is yet to come!
You are not wrong for expecting to be treated right, or for asking someone to honor a boundary or to respect your space, privacy or you as you pursue keeping “first things first.”
You are not wrong for asking someone to respect your desire to pursue and stay in peace internally & externally with others. You are not wrong for asking someone to give you the time that is needed to take care of yourself, your spouse & your loved ones needs before you are able to know if or when or how much time you do or don’t have to give above and beyond personal / family priorities that come first.
You get to decide how people treat you. You get to decide how to use the time that has been gifted to you. You get to choose to be a good steward of that time without others un-lovingly pressuring or guilting you into amy commitment or conversation to prove your love or loyalty to them.
It should never be or feel like someone is testing you or trying to get you to move or compromise your boundary to prove your love or loyalty to them or their importance in your life. Their expectation that you would move your boundary just for them and forsake your first and foremost responsibilities to your loved ones or even yourself is just out of place. They are being inconsiderate and thinking of themselves & not you or your loved ones. Either they are only focused on themselves or choose not to be understanding or they just don’t value & respect you & your priorities you have to take care of first.
It’s not your responsibility to sacrifice your first priorities for the sake of not ruffling their feathers. They can learn love is patient & kind & that patience is the most loving kind response they can have while you are taking care of your first priorities until you have free time to give them. Love is not grumpy when it doesn’t get it’s own way. It’s not me-first. Love patiently waits. Good things surely come to those who are love – to those who patiently wait in love. Love is patient and kind in actions, words and attitude in the interim. Be love from start to finish and the space in between.
You cannot be apart of other equations subtracting yourself from being apart of the most important equations first. We are responsible for ourselves, our spouses, family & loved ones to whom we are first committed. When extra time presents itself we have spare time to share with others but first things come first. Anyone that loves you should fully understand and respect that especially when you have given this gift of understanding and patience to them anytime they needed it most to focus on their priorities.
A mutually giving relationship is healthy. Sometimes there may be something going on more in the life of one person than the other person. So, in those cases it may require the person who is not under pressure to create space / room for the other one who is under pressure to feel that it’s ok if they have to tend to the urgency of the need they have. If this is you that is under pressure you don’t need someone adding more pressure to you You should be able to simply say I am not able to do “xyz “ right now without having to apologize, explain or feel pressure as if you need to be all things to all people. What a gift it is to have someone that says I understand. No worries. Take care of you and those you love and we will get together whenever things settle down. Adding more pressure or making it about you in a negative way just isn’t love. Someday you will need someone to be understanding of you. Give that gift freely to others, as well. The world doesn’t revolve around anyone. So make sure you aren’t sending that message to others. It’s not love. Love doesn’t seek its own.
Love is not me-first Love doesn’t look like or sound like pressure, force, guilt tripping, shaming, controlling or manipulating someone passively or aggressively into anything – not a relationship or a favor, etc. I shouldn’t even have to say that but it happens as much as we let it keep happening. If you are tired of it – set your boundaries, vocalize your boundaries if and when needed and honor, keep & respect your own boundaries as you expect others to honor and respect them. If you don’t honor & keep your own boundaries, how can you expect others to honor them if they don’t see you honoring & keeping them yourself?
Support your own healthy goals & desire to have healthy relationships by setting up boundaries that help you to accomplish those goals and desires. Then follow them yourself. Most people who love you will support you and then there will be some that will not support you but try to coerce, condemn, guilt, etc. you into compromising your boundaries using the whole “if you love me” you will move, lift or change your boundary for them.
Please don’t enable people to do this to you. It’s not love to enable others who choose to be unloving, unhealthy, toxic and just so plain self-centered as if you should revolve your time and plans around taking care of their needs before your own. If they aren’t working hard on their own problems and expect you to work on or give more
time to working on fixing their problems than they do – you are simply enabling them to become unhealthily dependent on you which we all know what that creates in a relationship. Codependency
The most loving & supportive thing you can do for them is to not get drawn into or become the one they depend on to do for them what they should be doing for themselves. That also sets you up to be blamed if things don’t go the way they expect. Instead of them learning to take responsibility & own their part you will be their scapegoat and it will in their eyes be all your fault if what they expected doesn’t happen, etc.
One of the most loving gifts you can give to someone who is pursuing to better their life, heal & be healthy on all levels, prioritize & take care of their spouse & family and goals is to support them. It takes a lot of needed & consistent effort & time to accomplish these desires & high priorities. There is a lot to balance out and time that goes into taking care of yourself and also those within your home that is not always understood or seen from the outside. So, decide in your heart you will give them the time, room & space needed to take care of those priorities first. Decide you won’t take it personally, judge or make it about you if you have to wait your turn before they are able to get back to you, text or call you, meet with you, etc. You will 100% feel bad and sad if you make their temporary unavailability about you in a negative way. That’s not supportive, helpful or healthy at all for the relationship. That kind of pressure is just damaging.
It makes you feel bad and get hurt when it has nothing to do with whether you are loved or important or not to them. It makes them feel bad and stressed because they already have enough on their plate trying to meet & keep their priorities and the added unnecessary pressure from you is a recipe for leaving a bad taste in their mouth and is a killer to a loving Heart2Heart connection.
You are supporting them when you honor, respect and rally them on to keep taking care of Godly, personal care or marital / family priorities first. It’s not about you if they are practicing, purposing & pursuing healthy, loving, Godly & honorable commitments & promises they have made to God, themselves & their loved ones. The more you give understanding the more they can focus on what they need to focus on and not spending their energy having to also think about you being upset. Let them off the hook and don’t make them feel responsible for you. In good time they will be able to circle back around to you but you can make it easier on them to let them know you are good until that free time comes. You are gonna be ok, I promise.
It feels good to be flexible with others. It feel good to let them off the hook they thought they were gonna be on. It feels good to give them the gift maybe no one else really gave them was to count themselves in & include themselves in the equation. So many that have been brought up to try to make everyone else happy often lost themselves in the mix because they didn’t feel how they felt or what they needed to do counted, mattered or was important. They were made to feel responsible to make everyone else happy, pleased and put first and they got left in the dusty leftovers or nothing overs.
Everyone counts. Everyone matters. Don’t lose yourself trying to make everyone else happy denying yourself the right to not only be important but treat yourself and your needs as important, too. Don’t lessen yourself and zero yourself out putting everyone else’s needs as priority and counting yourself out. It’s not leave yourself out. It’s as you take care of yourself you will have more to give and share with others when the time makes itself available. Don’t disclude yourself in the equation. I don’t mean make yourself more important and small not being considered at all. I mean take care of you and your significant others in your house first. That is love. You will have more to give when you have time to give it if you make time for first things first. Time with God matters first. You matter. Your spouse matters. Your kids matter. Your extended family matters. Your loved ones and close friends matter. Your sisters and brothers in Christ matter. Your pets matter. Everyone matters but there is a priority order that you take care of first. You don’t not care about those down the list but you have to take care of those first priorities first with your first fruit of time you have. God will use you in time but He can also use and love on others and use other things to help others out in the interim until you are ready. Don’t carry the weight of the world on your shoulders trying to carry everyone else. Only Jesus is able to do that. You still can pray for them and encourage them in other ways until you are able to freely give of your time to them in additional ways. Not saying don’t help but don’t stress yourself out and count yourself out killing yourself to help someone else and not take care of yours and your family’s needs first. God isn’t only depending on you to help. His sources and ways are higher and far exceed our supply, sources, ways, time & ability. He’s got them while you are caring for you and your family first. Barring an emergency you are free to keep taking care of first things first. When you are ready you will be all there instead of feeling divided, resentful or stressed / pressured. It will be the gift you want it to be when the time is right.
Above all – love is priority. Love is patient and kindly waits patiently. Love resists a me-first attitude and supports others who when they need to first focus on what is first priority. When the time is right – and available – the more lovingly patient and kind you are in the waiting with them – the more free they are to fully focus on being there for you when they are able to. GOd is in the space with you between the now & not yet. He’s gotcha good. Let Him be who you first turn to – your first priority – and just at the right time He will send you a Jesus with skin on friend who is ready and able to be who He has fashioned and created to be for you ! It just takes a little patience, understanding and love in the meantime to give others the space & time needed to be available. Could just be seconds, minutes, maybe a hour, sometimes a day, week and possibly in some cases a month, etc. depending on the crisis or weight of things going on in their lives.
You have God through it all. He is right there with you and would love nothing more than Him being your first priority & your main go-to ! Somehow when we put Him first ~ all else works together for good because we love Him and chose to WAIT WITH HIM (bind ourselves, braid ourselves, entwine ourselves closer and closer to Him) in the waiting while waiting patiently in love for our Jesus with skin on friend to be ready !
Love is a win-win for everyone. Everyone counts including you. Sometimes we just have to remember it is about us but not all about us. It’s ok if someone has to take care of themselves or family first just like it is OK if you have to take care of yourself or family first. It’s not forsaking or leaving someone out to press pause, hold or postpone until you are able to be all there for them. It’s not unloving to ask for understanding or a little time to sort or work things out in your own life before you commit to trying to work something else out in someone else’s life. That space in between there I can’t do that right now, but I am able to do “xyz” in this moment (maybe it’s prayer, for example) until I am able to do “abc” at some point later. It’s ok. You got this.
May love return back to you on many waves. Sowing into taking care of yourself and your spouse/family as your first ministry is pleasing to the Lord. It will give you full love buckets to pour out to others in God’s perfect timing !
Love to all of you ! My favorite is loving you & encouraging you to love God, yourself and others with His love ! You are important. You matter ! You are precious and worth being treated your full value and worth! Don’t treat yourself less than you deserve and treat others the way you would love to be treated with love, kindness, patience and understanding. Everyone should give and receive these gifts to one another. Your importance God made you with is not minimized no matter what. Others may not be able to be there for you until they are able but the best gift is knowing God always is with you and loves to be your very Present – Helper IN your time of need which is in a greater way than anyone on this earth is able to ever be for you.
Thank you to each of you who have ever been there for me when you are able and to what extent you have been there for me. I just appreciate the gift of you and your love foremost. Just knowing you would if you could and that your love is with me is the most precious gift of all. I don’t ever expect anything but I do thank you if and when you are able to whatever degree you are able to be love to me. Just knowing you love me is enough ♥️ That’s the best gift you could ever give just knowing and feeling that !
Love to you all & to all – all the love in my heart to you – I will be here for you best I am able to in whatever way or timing I am able to be. Thank you for your love – and patiently waiting with me in the space between ♥️
Jesus knew all of his friends faults before he ever befriended them. Yet He befriended and invited them in to stay in His Love ministry with Him anyway! He was able to see them through his eyes of love & the big picture of inviting them to be apart of His Love ministry with Him including their faults and all. I just love that!!!
Look at all of the beautiful love & healing ministry all His friends did together with Jesus. Yes, even with all of their faults and all their flaws-they helped Jesus to bring about His Kingdom of Love as they teamed together with His Perfect Love.
What they may have thought limited them to ever be able to minister, Jesus turned into beautiful Love & healing ministry opportunities for them to walk shoulder to shoulder alongside of Him accomplishing more TOGETHER than they ever could have alone.
His Perfect Love combined with their imperfections and their willing and humble hearts really helped bring about the kingdom of His Love ministry to all who would believe & receive.
It was Perfect Love Himself that saw value and worth in them to use in His love Ministry. His Perfect Love equipped them. Yet I believe it was His Perfect Love believing and receiving them (even with their imperfections) that truly caused their friendship and love ministry to soar ! The very flaws and character defects they most likely had used to discount themselves or others used to discount them, Perfect Love saw as a beautiful heart key to open other’s heart’s doors who struggled with the very same or similar imperfections.
Jesus knew this…. Who better could He have chosen to reach the lost and the rejected? Who better could He have invited to join Him on His Love Mission to help Him reach the abandoned and those bullied, shamed or condemned? His Love Ministry idea was perfect. He chose His Love Team ~ along with their faults and all of their imperfections to join Him on His Love Mission. He hand-selected hearts like you and me that He knew were the very ones He could invite to get down in the dirt and the messy with Him. He selected imperfect people like you and me to minister to the insecure, the socially isolated, those no-named hearts that felt unknown or forgotten, as well as the fearful, heavy burdened hearts and the depressed. He hand-picked those who would join Him in comforting all who mourn, and providing for those who grieve.
He wanted the very ones He chose to be His companions. He knew He could send them out to bind up the broken-hearted and to help Him announce freedom to all captives. I can’t imagine more compassionate and empathetic hearts He could ever choose to help minister His healing Love to the lonely & imperfect hearts than the very ones of us who really do understand on a very personal level what it feels like to hurt.
We’ve all known what it feels like to feel unqualified, unprepared or unequipped. Yet it wasn’t about picking his Love ministry companions because of what they did or didn’t do externally. It wasn’t based on the history of grades they had made on their Love report card. They didn’t have a Love Degree. His Perfect Love qualified them. He looked internally at their hearts and said, “I want this one to be apart of my Love Team!” Then one by one He invited them-including their faults and flaws~ and the rest was a Love healing ministry purely based on just being Love come near… just meeting every need with His Perfect Love which was a beautiful Love Mission Accomplished through imperfect people with an imperfect past… just like you and me.
His Love Team grew and grew and it wasn’t just His disciples. There were also those that made a Love choice to follow Jesus and become apart of His Love ministry team simply because they fell in Love with His Healing Love. It was their personal experience of His Love Lessons that made them into becoming His Kingdom Lovers.
Every heart He called into His Love Ministry and everyone that followed Him had real struggles like all of us do. So, it is easy to imagine that because they very much understood what a broken heart felt like… or they had experienced personal struggles themselves… this personal and deep understanding also made them be more loving, patient and kind, as well as more compassionate and more empathetic to others during their struggles. I cannot emphasize enough how very important this is in ministry
You see, Jesus turned all those hard life moments they went through into something good… not only for them but He also used it all for good to help them know how to minister to others during their hard life moments, as well. He always used all the good and not so good moments of their lives ~ to prepare them to be the perfect Love choice to accompany Him on His Love Missions.
Please hear me say… being apart of His Love ministry has never been about being perfect or flawless or problem free. If anything it’s people witnessing how Jesus loves us in spite of our faults, flaws and problems that draws broken hearts and wounded souls to His Love. It’s them witnessing how loving, patient, kind, compassionate and empathetic He is to us during the hard moments of our lives that magnetizes and attracts the hurting to Love’s side. His Love ministry then and now still is only about being His Perfect love to others even as imperfect as we are. It’s about being loving, patient, kind, compassionate and empathetic to others like His Perfect Love has always been to us at all times- especially when we need it the most.
Whether or not those He called into His Love ministry ever knew how it felt to be judged, shunned, side-glanced, skipped over or disqualified because of their imperfections… or whether they were just an average person with a whole lot of love but not a lot of experience in ministry… or whether they considered themselves “The least of these”… ~ joining Jesus’ Love Team was the most important choice. It was a Love decision internally inspired by being personally healed, redeemed, saved, chosen, accepted and called by Love Himself.
I assure you… they didn’t come into His Love Ministry with a Love or Ministry Degree. They became Love when they were healed by His Love. It really is that simple. Their Love experience with His Healing Love was all the hands on experience that was needed. Their hearts were taught purely by His Love that He had shown to them and the love they witnessed Him unreservedly showing to every heart that opened up to His Healing Love. It is so true… as you witness how Jesus loves others… You understand firsthand why- being Loved by Jesus Love begets wanting to be His Love to others.
When you began to think about the very things they imagined disqualified them for His Love ministry and then you see how Jesus used all of it and moved in and through their open hearts to minister His Love to others… it makes you realize how He can use your open heart and everything you have been through, the good, the bad and the ugly ~ to be apart of His Love ministry to others, too.
It is vital to understand… Their Love ministry wasn’t born until they met Love Himself… but once they did meet Love Himself… once they experienced His Perfect Love from the inside out… everything changed! Then all they wanted to do from that moment on was to be Love spent for Jesus the way Jesus had been Love spent for them. All they wanted to be was to be Love which is the most important thing we can ever be… to be His Love.
You see, Jesus invited and called all of us into His Love ministry. He called the rag-a-muffins- like you and me~ into His Love Ministry. He already knew He could redeem and heal all of us with His Perfect Love. He also knew the very hearts that would need to be ministered to are also struggling with some of the very same issues we’ve struggled with. He knows every heart healed by His Love-is love-equipped to love others like He does. He knows He has invited and prepared every heart healed by His Love to make the beautiful Love choice to love and accept others with His Perfect love. Right where they are in the middle of the dirt… right there in the middle of their mess- just like He loved and accepted us. Yes, loving others even through their “hard to Love” moments is some of our most opportune times to Love and minister to them the most…
Now, I am sure back then they had their “hard to love” moments like we all do. But they pursued the greatest mission and ministry they could ever be apart of which was just being Jesus Love come near. I believe His Love helped them give people permission and the space to be ok with not being ok… but I also believe that once their love came near… broken hearts, minds and bodies were healed and never the same.
Their Love Mission wasn’t go in with an “I’m gonna fix you attitude”, their love simply came near, befriended them with the same Perfect Love Jesus befriended them with from the very beginning… faults and all… Love changed everything…
We are all rag-a-muffins before being changed by His Love. We were all messy, broken and imperfect. We were all in need of His Healing love and mercy. Not one of us in this moment is too broken or too damaged to be wanted. Not one of us now is so far gone that His Love can’t reach us still. Not one of us is so whole that we don’t need His healing love every single breath and moment of our lives. What a Love Story… This is the beautiful Story of His Healing Love and is all the more beautiful when His Love Story lives on in and through all of us…
So, let’s continue our heart to heart talk about the heart of Jesus’s Perfect Love Ministry. It didn’t matter who Jesus encountered… it didn’t matter what they had done or what they needed… Jesus just kept choosing to be Love over and over and over again. Doesn’t that sound like the most perfect friend ever?
Can you imagine having a true loving friend like Jesus? Can you imagine meeting someone who knew all of your flaws and faults, shortcomings, strengths and weaknesses and who knew all the dirt on you yet never used it against you…. Jesus saw and knew all of it before He had ever encountered them face to face. He actually used that which they saw in themselves as un-usable or disqualifying and instead He saw and knew He could use those very things to help them to be able to love and minister to others in a greater way than they ever thought they could.
Just the same… Your dirt never once repelled Jesus. Your flaws, faults and sins never caused Him to turn His face away from you nor do they disqualify you or make you un-usable to do His Love ministry. Your shortcomings and unspoken messy parts have never made you unworthy to be used by Him. You know, you would have thought it was your strengths that drew His heart to you but rather… it was your weaknesses and all the dirt He knew about you that caused His Love to come near to you… So He could show you what Real Love is… so He could show you what Real Love does… and to show imperfect you that you are loved by His Perfect Love right there in the dirt… right there in your mess… in the middle of your doubt and all your fears and regardless of your imperfect history. He still invites you into His Love ministry to be who He called you to be… His Love come near… to people like you… to people like me…
It’s quite comforting to know that Jesus knew all the flaws and faults of all those He befriended and invited to be apart of His Love ministry. He knew all their strengths, as well as all of their weaknesses. He saw all of their dirt, their mess, their doubt, their history —and still invited them into His love ministry. Because who better to reach the hurting than those who have known hurt themselves? He specifically chose the ones who weren’t afraid to kneel in the dust…to sit with the shamed, the rejected, the lonely, the bruised and abused. He chose the ones He knew were still gonna mess up time and time again.
To Jesus, ministry has always been about loving imperfect hearts. Someone’s ability to minister hasn’t ever and will never be based on their nearness to achieving perfection, or how impressive their resume is… nor is it ever based upon their long list of qualifications. His Love ministry is purely based on Loving Him, Loving ourselves with His Love and loving others. It’s all about the nearness we come to experience in His Perfect Love and bringing others to experience His Perfect Love with us.
Love is always after the real. Love is always ready to meet you right where you are… faults and all… Love is not worried about your history ~ the good or not so good. His Love just says “Come as you are”. I love you and accept you. I choose you to be my Child of Love. I will heal what you cannot heal. I just want you to become apart of my Love story. I just want you to come with me… come to the home of my heart. Come follow me here… to the House built for you… come with me to my House of Love.
And it is in His House of Love… we are always welcome and invited. It is in His House of Love that all of us rag-a-muffins will never be disqualified…We are all welcomed home to the Kingdom of Love where we all belong. We are all invited to become His Kingdom Lovers with Him and join Him on His Love Mission. And here is the Good News…
You don’t have to clean up first, get your act in order, make the A-List, prep yourself or get qualified for the Father of Love to be able to love you and use you to be His Love to others…So…
Please don’t ever dismiss, disqualify, discount or limit yourself or others for any of these reasons. While it is true we are imperfect, it is even more true that through His Perfect Love -Jesus, has made us fully acceptable and qualified in and through His Finished Heartwork of Love. Love Himself has made us perfectly loved, received and fully welcome and invited into His House of Love and Kingdom of Love ministry. Out of this beautiful experience learning to Love ourselves with His Love – faults and all- we will then be able to begin the HEART TO HEART love ministry of LOVING OTHERS WITH HIS PERFECT LOVE – faults and all. This is when we will see His Kingdom of Love COME in and through us !
So let’s begin—and continue—to team our imperfections together in His Love.
All it takes is our willing and humble hearts… loving one another heart to heart, and walking shoulder to shoulder alongside His Perfection.
Learning to love one another—faults and all—is how we become able to reach, with His Perfect Love, into the hearts of imperfect people and love them to the Father of Love.
That is when the world will see and know that love between imperfect believers is the kind of love that can truly love and minister Jesus’ Love and the Gospel of Peace—the Good News—to them, regardless of their imperfections, struggles, flaws, and issues.
As imperfect hearts are welcomed and opened by Perfect Love, His true Love ministry—that redeems anything and everything—is going to happen.
I know that because I experience His Perfect Love in my heart every day. Even when I, too, am imperfect, I know He is going to use all of it for His glory in His Love Kingdom… because I invited His Perfect Love to love imperfect others through imperfect me.
That’s my love ministry—born out of His Perfect Love.
It is the loving kindness and love of DaddyGod, in and through us, that will help draw others into His heart of Love so they, too, can be a part of His Love Ministry with us—to reach the world through Christ’s Love.
Perfect Love is not judgmental, guilt-tripping, shaming, or condemning. Love’s arms are open to receive and hold everyone and anyone—no matter what they’ve done. Love’s welcome mat is always out to welcome all into His House of Love.
He invites everyone of us —faults and all—to step into His House of Love.
Everyone who receives His free gift of Love through His finished work at the Cross—through His burial and resurrection—is included.
His Love does all of the healing work in you—faults and imperfections included. Your life will never be the same once you encounter the Perfect Love of DaddyGod through His Loving Son, Jesus.
I only have time to love you. I don’t have time to focus on your flaws and imperfections. Loving you with His Perfect Love is all that you will experience here in the House of Love. Only Love is spoken here. Being His love to one another no matter what is what matters.
Only the world, religion, and legalistic, law-based thinking and believing finds time to criticize, judge, shame, or guilt-trip you about anything. That is not Love’s way.
His Love is only good—and always feels like Love—because every word of His Truth, the Good News, is spoken in His Love language.
I want all of us in His Kingdom of Love to be His Love to you. We’re inviting you to come alongside us and be part of His Love Ministry—loving one another and others together with the heart and Love of the Father.
Your heart will fit beautifully inside His Love—just like mine does.
Though we’ve all missed the mark of the abundant life, made mistakes, or walked through difficult seasons—none of that will ever be able to separate you from the Love of God or from His Love Ministry.
People’s opinions, assumptions, judgments, or criticisms of you and your faults, flaws and imperfections – will never be able to come between you and the Love of Jesus -especially once you encounter the heart of DaddyGod and discover your true identity is only in His Perfect Love.
While there has been cleaning, repairing, restoring, and redeeming work to do in all of us—Love Himself has already finished the work. It’s up to us to accept His invitation, believe it, receive it—and it becomes ours for eternity.
Love has already done it all and He has done it all for you and me. Our privilege is to share this good news with others as we assure them of His love for them.
I pray His Love in all of us will continue to remind you and reveal His Love to you—even when you, or we, miss the mark. I also pray that we will continue to walk in teamwork together in His Love, so that His Kingdom of Love can flow through us to all who open their hearts wide to receive His Love in and through us.
You don’t have to be perfect or flawless to be my friend—or for us to do His Love Ministry together. Let’s keep sharing His Good News and walking in His Love side by side, so His Kingdom of Love can come through us.
So as we close this heart-to-heart moment… let this truth rest deeply in your heart:
The very same Jesus who knew every fault, flaw, fear, and failure of His friends—yet still called them, walked with them, and loved through them—is the very same Love calling you today.
He is still choosing ragamuffin hearts.
He is still building His Love Team.
He is still turning wounds into healing ministry.
He is still inviting imperfect people to walk shoulder to shoulder with His Perfect Love.
Nothing about your past disqualifies you.
Nothing about your weakness repels Him.
Nothing about your imperfection cancels your calling.
You are still chosen.
Still invited.
Still wanted.
Still being called to be His Love come near.
And together—faults and all—our willing hearts, joined with His Perfect Love, will continue bringing His Kingdom of Love to every heart ready to receive it.
That… is His Love Mission here in the House of Love.
And here in the Home of His Heart is where you and I will always belong.
Love blessings to all. 🤍
Heart to heart in His Love,
Momo Smiley
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How many genuinely wonderful people have you never gotten to know nor will ever truly get to know their “real” because of your preconceived notions, judgments, opinions of them? Let’s take it a step further … how many good-hearted, love-hearted people have you spoiled other’s experience of their “real” because you influenced / persuaded others to see them through your distorted, untrue view of them? People are not your judgments !! It is NOT love to size people up through the lens of your negative judgments / assumptions and then cast that person in a negative light to others as if your negative judgments equals who they “really” are. If this is your track record – please stop choosing to be unloving to others because your unhealthy needs in you is greater than being love to others. You do not get to define anyone’s worth, value, identify, importance, status or purpose in a negative way in order to make yourself feel a superficial sense of superiority over them. You are still loved by Jesus even when you choose to be unloving to others but this is not being Jesus love to others. Jesus calls you to love Him and others as yourself. Would you describe your love to look like the way Jesus treated others? It’s a fair & important question.
If you don’t really know someone’s heart please don’t try to pretend you do know them. You don’t know why they do what they do or why they act the way they do. When you take the little you do know about them and try to sum them up in your limited knowledge or experience of them – how is this loving coming to some negative conclusion of them when in fact you don’t even know them or their heart. Only God knows the real heart of a person. Only His view and opinion of them counts anyway. So maybe just resist the urge to persuade others to see people through your eyes and persuade them to only see them through His eyes of love. When you believe & experience that is how He looks at you – you won’t even be able to see others any less than He sees you. He doesn’t wear your judgment, shame, condemnation glasses. He sees through His eyes of love. He wants us to look through His love lenses to see ourselves and others through His loving view and opinion of them. Love will naturally flow out of any heart in a real loving relationship with Jesus. You don’t really have to work hard to try because your heart knows the sweet experience of His love. That’s what others will experience through you when your heart has been baptized in an authentic love experience with Jesus. Once you have encountered His Love – everything changes. Condemning, judging, shaming, accusing eyes go blind as the Light of His love awakens and opens your eyes to loving others as He does.
Please stop trying to get others to minimize or condense themselves because you don’t understand their personality, bubbly joy, quirkiness, out of the box, outside the lines colorful personality. You are one blessed person to know them and you don’t even know it. Your preconceived notions don’t hurt them – they hurt you limiting you from ever being able to see and experience the beauty of their heart. So what if they aren’t like you – that’s a good thing. So what if they don’t express themselves like you do – it’s nice to hear depth coming from one’s heart than just surface talk. So what if they don’t fit into your circle – chances are they have outgrown any unhealthy need to fit into your condensed circle. So what if you can’t get them to tone themselves down. Maybe their whole life they had to tone themselves down and now they are free-off the leash – and they are not interested in going back to the very thing they are now free of. It’s your loss if you can’t receive the whole gift of who they really are! It’s good for you that they don’t enable you anymore by staying around for you to continue to devalue, demean, under appreciate the beauty of their heart. Their existence, purpose, success and ability to accomplish their dreams is not dependent on you anyways. If you can’t see their beauty and celebrate their “real” – that says more about you than them.
Maybe you are in need of a HEARTCHECK LOVECHECK when your opinion of yourself seems to always be elevated above others. Where does this need come from if you feel you have to choose minimizing, dissing, snubbing, re-defining others in such a way that keeps you feeling loftier, holier, more popular, qualified, deserving of all positive attention that you have to cast others you don’t really know in a negative light?? I just don’t see love in any of this.
It goes on everyday all around us. It makes my heart sad for everyone negatively affected by people like this. Whether it be a loved one, friend, neighbor, spouse, acquaintance, stranger…this is hurtful. No one needs to shrink themselves to fit into your mold. How heartbreaking that anyone would ever be so desperate to have someone in their life that they would be willing to be treated like this.
This is not love for any person nor ministry to ever do this to you. How about this gift – you be you! You be the awesome, interesting, unique, entertaining, out of the box, unlimited beautiful colorful outside the lines person Jesus created you to be. If people can’t handle loving you for you – they Probably mostly only know how to love themselves or someone like themselves. That’s not on you so don’t take or accept a cheap imitation of love in a pretty box but without real love inside the box!
Love you! Love yourself with Jesus love. Don’t size down your beautiful, creative, imaginative, colorful, unique or silly side! What In the world would it ever be worth to do that and get cheap, imitation, fake or self- serving love in return. No thank you! Love yourself just like Jesus does. Let Him be your Love teacher ! He will define love for you and it will feel like real love. He will treat you like real love should treat you. He talks so highly of you ! He is super impressed with you being who He created you to be. Please don’t settle for a lesser version of yourself just to gain a few fake friends who lack depth or appreciation for marvelous “real” you. You will walk with your head chin level when you stand tall in His love.
You will know the true mirror of love when others reflect Jesus love back to you – just the way you He created you to be ! Celebrate it if you are different than others ! Celebrate your quirkiness, your sense of humor, imagination & creativity ! That stuff makes you the fun one ! We need more of you in this world! Let that goofy side of you come out and don’t hide it under a bushel. Your Light warms hearts! Your colors turn up the saturation of Jesus love in this world ! Don’t go along when others want or expect you to black out, go invisible or decrease when they are present ! I cheer you on to Shine your happy heartlight and go for HIGH BEAMS!! Don’t dim you! I love your beautiful light in this world ! It brightens my heartlight and life just you being you and here with me ! Erase those other memories and pursue friendships and love of an authentic REAL LOVE KIND !! If you choose to be anything – BE LOVE and go all out on it for LOVE’S SAKE!!!
Heart2Heart in His Love,
Momo Smiley
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“Thinking Outside the Box is when you simply realize God has never been in a box! When you take the Limits off of God in your heart beliefs & in your imagination, you’ll soar to out of this world, Heavenly dimensions in His Love that you’ve never experienced! DaddyGod is LOVE & HE LOVES YOU!!! “
Heart2Heart in His Love,
Momo Smiley
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When asked a few years ago about the changes I have made over the last 10 Years…
I have to say my 10 YEAR CHALLENGE CHANGES are INTERNAL CHANGES!
I celebrate these Internal Changes His Healing Love has made in me!
• I do not feel in lack because God is my Love Source.
• I am no longer an accomplice to my own pain. I do not judge others and myself because judging others or myself is not loving.
• I see myself & others through the EYES of LOVE HIMSELF.
• I know my Identity, Worth & Value in Christ.
• I no longer hurt from the past. All of the hurtful memories melted into Love.
• I am the Righteousness of Jesus who says I am as I should be because I am in Him.
• His Glory ~ His loving view & opinion of me is my reality not anyone else’s view & opinion, including my own.
• I am happy that I was wrong about things because the TRUTH set me FREE ~ emotionally, mentally, spiritually which blessed my relationship with DaddyGod & others, including myself.
• I am able to freely give to others what Jesus has freely given to me.
• I am already pleasing to DaddyGod so I do not live to please others. I just love them the way DaddyGod so loves & is pleased with me!
• I am no longer striving to become. I am enjoying BEing who DaddyGod says I am in Him.
• My heart is in PEACE. My heart is not afraid living in fear like it used to be.
• The PERFECT HEALING LOVE of DADDYGOD wrote my Godstory Lovestory! I have everything my heart needs just being His daughter~a child of God.
• I love others. I forgive others. All I want is peace with others as we help walk each other home.
• My greatest awareness & truth is that I am fully loved, fully pleasing, fully accepted in my Beloved!
• Love is my ministry. Every ministry opportunity is purely motivated by love. My Godsongs Ministry & all of my Godsongs were born.
• I sing because I really am HAPPY!! I sing because I really am FREE!
• I celebrate that everything I have ever gone through ~ every season of my life ~ the loss, heartache, pain, hurt, fear~God worked it all together for my good & the good of compassionately walking with others through every season of their life.
• I see the GIFTS that have come through everything bad or good that I have ever experienced. I partner with DaddyGod inviting Him to use it all ~ spend it all ~ on loving others into His arms of love.
• I am a new creation that truly feels so blessed, so very grateful for my healing journey!
• I 100% believe in the FInished Work of Jesus! The Gospel of Peace changed my life!
• Internally receiving HIS GIFT of LOVE ~ the Love of my Heavenly Father~ changed me from the inside out!
• I feel the deepest gratitude to DAddyGod for everything and everyone He has blessed me with!
• I KNOW that no matter how many years I have lived before my healing journey and since I began my healing journey 10 years ago ~ that through it all ~ MY GOD IS SO GOOD! HE IS SO GOOD 222 ME!! I am a very grateful & deeply loved Child of DAddyGod!
• I LOVE YOU no matter what! LOVE WINS!
That’s just a little peek into the picture of ME & the beautiful Godstory my life has been over the last 10 +++ years since I found I who I really am in Him !
Who YOU say I am looks like my GREAT I AM!!
I am Momo Smiley and I love who LOVE is in me! LOVE HEALED ME !
Heart2Heart in His Love,
Momo Smiley
#GodIsLOVE #JesusISLOVE
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God “walked with me” through it ! I’m not there anymore thanks to God who used it! He used it for my good !
Guess what ? He will take you to a new you & new level! Yes ! That’s what He’ll do! God’s “Up”dates will introduce you to the YOU He created you to be and will work it ALL out for your good, too!
So – Forgive whoever threw you into the pit ! Just thank God for turning the harm they meant for you into something VERY good that He could work through ! The VERY good just so very happens to be the NEW YOU !
As Joseph declared so can you ! “You decided to hurt me. But God caused a good thing to happen because of…” YOU !
Genesis 50:20
Yesterday they might have thrown you into the pit of a DRY WELL but they didn’t count on the Living Water Himself already being down there ! Oh yes! He was Waiting for you so He could be there – to fill you UP with His healing love and transform your pit into your Living Water Well!
“Joseph recognized his brothers, but they did not recognize him.“ Genesis 42:8
You will still remember & recognize those who came to betray & harm you. You will have learned your lesson & forgiven their betrayal well. But someday when they see the NEW YOU, you’ll be so unRECOGNIZABLE – complete with your UPGRADE STORY – and this Godstory will be the only story your life will ever tell!!!
“And we know that God works all things – (including the forgiven things) – together for the good, for those who love him and are called according to his purpose.” Romans 8:28)
No matter what ! No matter who! Whether it’s pain or persecution, scars or stars, friends or betrayals, God will turn every harm they meant for you in your favor – all for your good – including a new YOU!
Here’s to the Best You & That Palace that is yet to come!
“King of Love I honor You and I honor every heart that You have made in the image of Your Love. In You, I already have the Gift of Heaven’s Love that healed me from the hurts of the past. You have filled me with Your forgiving love that I might gift Your forgiving Love to others. You have filled my heart with Your Language of Love that I might Gift Your words of healing love to others. Your Kingdom of Love come. Your Love will be done within my heart. For Your Love is the only power, Your Love is the only thing I need. Your Kingdom of Love my only Home. Now and forever Love through me. As I thank You for the cross. You paid the highest cost to Love as sons and daughters
You have the power to be a Love Blessing. Use the power of Love the Father of Love has given to you to tenderly hold, build up and support other’s hearts!
I am so very sorry those you trusted to love you & hold your heart hurt you instead. Your heart never deserved to be mishandled & betrayed. I pray your betrayer’s heart and the one who mishandled your heart be healed. I pray that they come to know the Healer of their heart wounds and that they would heal and mature so deeply in His Love that they don’t ever hurt anyone else like that again ~ including YOU!!
Please know ~ I see your big beautiful heart! God does, too. You are sweetly held in the loving hands of Love Himself who will never hurt or mishandle your heart. You’re forever safe with His love and those who love you with His love.
Come on in! You are always welcome and safe here in His House of Love where we all love you with His Love.
Your Identity & your Experience of Emotions & Feelings are two different things.
To understand the difference…just imagine these visual analogies with me….
You the Sky and your emotions represent the weather. The sky is never damaged by the storm ~ the raining, hailing or lightning. The sky simply holds space for the storm to happen.
Just the same…
You are not your feelings. Your feelings are NOT your identity. Your emotions and feelings simply represent how you are feeling…
For example…
You are not “Angry”. You are feeling Anger.
You are not “Sad”. You are feeling Sad.
Your Identity and your experience of feelings & emotions are two different things.
There is major difference between saying “I am sad” ( Identity) versus saying “I am experiencing sadness” (Experience).
Viewing your feelings and emotions as your identity traps you. Viewing your feelings and emotions simply as an experience you are having frees you.
Therefore, the very next time you experience a strong emotion like sadness, anger, anxiety, fear, guilt, shame…imagine your strong emotion and feelings like you are watching a cloud passing by in the sky. The cloud will pass. It always does. The sky remains the sky regardless of the weather on a given day, week or year or in a given moment ~ past, present and future.
Remember, you can FEEL an emotion or your feelings without envisioning yourself as becoming the emotion or feeling. You might say I feel this emotion______ or this feeling______ but regardless of the passing emotion or feeling you are experiencing ~ you still remain YOU. Remember, no matter what you are feeling ~ your identity is unchanged regardless of whatever emotions or feelings you are experiencing on a given day, week or year or in a given moment ~ past, present and future.
You can feel anger…you can feel sadness…you can feel anxiety, fear, guilt or shame…without viewing your emotions or feelings as being WHO you are (Identity). Your emotions and feelings pass…they come and go…sometimes they are heavier or lighter in the experience…sometimes they are all over the place it seems…but YOUR PERSON, YOUR IDENTITY is still YOU.
Another way to see your feelings and your emotions are like “come and go visitors”. It doesn’t matter what feelings or emotions you are experiencing…they do not identify WHO you are nor are they allowed to move in as members of your household. They don’t ever get permanent residence nor do they get to make their emotion-mail live at your address. Your emotions and feelings are temporary visitors. You ARE a permanent resident of YOU. Your identity is permanently who you are no matter the experience you are moving through. The experience is passing through ~ along with the emotions and feelings that go with it. They all move through~but they don’t get to move in!
THE VISITOR MINDSET:
Remember…you are the house. The emotion or feeling is the temporary visitor.
Just because a visitor enters your house doesn’t mean they own the title to your home.
Let them have a seat, let them speak, and then open the door and let them leave.
I chose for my scars to remain to remind you…I CANNOT FORGET YOU!
I DREW A PICTURE OF YOU ON MY HANDS (engraved, imprinted, tattooed a picture of you with your names written on my hands) To make you part of me!
YOU ARE ALWAYS BEFORE ME (before my eyes) You are always in my presence & in my thoughts! I’ll never forget you. You are never out of my sight! You are never out of my concern or favor.
Isaiah 49:16 (CEV, NOG, ERV, AMP, MSG, VOICE)
What Your Scars Say About God’s Love
Let your internal scars, the raw, hidden scars…remind you of Jesus’ visible scars that He chose to remain. His scars remind us of our past. Our scars do not show or remind us where our future is headed.
Jesus’ scars of Love represent exactly where His hands and feet were pierced for our sins. He chose to allow His scars of love to remain to help us remember His Love ~past, present and future ~ forgives us of all of our past, present and future sins and heals us of all our past, present and future wounds.
Jesus scars remind us of the eternal Goodness of God. His scars remind us of His Grace~ His power, strength and ability to help us do what we cannot do in our own strength, ability and power. His scars remind us He is our Faithful & True and that His Love stays~always.
Our scars are our visible reminder that Jesus makes “all things ~the good and not so good things ~ work together for our good” ! Our Redeemer redeems it all. Every loss we’ve experienced His Love heARTISTICALLY comes in to Color our World. Every pain or betrayal that casts shadows upon us on our journey home is transformed in and through His Healing Life, Light and Love.
All of our scars are healed by Jesus bringing His Healing Love into our fractured, messy past & present. He takes our brokenness and makes something so beautiful! As we accept His Love invitation to allow Him to enter into our wounds and fill them with His healing Love, He begins seaming us up until only His scars of Love visibly remain. Our visible scars are our precious reminder of His healing work and the entry point we have to share our healing testimony with others. That’s why every scar we have is so special.
His Scars speak His Love. Our scars speak of being so loved by His Love.
May we let our Scars of Love that healed our wounds speak His Healing Love into the wounded hearts of others.
222 to the 222’tune Of His LOVESONG ! His Love Notes He sings over me composes His Love Songs -my Godsongs- through me! ~ ~♥ 2 ♥ ~ Momo Smiley
~ ♥ 2 ♥ ~ Momo Smiley