There are moments in life when we begin to realize what it truly means to be a Love Missionary… that every word we speak carries something from within us into the heart of another… in a deeply meaningful and life-giving way.
And when our hearts have been loved, healed, and filled by DaddyGod… those words begin to carry His love, His goodness, and His healing into the lives of others. This is how Love Missions begin… and how Love is multiplied from one heart to another.
In the House of Love, this is something the Child of Love is learning… through a gentle, heart-to-heart conversation with Love Himself.
And now… just come and sit with them for these next few moments… as we step inside the House of Love… and listen to a gentle, heart-to-heart conversation between Love Himself and the Child of Love.
The Child of Love sits close beside Love Himself, near enough to feel His presence wrap around her like a quiet embrace. She looks up at Him thoughtfully and asks, “Father of Love… is it really true that every word I speak carries something from my heart into someone else’s?”
Love Himself smiles gently, the kind of smile that feels like it understands everything before it’s even spoken. “Yes, My Child… every word you release carries what it was born from. Words formed in Love carry Love… and words formed in wounds carry wounds.”
She grows quiet, letting that settle inside her. “Father of Love… I only want to speak what comes from You…”
His hand rests softly over her heart. “And that is the invitation, My Child… transformation. When your heart rests in Mine, your words begin to sound like Me… because they’ve been born from Love. My Love is GOOD… and when My Love fills your heart, goodness will naturally overflow through your words.”
She feels something beginning to shift within her, gentle but real. “Father of Love… hurtful words… they don’t come from You, do they?”
His voice remains steady and kind. “No, My Child. Words that wound, divide, accuse, shame, or that tear others down do not come from My heart. They come from places still hurting… still unseen… from the inner places of others still needing Love.”
Her eyes lower slightly, recognizing something within herself. “Then when people speak that way… it means their hearts are hurting?”
He nods. “Yes… unhealed wounds will speak until they are healed. Pain that has not been loved will try to express itself through words.”
A quiet compassion begins to rise in her. “Then Father of Love… I don’t want to add pain on top of pain to anyone…”
His smile warms as He rests His hand on her heart. “And you won’t, My Child, as you let Me love you right there. Remember, a heart fully given to My Love becomes a place where healing begins, not harm. When you allow Me to heal your heart, your words will begin to heal others.”
She places her hand over her chest, feeling something alive there. “Is this how Love multiplies?”
He leans a little closer, His voice soft but full of life. “Yes… this is how Love multiplies. One healed heart begins to speak healing, and those words plant life in other hearts.”
She leans in, drawn by what she’s beginning to understand. “Then… this is a mission, isn’t it?”
A gentle light fills His expression. “It is, My Child… it’s a Love Mission. To love unreservedly and unconditionally with the same Love I have poured into you.”
Her voice softens. “Father of Love… I want to live like that. I want my words to carry Your heart…”
His hand remains over hers. “Then let every word you speak first rest in My Love. Let it be softened, healed, and filled by My Love before it is given to others.”
She asks quietly, “And when I do that… what will happen?”
His answer comes like a promise already unfolding. “You will begin to see it… relationships growing, not breaking. Hearts opening, not closing. Love increasing, not diminishing. You will see My Love multiplying through you.”
Tears rise gently in her eyes. “Father of Love… is this what it means to be a Love Missionary?”
He answers simply, “Yes… a heart that has received My Love and cannot help but give it.”
She presses her hand to her heart. “Then take my whole heart, Father of Love… heal every place in me, so that every word I speak carries You.”
His voice softens even more. “I already am, My Child…”
And in that moment, something sacred is sealed heart2heart… not through striving, but through surrender.
In the House of Love, this is how Love Missions begin… not by trying harder, but by being loved deeper. And from that place, words are no longer just spoken… they become songs of Love carried from one heart into another.
Love Himself gently calls her forward. “Come, My Child… there are hearts waiting for us…”
There’s a place inside the House of Love… a room where your heart can finally exhale. It’s called the Safe Feelings Room. And this is not a place where you are corrected, or told to be stronger, or reminded that you should be over it by now. This is not a place where you have to hide what is really going on inside of you. This is a place where you can be real.
Where every feeling is allowed to come close without being rushed, without being silenced, and without being made smaller so it’s easier for someone else to hold. You don’t have to change what you feel here. You don’t have to rename it, soften it, or dress it up. What you feel matters.
And in this room, there is a table… a prepared place. A table of love where nothing has to knock, and nothing is left outside waiting to be invited in. Every feeling… every emotion… already has a seat. Every part of your heart is already welcome.
And as you sit there, something begins to shift. What once felt overwhelming, confusing, or even a little frightening doesn’t feel the same when it is no longer hidden. Here, your feelings don’t feel like enemies. They feel like something that came carrying a message… something that has been trying to be seen, to be known, to be understood.
Fear may come and sit beside you, quietly, almost hesitant at first. And when it is finally given space to speak, you hear it say, “I wasn’t trying to control you… I was trying to protect you. I saw what hurt you before, and I didn’t want you to feel that again.” And something inside of you softens, because fear was never trying to be your enemy… it was trying to guard something tender within you.
Sorrow sits nearby, heavy but no longer hidden. And when sorrow finally lifts its eyes and speaks, it whispers, “I am here because something mattered… because something touched your heart deeply. I stayed because I didn’t want that to be forgotten.” And you begin to feel it… that sorrow is not emptiness… it is evidence that your heart has loved.
Grief sits in that deeper place at the table, the seat that feels sacred. And when grief is finally allowed to speak, it doesn’t rush. It gently says, “I carry what was precious. I hold what was loved. I am not here to take from you… I am here because love was here first.” And suddenly, that ache doesn’t feel like something to run from… it feels like something to honor.
Across the table, anger sits… not loud now, not overwhelming, just present. And when anger is finally heard without being judged, it says, “I rose up because something wasn’t right. Because something in you deserved care… respect… protection. I was trying to show you that you matter.” And instead of pushing it away, you begin to understand it.
And as each feeling is finally heard, something sacred begins to happen. The child within you, the part that once felt unseen, unheard, and misunderstood, begins to lean in, not in fear, but in recognition. Because these feelings… they were carrying pieces of your story. And now, as they speak, it’s as if those pieces are no longer scattered… they begin to come back together, not as something broken, but as something being made whole.
And there, at the table, with Love Himself present, holding the space, something even deeper unfolds. There is no tension, no pressure, no need to fix anything. Just a gentle joining, where what you felt, what you carried, what you didn’t understand before begins to come into harmony. And you realize your feelings were never trying to pull you apart… they were waiting to be brought into love. And here, in His presence, they are.
As you sit there, something settles even deeper within you. These feelings are not here to take over you. They are visitors. They may come, they may sit, they may speak, but they do not stay forever. Fear may visit, but you are not becoming fear. Sorrow may sit with you, but you are not becoming sorrow. Anger may speak, but it does not get to define who you are. You are learning something sacred here. You are learning to become Love.
And as that truth begins to rest in your heart, you realize something even more beautiful. You are not the one visiting this room. You belong here. The House of Love… this place where your heart is known… this place where nothing in you is turned away… this is your Home.
You don’t have to earn your place here. You don’t have to pretend to stay. You don’t have to hide parts of yourself to remain. You can take off the mask. You can lay down the pretending. You can be real… and still be held.
The feelings may come and go, but you remain. You have a place here… a permanent place. And even if it takes time for your heart to fully rest into that truth, Love is patient. Love is kind. Love does not fail to be love. So you will not be turned away. You will not be pushed out. You will not lose your place. Because this… is your Home.
And here in the Safe Feelings Room, nothing is rushed and nothing is rejected. Every feeling is invited to be known, gently held, and then released in its time. But you… you are the one who always belongs.
So if your heart feels full today, or tender, or unsure, come sit for a while. Let yourself feel what you feel without shrinking it, without changing it, and without hiding it. You don’t have to pretend here. You don’t have to be anything other than real. There is a place for you here. You belong here.
You are not too much. You are not wrong for feeling. You are not wrong for not feeling okay. You are being gently led back to yourself by Love… and held in Love as you do.
And if something in your heart is stirring, if something is asking to be felt or spoken or brought into the light, you don’t have to hold that alone. You can bring it to Love Himself just as you are, with no preparing, no fixing, and no getting it right.
And if your heart needs someone you can see and hear, there are safe places, safe people, where your heart can be held in that same love. And this House of Love does not end here. It continues. It lives, and breathes, and remains open to you… a place where your heart can return again and again, where you are met, where you are known, where you are loved.
And I am here too, not above you and not ahead of you, but with you. As someone who has felt deeply, walked through healing, and been met by Love in the middle of it all. What Love has done in me, what has been healed, what has been restored has been opened and shared so your heart would have a place like this too.
So if something in you feels seen here, if something in you feels understood, then maybe this space has been waiting for you… a Heart2Heart, a living, breathing House of Love where Love Himself meets you, and where you never have to walk alone. Ever 🤍
Heart2Heart in His Love,
Momo Smiley
Psalm 34:18 (NLT)
“The Lord is close to the brokenhearted; He rescues those whose spirits are crushed.”
💛 He comes closer here.
Hebrews 4:15–16 (NLT)
“He understands our weaknesses… So let us come boldly… and receive mercy and grace when we need it most.”
💛 You can come just as you are.
Psalm 62:8 (NLT)
“Pour out your heart to Him, for God is our refuge.”
💛 You can let it all out here.
Matthew 5:4 (NLT)
“God blesses those who mourn, for they will be comforted.”
💛 Your grief is held in love.
2 Corinthians 4:8–9 (NLT)
“Pressed… but not crushed… knocked down, but not destroyed.”
💛 The way you feel is not who you are.
Ecclesiastes 3:1, 4 (NLT)
“A time to cry… and a time to dance.”
💛 This is a season, not forever.
John 15:9 (NLT)
“Remain in my love.”
💛 You belong here.
Romans 8:38–39 (NLT)
“Nothing… will ever separate us from the love of God.”
💛 Your place is secure.
Isaiah 66:13 (NLT)
“I will comfort you… as a mother comforts her child.”
You have exempted yourself from DaddyGod’s love for far too long. You thought because you failed that He was finished with you. You thought that He had turned His Face or favor away from you just because you failed. You wonder where your DaddyGod went or why you don’t feel His Presence like you once did. You thought He couldn’t ever use you… that somehow your mistake or wandering distanced or separated you from your Heavenly DaddyGod.
You felt so… because you thought so.
You felt so… because that’s the story you kept telling yourself…
And here’s the loving truth… many of the stories you’ve been telling yourself (maybe perhaps your whole life) were never born from Love. They were born from old wounds… old voices… old insecurities… old moments where you didn’t feel seen… known… valued… or protected. They were shaped by the mind traps you rehearsed… I’m not good enough… I’m too much… I’m not lovable… I always mess things up… something must be wrong with me. These stories were shaped by the voices of people who didn’t know how to love you well… who didn’t know their own worth, value, and identity in Christ… or didn’t know how to speak life over you… or didn’t know how to reflect the Father of Love’s heart to you. Some of those voices came from people who said they loved you but didn’t speak lovingly to you. Some came from authority figures you trusted. Some came from an earthly father who didn’t know how to show you the tenderness… delight… and steady affection of the Heavenly Father of Love… and without knowing it, your heart assumed God must be like them.
And for those experiences you never should have had to go through… my heart goes out to you. I am so deeply sorry that those moments shaped how you saw yourself and how you saw the Father of Love all this time. It challenged your heart and mind relationally… how to feel close to Him… how to trust He would never leave you… how to believe nothing could ever separate you from His Love. But the truth is… the only thing that ever made you feel separated were these stories… the ones you were told… the ones you believed… the ones you rehearsed… stories that were never the real truth. You just didn’t know any better. So give yourself some grace. Go easy on your heart.
And the more those untrue stories were repeated… by others or by your own heart… the more they felt like truth. But they were never the Father’s truth about you. They were never His story. They were never His voice. They were never His heart. And now His Love is inviting you to let those old stories go and let His Love Word rewrite His Loving Truths upon your heart. They will really change your mind… they will really change your experience… they will really change YOU.
But right this moment… I am here to tell you, Child of Love… don’t beat yourself up. Don’t guilt trip… shame… or condemn yourself for what you didn’t know… for not knowing you were an accomplice to your own pain… for not knowing your Know Nots… or how your mind traps kept you stuck in the muck. You simply didn’t know. That’s why they are called your Know Nots. You and I are forgiven of our Know Nots because Jesus on the cross said, “Father, forgive them, for they KNOW NOT what they do.” We had zero clue how we were an accomplice to our own pain. We just didn’t know. And when we finally DO KNOW, we allow the love and forgiveness of Jesus to wash over us and melt it all into a Love relationship with the Father of Love… and we don’t look back or give ourselves a hard time for what we didn’t know at the time… we just didn’t know.
This is an analogy I came up with that helped my heart and mind when I realized I was an accomplice to my own pain… Think of it like this… if someone asked you to go for a ride with them and you innocently accepted, believing that’s all you were doing… but you didn’t know they were on their way to rob a bank… and you were in the passenger seat… you would be seen as an accomplice even though you were innocent and unaware. You didn’t know. You weren’t trying to do wrong by accepting what they said. You weren’t actively or knowingly doing something harmful. You were simply riding along with the information you had at the time.
And here’s the truth… you should not be penalized, punished, or treated as guilty for something you unknowingly became part of without the full truth. You didn’t have all the facts. You didn’t have the real story. You didn’t know what you were stepping into. And innocence is always restored once the Truth is revealed.
So in a similar way… just because you didn’t know you were an accomplice to your own pain… or doubted the Father of Love’s staying Presence… or questioned His Love because you didn’t know the real truth… don’t penalize and punish yourself with the full weight of all the untrue stories you believed or told yourself. Those stories kept your heart in pain and kept you from experiencing the fullness of the Father’s Love… but you just didn’t know. Now that you DO know, you wouldn’t get in that passenger seat again just like you wouldn’t believe those old stories you used to tell yourself now that you do know the truth. You wouldn’t unknowingly set yourself up as an accomplice to your own pain like that again. So give yourself some grace. Don’t be so hard on yourself. Now that you know the truth, you will make better… healthier… more life giving and love giving choices for yourself. But don’t beat yourself down for having unknowingly been an accomplice to your own pain. The good news is… now that you know the truth, the truth can set you free forever.
And now… now that you know the old stories were never true… this is where the Father of Love begins to write something new… in you. He begins to write His truth upon the tablets of your heart… His Love Story… His True Story… because He is the Truth… the Life… and the Way. He is the Person of the Truth… and His Truth is trustworthy. His Truth is healing. His Truth is freeing. His Truth is the only story your heart was ever meant to believe.
So meditate… rehearse… and play His Loving Truth over and over and over in your mind. Philippians 4:8 invites you to think on things that are pure… praiseworthy… lovely… of good report… virtuous… and true. These are His Love Stories and Love Songs to play over your heart until your heart begins to believe nothing but the truth… until His Truth becomes the loudest voice in your inner being… until His Love becomes the story of your heart that you live inside of.
But what if… just what if… you begin to tell yourself a different story… the TRUE story… HIS STORY… His Love Story… and His Love Word as your only true reality.
Here’s your True Love Story to write upon the tablets of your heart…rehearse them, meditate upon them, play them over and over your heart & mind until they become your beautiful experienced reality in your heart, mind, whole being & life…
Romans 8:38–39 (NLT)Nothing can ever separate you from God’s love… not your fears for today or your worries about tomorrow. He is telling you gently that nothing you’ve done, nothing you’ve felt, and nothing you’ve believed has ever pushed His Love away from you.
Psalm 34:18 (NLT)The Lord is close to your broken heart; He rescues you when your spirit feels crushed. He wants you to know He is sitting right beside you in the very place you feel most alone.
Romans 5:8 (NLT)God showed His great love for you by sending Christ to die for you while you were still in your mess. He is whispering that His Love for you was never based on your perfection — it was based on His heart.
1 John 4:18–19 (NLT)Perfect Love drives out your fear… and you love because He first loved you. He is reminding you that fear is not your master — His Love is.
Psalm 139:7–10 (NLT)You can never escape from His Spirit… wherever you go, He is there with you. He is telling you that His Presence never left — even when you felt lost or unworthy.
Ephesians 2:4–5 (NLT)God is so rich in mercy, and He loves you so much… even when you felt dead inside, He gave you life. He wants you to know He has never stopped choosing you.
Isaiah 54:10 (NLT)His unfailing love for you will not be shaken… His covenant of peace will not be removed. He is reassuring your heart that His Love is steadier than your emotions and stronger than your failures.
Jeremiah 31:3 (NLT)He has loved you with an everlasting love; with unfailing love He has drawn you to Himself. He is saying, “I’ve been pulling you close this whole time.”
Psalm 103:13–14 (NLT)The Lord is tender and compassionate toward you… He understands your weakness. He wants you to feel His gentleness, not His disappointment.
Hebrews 13:5 (NLT)I will never fail you. I will never abandon you. He is speaking directly to your fear of being left: “I’m still here. I never left.”
Romans 8:1 (NLT)There is no condemnation for you in Christ Jesus. He is telling you that the voice of shame is not His voice.
Zephaniah 3:17 (NLT)He rejoices over you with singing… He delights in you with gladness. He wants you to know that His heart lights up when He thinks of you.
May His Love rewrite your story from this day forward.Your heart is safe now… the Father of Love is rewriting your story with you.Enjoy this Love Prescription for your heart, mind, and whole life… it’s a heart‑changer, a mind‑changer, and a life‑changer!
Heart2Heart in His Love,
Momo Smiley
THROUGH HIS EYES
I BELONG TO YOU
STAY
SHOW ME YOUR FACE
KNOW
REDEEMER
I CHOOSE YOU
HOLY TO THE LAMB
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Let DaddyGod bring something beautiful, healing and good out of it all ! You have a healing message in you. DaddyGod wants to use you and your testimony to bring hope and healing transformation to another.
DaddyGod has brought countless ministry moments out of my healing testimony and journey to the aid of broken hearts who’ve gone through same or similar circumstances. It may not be the same loss but the same heartache. His healing love that authored my testimony is also His Voice speaking through me.
I have invited Him to use my healing journey and to send me as His first responder to administer spiritual & emotional first aid to the hurting and broken, rejected, abandoned, shamed, condemned, abused, lonely, depressed and grieving… He knows & loves my heart. He’s loved on my heart so good with His goodness that I have so much of His love to love others with. I may not like some things I have experienced; however, it is worth it all to have gone through and overcome them with Jesus so that I am able to be a hopeful message of His healing love to you. What DaddyGod has done for me He has & will do the same for you!
My heart’s Prayer is DaddyGod keeps bringing me more hearts to love, encourage, bless, nurture, pray and sing His healing love over. It is my honor to sit, stand, kneel and pray with you. If I get the blessing to be there for others the way I wish I could have had someone to be there for me during those times of brokenness, heartache & loss , it’s worth it all.
My message is His message of love. His Perfect Love covers over all my imperfections and yours, too. What is most important is that Love is at the center. Everything spoken or done flows from His love no matter the way it is gifted. I trust that no matter how He uses me to be His Love that He covers everything. What I am not able to do in my own strength, power and ability, His Grace covers !
The Lord is near to the broken-hearted and so my heart will be, too in whatever way I am able to be. He will more than makeup for where I fall short. It’s His doing, His healing, His transforming and it’s His nearness that is what brings the good. I just Love to come along with Him and be apart of Him loving on you through me.
Tell me your story. I will love you and will never judge, shame, condemn, guilt trip or try to pressure you with fear. His Perfection covers all imperfections.
Your message will become your testimony to bring His living and loving hope to someone else someday. It’s worth it all. Your story will someday be your testimony, too bringing DaddyGod’s love, life and hope to someone else someday. Someone needs DaddyGod’s message in you. Won’t you share it?
Heart2Heart in His Love,
Momo Smiley
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If you’re reading this, maybe your heart has been hurt by someone you trusted. Maybe someone who was supposed to be safe… loyal… caring… and kind ended up wounding you instead. Maybe they knew your story… your struggles… your tender places… and still chose to say or do something that broke your heart and the heart of your relationship. If that happened to you, your heart is not wrong for hurting. Your pain is real.Your story matters. And you deserve a place and relationships where your heart can safely breathe again. The House of Love is that place… a safe place… a healing place… a place where Love Himself gathers your heart close… wraps you in His gentle arms… and whispers, “I see you… I know… and I’m here.” From this safe place, let’s talk about what real friendship looks like.
When you have a Heart2Heart friend… a true friend… they don’t try to compete with you or compare themselves to you. They don’t get upset when good things happen in your life. Instead, they celebrate with you because they are happy for you. And when you’re having a hard time, they don’t judge you or make what you are going through about themselves or walk away and leave you to go through it all alone. This is when they come closer with kindness… they listen… and they care. They take the chance to show what a true friend really is in the ways that feel like love to you.
A real friend who knows you’re already going through something hard would never choose to say or do anything that brings more hurt to your heart. They know your struggles… your weaknesses… the things you’ve worked so hard to heal from… and they would never use any of that against you. They would never pressure you… tease you… make fun of you… or make light of the ways you protect your heart. A true friend understands your need to feel safe… and they honor it. They don’t poke at your tender places or make you feel wrong for guarding what has already been wounded or what you have already worked so hard to heal from in the past.
A real friend would never take the private things you shared… the stories of your heart… your past… your pain… and add more hurt on top of what you’ve already lived through. They would never share your private struggles with others or turn your trust into another wound. That is not love… and no true friend would ever do that.
A true friend’s kindness is real. Their loyalty is always one hundred percent true to you whether you are with them or not. They don’t show up only on the good days. They stay… in the bright moments and in the sad ones. When you’re with them, your heart feels seen… valued… understood… and safe. And even when you’re not around, they still protect your heart. They speak kindly about you. They stand up for you. They honor you even when you’re not in the room. And the truth is they are not doing anything extra or special… this is simply the heart of a true friend… nothing extra… nothing pretend… just real love being itself.
A true friend helps you believe in yourself again. They remind you of your strengths when you forget them. They lift your heart when life tries to push it down. They don’t tear you down… compete with you… or quietly resent you. They love you upward. They love you forward. They love you in a way that helps you grow… and they are not bothered or afraid when your growth begins to rise beyond where theirs has reached.
A trustworthy, loyal friend who is compassionate… caring… and gentle with the hurts you’ve already lived through would never drag your heart back through old pain. That is not love… and that is not a real friend. A friend with a kind heart will never compete with you… envy you… or hurt you. They will only love you… lift you… and help you rise.
And if someone who was supposed to be that kind of friend has hurt you in any of these ways, your heart is allowed to feel the weight of that. You are allowed to grieve what happened. You are allowed to feel sad about what was lost. You are also allowed to protect your heart by pulling back and not giving them the same access to hurt you again.
But you are not alone in it. In the House of Love, you don’t have to hide your tears or silence your disappointment. You can bring your whole heart… the hurt… the confusion… the shock… the sadness… to Love Himself. He gathers every broken piece with gentleness. He wraps you in His healing arms. He holds you close with compassion. He speaks truth where lies were trying to cover up the real truths. He comforts the places that were wounded by someone who truly should have cared and treated you better.
Love Himself would never treat your heart in the ways they hurt you. He would never shame you… expose you… pressure you… or make light of your pain. He would never use your past against you or turn your trust into something that hurts you. He would never add more hurt to your hurt. In the House of Love, Love Himself becomes the Friend your heart always needed but did not receive. He becomes the One who heals what others chose to mishandle. He becomes the One who restores what was broken inside of your heart. He becomes the One who teaches us how to be the kind of friend He always meant for our hearts to be. And right here… right now… He is here to wrap you in His gentle, healing embrace and whisper to your heart, “You are safe with Me… you are loved by Me… and I will heal you from the wounds where others mishandled your heart.”
And as your heart rests in that truth… as you breathe in the safety of His presence… this is the perfect moment to let Love Himself speak directly to the places inside you that still ache. Let these next words wash over you like warm light. Let them meet you exactly where you are. Let them be a soft place for your heart to land.
And now, may your heart feel the warmth of this prayer spoken over you. May Love Himself draw near to every hurting place inside you. May He hold the parts of you that feel disappointed… betrayed… or forgotten. May He wash away the sting of all their unkind words and unloving actions. May He remind you that your heart is so precious… your story is sacred to Him… and your trust is valuable. May He surround you with His peace… His comfort… and His gentle presence. May He heal what has been broken… restore all that has been lost… and strengthen what was shaken inside of you when they chose to hurt you. May He bring new hope where hope has felt thin… new joy where joy has felt far away… and new love where their love has become emotionally unsafe for you. And may you feel His arms around your heart even now… whispering, “You are Mine… you are safe… and you are deeply loved.”
May your heart carry these truths with you as you step forward from this moment. May you feel the tender and sweet nearness of Love Himself in every breath you take… in every quiet place your heart finds rest and comfort… in every part of your story that is yet to unfold like His beautiful flower and bloom. And may you always remember that because Love will never leave you or forsake you… you will never walk alone. The House of Love is always open to you… always safe for you… always holding this precious and personal space just for you… your healing… and your rising.
Your heart was made for Love… not judgment. Be kind to your heart and release people from your judgments… because judgment is a relationship killer. When you judge others, you don’t just hurt them… you hurt yourself. To the degree that you make someone else’s behavior about you in a negative way, to that same degree you bring pain and heartache into your own heart.
Judgment doesn’t just break relationships… it breaks hearts. It shuts doors. It closes rooms inside of you that were meant to stay open — rooms of trust, tenderness, and connection. But when someone you love starts hurting you with their own unhealed wounds, those rooms begin to close. And when that happens, it becomes so easy to slip into judgment… not realizing that judgment is only adding more pain to the pain you already feel.
Judgment feels like protection, but it’s actually a wall that keeps healing out. It’s a reaction to heartbreak, not a solution to it. And the more you judge, the more your own heart aches — because judgment doesn’t heal… it only hardens.
Judgment is the language of fear… and fear always divides. But Love… Love Himself… the Father of Love… the Heart Healer… speaks a different language… the language of Love. Love builds bridges where judgment builds walls. Love restores what judgment tears down. Love is the Heart Builder… the Heart Mender… the Heart Repairer. And when you begin to hear His Love language again, something inside you softens and helps you remember who you truly are.
This is why experiencing and healing with the Father’s Love from the inside out matters… and it counts a whole lot in relationship with yourself and others. When you choose His Love, you become a relationship builder… a heart builder. Standing up for your friends and defending them in their presence and in their absence is heart building. Speaking the better word to and about someone in their presence or absence is heart building. Looking for the gold in someone… especially when it would be easier to point out the dirt you see or know about them… is heart building. That’s what strengthens relationships… that’s what makes them come alive and stay alive. And the more you practice this, the more natural it becomes to live from Love instead of judgment.
As the Father of Love heals you from the inside out, something beautiful begins to happen. You learn to Love yourself and others with His Perfect Love and this sets you free. You learn to release people from all judgments, including yourself. You learn to be free from all judgments toward your own heart, and love others with the Father of Love’s heart. Your learn to see others … and yourself… through His eyes of Love. This is where healing begins to take root.
And here’s the truth in Love… when you truly stop judging yourself, you will stop judging others. When you see and think of yourself rightly… in agreement with the Father of Love’s view and opinion of you, which is your reality… you will begin to see and think about others rightly… the way Love Himself sees and thinks about you. When you love yourself with His Perfect Love, you will love others with His Perfect Love. Immediately fear will shrink… evaporate… evacuate… and poof… be gone. And with fear gone, Love has room to breathe again.
You cannot be free from judging others unless you are first free from judging yourself. So much self judgment… and judgment toward others… comes from not believing that you and others have been made in our Good, Good Father’s identity, worth, and value. You are able to love with Perfect Love because you were created in His Perfect Love. That’s who you are… perfectly loved by His Perfect Love. And when you remember this, judgment loses its grip on you.
And when this truth begins to settle in your heart, something shifts inside your heart. This is why judgment cannot stay where Love is healing. As the Heart Healer fills you, it becomes impossible to keep judging yourself… and impossible to keep judging others. His Love frees your heart to breathe again… to see clearly again… and to love without fear again. Healing always begins with seeing yourself through His eyes.
And here’s another layer of freedom… His Love also pulls the plug on your victim mentality. You begin to see others’ bad behavior choices as a reflection of their unhealed wounds. I learned during my healing journey this powerful truth. People do the things they do… or say… because of them… not you. Out of the abundance of their heart their mouth speaks… good or not so good. Out of the abundance of their unhealed heart they will act… think… speak… and behave. And when you understand this, you stop taking their behavior personally.
And when I ever speak of our Know Nots, I’m talking about something the Father of Love has shown me over and over again… some people truly do not know how their unloving behavior and words hurt others. They don’t know to the degree it hurts others. They are so wounded… so unhealed… so unaware… that they have no clue how their unloving words and actions damage hearts and relationships. They play the victim as if it’s everyone else… and they don’t see their part or own their part. They blame others while carrying a big ole log in their own eyes… and then accuse others for the specks they imagine caused their unloving reactions. And when you see this clearly, compassion rises up inside of you not wanting them to hurt inside but without excusing their hurtful behavior you or someone else you love has been hurt by.
Some Know Nots act as if they do not know but they know exactly what they’re doing and keep acting unloving anyway… which is still a sign they need deep healing. Some pretend they don’t know so they don’t have to take responsibility. And some truly have no clue how their dysfunctional… toxic… unloving behavior keeps killing their relationships and hurting even the very people they say they love. And this is why wisdom and boundaries matter so much.
Jesus forgave people of their Know Nots… therefore we are encouraged to forgive too. So forgive, yes. But forgiveness does not mean automatically giving them access to your heart to keep hurting you. The Father of Love is not asking you to let someone repeatedly wound you in the name of forgiveness. The most you can do is know your part… own your part… heal your part… and let them work out their healing vertically with the Father of Love. You cannot fix what only He can heal inside of them. And this truth should help to bring peace to your heart.
Before they can heal, they have to see their part… and then know how their unhealed wounds are causing destruction in their relationships. They need to know how to be loving… know how they shouldn’t be justifying their bad behavior or unkind words…know how to see others through His eyes of love… know how to speak and act with His Love. They cannot give to anyone else something they do not know… something they have never personally experienced in their own heart. And until they do, their bad behavior will continue to reflect their unhealed places. Meanwhile, you are still trying to heal your part with God. So, give each of your heart’s good healing time with the Father of Love first…that’s where you begin right now…
Their behavior will not change just because they say “I’m sorry.” I mean that’s nice to hear, but actions speak louder as they say. There should be proof of true heart change that comes with an apology. It’s not an overnight job to heal the wounds that have been there since you were a child or for a while. God is able to do anything, but your heart first has to be willing… willing to see the truth so it can set you free and then do the healing HeArtwork inside of you for lasting proof and change. The one that hurt you might genuinely feel bad for hurting you at the beginning or embarrassed others saw or heard about what they did… but that doesn’t mean or prove they’ve healed or wouldn’t do something hurtful to you again. They have to first heal the unhealed places inside their heart that contributed to their unloving behavior and speech. They also cannot give or share something with you they do not have… something they have never received from the Father of Love. They need the Love Teacher Himself… the Heart Healer… to give them Love Lessons and heal their inner wounds. And until that happens, loving wisdom must guide your every step.
Otherwise, it will set you up for a repeat of getting hurt again. Until they heal what is hurting them… they will likely hurt you again. They cannot give you something they do not know… do not understand… and have not experienced. And if they keep hurting you even after they do know…or keep justifying their unloving ways of speaking to you or about you… that is a clear sign they have more healing to do… and you need to make a wise and emotionally safe choice for your own heart. You do not have to put yourself in close relational access with someone who keeps re wounding you. Wisdom is not rejection… it is protection. And Love always protects.
And here’s something else the Father of Love has been teaching my heart… there is no revenge or vindictive energy in me. None. I genuinely pray and hope that those who have hurt me… or hurt others I love… will heal from whatever taught them or convinced them that it was okay to treat me or other people that way. I don’t want them punished… I want them healed. I want them to know the Father of Love… the Heart Healer… the Heart Mender… the One who can repair the places in them that their hurtful behavior comes from. And this desire for their healing keeps your heart and my heart soft.
But until they heal… until they get a different heart set and mind set… until they learn not to treat others in hurtful ways… you may need to give yourself some relational safe space from them. Not as punishment… not as rejection… but as wisdom. Safe space is not cutting people off… it’s protecting and preserving the peace and healing you’ve found in the Father of Love’s Love. It’s refusing to enable unloving behavior. Love does not enable what is unloving. Love protects. Love guards the heart. Love honors the healing the Father of Love has begun in you. And this is how you love yourself well.
Your greatest act of Love is not to let them keep hurting you… your greatest act of Love is to pray for them… to bless them… and to give them the healing space they need with the Father of Love so He can heal their Know Nots and unhealed wounds… the very places their hurtful words and actions come from. You are not abandoning them… you are entrusting them to the only One who can truly heal them. And entrusting is an act of Love.
You are not a victim. You are a Victor in Christ Jesus. So keep on healing from the inside out. The more you see… become aware of… and heal… the more you will not make their issues about you. They won’t be able to play you like before. The most loving thing you can do for them is pray for them… that they will come to know… see… and experience the healing Love of God from the inside out. And as you heal, you will see clearly again.
And hear this loving truth gently… the Father of Love is sorry for how they have hurt you. But He wants you to be free from letting them make their bad behavior your responsibility. Only Love Himself… the Heart Repairer… can fix what is hurting inside of them that causes them to hurt others… and you. You just keep working on your part with the Father of Love… healing your Know Nots with His beautiful healing Love. And in that healing, you will find peace.
And if you’ve been hurt, know this gently… Child of Love… you are worth consistently and genuinely being treated with kindness… respect… honor… and value. You always were… maybe you just didn’t know it or believe it. Maybe you didn’t know it because there were those people who told you in your life they loved you but misrepresented the Father’s love and kind of love to you. Only you and the Father of love know the answers. If you’ve armored up your heart, it’s time to disarm. As you receive His Love, His Love will free you to love yourself with His Love… to love others (including those who have wounded and hurt you) and to receive His Love from those who are still in your life who represent His love well to you. He will show you how to love… and how to be loved. And this is where your heart begins to bloom again.
I know it’s easy to lock up your heart quickly, but instead, invite the Heart Healer in today. Let Him go into the places you haven’t let anyone back into. Let His Love teach you. Let His Love highlight His Kingdom Lovers… those who have encountered and experienced His healing Love and will love you beyond your imagination… and will never want to hurt you. And when you meet them, you will recognize them by the fruit of Love in their lives.
Once you let the Heart Healer in, let the healing and blooming begin. Then enjoy His Love gifts… His friends, too… who will know how to love you with His Life… His Light… and His Love. Kingdom Lovers… keep keepin’ your Love on.
Heart2Heart in His Love,
Momo Smiley
Matthew 7:1–2 (NLT)Jesus teaches that judgment returns to the one who gives it… the measure you use on others becomes the measure that comes back to you. This reflects how judgment wounds your own heart first.
1 John 4:18–19 (NLT)Perfect Love drives out fear… and we love because He first loved us. This reveals why fear and judgment cannot stay where the Father of Love is healing you.
1 Samuel 16:7 (NLT)The Father of Love looks at the heart… not the outward appearance. This invites you to see yourself and others through His eyes of Love.
Luke 6:37 (NLT)When you stop judging, you stop being judged… freedom begins when judgment is released. This mirrors the freedom you described in your writing.
Proverbs 4:23 (NLT)Guard your heart above all else… for it determines the course of your life. This speaks to protecting your healing and creating relational safe space.
Romans 12:17–21 (NLT)Do not repay evil with evil… overcome evil with good. This reflects your heart posture of choosing Love instead of revenge.
Ephesians 4:31–32 (NLT)Let go of bitterness… be tenderhearted… forgive as the Father of Love forgave you. This aligns with healing from judgment and choosing compassion.
Galatians 6:1–2 (NLT)Restore others gently… carry their burdens. This echoes your call to pray for those whose unhealed wounds spill out as hurtful behavior.
Proverbs 19:11 (NLT)A wise heart overlooks offense… choosing patience over reaction. This reflects not making others’ unhealed behavior about you.
Colossians 3:12–14 (NLT)Clothe yourself with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience… and above all, Love. This is the heart of being a relationship builder and heart builder.
James 1:19–20 (NLT)Be quick to listen… slow to speak… slow to get angry. This mirrors speaking the better word instead of prosecuting others with harshness.
Romans 8:1 (NLT)There is no condemnation for the Child of Love in Christ Jesus. This speaks to healing self‑judgment.
Psalm 147:3 (NLT)He heals the brokenhearted… He binds up their wounds. This reveals the Father of Love as the Heart Healer and Heart Mender.
Matthew 5:9 (NLT)Blessed are the peacemakers. This reflects protecting peace and preserving the healing inside your heart.
Ephesians 2:10 (NLT)You are God’s masterpiece… created in His Love, worth, and value. This affirms your identity as the Child of Love.
Proverbs 22:3 (NLT)A wise person sees danger ahead and takes precautions. This speaks to creating emotional and relational safe space.
Matthew 10:16 (NLT)Be wise as serpents and harmless as doves. This reflects Love walking in wisdom without enabling unloving behavior.
Psalm 34:18 (NLT)The Father of Love is close to the brokenhearted… He rescues those whose spirits are crushed. This speaks directly to the Child of Love in the middle of the hurt.
Proverbs 14:8 (NLT)The wise understand their own way… but fools deceive themselves. This mirrors the Know Nots who cannot see their part.
Hebrews 12:14–15 (NLT)Work at living in peace with everyone… and watch that no bitter root grows up to trouble you. This reflects guarding your heart from bitterness while healing.
Psalm 139:23–24 (NLT)Search me… know my heart… lead me in Your way. This aligns with knowing your part, owning your part, and healing your part.
Proverbs 27:6 (NLT)Wounds from a sincere friend are better than kisses from an enemy. This reflects the value of heart‑building relationships.
Romans 15:1 (NLT)We who are strong must help those who are weak… not just please ourselves. This speaks to compassion for those who are unhealed.
John 13:34–35 (NLT)Love one another as I have loved you. This reflects Love from the inside out.
Psalm 32:8 (NLT)I will guide you along the best pathway for your life… I will advise you and watch over you. This speaks to the Father of Love guiding you in relational wisdom.
You learn so much over the years about what makes a friendship healthy, holy, and forever~lasting. Wisdom begins to whisper to you in the quiet places, showing you the difference between connections that lift your heart like sunlight and ones that weigh your spirit down like a heavy storm cloud. Wisdom also reveals which connections are (emotionally) safe and which ones are not, gently teaching you that the difference between the two is always found in what Love is and what Love is not. And when Love opens your eyes, it becomes beautifully clear who belongs in your Love Tribe ~ who is ready for the inner Heart~Rooms of your life and who needs to linger in the softer outer spaces while Love Himself tends to their healing.
You can feel the truth of a friendship deep inside your own heart. Some people leave you feeling seen, heard, valued, and safe ~ like nothing you shared would ever be twisted, repeated, or used against you. With them, there is no pressure to perform or pretend. You can breathe. You can exhale. You can be fully yourself. You can rest in the sweet knowing that your heart is held gently and honored deeply. This is what Kingdom Love feels like. This is how Kingdom Lovers love. They love with tenderness, honor, respect, and safety. These are the ones who belong in the Living Room of Trust, where hearts sit close, conversations glow like warm light, and peace settles over you like a soft blanket.
And then there are the moments when you walk away from someone and you don’t shrink — you simply see. Love has taught you who you are, and once you know your worth in Christ, you no longer internalize someone else’s unloving behavior. Their tone, their reactions, their choices stop defining you and start revealing them. Their words become a mirror, a quiet tattle-taling of what is unhealed inside their heart, not yours. You no longer tiptoe or second~guess yourself, but you do pay attention. You notice when trust has been lost! You notice when someone’s behavior crosses from accidental mistakes into intentional choices — choices they knew were wrong, choices they knew would wound you if you ever found out, choices they made anyway. Whether it was speaking harshly, speaking about you behind your back, betraying your confidence, or mishandling your heart, they chose it. And Love helps you see the truth without losing your peace.
So you forgive ~ because your heart is anchored in Kingdom Love ~but you no longer offer the same access. You no longer hand them the keys to the inner rooms of your heart. Not out of punishment, not out of rejection, but out of wisdom. Out of protection. Out of honoring the sacredness of your own heart. They simply remain in the gentler Outer Courtyard of your heart for now ~ not because they are unwelcome, but because their hearts are not yet healed enough to hold yours safely. They are still on their journey, still needing to learn or still learning the ways of Love, still letting Love Himself untangle the knots inside them. And you genuinely want that healing for them ~ even if reconciliation is not possible ~ because healed hearts are free hearts.
Some people speak to you like you’re standing on a witness stand, being questioned, corrected, or charged with something you never did. Their tone carries accusation instead of compassion, pressure instead of peace. This is not Kingdom Love. Kingdom Love never interrogates your heart. Kingdom Lovers do not use their words to shame, belittle, or make you feel small. These are the ones who remain outside the Walls of Safety for a season or sometimes a lifetime ~ not because they are cast out, but because Love Himself is still softening their tone, healing their wounds, and teaching them how to speak life instead of out of their unhealed wounds, insecurities, etc.
And then there are the gossipers ~ the ones who whisper your private heart~stories to others. They shrink you to feel bigger. They expose you to feel important. Their insecurities and low sense of worth drive this unloving behavior. This is not Kingdom Love either. Kingdom Lovers protect your name, your stories, and your heart always. They keep your private stories locked in their heart’s vault and keep them safe for their whole lifetime. They cover you, not uncover you. Gossipers cannot yet be trusted with the Garden of Your Heart, not because they are rejected, but because they need healing before they can tend anything sacred from your heart again. This is loving wisdom.
Your heart deserves the kind of friendships where your reputation is safe even on your worst day. The kind where you never have to replay the conversation in the car afterward, hoping that sharing your “REAL” vulnerability with them won’t ever be mishandled. The kind where trust is so deep that the thought of betrayal never even crosses your mind. The kind where you leave lighter than when you arrived because their presence lifts you instead of draining you. These are the friends who belong in the Inner Sanctuary, where Love Himself dwells and where hearts are held with a beautiful, loving, sacred and holy reverence.
And for those who accuse, gossip, or wound ~ you forgive them as Love has forgiven you. You pray for them, not because their behavior was acceptable, but because you know they are hurting inside. You pray they let Love Himself heal their wounds so they do not keep wounding others. You pray they learn the ways of Kingdom Love so they never hurt another friend, another heart, or another soul in this way again. And even if reconciliation is not possible, you still want healing for them more than anything ~ because healed hearts are free hearts, and freedom is what Love longs to give them! I want healing for everyone, too.
A true, genuine, safe friendship never weighs heavy on your heart. It brings peace. It brings rest. It brings joy. It brings the feeling of being held in Love’s gentle hands. This is the fruit of Kingdom Love. This is the way Kingdom Lovers walk with one another ~ heart to heart, truth to truth, Love to Love, room to room in the House of Love.
May every friendship in your life be loyal and true, genuine and safe, trustworthy and tender, rooted in Love Himself and flowing Heart2Heart in the House of Love.
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