In the House of Love… in this sacred Heart2Heart space… there is a gentle invitation waiting for you… to come close and simply be with Love Himself… the Father of Love. Here, your heart is welcomed just as it is… every thought… every feeling… every place still healing. Nothing about you is too much… and nothing about you is overlooked. Love Himself sees you… fully sees you… and you are fully loved by Him.
Love Himself… the Father of Love… draws you nearer with kindness… because He is a true Gentleman. He gently whispers to your heart to listen… not to the many voices around you… but to His voice… His Loving Word… His Truth. His words carry life… His words carry healing… His words carry the power to restore what has been misunderstood or misheard within you. When other words have tried to shape how you see yourself… whether through praise… criticism… assumptions… or accusations… Love Himself invites you to bring every one of those words into His presence. And there… through His Loving Word and Truth… He makes known what has always been true… even if it has not always felt known before.
As you remain here with Love Himself… the Father of Love… He lovingly reveals and awakens your heart to His truth. The Mirror of His Love… which is His Loving Word… begins to show you who you truly are. Love Himself is the Living Word… and He becomes the Mirror through which you see yourself… through His eyes of love… through His Loving Word and Truth. Not through the opinions of others… not through past experiences… not even through your own thoughts apart from Him… but through His LoveSight.
“For we see in a mirror… and we are being transformed into the same image… from glory to glory…” — 2 Corinthians 3:18
In His Mirror of Love… you begin to see what has always been true. You are His… deeply loved… fully known… completely cherished. What He says about you is your true identity… and it has always been true… even before you were aware of it.
“I have loved you with an everlasting love… therefore I have continued My faithfulness to you.” — Jeremiah 31:3
As you begin to believe His Loving Word… and what Love Himself says about you… it activates the power of His love within you. You begin to feel loved… not just understand it… but truly know it deep down inside your heart.
There may have been times in your life when you did not feel loved by Him… not because His love was not there… but because you were believing something else about yourself. Words… experiences… and opinions may have shaped how you saw yourself… and your heart could not feel what it did not yet believe.
But as you begin to believe His Loving Word… His Truth… something shifts. The Love Truth of His Word begins to come alive within you… and it begins to set you free. You begin to feel His love from the inside out… steady… real… and alive within you.
“You will know the truth… and the truth will set you free.” — John 8:32
As you come into knowing His Truth… it grounds you… it stabilizes you… it gives you a firm love foundation to stand on. No longer does it feel like sinking sand beneath your feet. There is no hidden trap door… no fear of the rug being pulled out from under you. In His love… you are secure.
Once you know… you know. And once you experience His love… a true Love encounter with Love Himself… you are never the same again.
In this Heart2Heart place… Love Himself has silenced every accusing voice. Jesus… Love Himself… has spoken the better word over you. There is no accusation that can pass through His love… no lie that can stand in His presence.
“There is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus.” — Romans 8:1
Now… as you live from this place… you move through life differently. You still talk… you still walk… you still live your life… but nothing that comes from the outside can penetrate His Loving Truth within you.
Words may come… opinions may be spoken… judgments may be expressed… but they do not reach your heart. They do not take root. They do not define you. They simply fall away… unable to attach themselves to what Love Himself has already established within you.
Nothing can separate you from His Love… or from His Loving Truth.
“Nothing… in all creation… will be able to separate us from the love of God…” — Romans 8:39
Love Himself… the Father of Love… holds you in His love… personally… intentionally… heart to heart. You are held by Him… known by Him… loved by Him.
And from this place… everything begins to flow.
As you receive His love… you begin to experience what it feels like to truly be loved… and that love naturally flows through you. The more you see yourself through His eyes of love… the more you begin to see others through those same eyes. LoveSight awakens within you.
You begin to understand… those who hurt others are often hurting within themselves… not yet seeing… not yet knowing… not yet experiencing the truth of who they are in the eyes of Love Himself. And your heart responds with compassion… with prayer… with love.
Because now you know… you can only give what you have experienced.
As Love comes to you… Love flows through you… to yourself… and to others.
Peace begins to bloom within you… first with Love Himself… then within your own heart… and then outward into your relationships. This is the peace of the Prince of Peace… steady… comforting… and rooted in His presence.
Your words begin to reflect this love. The way you speak… to yourself and to others… becomes gentle… life giving. You begin to choose thoughts that align with His Loving Word… thoughts that are true… beautiful… and full of life.
“Whatever is true… whatever is lovely… think on these things…” — Philippians 4:8
As your heart becomes aligned with His LoveSight… you deeply know that your worth… your value… your identity… your belonging… are found in what He says about you.
And from this Heart2Heart connection with Love Himself… you experience a deeper connection with others… a shared life flowing through love.
You live from love… because it has always been yours.
And you realize… this Love… this truth… this identity… has always been your home.
In the House of Love… in this Heart2Heart place… you are awakening to who you have always been in Him.
Seen… Known… Loved…
And finally… at home in the House of Love, the Home of His Heart!
You are not wrong for expecting to be treated right, or for asking someone to honor a boundary or to respect your space, privacy or you as you pursue keeping “first things first.”
You are not wrong for asking someone to respect your desire to pursue and stay in peace internally & externally with others. You are not wrong for asking someone to give you the time that is needed to take care of yourself, your spouse & your loved ones needs before you are able to know if or when or how much time you do or don’t have to give above and beyond personal / family priorities that come first.
You get to decide how people treat you. You get to decide how to use the time that has been gifted to you. You get to choose to be a good steward of that time without others un-lovingly pressuring or guilting you into amy commitment or conversation to prove your love or loyalty to them.
It should never be or feel like someone is testing you or trying to get you to move or compromise your boundary to prove your love or loyalty to them or their importance in your life. Their expectation that you would move your boundary just for them and forsake your first and foremost responsibilities to your loved ones or even yourself is just out of place. They are being inconsiderate and thinking of themselves & not you or your loved ones. Either they are only focused on themselves or choose not to be understanding or they just don’t value & respect you & your priorities you have to take care of first.
It’s not your responsibility to sacrifice your first priorities for the sake of not ruffling their feathers. They can learn love is patient & kind & that patience is the most loving kind response they can have while you are taking care of your first priorities until you have free time to give them. Love is not grumpy when it doesn’t get it’s own way. It’s not me-first. Love patiently waits. Good things surely come to those who are love – to those who patiently wait in love. Love is patient and kind in actions, words and attitude in the interim. Be love from start to finish and the space in between.
You cannot be apart of other equations subtracting yourself from being apart of the most important equations first. We are responsible for ourselves, our spouses, family & loved ones to whom we are first committed. When extra time presents itself we have spare time to share with others but first things come first. Anyone that loves you should fully understand and respect that especially when you have given this gift of understanding and patience to them anytime they needed it most to focus on their priorities.
A mutually giving relationship is healthy. Sometimes there may be something going on more in the life of one person than the other person. So, in those cases it may require the person who is not under pressure to create space / room for the other one who is under pressure to feel that it’s ok if they have to tend to the urgency of the need they have. If this is you that is under pressure you don’t need someone adding more pressure to you You should be able to simply say I am not able to do “xyz “ right now without having to apologize, explain or feel pressure as if you need to be all things to all people. What a gift it is to have someone that says I understand. No worries. Take care of you and those you love and we will get together whenever things settle down. Adding more pressure or making it about you in a negative way just isn’t love. Someday you will need someone to be understanding of you. Give that gift freely to others, as well. The world doesn’t revolve around anyone. So make sure you aren’t sending that message to others. It’s not love. Love doesn’t seek its own.
Love is not me-first Love doesn’t look like or sound like pressure, force, guilt tripping, shaming, controlling or manipulating someone passively or aggressively into anything – not a relationship or a favor, etc. I shouldn’t even have to say that but it happens as much as we let it keep happening. If you are tired of it – set your boundaries, vocalize your boundaries if and when needed and honor, keep & respect your own boundaries as you expect others to honor and respect them. If you don’t honor & keep your own boundaries, how can you expect others to honor them if they don’t see you honoring & keeping them yourself?
Support your own healthy goals & desire to have healthy relationships by setting up boundaries that help you to accomplish those goals and desires. Then follow them yourself. Most people who love you will support you and then there will be some that will not support you but try to coerce, condemn, guilt, etc. you into compromising your boundaries using the whole “if you love me” you will move, lift or change your boundary for them.
Please don’t enable people to do this to you. It’s not love to enable others who choose to be unloving, unhealthy, toxic and just so plain self-centered as if you should revolve your time and plans around taking care of their needs before your own. If they aren’t working hard on their own problems and expect you to work on or give more
time to working on fixing their problems than they do – you are simply enabling them to become unhealthily dependent on you which we all know what that creates in a relationship. Codependency
The most loving & supportive thing you can do for them is to not get drawn into or become the one they depend on to do for them what they should be doing for themselves. That also sets you up to be blamed if things don’t go the way they expect. Instead of them learning to take responsibility & own their part you will be their scapegoat and it will in their eyes be all your fault if what they expected doesn’t happen, etc.
One of the most loving gifts you can give to someone who is pursuing to better their life, heal & be healthy on all levels, prioritize & take care of their spouse & family and goals is to support them. It takes a lot of needed & consistent effort & time to accomplish these desires & high priorities. There is a lot to balance out and time that goes into taking care of yourself and also those within your home that is not always understood or seen from the outside. So, decide in your heart you will give them the time, room & space needed to take care of those priorities first. Decide you won’t take it personally, judge or make it about you if you have to wait your turn before they are able to get back to you, text or call you, meet with you, etc. You will 100% feel bad and sad if you make their temporary unavailability about you in a negative way. That’s not supportive, helpful or healthy at all for the relationship. That kind of pressure is just damaging.
It makes you feel bad and get hurt when it has nothing to do with whether you are loved or important or not to them. It makes them feel bad and stressed because they already have enough on their plate trying to meet & keep their priorities and the added unnecessary pressure from you is a recipe for leaving a bad taste in their mouth and is a killer to a loving Heart2Heart connection.
You are supporting them when you honor, respect and rally them on to keep taking care of Godly, personal care or marital / family priorities first. It’s not about you if they are practicing, purposing & pursuing healthy, loving, Godly & honorable commitments & promises they have made to God, themselves & their loved ones. The more you give understanding the more they can focus on what they need to focus on and not spending their energy having to also think about you being upset. Let them off the hook and don’t make them feel responsible for you. In good time they will be able to circle back around to you but you can make it easier on them to let them know you are good until that free time comes. You are gonna be ok, I promise.
It feels good to be flexible with others. It feel good to let them off the hook they thought they were gonna be on. It feels good to give them the gift maybe no one else really gave them was to count themselves in & include themselves in the equation. So many that have been brought up to try to make everyone else happy often lost themselves in the mix because they didn’t feel how they felt or what they needed to do counted, mattered or was important. They were made to feel responsible to make everyone else happy, pleased and put first and they got left in the dusty leftovers or nothing overs.
Everyone counts. Everyone matters. Don’t lose yourself trying to make everyone else happy denying yourself the right to not only be important but treat yourself and your needs as important, too. Don’t lessen yourself and zero yourself out putting everyone else’s needs as priority and counting yourself out. It’s not leave yourself out. It’s as you take care of yourself you will have more to give and share with others when the time makes itself available. Don’t disclude yourself in the equation. I don’t mean make yourself more important and small not being considered at all. I mean take care of you and your significant others in your house first. That is love. You will have more to give when you have time to give it if you make time for first things first. Time with God matters first. You matter. Your spouse matters. Your kids matter. Your extended family matters. Your loved ones and close friends matter. Your sisters and brothers in Christ matter. Your pets matter. Everyone matters but there is a priority order that you take care of first. You don’t not care about those down the list but you have to take care of those first priorities first with your first fruit of time you have. God will use you in time but He can also use and love on others and use other things to help others out in the interim until you are ready. Don’t carry the weight of the world on your shoulders trying to carry everyone else. Only Jesus is able to do that. You still can pray for them and encourage them in other ways until you are able to freely give of your time to them in additional ways. Not saying don’t help but don’t stress yourself out and count yourself out killing yourself to help someone else and not take care of yours and your family’s needs first. God isn’t only depending on you to help. His sources and ways are higher and far exceed our supply, sources, ways, time & ability. He’s got them while you are caring for you and your family first. Barring an emergency you are free to keep taking care of first things first. When you are ready you will be all there instead of feeling divided, resentful or stressed / pressured. It will be the gift you want it to be when the time is right.
Above all – love is priority. Love is patient and kindly waits patiently. Love resists a me-first attitude and supports others who when they need to first focus on what is first priority. When the time is right – and available – the more lovingly patient and kind you are in the waiting with them – the more free they are to fully focus on being there for you when they are able to. GOd is in the space with you between the now & not yet. He’s gotcha good. Let Him be who you first turn to – your first priority – and just at the right time He will send you a Jesus with skin on friend who is ready and able to be who He has fashioned and created to be for you ! It just takes a little patience, understanding and love in the meantime to give others the space & time needed to be available. Could just be seconds, minutes, maybe a hour, sometimes a day, week and possibly in some cases a month, etc. depending on the crisis or weight of things going on in their lives.
You have God through it all. He is right there with you and would love nothing more than Him being your first priority & your main go-to ! Somehow when we put Him first ~ all else works together for good because we love Him and chose to WAIT WITH HIM (bind ourselves, braid ourselves, entwine ourselves closer and closer to Him) in the waiting while waiting patiently in love for our Jesus with skin on friend to be ready !
Love is a win-win for everyone. Everyone counts including you. Sometimes we just have to remember it is about us but not all about us. It’s ok if someone has to take care of themselves or family first just like it is OK if you have to take care of yourself or family first. It’s not forsaking or leaving someone out to press pause, hold or postpone until you are able to be all there for them. It’s not unloving to ask for understanding or a little time to sort or work things out in your own life before you commit to trying to work something else out in someone else’s life. That space in between there I can’t do that right now, but I am able to do “xyz” n this moment (maybe it’s prayer, for example) until I am able to do “abc” at some point later. It’s ok. You got this.
May love return back to you on many waves. Sowing into taking care of yourself and your spouse/family as your first ministry is pleasing to the Lord. It will give you full love buckets to pour out to others in God’s perfect timing !
Love to all of you ! My favorite is loving you & encouraging you to love God, yourself and others with His love ! You are important. You matter ! You are precious and worth being treated your full value and worth! Don’t treat yourself less than you deserve and treat others the way you would love to be treated with love, kindness, patience and understanding. Everyone should give and receive these gifts to one another. Your importance God made you with is not minimized no matter what. Others may not be able to be there for you until they are able but the best gift is knowing God always is with you and loves to be your very Present – Helper IN your time of need which is in a greater way than anyone on this earth is able to ever be for you.
Thank you to each of you who have ever been there for me when you are able and to what extent you have been there for me. I just appreciate the gift of you and your love foremost. Just knowing you would if you could and that your love is with me is the most precious gift of all. I don’t ever expect anything but I do thank you if and when you are able to whatever degree you are able to be love to me. Just knowing you love me is enough ♥️ That’s the best gift you could ever give just knowing and feeling that !
Love to you all & to all – all the love in my heart to you – I will be here for you best I am able to in whatever way or timing I am able to be. Thank you for your love – and patiently waiting with me in the space between ♥️
There are moments in life when we begin to realize what it truly means to be a Love Missionary… that every word we speak carries something from within us into the heart of another… in a deeply meaningful and life-giving way.
And when our hearts have been loved, healed, and filled by DaddyGod… those words begin to carry His love, His goodness, and His healing into the lives of others. This is how Love Missions begin… and how Love is multiplied from one heart to another.
In the House of Love, this is something the Child of Love is learning… through a gentle, heart-to-heart conversation with Love Himself.
And now… just come and sit with them for these next few moments… as we step inside the House of Love… and listen to a gentle, heart-to-heart conversation between Love Himself and the Child of Love.
The Child of Love sits close beside Love Himself, near enough to feel His presence wrap around her like a quiet embrace. She looks up at Him thoughtfully and asks, “Father of Love… is it really true that every word I speak carries something from my heart into someone else’s?”
Love Himself smiles gently, the kind of smile that feels like it understands everything before it’s even spoken. “Yes, My Child… every word you release carries what it was born from. Words formed in Love carry Love… and words formed in wounds carry wounds.”
She grows quiet, letting that settle inside her. “Father of Love… I only want to speak what comes from You…”
His hand rests softly over her heart. “And that is the invitation, My Child… transformation. When your heart rests in Mine, your words begin to sound like Me… because they’ve been born from Love. My Love is GOOD… and when My Love fills your heart, goodness will naturally overflow through your words.”
She feels something beginning to shift within her, gentle but real. “Father of Love… hurtful words… they don’t come from You, do they?”
His voice remains steady and kind. “No, My Child. Words that wound, divide, accuse, shame, or that tear others down do not come from My heart. They come from places still hurting… still unseen… from the inner places of others still needing Love.”
Her eyes lower slightly, recognizing something within herself. “Then when people speak that way… it means their hearts are hurting?”
He nods. “Yes… unhealed wounds will speak until they are healed. Pain that has not been loved will try to express itself through words.”
A quiet compassion begins to rise in her. “Then Father of Love… I don’t want to add pain on top of pain to anyone…”
His smile warms as He rests His hand on her heart. “And you won’t, My Child, as you let Me love you right there. Remember, a heart fully given to My Love becomes a place where healing begins, not harm. When you allow Me to heal your heart, your words will begin to heal others.”
She places her hand over her chest, feeling something alive there. “Is this how Love multiplies?”
He leans a little closer, His voice soft but full of life. “Yes… this is how Love multiplies. One healed heart begins to speak healing, and those words plant life in other hearts.”
She leans in, drawn by what she’s beginning to understand. “Then… this is a mission, isn’t it?”
A gentle light fills His expression. “It is, My Child… it’s a Love Mission. To love unreservedly and unconditionally with the same Love I have poured into you.”
Her voice softens. “Father of Love… I want to live like that. I want my words to carry Your heart…”
His hand remains over hers. “Then let every word you speak first rest in My Love. Let it be softened, healed, and filled by My Love before it is given to others.”
She asks quietly, “And when I do that… what will happen?”
His answer comes like a promise already unfolding. “You will begin to see it… relationships growing, not breaking. Hearts opening, not closing. Love increasing, not diminishing. You will see My Love multiplying through you.”
Tears rise gently in her eyes. “Father of Love… is this what it means to be a Love Missionary?”
He answers simply, “Yes… a heart that has received My Love and cannot help but give it.”
She presses her hand to her heart. “Then take my whole heart, Father of Love… heal every place in me, so that every word I speak carries You.”
His voice softens even more. “I already am, My Child…”
And in that moment, something sacred is sealed heart2heart… not through striving, but through surrender.
In the House of Love, this is how Love Missions begin… not by trying harder, but by being loved deeper. And from that place, words are no longer just spoken… they become songs of Love carried from one heart into another.
Love Himself gently calls her forward. “Come, My Child… there are hearts waiting for us…”
This is a Heart2Heart story… a gentle picture of what Love Himself is like, drawn from the truths of Scripture, so your heart can rest in His love as you listen. These Love Lessons are told in story form… not new words from Jesus, but a tender reflection of the way Scripture shows Love Himself caring for His children. This story is simply meant to help your heart feel the way His love feels… soft, safe, healing, and true. Hear Him with me as I hear Love Himself whispering to our hearts…
My Child of Love… come sit with Me… right here where your heart can hear Mine. I want to show you something… something gentle… something true. I want you to watch how I love others… how I speak to them… how I hold their hearts… because as you listen, your own heart is learning. These are your Love Notes… written quietly inside you as I speak.
When I speak to someone… I speak kindly. I speak gently. I speak in ways that help their heart feel safe. I never use mean or hurtful words. I never make someone feel small. I never remind them of the things they wish they could forget. I never use their struggles against them. I never tease them or embarrass them or make them feel ashamed. I speak in ways that help them feel lighter… calmer… braver… and more loved. This is how I love… and as you listen, your heart is learning to love this way too. In My House… Love is spoken here.
When someone is hurting… I am soft with them. When someone is scared… I speak peace to them. When someone feels ashamed… I cover them with kindness. When someone is trying to heal… I protect the tender places. I do not poke at their wounds. I do not bring up what hurts them. I do not make them relive what broke them. I hold their heart gently… the way you would hold something precious that could easily be hurt. This is how I love… and as you listen, your heart is learning to love this way too. In My House… Love is spoken here.
When someone tells Me their secrets… I keep them safe. I never tell their private stories to others. I never use what they trusted Me with to hurt them. I never add more pain to the pain they already carry. I never drag them back through the things they survived. I never make them feel the hurt all over again. I protect their heart… because their heart matters to Me. This is how I love… and as you listen, your heart is learning to love this way too. In My House… Love is spoken here.
And My child… I know you have been hurt by people you trusted… people who should have loved you well… people who should have spoken to you with kindness… people who should have protected your heart instead of wounding it. I want you to hear Me… I never agreed with the way they treated you. I never blessed their behavior. I never told them to speak to you that way. I never told them to handle your heart with anything less than love. What they did was not love… and it was not Me.
But even after all of that… your heart still wants to love like I love. You still want to be My Love to others. You still pray for the ones who hurt you. You still hope for their healing. And that tenderness in you… that compassion… that desire to love even when you have been wounded… that is My Love alive inside you. That is My heart beating in yours.
You do not have to trust those who hurt you. You do not have to stay close to those who wounded your heart. Safe distance is not unloving… it is wisdom. You can pray for them from afar. You can bless them without giving them access to your heart. You can love them without letting them hurt you again. This is love too… the kind of love that protects your heart while still hoping for theirs.
So as you take these Love Notes into your heart… remember this… you are learning from Me. You are learning how to speak… how to care… how to protect… how to love with a heart that heals, not a heart that harms. You are learning to be a Heart2Heart friend because you are learning from Love Himself. And every time you choose kindness… every time you choose gentleness… every time you choose compassion… you are choosing to love the way I love. In My House… Love is spoken here.
“And never let ugly or hateful words come from your mouth, but instead let your words become beautiful gifts that encourage others…” My child… this is how I speak to you… and as you listen, your heart is learning to speak with beauty and kindness too.
“Kind words are like honey… sweet to the soul and healing to the body.” Let your heart feel this… My words to you are always sweet… always gentle… always healing… and your heart is learning sweetness from Mine.
“A gentle answer turns away anger, but harsh words stir up hurt.” Feel My gentleness… this is how I protect your heart… and as you listen, your heart is learning gentleness from Me.
“Let your words always be full of grace…” Breathe in My grace… let it fill you… let it shape the way you speak… the way you love… the way you respond… your heart is learning grace from Mine.
“Above all, love each other deeply, for love covers a multitude of wrongs.” Rest in this… My Love covers you… shields you… protects you… and as you listen, your heart is learning to cover others with the same tenderness.
My Child of Love… come here… let Me hold you for a moment. Let Me place My hands gently on each side of your face… the way I touch what is precious to Me. Look at Me… let your heart feel how deeply you belong to Love. You have listened so closely… you have let My words settle inside you… and I want you to feel this blessing not just in your mind, but in the softest places of your heart.
I bless your heart with peace… the kind that quiets the storms inside you. I bless your heart with rest… the kind that lets you breathe again. I bless your heart with truth… the kind that reminds you that you are safe in My Love.
And now, My child… I place My hand upon the top of your head… gently… tenderly… the way a loving Father blesses His beloved one. Feel My hand there… warm, steady, covering you with My presence. I speak healing into every place that has been hurt… every place that has been confused… every place that has been wounded by unkind words or unloving actions. Let My Love settle there… let it mend what was broken… let it soothe what was sore… let it bring peace where there was fear.
And hear this, little one… you are not only healed by My Love… you are carried by My Love… and now you are sent in My Love. You carry My gentleness. You carry My kindness. You carry My compassion. You carry My heart. You do not have to stay close to those who hurt you… but you can still pray for them… still hope for their healing… still shine My Love from a safe place.
You are My Child of Love… and I am sending you into the world with a heart that heals, not a heart that harms… a heart that speaks life, not pain… a heart that reflects Mine. Go in My Love… walk in My Love… speak in My Love… and remember always…
222 to the 222’tune Of His LOVESONG ! His Love Notes He sings over me composes His Love Songs -my Godsongs- through me! ~ ~♥ 2 ♥ ~ Momo Smiley
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