When someone shares with you how to treat them, connect with them or talk to them in a way that makes them feel loved, respected, honored, heard, seen & safe…yeah CHOOSE LOVE and do that to keep the connection alive, healthy & strong.

When someone sets a boundary with you, let this be the way you think about it:  It sounds like they value having a healthy, loving, respectful relationship with you and that they would love to have a connection with you that feels safe and comfortable.  So, in order for their relationship, connection and communication they have with you to continue, it is vital that you respect they healthy boundaries they have set in place on how to connect with them in a way that makes them feel seen, heard, known, valued, loved, cherished and respected.  They’ve essentially given you a Guidebook on what makes them feel Loved (valued) by you.  How nice of them to not leave you wondering, guessing or attempting to read their mind.  They not only saved you a lot of time but also in sharing their heart and feelings with you they are showing that they truly value you and your relationship with them enough to be fully & lovingly honest with you by sharing their “Love lines” (boundary lines) with you.  

It’s worth it to be love! If someone tells you what love feels like “to them” – it’s a really good time to listen to them. Even more so, honoring the boundaries ~ the Love Lines ~ they have shared with you makes them feel that a healthy, loving, respectful relationship, connection and communication is your ultimate goal & only goal with them! I promise it will do wonders for your relationship !

Heart 2 Heart in His Love,

Momo Smiley

 

KINGDOM OF LOVE

 

 

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