Keep this in mind. Be sensitive. Caring. Patient. Understanding, loving and compassionate. If you don’t know what this feels like your attitude should be gratitude. Extend a reaching hand, your heart and Prayers towards those who do know and have lived something they never should have had to live. That’s how you love them…remember to love them the way they should have always been loved. 

Remember, only God sees and knows what is going on inside of someone.  He knows the trauma they have endured.  You only see what you see.  So, please be sensitive to others who are hurting.  They aren’t only healing from trauma they have endured.  They are also healing from a life living in survival mode.  They’re are still healing from their own self-judgment.  They sure do not need you to add your judgment to the mix of what they already think and feel. Additionally, they are also healing from the grief of what could’ve been had they never gone through the trauma of what they went through.

So, how can you be love to them.  Re-read the beginning of my heartshare above…

Just think how much your loving sensitivity, compassion and genuine care will mean to them.  Sadly, through what they have been through, they expect more of the same.  So, be the one who shows them what His Love feels like through you in the way you talk with them, treat them and how you show up for them…Be non-judgmental, non-condemning, non-shaming, non-threatening, non-hurtful and by all means, BE LOVE~in their presence or absence!  Whatever that looks like, sounds like, behaves like…CHOOSE LOVE to help you to know what to do or not do, say or not say, etc.   Whatever you do, just do not add anymore hurt or pain to them than what they are already going through!!!!!  When your intention is 100% LOVE ~ they will KNOW you are His Kingdom Lover by being His Love to them just in the way you speak to them or about them, the way you treat them and the way you show up for them!

Thank you in advance for Loving Others the way they should have always been loved!

 

Heart2Heart in His Love,

Momo Smiley

 

 

 

 

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