In the House of Love, Love is not proven by words whispered in the doorway — it is revealed by the way we walk through each room.

Someone who truly cares for your heart will handle and speak to it gently . They will not dismiss your feelings, minimize your pain, or pretend your tears never fell on the floorboards. They will not ridicule or mock the pain they caused you as if it only hurt you because you are “fragile”.  They will not invalidate your feelings.  They will not try to make you accountable for their bad behavior or unloving, unkind words.  They will not keep stepping over the very boundaries that were built to protect your peace and your healing.

In this House, boundaries are not walls of rejection — they are Doors of Wisdom, placed there because something was broken and needed mending.  They are there to protect your peace, your health and safety.

Real love honors those doors. It politely knocks. It is quiet as it patiently listens. It learns that’s what real love does.

Love does not keep reopening wounds and calling it closeness. It does not cause harm and then expect full access to every room as if nothing happened.

If you desire someone to feel loved by you, then love them in the ways they have asked to be loved. Love them in the ways it feels like love to them.  Do not keep doing what you know brings hurt and call it affection.

If forgiveness has already been given, treat it like sacred holy ground — not permission to repeat the same unloving patterns.

In the House of Love, growth and healing is required. Loving Respect is visible and audible. Consideration is consistent. Real Love knows more of what broke someone’s heart will never make it feel safe again.  So, Real Love honors those Doors of Wisdom, those boundaries to prove it will do whatever is need to promote and protect the peace and the health and growth of the safety of the one it says it loves.

This is the House of Love, the Home of God’s Heart where His Real Love is revealed by the way we walk through the rooms of each heart we say we really Love.

Heart2Heart in His Love,

Momo Smiley

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