100%%% We are called to empathize (that’s love); however, we are not called to enable (that’s not love).
People get stuck. People hurt. People go through heartache and loss. Care about them & love them through it.
When you look back at your past and see moments you wish you had handled differently or better, let your heart also see this: you were a younger version of yourself doing the very best you could with the light, the wisdom, and the understanding you had at that time. You were not failing — you were learning. You were not lost — you were growing. And even then… even in the places you now see with clearer eyes… you were held, guided, and deeply loved by the Father of Love.
And because this is true for you, it is also true for others. Compassion opens the door… but compassion does not mean enabling. Love stands with people, but Love does not help them stay stuck. Love lifts — it does not lock anyone into their pain.
Just don’t be apart of enabling someone to continue the very thing(s)/ toxic behaviors & harmful / hurtful things they are doing to themselves & others. Don’t be apart of enabling the very choices they are making that keep contributing to them being stuck, hurt, creating their own heartache & loss.
Sometimes it‘s really tough especially if they try to convince you that if you “love them” then you will be their supply or be their supplier to help them in such ways they want to get their unhealthy needs met. No can do ! That wouldn’t be love for me to enable helping anyone to get their supply in any other way or through anyone else. Their Source needs to be God! Only LOVE Himself is able to meet their core – heart- soul-spirit’s needs!
I only have time to love you! That’s what I am called to do. Love you so much that I will stand with & by you as you pursue the Heart of Love Himself with me ! Together we can climb & move mountains! I just won’t be apart of enabling in any kind of way adding or being apart of anything that I know is gonna keep weighing you down, keeping you stuck in the muck, hurting you & harmful to yourself & others or anything that creates more of the very same things that keep your heart from encountering WHO I KNOW is the very answer / solution to every need you have !
It’s not about religion, rule keeping and walking the tightrope of man-made religious formulas & doing the good girl & good boy song & dance ! It’s about a love relationship with Jesus, Love Himself !
If you are looking for me. I will be here with arms open wide, a heart full of love, compassion, empathy and tender loving care. I will be here ready to remind you of the only Truth that will set you free & the ONLY ONE who will right all the wrongs and satisfy all your needs! You need a love that is safe. You need a love that will not shame, condemn, guilt, trip you. You need a listening ear. You need Hope. You need Joy. You need peace be still in your heart, soul in life.
I know the ANSWER! Let me love you with His Love as I introduce you to His LIFE, LIGHT & LOVE !
Heart2Heart in His Love,
Momo Smiley
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