GodSongsHeart2Heart

When you see rejection through HIS eyes ~ you will be healed of the fear of rejection. So what if there is a person who has imperfect knowledge of who you and they choose to reject you. Their rejection of you does not matter. 

When you know and believe the Father of Love ~ who has FULL Knowledge of you ~ FULLY accepts you just as much as He accepts His son, Jesus ~ you will be healed of the fear of rejection. When you know the Father of Love’s View and opinion of you is your reality ~ not what anyone else thinks about you ~ you will be healed of the fear of rejection.

Seeing yourself through His eyes and through His Loving View and opinion makes it so much easier to Let Go of your past hurts. Seeing yourself through His Love Lenses helps you to joyfully prepare for the GOOD GOD OUTCOME He has planned for you in your future. 

Learning to choose to turn away from your past is wisdom. Why? First of all, since your future cannot be found in your past, focusing on your past is like driving in reverse to get to your future destination. To move forward, wisdom helps us get our eyes focused on where we are headed in the future and then helps us turn our attention and eyes away from what was behind us so we can move forward towards our future destination. 

People do the things they do because of them ~ not you. Therefore, if they rejected you, they really are rejecting who they are at heart level.  That can’t see you clearly because their vision is distorted. Rejecting who you are may be because they see something in you that they either know they don’t have or wish they had.  So, rather than focusing upon, acknowledging and working on healing their own heart and insecurities ~ they finger point at you making you the reason they can’t accept you which is truly what they can’t accept about themselves.  So, if you’ve been rejected by someone chances are their rejection of you speaks more to something with inside of them that God’s love needs to heal. Their actions and words born out of their insecurity and unhealed heart say more about them ~ not you.  So while their choice to be unloving and hurtful to you is not excusable or permissible ~ at least you know it’s not about you.  It’s about them.  Therefore, you can forgive and release them.  They don’t owe you anything for you to be able to forgive them.  Forgiveness is for your healing from their past offenses towards you ~ i.e…rejection… Forgiveness doesn’t mean you are giving them access to your heart again.  It simply is the key to help you to be able to move forward on your own healing journey.  You don’t needing anything from anyone else to be able to forgive.  Wisdom helps you to be able to see this, forgive and then move forward in your own healing journey.

Forgiveness is about the past.  Our past is behind us.  Trust is about now and the future. Our future is before us.  Forgiveness is so important because it helps us to get our eyes off the past. We are always able to trust God with healing us from our past ~ even though the unloving and untrustworthy behavior or choices of others have caused us to lose the trust we had in others. Focusing and meditating on the past robs us of enjoying the good God has planned for us to experience today and the good future God has planned for us to walk in.  

As you love, see, accept and heal yourself through His eyes of love and Loving favor, you will begin to be able to love, see, and accept others through His eyes of love, too.  As you begin to forgive yourself for your KNOW NOTS and flaws just like Jesus does, you will be able to forgive others who’ve hurt you in the past with their own hurts they’ve not healed from.  Forgiveness is always possible because it’s not dependent on their changed behavior, an apology, etc.  Forgiveness is for your heart’s benefit to be able to heal and move forward.  While their hurtful behavior or spoken words to you has proven themselves untrustworthy to be apart of your future, you are able to forgive them for how they hurt you in your past.  Their hurtful behavior is not about you.  It points to unhealed areas of their heart they need to experience the healing and forgiving love of God, as well as learning to love, see, accept and heal themselves through His eyes of love. They reject others because they have probably felt rejected in their lives.  The unhealed wounded still sometimes choose to wound others.  Sad but true but their rejection of you was never about you.  Forgive them, release them to Jesus and pray for the healing of their wounds so they don’t continue hurting themselves or others. 

Once we begin to see ourselves through God’s good view and opinion of us ~ our experience of this reality begins to influence and change our experience of this reality from the inside out. The more we experience God’s good view and loving opinion of us ~ the less anyone’s else’s bad view and unloving opinion of us impacts us.  As His Love influences, changes and heals us internally, the less anyone else’s negative views and opinions have any power to influence us.  

When I learned His GLORIOUS view and opinion of me was my true REALITY – my eyes and heart were healed! The powerful fear of Rejection from others literally died that day.  Knowing His loving view and opinion of me is my reality changed everything.  The People’s opinions were just that…their man made opinions, judgments, assumptions, etc.  They do not define me.  Their version of what they call love was man made out of their unhealed heart.  They have to first know and experience the Love of God to truly KNOW how to Love themselves and others according to His definition of Love.  Therefore, the ONLY definition of Love my heart sees, believes and receives now is God’s Love !  Anyone loving me with His Love and treating me and talking to me like He does makes a wonderful, close, safe and healthy heart2heart relationship.  

I receive and ONLY believe everything Love says and sees about me!  His good view and loving opinion about me is the only view and opinion I have of myself now !  I have God to Thank for that !!! That ugly mess of hurt and fear of rejection from others died years and years ago. I live happily ever after now loving others and myself with God’s love. 

Once you understand people who hurt others are simply unhealed, hurt people ~ you are free from making their unloving about you.  I choose to see their hurtful behavior ~ not as a statement about me~ but an external manifestation of the hurting person they are on the inside. Rather than getting drawn into the web of their hurt, t’s become a beautiful prayer opportunity that I have been given to pray healing over those wounded hearts that keep wounding others !  They need to be healed with God’s love to become free from their own rejection of themselves that causes them to keep rejecting and hurting others.  Only God’s love is able to heal the deep wounds of rejection.  That’s what I pray for them and over them.

If you remember anything about me ~ past, present or future ~ I hope you know that no matter what you are loved.  If you hurt me, you’ve been forgiven and I trust God with healing your hurt heart and insecurities that caused you to act in hurtful ways towards me. I realized I can’t control or fix what is broken in someone else.  Only God is able to do that inside of us…if we choose to invite Him inside to heal our hearts.

If you don’t remember anything else, I pray that no matter what ~ you’ll remember to reach out to God to heal what you cannot heal on your own.  I don’t want anyone to ever experience or feel the hurtful pain of rejection, or the pain their own unhealed wounds have caused others, including me. Nor do I ever want you to feel or experience the hurt like you caused me, those I love or others who weren’t deserving of your unkindness.  

No matter where you are ~ no matter what you’ve ever done or not done ~ you are forgiven. Heal for you.  Heal for those you are still in relationship with.  Heal for your family, your children, your grandchildren.  Let Jesus heal what only He is able to heal inside of you.  Believing and receiving His Love is key.  Jesus wants your heart all better with His healing love.  There is no other way to heal your heart from rejection than to begin to see yourself and others than through His Loving eyes, through His good view and loving opinion of you. When you know the Father of Love’s View and opinion of you is your reality ~ not what anyone else thinks about you ~ you will be healed of the fear of rejection.

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